What do you find attractive?

Junkyard Tom

ERG89 wrote: »

Thick framed glasses.
Dark hair & brown eyes combo.
Fringe.
Not being afraid to say anything even if others won't agree.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7hyIlrfGR5g

Carlingford Locked

Wibbs wrote: »

+1 If a Russian lass asks you "does my arse look big in this?" she expects an honest reply, which can be both refreshing and terrifying.

**Generalisation alert** Have you ever actually been with a woman™?

Triceratops Ballet

When someone is intelligent, curious and passionate when they talk, when they're just "switched on" and engaged I find it very attractive, and that makes up for a lot for me looks wise. Also someone who doesn't underestimate me, can keep up, and doesn't project their baggage or insecurities on me (big ask I know)

Physically in an ideal scenario, tall, long ish hair, broad good shoulders, great thighs, nice hands... I don't want much!

In reality most of the men I've dated, have been way more on the nerdy side and look nothing like the above so the 1st paragraph is most relevant.

mickmackmcgoo

Eyes that light up.
Cheeky smile
Long legs a bonus

DrPhilG

Aside from the usual, long hair is my weakness. The likes of Angelina Jolie in her prime, or Salma Hayek any time were/are absolutely gorgeous with their hair down.

Obviously that's just one aspect. Stick a long hair wig on Theresa May and it ain't cutting it. But my point is that long hair is often the first thing I'll notice when a pretty girl walks past.

AMKC

Someone open minded,

Caring,

honest,

straightforward,

no bulsh'it,

good sense of humour just like myself

Someone that loves pets and dogs.

Someone adventurous and willing to try new things,

Someone to just enjoy life with,

Yep that's all folks.

_Kaiser_

Ah damn.. I had a post all written up, but accidentally clicked back on the phone..

What I like in a woman :
- relaxed, upfront attitude and sense of humour. Ideally you can be completely comfortable with each other
- knows herself and her own mind and what she wants and can express it
- can hold a conversation about more than soaps, social media or celebrity shyte
- nice eyes, cheeky smile and cheeky streak to go with it
- curves. The wafer thin look does nothing for me.

Turn offs :
- drama, game playing or hot and cold nonsense
- drug use or excessive alcohol consumption
- not a big fan of tattoos, especially if they've loads of them. Same applies to multiple piercings or "loud" hair colours
- high maintenance princesses. I like to treat someone right and do nice things for them anyway, but no interest in being an ATM either.

I don't want much, do I? As it's AH though, PM me ladies

PuppyMcPupFace

Tall, athletic build, three days stubble and by God am putty!!!!

Super-Rush

Can the op please expand on the driving part?

Triceratops Ballet

Triceratops Ballet wrote: »

When someone is intelligent, curious and passionate when they talk, when they're just "switched on" and engaged I find it very attractive, and that makes up for a lot for me looks wise. Also someone who doesn't underestimate me, can keep up, and doesn't project their baggage or insecurities on me (big ask I know)

I'm impatient, selfish, a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.

Try_harder

Carlingford Locked wrote: »

**Generalisation alert** Have you ever actually been with a woman™?

100

BilboBagOfCans

Super-Rush wrote: »

Can the op please expand on the driving part?

When a guy is really good at reversing or just kinda effortless with it, hard to explain!

stampydmonkey

The ability to both accept and scorn a well delivered fart in equal measure...but more seriously to be witty, fun loving and clued to in to general affairs and finally to live in the now ( something I really need to work on) rather than the past or future.

Ps...plus zero pretentiousness

SlowBlowin

I would describe myself as technical and obsessed by logic and practicality. I would choose rebuilding an engine over a rock concert, and the chipper to a meal out or the cinema. I am somewhere between normal and Mr. Logic from Viz.

I got called to do a job on the roof of a large urban building where a rare bird was nesting, I was troubleshooting a broadcast camera installation for a media company. I was accompanied on the roof by a french lady who worked for the company, she was attractive and intelligent if somewhat overdressed for the job (she was dressed like she was going out for a posh meal).

We were on the roof, I found the fault, but I needed a crimp tool which I had left in my toolbox one floor down, I asked her to wait a while I went for the tools. She opened her stylish handbag and produced a leatherman multipurpose tool and a roll of insulation tape and said in a soft french accent "will these help". I felt an immediate attraction (and a bit of a twitch from Junior).

Do I need help ?

SB

BuboBubo

Tall, preferably very dark eyes, black or greying black hair, and none of that manscaping sh1te thank you very much. Nice strong arms and shoulders from physical work, not steroidy though

Oh! No skinny jeans or metro-sexual clothes either...

Martina1991

Smelling nice....but not dosed in Lynx Africa either.

JJayoo

Big lips

ZX7R

women who suck on there bottom lip

Nice arms and shoulders, tall, clean teeth 😞kind and doesn't cheat.Smells nice but not too into himself, probably a manual worker, snickers pants etc.. Nice car, something old but classy lol... Actually just a non cheater tbh. will do..

poisonated

I like big butts

kfallon

Deleted User wrote: »

Nice arms and shoulders, tall, clean teeth ��kind and doesn't cheat.Smells nice but not too into himself, probably a manual worker, snickers pants etc.. Nice car, something old but classy lol... Actually just a non cheater tbh. will do..

G'wan ya MILF, I'll give ya a dart for the Xmas. PM me there, I won't cheat anyway!

kfallon

kfallon wrote: »

G'wan ya MILF, I'll give ya a dart for the Xmas. PM me there, I won't cheat anyway!

