April 2020 Babies club

finicio

My wife is currently in CUMH since yesterday morning expecting our first. I can confirm that no partners allowed in before she goes to labour ward. Allowed be present for birth but not allowed back to room after birth. My wife is finding it tough on her own but it's probably for the best. Hopefully no complications and can be discharged early.

Nickibaby*

Congratulations Bee must be such a relief to be home enjoy the newborn bubble.

Waterford policy on hse website states Strict visiting restrictions are in place. Visiting is reviewed on a case by case basis.

Cork currently has a high number of cases but id imagine unless having baby very very soon like in the next few days that partners will be restricted in all hospitals. From the information on the hse website all partners are allowed for the births anyway so I'm hoping that continues. If gloves, mask, gown are worn by the partner and all precautions taken I feel they should be allowed. But that's just in my opinion! Alot of studies promote the benefits of having a birthing partner. You would also wonder how it may affect bonding..

Nickibaby*

Pocos wrote: »

Anyone with the Waterford hospital? Hear anything?

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The hse are posting updates regarding restrictions regularly here :

https://www2.hse.ie/services/hospital-service-disruptions/hospital-service-disruptions-covid19.html

bee06

Thanks Shesty! Lots of patience for everyone at the moment and he’s doing great considering everything has been turned upside down between the baby and the corona virus. And I even got some sleep last night!

Good luck Finicio, I hope everything goes well for ye. I did find that the midwives on the post natal ward left me to myself (which was totally fine with me because it’s my 2nd baby and she is flying with the feeding etc and felt great myself) but if your wife does need help after she shouldn’t be afraid to buzz them.

I did hear some stories from staff that some fathers were found being less than hygienic before the change in guidelines so I can understand why they are trying to limit things now. Just so much risk to staff and vulnerable patients if someone doesn’t abide by the sensible hygiene precautions.

Sprites

bee06 wrote: »

Pocos, a lot of hospitals are already saying no visitors after the birth including partners. I had my baby Monday in CUMH, home yesterday and they updated the policy to no visitors from today.

Congratulations Bee06!! Fantastic news!

Sprites

Pocos wrote: »

Oh Bee don’t say that!
I loved the time together me my husband and baby number 1 two years ago in the hospital after the birth! Be hard to be in there solo!

Anyone with the Waterford hospital? Hear anything?

Huge congrats on baby Bee boy/girl? You have toddler too don’t you? About 2? How are they reacting?

I'm with Waterford, due in public antenatal clinic on Tuesday but haven't had any communication from them re cancellations to date.

A VBAC group I'm in has a lady attending Mayo General who has been told she cant have a birthing partner, now that differs from the information from the HSE website for that particular hospital so I am a bit confused by what she has been told but that's the information she has shared. That's what has me preparing for that eventuality "just in case".

It would be very tough to have to be without a birthing partner but given the situation I think the health service have to take all precautions necessary and if the number of cases rise then I think it's a highly likely scenario and probably in the interests of public health and safety. They wont take such a decision lightly and if they do take it it will be for good reason.

Pocos

bee06 wrote: »

A girl and we had a 2 year old boy already. He’s smitten with her unless she gets in the way of something he wants. Eg bedtime is a struggle because he still wants me to do bedtime which isn’t possible if baby is feeding.

Oh Bee huge congrats that’s fantastic news! Great to be home and all as well! A weight lifted I’m sure!

Look I know if my husband isn’t allowed in for birth I’ll have no choice but to get on with it but god it’s a tough decision! Also hard on him missing birth of second child. I think he was more emotional than me at the first one!

If I don’t go myself I’m being induced Tuesday week so probably at the height of this pandemic.
But look what will be will be! Meeting consultant tomorrow so he May be able to give more info on Waterford hospitals policy and what will happen! Will update tomorrow sprites on what he says!

raheny red

My partner is getting induced on Monday in the Rotunda. It's our 1st child. The thoughts of not being there with her for support and witnessing my child's birth is really tough on both of us. However, the health and well being of mammy and baby is the main thing. Fingers crossed anyway. Best of luck folks.

Sprites

Pocos wrote: »

Oh Bee huge congrats that’s fantastic news! Great to be home and all as well! A weight lifted I’m sure!

