Old dog

L1985

Hi all. Not sure if anyone can help is with this but worth a try. Have a 14yr lab. He had a stroke 2 months ago and we thought he was going to be put down. He has come through it v well is a bit staggery and his head hangs down to one side but he seems to be doing well. Appetite is doing well(v funny watching him TBH as he is like a hungry hippo gulping at everything). Here is the issue he is driving us nuts as he's being v v needy. He was always a bit needy but has got worse. Usually he is out during the day,sleeps in with us from dark and then is in bed outside at nighttime. There is nearly always someone around or close by as it's a farm. However he wants to be inside with us the whole time. He stands barking the whole time to be left in(won't stay in on his own) and has the loudest most demanding bark. He also follows us around inside constantly and I have a real worry my dads going to trip over him as dad uses a walking stick and we actually all Fall over him once a day!! Is there anything we can do? He's v easy going but wouldn't be the smartest. Never had an interest in toys.
Actually anyone else having issues with daylight saving time? He is seriously unimpressed his breakfast is an hour later and is v vocal about it lol.

D3V!L

He needs to be inside. You can't keep an elderly 14 year old lab outside after having a stroke.

Shelli2

He's spent 14 years with your family, he's had a stroke and he wants to be inside and comfortable!

I don't undertand how you would even consider leaving him outside, especially give the recent temps and forcast for worse.

L1985

D3V!L wrote: »

He needs to be inside. You can't keep an elderly 14 year old lab outside after having a stroke.

He won't stay inside by himself. He comes in and out with us during the day but barks to be left out if he's on his own. Basically he would be happiest if we stayed inside with him all day which isn't realistic!!!
That's my point he is v v clingy and wants to be with someone the whole time. But we are outside during the day....

tk123

Could you maybe confine him inside eg with baby gates? He's 14 and has had a stroke.. I don't think it's unreasonable for him to be a bit unsure/want to spend his time with you inside at this time in his life. Also not to be harsh but realistically he might not be around much longer given his age and the fact he's already had one stroke so let him live out what time he has in with you where he's happy?

ace_irl

He's letting you know he's too old to be on his own. He needs to be kept inside and comfortable. Maybe get him some blankets to make a little spot for him to rest on. If he's very needy, try giving him a hat someone he likes has worn and let him keep it in his bed. When I go to work every morning my dog takes my hat off the rad and keeps it with her for the day until I come home.

L1985

tk123 wrote: »

Could you maybe confine him inside eg with baby gates? He's 14 and has had a stroke.. I don't think it's unreasonable for him to be a bit unsure/want to spend his time with you inside at this time in his life. Also not to be harsh but realistically he might not be around much longer given his age and the fact he's already had one stroke so let him live out what time he has in with you where he's happy?

He is a complete sweetheart and if he wanted that that wouldn't be a problem. He is a member of the family/that's not an issue.But he only barks when he is properly upset and he does that when he's left on his own inside. He really hates being left on his own and gets v upset.....
Actually a really good example just happened there. He is in today as I'm home sick and lit the fire. I got up to use the bathroom and he got up from the mat in front of the fire followed me through the kitchen to the bathroom (cold there) sat and waited then walked back with me to the fire!! Did the same earlier when i went 15feet away outside to get sticks and it's so hard for the poor guy to get up!! Prob nothing we can do it's just he's insecure since the stroke but I both feel for him and worry he will kill one of us(lies down behind you and you don't see him and step back on him!!). Prob nothing that can be done

tk123

L1985 wrote: »

He is a complete sweetheart and if he wanted that that wouldn't be a problem. He is a member of the family/that's not an issue.But he only barks when he is properly upset and he does that when he's left on his own inside. He really hates being left on his own and gets v upset.....
Actually a really good example just happened there. He is in today as I'm home sick and lit the fire. I got up to use the bathroom and he got up from the mat in front of the fire followed me through the kitchen to the bathroom (cold there) sat and waited then walked back with me to the fire!! Did the same earlier when i went 15feet away outside to get sticks and it's so hard for the poor guy to get up!! Prob nothing we can do it's just he's insecure since the stroke but I both feel for him and worry he will kill one of us(lies down behind you and you don't see him and step back on him!!). Prob nothing that can be done

I hear ya - my dog does that too and he's hasn't had a stroke!