Too kind Mr. Fallon..😂

eagle eye

Blonde hair, brown eyes and you are miles ahead but it then comes down to intelligence. If you have that I'm in love.

sk8erboii

That miss universe 2018 is a real one. Spent 3 hours the other day compiling pornstars that looked like her

For research ofc

rani24

I find intelligent people very attractive

q85dw7osi4lebg

Dream lady:

Nice teeth

Good driver

Not hooked on social media

Serious booty

p1akuw47h5r3it

sk8erboii wrote: »

That miss universe 2018 is a real one. Spent 3 hours the other day compiling pornstars that looked like her

For research ofc

Google kristy Althaus... Former miss colorado

sk8erboii

DanDan6592 wrote: »

Google kristy Althaus... Former miss colorado

Nice one lad. Keep it coming

Church on Tuesday

Someone normal.

joeguevara

If you had asked me 4 months ago I would have listed off a list of purely physical attributes.

Then I woke up one morning and realized I had a thing for my best friend that’s a girl.she is obviously really beautiful but I never noticed before. The reason I developed feelings is that she is the most kind generous person I have ever met. She is the best mum to her two kids and is the funniest person I know. Anyway I told her how I felt and she said we are better off as friends.

So yea big t1ts and an arse you can spin a 50 cent piece on.

Andrew00

kfallon wrote: »

G'wan ya MILF, I'll give ya a dart for the Xmas. PM me there, I won't cheat anyway!

Do us proud Mr Fallon

1800_Ladladlad

A female who knows how to throw it back and make it clap........

Zorya

Wibbs wrote: »

Middle aged guys the worst demographic for it. If any such corners you with "Remember when/back in my day" run, feign profound deafness, and/or punch them in the goolies.

What! You don't absolutely love a story that begins like...

Ah yes, I remember it well, it was April, 1963. I was living in 23, Hollow Oaks Crescent in Harlesden, with Big Monaghan John, Oliver Rua and Fitzy from Kildare. Monaghan John had a green Ford Cortina. I was earning 7 shillings and thrupence a week at the time.

...this? Why, you Monster!! :pac:

(Good storytellers are as rare as hens teeth. I know 2. Both are actors as well. One is a woman, and the man is a well known Irish playwright. To have that kind of charisma, confidence, generosity of spirit and to also instinctively embody the art of drama is quite special. With everyone else,himself included, I am - For the love of Jesus will you hurry up and get to the place where you wrap this up!)

I find attractive -
Kindness
Smartness
Humour and wit
Self awareness
Height and physical strength - though from time to time all the rest is embodied in a smaller form and is still incredibly attractive.
Humility in the face of the unknowable cosmos.

DrPhilG

ZX7R wrote: »

women who suck on there bottom lip

Surely you mean bite their bottom lip?



Sucking their bottom lip might look a bit rare!

bot43

Slim women who look after themselves who look as good in jeans as they do in a skirt.

A woman can be as intelligent and kind as you like but if she is a fat mess who doesnt mind surplus hair she is being left on the shelf.

retro:electro

Sense of humour. Nice teeth. Someone who marches to their own beat but not in an annoying way. Confident but not cocky. Can comfort and reassure me when I need it but also put me in my place when I need that too. Someone clued in on what’s going on in the world and who you can go to a little pub alone with and still be there six hours later deep in chat (and wine)

Feisar

rgodard80a wrote: »

Boobs that can breast feed a creche (and since this is AH I have to qualify that they must be on a real biological woman).

Or a set you could stick two suck calves on and still have a drop for the house.

Dirtdrifter

Feisar wrote: »

Or a set you could stick two suck calves on and still have a drop for the house.

Yep for all the mammy's boys out there that still miss the breastfeeding

Feisar

Dirtdrifter wrote: »

Yep for all the mammy's boys out there that still miss the breastfeeding

Hahaha.

completedit

When u like a girl and they do that smile with their eyes and your heart just melts every time.

ebbsy

I like snatch.

mvl

so often i think its my imagination's fault for being attracted to someone who is tall, creative, self taught; and very important, can talk more than I do (we're both foreign, so cultural differences constantly "enrich" our communication).

Faugheen

Tig ol' bitties.

Joking aside, I like someone who doesn't take themselves seriously. Someone who asks you about you rather than asking about themselves because it shows to me they're not self-centred.

I also like a nice smile. They can be infectious.

demanufactured

mvl wrote: »

so often i think its my imagination's fault for being attracted to someone who is tall, creative, self taught; and very important, can talk more than I do (we're both foreign, so cultural differences constantly "enrich" our communication).

You and AVB should hook up.

4068ac1elhodqr

A nice elbow triangle on a lady is great, ideally 45 degree angle, using only the left arm.
http://waterfordwhispersnews.com/2018/11/15/****-this-im-taking-back-control/

Careful not to use both arms, as visualy it's just too much all at once.

Larbre34

Humour. Properly funny women are sexy women, doesn't matter much what they look like physically. Any well known women i might find attractive are known more for their comedic writing or performance than hollywood good looks.

Other than that, women that might catch my eye in the real world tend to look very natural and highlight what God gave them rather than a plastic pastiche, confidentally curvy, dark hair, dark eyes. And I agree with others before, glasses are cute AF.

Autosport

For starters they should at least be Male

Sense of humour
Honesty
Doesn't take themselves too seriously
Easy going

Basically me

And none of this Ghosting crap.

ginandtonicsky

Eyes. Dark and brooding or light and twinkly. Noteworthy eyes, especially when staring at you intensely.

Good teeth, strong arms, infectious laugh, hint of aftershave, pokes fun at himself and a massive flirt. I'll probably fall for any guy that flirts with me hard.

Prominent_Dawg

The wrong men

Triceratops Ballet

ginandtonicsky wrote:

I'll probably fall for any guy that flirts with me hard.

Same! Can't beat a good flirt!