Look I know if my husband isn’t allowed in for birth I’ll have no choice but to get on with it but god it’s a tough decision! Also hard on him missing birth of second child. I think he was more emotional than me at the first one!

If I don’t go myself I’m being induced Tuesday week so probably at the height of this pandemic.
But look what will be will be! Meeting consultant tomorrow so he May be able to give more info on Waterford hospitals policy and what will happen! Will update tomorrow sprites on what he says!

If nothing changes in their current policy he will be present, fingers crossed for you Pocos!! A look at the HSE link earlier on today shows that a nominated birth partner is permitted in most hospitals so that's encouraging.

Nickibaby*

raheny red wrote: »

My partner is getting induced on Monday in the Rotunda. It's our 1st child. The thoughts of not being there with her for support and witnessing my child's birth is really tough on both of us. However, the health and well being of mammy and baby is the main thing. Fingers crossed anyway. Best of luck folks.

On the hse website which was updated this evening visitor allowed during the birth so fingers crossed nothing changes between now and Monday in relation to that. Best of luck with everything for both u and your partner

larrymickdick

Candie wrote: »

Our little chap arrived a couple of days ago, coming in just under 3kg, after a very short and intense labour. Everything went well if a bit fast and furious with no time for pain relief or to use any of the carefully packed items in the labour bag! We're now tucked up at home a brand new little family. We're crazy in love with him, he's gorgeous.

Good luck to all you ladies, it's all worth it when you see that amazing tiny human and get to hold him for the first time.

Congratulations so delighted for you

Congrats, Bee.

I hope everyone gets through it well, it's a really tough time to be starting family life. Good luck to everyone over the next few weeks.

chases0102

Hi all,

Hope all is going ok with ye. My OH is 39 weeks, so we are negotiating this strange time as best we can, as I'm sure you all are too.

Quick question that someone might be able to help me with - Sunday is Monther's Day, and we have a 2.5 year old. Due to the circumstances that are so limiting, can anyone recommend a Mother's Day present? Restaurants are out, and may well be foreseeable future between virus and having a new born!

Just wondering if anyone had any clever ideas.

Many thanks folks.

aloevera33

chases0102 wrote: »

Hi all,

Hope all is going ok with ye. My OH is 39 weeks, so we are negotiating this strange time as best we can, as I'm sure you all are too.

Quick question that someone might be able to help me with - Sunday is Monther's Day, and we have a 2.5 year old. Due to the circumstances that are so limiting, can anyone recommend a Mother's Day present? Restaurants are out, and may well be foreseeable future between virus and having a new born!

Just wondering if anyone had any clever ideas.

Many thanks folks.

I sent my mam flowers. Other options include vouchers. You could be creative too and make some vouchers for fun stuff at home eg. Back massage, home cooked dinner, a lie in with breakfast in bed etc. Good luck with everything

Nickibaby*

Had an appointment and scan which went ahead. Social distancing was being strictly enforced which I have to say made me feel a lot more positive about going in to give birth

Very strict on fathers not attending appointments & chairs were spread out over 2metres apart. Everyone using the sanitizers and alot wearing masks.

Pocos

Hi all,

So Waterford hospital is still relatively calm and they are restricting partners after the birth! So pretty much post natal, once baby is born fathers aren’t allowed in! Pre natal they are still allowed in but my consultant felt that may change next week!

For the birth he would be very surprised if fathers were not allowed in, but anything is possible! But he felt this would very much be a last resort!

Waterford currently has 4 in the hospital with coronavirus in isolation so it’s very much calm at the moment! He feels it may all kick off early April but obviously very calm at the moment and will depend on how well people are social distancing!
A and E is down by 50% as people aren’t going There!

Strange times ahead! I’m being induced on March 31st and there’s no rush as of yet on going home but If you stay the three nights you will be there solo no partners!

Hoped this helps ease some people’s minds or their concerns! All very surreal!

Sprites

Thanks everyone for your updates. Glad that everywhere is doing everything they can to maintain appointments.

I have a scheduled appt on Tuesday so hopefully it will go ahead.

I suppose all we can do is hope that the current measures being taken have the desired effect of "flattening the curve" and they wont have to bring in more drastic measures.

Had things put in perspective today, a girl I know who has 8 week old twins in NICU has had her temporary accommodation where she is closed down due to the virus. Her and her partner have to stay at home while her twins are a long distance away. So really, what I'm facing in a straightforward pregnancy with some visiting restrictions is completely minor and manageable compared to the trauma that some people are facing at the moment.