Could you maybe try something to help settle him like maybe try an anxiety wrap, pet remedy plugin etc etc. You might need to do a bit of training to get him used to being on his own - like what you'd do with a pup.. but I'm not sure how much that would help if he's had a stroke?

Is his sight ok after the stroke?

L1985

tk123 wrote: »

I hear ya - my dog does that too and he's hasn't had a stroke!

Could you maybe try something to help settle him like maybe try an anxiety wrap, pet remedy plugin etc etc. You might need to do a bit of training to get him used to being on his own - like what you'd do with a pup.. but I'm not sure how much that would help if he's had a stroke?

Is his sight ok after the stroke?

We don't think his sight is great-it's a bit hard to know as he is staggery and holds his head at a weird angle. He can Deff see something as we have tested that-he has always relied more on his sense of smell.
What's an anxiety wrap? We have 2 other dogs as well so have to take them into account too. I'm wondering are there heated outdoor pads or something we could use? That might stop him wanting to be inside and he would be happier with being able to see us going around the yard!! I just don't know how to train him to be on his own-he has the other dogs it's just he wants ppl(any of the three of us will do we never figured out who his allegiance is with!!)
Yes and he dislikes the bathroom door being closed at times as well-one feels judged!!

Hi OP I'm a bit confused so I just want to clarify.. am I right in thinking this is what you're saying..

Dog used to hang out with you all outside on the farm during the day. Then spend the evening inside with you and then sleep outside and was happy with this.

Dog then had stroke and now you want him to stay inside during the day where he'll be safe and comfortable but hes gotten very needy and can't settle and barks for you to come into him.

So you want to know how you can get him to either settle and be happy inside alone or how you can have him outside with you but also safe warm and settled in the yard?

L1985

Top is correct
Second: No. we don't care where the dog is during the day as long as he is happy.
Preference prob would be outdoors as to be honest I feel it's healthier and more stimulating for him to be still seeing everything and being involved then inside on his own.
However your last part is correct-id prefer him happy and not barking at us either inside or outside and not be as clingy but I don't know if there is anything we can really do.....

cocker5

I have to say OP I wouldn’t even consider having my nearly 14 year old guy outside .. stroke or no stroke

Look up CBD oil it will help relax him somewhat .. bring him inside use baby gates etc - give him some comfort and peace

tiredblondie

He's old, and as someone else said, he's probably not got that much time left - he wants his family around him (i understand this isn't possible 24/7) but if it was me, i'd be giving him whatever he wanted to make his time on this earth the happiest it can be.

I don't understand how you can trip over him, a lab isn't exactly a small dog tbf, check your footing before you get up or step back or whatever!

My girl is almost 10, she's only small and she sleeps upstairs in the bedroom with us - i get this isn't practical for a lot of people but could you even give up a corner of your bedroom maybe so he knows your close by and he feels safe?

L1985

cocker5 wrote: »

I have to say OP I wouldn’t even consider having my nearly 14 year old guy outside .. stroke or no stroke

Look up CBD oil it will help relax him somewhat .. bring him inside use baby gates etc - give him some comfort and peace

Unfortunately as I have said a couple of times...it's not leaving him inside that is a problem, it's the fact he wants us to stay inside with him! Which isn't practical.
Baby gates won't help-he gets v distressed on his own and barks st the door. I'll look into the oil thou.
I'm not leaving him upset inside barking....

L1985

tiredblondie wrote: »

He's old, and as someone else said, he's probably not got that much time left - he wants his family around him (i understand this isn't possible 24/7) but if it was me, i'd be giving him whatever he wanted to make his time on this earth the happiest it can be.

