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split after 20 years, living under the same roof

LegacyUser · 2019-05-24 13:56:41

Hi my partner and I have split after 20 years together. We have two kids 1 is a teenager. We don't fight with each other but it's been coming for a long time. She want's us to co-parent and live under the same roof whilst being friends as neither of us has the means to move out. She want's us to remain as a family. My…

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#52 24-06-2019 7:01am

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Bobtheman wrote: »

I'm going to be very honest here. Leave. Otherwise it gets messy. If you think there is a chance you both might have a second go - stay. Suggest marriage counseling.
Otherwise go and move on. If you can afford to .

We are going to go to a mediator because I can't afford to move out, either can she, so we'll go there and see what happens. She does understand the financial situation but does see that the kids want me around. So mediation is the obvious choice, we can say what we need to a controlled environment.

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