Sosa1

Hi folks,

Had my 40 week appointment in Holles Street the other day and through I'd come on and let you know what their policy is at the moment.

Check-up procedure was normal, except that I had been given an exact time to show up and was seen pretty much straight away- social distancing was observed in the waiting room and reception area.

Regarding the birth, I have been advised that a birth partner will not be allowed with me on the ante natal ward, he will have to wait outside the hospital and will be called when it is time to give birth. He will be present at the birth and then will have to leave the hospital 1 hour later.

It's really disappointing and a bit scary thinking about it, especially since this is my first and I really expected him to be there - but we all have to do our part in stopping the spread of this virus. The midwife did say that they will also try to get mother's discharged ASAP post birth (if everything is routine), and that a midwife will do home visits in the days after.

Hope that helps anyone attending Holles Street who was wondering

Sprites

Sosa1 wrote: »

Hi folks,

Had my 40 week appointment in Holles Street the other day and through I'd come on and let you know what their policy is at the moment.

Check-up procedure was normal, except that I had been given an exact time to show up and was seen pretty much straight away- social distancing was observed in the waiting room and reception area.

Regarding the birth, I have been advised that a birth partner will not be allowed with me on the ante natal ward, he will have to wait outside the hospital and will be called when it is time to give birth. He will be present at the birth and then will have to leave the hospital 1 hour later.

It's really disappointing and a bit scary thinking about it, especially since this is my first and I really expected him to be there - but we all have to do our part in stopping the spread of this virus. The midwife did say that they will also try to get mother's discharged ASAP post birth (if everything is routine), and that a midwife will do home visits in the days after.

Hope that helps anyone attending Holles Street who was wondering

Thanks Sosa, good to know. Not attending that hospital but hopefully most hospitals are following the same protocol and allowing birth partners.

In the current climate that is really as much as can be expected. While its really disappointing not to have our partners there afterwards its absolutely necessary really.

All the best for the next few days x

Blingy

Thanks sosa1. That’s good to know.

Nickibaby*

Thanks for the update Sosa I've mine next Friday in Limerick and will provide an update after that.

The hse website does seem to update very regularly. We will fingers crossed all get through this and be home cuddling our healthy newborns soon with our partners /husbands. These measures are protecting us and our babies

Blingy

Anyone else having awful heartburn in the evenings? I’ve taken gaviscon but it’s not doing much good. Thanks.

Nickibaby*

Blingy wrote: »

Anyone else having awful heartburn in the evenings? I’ve taken gaviscon but it’s not doing much good. Thanks.

Yes have it really bad I found the Rennie tablets a bit better than the Gaviscon. Really found certain foods made it worse like anything spicy

Pocos

Sosa1 wrote: »

Hi folks,

Had my 40 week appointment in Holles Street the other day and through I'd come on and let you know what their policy is at the moment.

Check-up procedure was normal, except that I had been given an exact time to show up and was seen pretty much straight away- social distancing was observed in the waiting room and reception area.

Regarding the birth, I have been advised that a birth partner will not be allowed with me on the ante natal ward, he will have to wait outside the hospital and will be called when it is time to give birth. He will be present at the birth and then will have to leave the hospital 1 hour later.

It's really disappointing and a bit scary thinking about it, especially since this is my first and I really expected him to be there - but we all have to do our part in stopping the spread of this virus. The midwife did say that they will also try to get mother's discharged ASAP post birth (if everything is routine), and that a midwife will do home visits in the days after.

Hope that helps anyone attending Holles Street who was wondering

Thanks so much Sosa1! I know hospitals can be different but it’s good to hear what’s happening in other hospitals!
My friend had a baby in Waterford today and same as you were advised! Her husband was allowed there when in active labour but then could only stay 1 hour after! She had gestational diabetes so it there 3 nights minimum to watch babies bloods (only mums on medication this applies to!) so he won’t be back in until Friday! That is tough I think!

Also for you on your first that is hard too! My advice when you get home don’t have any visitors (not that you will be anyway with all that’s going on!) for 3/4 days! Like when I had first only had grandparents and it was so lovely just me my husband and baby to get to know each other! For the first few days! But I suppose it’s different now you might have no one visiting!