I don't understand how you can trip over him, a lab isn't exactly a small dog tbf, check your footing before you get up or step back or whatever!

My girl is almost 10, she's only small and she sleeps upstairs in the bedroom with us - i get this isn't practical for a lot of people but could you even give up a corner of your bedroom maybe so he knows your close by and he feels safe?

As stated WE HAVE NO PROBS LEAVING HIM INSIDE !!! It's his clingness that's the issue and what I was asking for help with! We can't sit inside with the dog all day in fairness.he is a really loved and happy dog.
Re tripping - he lies across doorways and right behind you or across between the table and counter. We are constantly falling over him and I am worried about my dad. He's a big dog but he's lethal for tripping ppl. I was hoping for some ways to reduce his clinginess but looks like there isn't.
Don't mean to be ungrateful but ppl don't seem to be getting my point and are honing in one small point.

cocker5

L1985 wrote: »

cocker5 wrote: »

I have to say OP I wouldn’t even consider having my nearly 14 year old guy outside .. stroke or no stroke

Look up CBD oil it will help relax him somewhat .. bring him inside use baby gates etc - give him some comfort and peace

Unfortunately as I have said a couple of times...it's not leaving him inside that is a problem, it's the fact he wants us to stay inside with him! Which isn't practical.
Baby gates won't help-he gets v distressed on his own and barks st the door. I'll look into the oil thou.
I'm not leaving him upset inside barking....

CBD oil is great for all sorts of issues .. it should help relax his barking / anxiety

kittyclaws

L1985 wrote: »

It's his clingness that's the issue and what I was asking for help with!

As someone else suggested try an anxiety wrap. I got one for my clingy greyhound, she'd panic if we went up stairs and left her downstairs on her own. I didn't really believe in them but I got to the stage where I would try anything. I bought one called a Thundershirt off Amazon. It worked so well that after a few weeks she didn't need to wear it all the time.
In saying that her anxiety was because she was abused prior to us taking her in - I'm not sure if it would have the same effect on a stroke victim.

Another thing we found great is a Kong - we'd stuff it with wet dog food and freeze it, it takes hours to get all the food out so if he's a foodie at all it might be worth trying.

Best of luck with him

L1985

cocker5 wrote: »

CBD oil is great for all sorts of issues .. it should help relax his barking / anxiety

Would I get that in a pet shop? He is on painkillers for his back which he takes with no problems (this is a dog who ate a frozen Brussels profits last week so he eats everything!!)

MojoMaker

I've been there.

What you're really asking is "tell me it's ok to let him go".

It's ok to let him go. He's a great old age for a lab and his quality of life has taken a major nosedive. There is likely no curing this anxiety as it's brought on by an end of life situation and is perfectly normal.

It's very hard I know.

MojoMaker

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Lady Haywire

MojoMaker wrote: »

I've been there.

What you're really asking is "tell me it's ok to let him go".

It's ok to let him go. He's a great old age for a lab and his quality of life has taken a major nosedive. There is likely no curing this anxiety as it's brought on by an end of life situation and is perfectly normal.

It's very hard I know.

Shelli2

Apologies to the OP, I took a completely different meaning from your original post. I jumped to a conclusion and I am sorry for that.
I hope you can find some relief for your dog, I have a dog that suffers badly with anxiety, so i know how difficult it can be for both dog and owner, you have my sympathies.

Also, to the poster that recommeneded CBD oil, I too would like to know where this can be purchsed?

