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Worried my boyfriend might fancy my friend

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  • #102
    joeguevara
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,103 ✭✭✭joeguevara


    No guy who is in a relationship needs to be texting a girl. I don’t care what anyone else says but if he feels the need to do so there is something else going on. I am not saying he is cheating but us guys are fairly simple people. I text my mates for football scores, funny pictures or invites on the session. I’m single and only text one girl who is my closest friend but we have discussed that if either end up in a relationship we couldn’t continue to do so. There is nothing flirty or anything like that but it would be weird. Why does your guy want to text a girl when he could be texting you?


  • #103
    sexmag
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,303 ✭✭✭sexmag


    joeguevara wrote: »
    I’m single and only text one girl who is my closest friend but we have discussed that if either end up in a relationship we couldn’t continue to do so. There is nothing flirty or anything like that but it would be weird.

    What?

    Why on earth would you both decide to end a friendship because you are in a relationship?

    If anything she and you should be celebrating and being a part of said relationship


  • #104
    JealousLa
    Registered Users Posts: 14 ✭JealousLa


    joeguevara wrote: »
    No guy who is in a relationship needs to be texting a girl. I don’t care what anyone else says but if he feels the need to do so there is something else going on. I am not saying he is cheating but us guys are fairly simple people. I text my mates for football scores, funny pictures or invites on the session. I’m single and only text one girl who is my closest friend but we have discussed that if either end up in a relationship we couldn’t continue to do so. There is nothing flirty or anything like that but it would be weird. Why does your guy want to text a girl when he could be texting you?

    I have to say I completely disagree with this and think it's an incredibly immature viewpoint. Would you expect your future girlfriend to also cut contact with any male friends? If so, that's extremely insecure and controlling.
    I don't subscribe to nonsense view that men and women can't be friends without something sexual happening.

    Not much to update on this. I told my other half about the wedding comment and he said "she was probably just joking." I asked him what his reaction would be if she asked him to go with her and he said he wouldn't dream of it. I'm happy enough with that.

    Thanks again for all the responses and advice.


  • #105
    JJayoo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,561 ✭✭✭JJayoo


    joeguevara wrote: »
    No guy who is in a relationship needs to be texting a girl. I don’t care what anyone else says but if he feels the need to do so there is something else going on. I am not saying he is cheating but us guys are fairly simple people. I text my mates for football scores, funny pictures or invites on the session. I’m single and only text one girl who is my closest friend but we have discussed that if either end up in a relationship we couldn’t continue to do so. There is nothing flirty or anything like that but it would be weird. Why does your guy want to text a girl when he could be texting you?

    Guys will agree with this and girls will disagree.


  • #106
    Caranica
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,145 ✭✭✭✭Caranica


    JJayoo wrote: »
    Guys will agree with this and girls will disagree.

    Eh noooo! Generalisations help nobody and btw you're wrong.

    People in relationships can have friends of the opposite sex but there must be trust and barriers. A line has been crossed in this case but that doesn't mean it's not possible.

    This woman is trying to be a cuckoo and needs to be kicked out of this particular nest. Time for her to find a relationship of her own


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