Heartburn not too much hear but I second the rennies! I find them good as you can take about 8 I think or something a day! So you can spread them out more!

Thanks everyone for the updates!

RMC10

I'm attending NMH. Good to know what's going on but I can't say I feel as positive as everyone else is being about it. I get the reasoning but the thoughts of having to be on my own in there is really upsetting me.
I was meant to have an appointment this week (38 weeks) which was cancelled last week and was told Id be scheduled in for my next appointment at 40 weeks. Then I received a letter yesterday with an appointment for when I'd be 41 weeks. That means I'll have had no appointments between 35 weeks and 41 weeks! So I've emailed and asked for an appointment as promised.
This really sent me over the edge yesterday. It's not in my nature to be anxious or stressed but f**k me this whole situation is just a balls.

RMC10

I'm attending NMH. Good to know what's going on but I can't say I feel as positive as everyone else is being about it. I get the reasoning but the thoughts of having to be on my own in there is really upsetting me.
I was meant to have an appointment this week (38 weeks) which was cancelled last week and was told Id be scheduled in for my next appointment at 40 weeks. Then I received a letter yesterday with an appointment for when I'd be 41 weeks. That means I'll have had no appointments between 35 weeks and 41 weeks! So I've emailed and asked for an appointment as promised.
This really sent me over the edge yesterday. It's not in my nature to be anxious or stressed but f**k me this whole situation is just a balls.

Blingy

RMC10 wrote: »

I'm attending NMH. Good to know what's going on but I can't say I feel as positive as everyone else is being about it. I get the reasoning but the thoughts of having to be on my own in there is really upsetting me.
I was meant to have an appointment this week (38 weeks) which was cancelled last week and was told Id be scheduled in for my next appointment at 40 weeks. Then I received a letter yesterday with an appointment for when I'd be 41 weeks. That means I'll have had no appointments between 35 weeks and 41 weeks! So I've emailed and asked for an appointment as promised.
This really sent me over the edge yesterday. It's not in my nature to be anxious or stressed but f**k me this whole situation is just a balls.

I don’t like the sound of this at all. I’m due an appointment next week at 36 weeks. Didn’t go to my gp appointment last week as didn’t want to go into the gp surgery. Kinda looking forward to next weeks appointment. Want to know if baby has moved from breech.

Sprites

Blingy wrote: »

I don’t like the sound of this at all. I’m due an appointment next week at 36 weeks. Didn’t go to my gp appointment last week as didn’t want to go into the gp surgery. Kinda looking forward to next weeks appointment. Want to know if baby has moved from breech.

I had 36wk appt on Tuesday as normal, have an appt with GP next week and back to hospital the following week for 38wk check.

I'm public in UHW and they are giving people slots rather than telling everyone to turn up at the same time. Seems to be working well and they are saying appointments will go ahead as normal.

RMC10 that's tough, you are completely right to request your check, I hope they accommodate you.

Sprites

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=l4VRkVjahtw&feature=youtu.be

National Maternity Hospital showing what you can expect if you're attending there.

Dahdum

I am due my 36 wk hospital appt in NMH on Monday 30th. Got a letter earlier this week giving me a specific time to arrive (I’m public so it’s usually anytime between 8 and 10). Just got a call to rearrange it to a different location, in ballinteer. Just a heads up to anyone expecting an appt in the next week or so or for anyone who has had their appt cancelled. They may re-accommodate you elsewhere, just not in the hospital.

buttercup20

Thanks Dahdum. I had an outpatients appointment due for Monday 30th too and this now has been moved to the middle of April, good to be prepared if it will be in a different location. I had an telephone appointment with a Doctor and midwife yesterday from the NMH.

Nickibaby*

Limerick Maternity now also not allowing partners on to the wards. They can be there for the birth and then pick you up when being discharged.

Uptheduff

I had my baby on Sunday. I was told my husband would have an hour tops with us after the birth before he'd have to leave. I ended up being in the labour ward for 3 hours post birth and he was allowed to stay with us for that which we really appreciated. The ward felt very safe, All the new mums and babies were well spread out and maintaining social distance was high on everyone's priorities. It was surreal coming back out to the news again.

raheny red

raheny red wrote: »

My partner is getting induced on Monday in the Rotunda. It's our 1st child. The thoughts of not being there with her for support and witnessing my child's birth is really tough on both of us. However, the health and well being of mammy and baby is the main thing. Fingers crossed anyway. Best of luck folks.