L1985

Emmm no. I'm not asking if I can put him to sleep!!. He's happy is eating normally and isn't in pain....it's not ok to put him down just because we are tripping over him and he's more clingy!! We thought when he had the stroke we would have to and I was bawling my eyes out. Once he stops being happy that's a different conversation!!

tk123

You may need to get creative OP with that in mind .... you could try FaceTime/skyping. It sounds mad but I’ve done it for Bailey lol
For the wrap - you can make diy ones with bandages but they’re not recommended if the dog is unsupervised. I use a karma warp for Bailey which I got in Maxizoo but most pet shops will either have that type or Thundershirts and they’d have them now with Halloween a few days ago. I find valerian drops very good for B too and got a pet remedy plugin this year too to help relax him.

cocker5

L1985 wrote: »

cocker5 wrote: »

CBD oil is great for all sorts of issues .. it should help relax his barking / anxiety

Would I get that in a pet shop? He is on painkillers for his back which he takes with no problems (this is a dog who ate a frozen Brussels profits last week so he eats everything!!)

You may be able to get it in a chemist not in a pet shop here’s a good place for online

https://www.simply-cbd.co.uk/

L1985

L1985 wrote: »

Top is correct
Second: No. we don't care where the dog is during the day as long as he is happy.
Preference prob would be outdoors as to be honest I feel it's healthier and more stimulating for him to be still seeing everything and being involved then inside on his own.
However your last part is correct-id prefer him happy and not barking at us either inside or outside and not be as clingy but I don't know if there is anything we can really do.....

Thanks for clarifying.

Id follow tks advice with trying an anxiety wrap or thundershirt and a pet remedy plug in for indoors.

I understand why you'd prefer him outdoors in that case with you all, especially as it's sounds like he'll be happier in the middle of all the action.

Where does he sleep at night? Do you have a well insulated kennel for him? Is there an area outside where there's usually someone around where he could be in his kennel or where you could put a well insulated kennel with comfy bedding and have the door open so he can watch the goings on? A stuffed Kong then inside there to encourage him to relax and stay put and his wrap or a warm jumper/coat?

I'd imagine the stroke has made him very anxious and confused. It would be awful for him to have another one in the night and be alone. Would you consider allowing him to sleep inside now in his twilight years. It might help with his overall anxiety.

L1985

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Thanks for clarifying.

Id follow tks advice with trying an anxiety wrap or thundershirt and a pet remedy plug in for indoors.

I understand why you'd prefer him outdoors in that case with you all, especially as it's sounds like he'll be happier in the middle of all the action.

Where does he sleep at night? Do you have a well insulated kennel for him? Is there an area outside where there's usually someone around where he could be in his kennel or where you could put a well insulated kennel with comfy bedding and have the door open so he can watch the goings on? A stuffed Kong then inside there to encourage him to relax and stay put and his wrap or a warm jumper/coat?

I'd imagine the stroke has made him very anxious and confused. It would be awful for him to have another one in the night and be alone. Would you consider allowing him to sleep inside now in his twilight years. It might help with his overall anxiety.

Unfortunately although he is in at night until around 12....we have tried several times to leave him in all night and he has pooped everywhere....it's ultimately not my decision but my parents and they have put their foot down due to the volume involved.....
He has a outhouse which used to be a dwelling house and several duvets on a mattress and also the hayshed which he usually loves sleeping in.....it's not ideal I know. Stuffed kongs a great idea but his sisters keep robbing it on him-he is a pushover!! He normally sleeps on the top of the steps during the day where he can see everything and doesn't go into his house but that's possibly because the steps are a bit more difficult for hiM and also the sun hts there. It's just then the barking starts, to go in and his bark would raise the dead!! I'm looking at that oil and I'm thinking the blanket could work as he loves cuddles and hugs so that could help him!!
Thanks all-he is the most loving dog even if he has tripped two out of three of us up on the last hour!!! More food related then anxiety!!

aonb

OP, sounds like he is a much loved total pest

One of my dogs had a stroke and similar to everything you've written about your dog, got very clingy. He was quite disorientated, and would get a bit confused - understandable that he wanted to be with us... We got the thundershirt - certainly helped. We got an armband that had this incredibly bright flashing RED LED's on - put it around his neck, so that wherever he was laying in the house, we couldnt miss him (and like you trip over him!) Havent tried the CBD oil, but had our guy on ARTHRIAID to help with old age stiffness.

Could you put a heat pad under his bed in the shed - might help with the stiffness too

Could you put a warm coat on him and just let him be outside all the time with you humans?

Since the other dogs take his treats, that might keep him entertained, could you put him in a crate/closed off area, with a nice big juicy (raw) bone? Frozen Kong etc?

It might be worth mentioning to the vet that hes super-clingy - the vet might have some medication that might relieve the anxiety ?

bertsmom

Aw the poor boy. It's so hard when they get older. I fear I'm going to be saying goodbye to my gorgeous boy in the coming months and nothing can make the pain any easier but I think knowing that they have had a lovely fulfilled happy life and as little pain as possible helps with the grief when the do go.
I was on zooplus last night and they had various heatpads. Perhaps the 19.99euro one would be suitable. Maby two of them under his duvet in a sheltered favourite spot where he can see comings and goings during the day while ye are out and about. You heat them in the microwave and they radiate out warmth for hours after. (Might be beneficial for his joints).
That might help him be restful during the day and then be in with ye during the evening and heat them up again for him before he goes out to bed for the night with a filled Kong.
Good luck and I hope ye have pain free comfortable times ahead

Graniteville

Cbd oil is just the latest overpriced fad. Yes some studies say it's relaxin but so is lavender.

Ask your vet or a local good pet shop.

We had a lot of anxiety issues and used a pet remedy plug-in.

Every dog will respond differently to different situations. Yours seems to want to be close by at all times and it's impossible for anyone to give advice unless they've had same problem.

Vet or local pet shop will be the best way forward

L1985

aonb wrote: »

OP, sounds like he is a much loved total pest

One of my dogs had a stroke and similar to everything you've written about your dog, got very clingy. He was quite disorientated, and would get a bit confused - understandable that he wanted to be with us... We got the thundershirt - certainly helped. We got an armband that had this incredibly bright flashing RED LED's on - put it around his neck, so that wherever he was laying in the house, we couldnt miss him (and like you trip over him!) Havent tried the CBD oil, but had our guy on ARTHRIAID to help with old age stiffness.

Could you put a heat pad under his bed in the shed - might help with the stiffness too

Could you put a warm coat on him and just let him be outside all the time with you humans?

Since the other dogs take his treats, that might keep him entertained, could you put him in a crate/closed off area, with a nice big juicy (raw) bone? Frozen Kong etc?

It might be worth mentioning to the vet that hes super-clingy - the vet might have some medication that might relieve the anxiety ?

Thanks they are v good suggestions. I never even thought of a jacket for him TBH but for the winter I think I will. For the cold frosty days I'd say It will make a big difference with him. I'm Deff getting the thermo pad as I feel that will really help him. He was always such an active dog followed the tractor everywhere and he does stil follow one tractor abd is so happy you wouldn't hve the heart to stop him. We have never really confined him (never needed to as he was ridiculously well behaved.) so I don't see that going well with him. I don't want to disrupt his routine too much and hopefully won't be as much of an issue in the winter as my dads inside a lot more but I really like the idea of those thermo pads.
Thanks all

puppieperson1

A few hypericum tablets from the health shop are often uplifting as he might be a bit depressed as he feels he cant do all the things hes done in the past he is frightened and doesn't want to be alone ( fear of another stroke who knows).