So just a heads up for those heading in to the Rotunda. When you and your partner are heading in for the induction. The mother will be allowed in first just for the paper work etc. 30 mins or so. Partner will have to wait outside for this. When the office work is sorted and bed ready someone will come out to get them so make sure they wait there at the entrance. The security guards are very strict, which is want we want. Your partner will be given a pass to be allowed entrance into the hospital. Make sure they have Photo ID. I was never asked for ID but just have it to be safe. They can come and go for the day as they please. Mammy had to stay in the pre natal ward over night on Monday. I went home for a few hours kip because nothing was going to happen.

Tuesday morning I was refused entry as my day pass was out of date. Get your partner to ring this number when outside 018172575 if they are having issues. Give the mother's name/bed number. Reception will then ring the ward nurse and then inform a security guard inside. He'll come out and get your partner. I was bit anxious at first tbh but was only a couple of phone calls so was all good.

I was never given an updated day pass but the nurses can write on it needs be. The security guard can ring them if they need clarification etc.

So I was there for all of pre natal and present in the labour ward. Mammy and baby are doing fantastic and currently in there now :-) - I got to spend 2.5/3 hours with them last night straight after birth. I wasn't allowed near the post natal ward.

When I'm collecting them tomorrow I've to meet them in the reception area I think. Apologies for the long text but it's how I remember the ins and outs surrounding the C19 procedures.

Apart from entering the hospital you'll completely forget about all coronavirus stuff. It's a great bubble to escape for a few days. Best of luck folks.

raheny red

Uptheduff wrote: »

I had my baby on Sunday. I was told my husband would have an hour tops with us after the birth before he'd have to leave. I ended up being in the labour ward for 3 hours post birth and he was allowed to stay with us for that which we really appreciated. The ward felt very safe, All the new mums and babies were well spread out and maintaining social distance was high on everyone's priorities. It was surreal coming back out to the news again.

Fantastic stuff congrats. That last sentence, I couldn't agree with more. Just shows how much of a bubble it was in there. Was a bit "spooky" coming back out last night.

Sprites

raheny red wrote: »

So just a heads up for those heading in to the Rotunda. When you and your partner are heading in for the induction. The mother will be allowed in first just for the paper work etc. 30 mins or so. Partner will have to wait outside for this. When the office work is sorted and bed ready someone will come out to get them so make sure they wait there at the entrance. The security guards are very strict, which is want we want. Your partner will be given a pass to be allowed entrance into the hospital. Make sure they have Photo ID. I was never asked for ID but just have it to be safe. They can come and go for the day as they please. Mammy had to stay in the pre natal ward over night on Monday. I went home for a few hours kip because nothing was going to happen.

Tuesday morning I was refused entry as my day pass was out of date. Get your partner to ring this number when outside 018172575 if they are having issues. Give the mother's name/bed number. Reception will then ring the ward nurse and then inform a security guard inside. He'll come out and get your partner. I was bit anxious at first tbh but was only a couple of phone calls so was all good.

I was never given an updated day pass but the nurses can write on it needs be. The security guard can ring them if they need clarification etc.

So I was there for all of pre natal and present in the labour ward. Mammy and baby are doing fantastic and currently in there now :-) - I got to spend 2.5/3 hours with them last night straight after birth. I wasn't allowed near the post natal ward.

When I'm collecting them tomorrow I've to meet them in the reception area I think. Apologies for the long text but it's how I remember the ins and outs surrounding the C19 procedures.

Apart from entering the hospital you'll completely forget about all coronavirus stuff. It's a great bubble to escape for a few days. Best of luck folks.

Congratulations!

Nickibaby*

raheny red wrote: »

So just a heads up for those heading in to the Rotunda. When you and your partner are heading in for the induction. The mother will be allowed in first just for the paper work etc. 30 mins or so. Partner will have to wait outside for this. When the office work is sorted and bed ready someone will come out to get them so make sure they wait there at the entrance. The security guards are very strict, which is want we want. Your partner will be given a pass to be allowed entrance into the hospital. Make sure they have Photo ID. I was never asked for ID but just have it to be safe. They can come and go for the day as they please. Mammy had to stay in the pre natal ward over night on Monday. I went home for a few hours kip because nothing was going to happen.