I am an absolute dog lover but there is a time when you have t think for him and maybe its soon 14 years is a good life. I had to face the same thing june 2017 its horrible but it was the time and the right decision.
try all the suggestions but in reality you do have to think for him and do the best for him.
Regards

JustAThought

I got a really thick plug in & rechargable outdoor dog bed for fido - it was like something you' d have on a couch. I loved it but the dog would not sleep on it - or even stwp on it - even with cheese bribes - & not even in the snow - preferred the thin discount bed instead - you couldnt make it up! Yours - S/he sounds like an absolute pet. Give him a hug from me & enjoy her love.you will ve devestated when s/he is gone : (

L1985

So unfortunately none of the above made much of of a difference . We tried the heated mat and he likes it as long as one of us stays with him while he is on it! He is so bad that he was inside by the fire last week and came out to the door and was barking at my mam to come back inside. I accidentally locked him in for a hour last week with another dog-she was asleep by the fire and he was in the freezing cold hall waiting for us. So it's just the company that's the big issue-just this clinginess-I presume this isn't a sign of anything else? I can no longer even have a shower in peace with our hin demanding to come in and his bark would wake the dead!

aonb

Poor old dog. Poor you too.
Hard to know how to deal with the oldies - have you discussed with the vet if there is anything you could try, medication-wise, with a view to reducing anxiety? Kalmaid might be worth a try for a start - non-prescription and OTC - just to see if that might help...

(off topic - when I got out of the shower this am, there was one cat sitting on the loo seat, dog on the bath mat, second cat on the sink counter - all staring at me willing me to hurry up 8-) )

cocker5

L1985 wrote: »

So unfortunately none of the above made much of of a difference . We tried the heated mat and he likes it as long as one of us stays with him while he is on it! He is so bad that he was inside by the fire last week and came out to the door and was barking at my mam to come back inside. I accidentally locked him in for a hour last week with another dog-she was asleep by the fire and he was in the freezing cold hall waiting for us. So it's just the company that's the big issue-just this clinginess-I presume this isn't a sign of anything else? I can no longer even have a shower in peace with our hin demanding to come in and his bark would wake the dead!

OP have you tried CBD oil? This helps relax them a little take the edge off things for him?

L1985

I'm bringing him to the vet Monday so I'll see what he advises. I'll be honest im usually more of an advocate of leaving animals be if they are destressed in that they usual cope themselves better without being fussed over and too much medication is bad although he takes his painkillers no problem. I've a similar philosophy for myself TBH 😂. I'm just worried that he is in pain or something else is going on as he has lost a lot of weight which is a really bad sign I k kw (although he did need to lose it and his appetite is as good as always)

L1985

aonb wrote: »

Poor old dog. Poor you too.
Hard to know how to deal with the oldies - have you discussed with the vet if there is anything you could try, medication-wise, with a view to reducing anxiety? Kalmaid might be worth a try for a start - non-prescription and OTC - just to see if that might help...

(off topic - when I got out of the shower this am, there was one cat sitting on the loo seat, dog on the bath mat, second cat on the sink counter - all staring at me willing me to hurry up 8-) )

Don't you feel silently judged sometimes when they do that?? Come on human you can surely wash yourself faster then that-I've only my tongue and I could do it better lol!!

Graces7

L1985 wrote: »

Don't you feel silently judged sometimes when they do that?? Come on human you can surely wash yourself faster then that-I've only my tongue and I could do it better lol!!

Mine are not allowed in the bathroom... not since my biggest long haired cat came in soaking wet and rubbed his icy coat all over my legs when I was helpless...

The tiny one though. As soon as I go near food, she is on the counter,,, trying to cut up raw chicken with her rubbing against me....
This tiny one will go far... this morning she stole a whole raw chicken leg off one of the big boys.... He was outraged but helpless...

L1985

Just an update-we think he had another stroke last week so I bought him to the vet. Vet said leave him be-he has lost a lot of weight but no point in testing his kidney Etc as there is nothing we would be doing.he is still as clingy as ever and tripping us up but he also as happy and lovable as ever. I feel like filming him for a dog add as he is as excited when it's breakfast time!! So we have decided to leave him be until nature runs its course. He is at least 15 and he is after having a very good life. Also I had to laugh as he managed to trip the vet up at the vets-it's his gift!!!

sillysmiles

The one thing I would say is be prepared to have to make the call to get the vet to help him on his way when the time comes. Not at death is silent sudden and painless.

L1985

I know. I've had to do it before and it's horrendous but we would never leave an animal suffer and we will do what needs to be done although it will break our hearts. Everyday he is there wagging his tail is a gift and that's all we can expect.

sillysmiles

Over fella is only about 8 or 9 and I dread that day.

L1985

Hi all. So back on this again same said whose still going strong. Clinginess relaxed slightly but this time of year my dads in a lot so he’s happy out at the fire for most of the day! Still v staggery and eyesights really not good but happy out and barking for his breakfast every morning.
So here is the issue-he seems to have lost control of his poop. So he just randomly craps inside little pellets of it without even noticing it...mostly solid. Now it doesn’t hurt him or distress him in the slightest but we are obviously not a fan esp my dad. Is there anything we could do as in change his food that could help this? He’s been on the same food working dog food for the past ten years. I did read this happens to older dogs so we may just have to deal with it-thank god it’s solid!

DBB

Glad to read that he's still going strong-ish op
He's incontinent. It's as simple as that. So, you need to go and talk to his vet, because you may be able to help this problem via medication... as far as I know, it's much the same meds that's used in bitches with urinary incontinence... the medication works generally to improve the function of sphincter muscles, so can be used for faecal incontinence... that's my understanding of it, I'm happy to be corrected!
That all said, for me, incontinence is the ultimate loss of dignity for a dog, and loss of dignity, for me, is a major indicator that it's time to consider what's best for the dog. So... just have that in your head, you know? Him not noticing it just suggests there's an element of dementia too. Hopefully the vet can help him with medication, but all it's doing is delaying the inevitable by a bit.
Good luck op

puppieperson1

hard as it may be when a dog loses his dignity he is ready to go and there are other young dogs needing rescue. at 15 he has had a very long life and its time do it for him dont keep him alive for you and how you feel. My mother did that and eventually i had to refuse to come home until she did the kindest act for her dog she was avoiding her pain and not the dogs. I work with therapy dogs and the elderly and believe me there are many humans who would dearly like to have the option of a swift and kind death like a dog has when owned by decent humans. make the right decision soon.

L1985

Honestly I’d agree if he was bothered but he really really isn’t....as in for the last year or so he poos in a line down the yard or where ever it’s not in the same spot. He does have a touch of dementia I’d say but he’s actually really happy and has a good quality of life. I know it’s something we have to be conscious of and not to hold him on too long for our benefit but he is genuinely very happy and was chasing the sparks of the angle grinder yesterday as usual! He doesn’t even seem to realise there is a problem and we don’t even see him going it just pops out! So we might try that medication/i didn’t know it existed!
. I don’t want to give up on him while he is in good spirits and not in pain if that makes sense
Btw I work with animals every day and have had to make that decision twice with dogs and would never let them linger in pain. When you are talking about dignity-I wonder, as he isn’t bothered but another dog we had was devastated when he lost control and yes it did affect his dignity. I don’t actually think he even realised it’s happening-it happened this evening as he got up to beg for some take away!!

DBB

Yep, I get that op... I don't want to give the impression that I think you should go straight for the nuclear option... I'm just encouraging you to keep the inevitable in the back of your mind, and remember the old adage that is absolutely right... better a week too early than a day too late
But! For now, he seems to be still a happy enough camper... hopefully the meds will help him and keep him right for another while

L1985

DBB wrote: »

Yep, I get that op... I don't want to give the impression that I think you should go straight for the nuclear option... I'm just encouraging you to keep the inevitable in the back of your mind, and remember the old adage that is absolutely right... better a week too early than a day too late
But! For now, he seems to be still a happy enough camper... hopefully the meds will help him and keep him right for another while

Thanks for your advice as always dbb! And to everyone else who contributed

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I'm just delighted to hear he is still going!