Tuesday morning I was refused entry as my day pass was out of date. Get your partner to ring this number when outside 018172575 if they are having issues. Give the mother's name/bed number. Reception will then ring the ward nurse and then inform a security guard inside. He'll come out and get your partner. I was bit anxious at first tbh but was only a couple of phone calls so was all good.

I was never given an updated day pass but the nurses can write on it needs be. The security guard can ring them if they need clarification etc.

So I was there for all of pre natal and present in the labour ward. Mammy and baby are doing fantastic and currently in there now :-) - I got to spend 2.5/3 hours with them last night straight after birth. I wasn't allowed near the post natal ward.

When I'm collecting them tomorrow I've to meet them in the reception area I think. Apologies for the long text but it's how I remember the ins and outs surrounding the C19 procedures.

Apart from entering the hospital you'll completely forget about all coronavirus stuff. It's a great bubble to escape for a few days. Best of luck folks.

Congrats and thanks for the in depth post

Sprites

Uptheduff wrote: »

I had my baby on Sunday. I was told my husband would have an hour tops with us after the birth before he'd have to leave. I ended up being in the labour ward for 3 hours post birth and he was allowed to stay with us for that which we really appreciated. The ward felt very safe, All the new mums and babies were well spread out and maintaining social distance was high on everyone's priorities. It was surreal coming back out to the news again.

Congratulations!

RMC10

Uptheduff wrote: »

I had my baby on Sunday. I was told my husband would have an hour tops with us after the birth before he'd have to leave. I ended up being in the labour ward for 3 hours post birth and he was allowed to stay with us for that which we really appreciated. The ward felt very safe, All the new mums and babies were well spread out and maintaining social distance was high on everyone's priorities. It was surreal coming back out to the news again.

Congratulations uptheduff. Enjoy your baby bubble x

RMC10

Congratulations Raheny Red! I'm sure you'll be delighted to get mammy and baby home tomorrow. Best of luck with the weeks ahead and enjoy.

Pocos

Congratulations as thanks for all the updates!!
Wow it’s mad how different hospitals are implementing different things! Also 5 weeks between app after 35 weeks seems very very long doesn’t it?

For the girl who is nervous about being alone for birth is this your first baby???

Mantis Toboggan

Saw on RTE that Mullingar hospital has now banned partners and all relatives from attending birth. Tough on the fathers imo.

Sprites

Mantis Toboggan wrote: »

Saw on RTE that Mullingar hospital has now banned partners and all relatives from attending birth. Tough on the fathers imo.

Very tough on dads. It's my main worry to be honest.

Just caught a bit of Primetime tonight where the head of HSE said that they expect the peak of cases to be in mid-April which is when I'm due. I hope I'm wrong but I think by the time my due date comes in 3 weeks we will be in a situation where mothers are giving birth without birth partners. I really hope it's not the case but if things go the way they expect they will not be admitting anyone inside the door of a hospital unless absolutely necessary.

Pocos

Mantis Toboggan wrote: »

Saw on RTE that Mullingar hospital has now banned partners and all relatives from attending birth. Tough on the fathers imo.

I really agree with this! Very unfair on dads!

My consultant was saying he doesn’t think it’s a good idea as it’s not really benefiting anyone in the labour process! Mothers with no partners, babies not meeting their dads! He would be against banning partners but obviously not up to him!

Sprites in Waterford the Coronavirus centre is in the new building part which is literally the furthest away from maternity as far as i know so I’d be hoping they won’t be banning partners! It might depend on the set up each hospital has! Like if they can keep maternity very separate from the general public it might work!

I dunno! I really feel for people with all the unknowns! Especially for those of ye on your first babies!!!

Sprites

Pocos wrote: »

I really agree with this! Very unfair on dads!

My consultant was saying he doesn’t think it’s a good idea as it’s not really benefiting anyone in the labour process! Mothers with no partners, babies not meeting their dads! He would be against banning partners but obviously not up to him!

Sprites in Waterford the Coronavirus centre is in the new building part which is literally the furthest away from maternity as far as i know so I’d be hoping they won’t be banning partners! It might depend on the set up each hospital has! Like if they can keep maternity very separate from the general public it might work!

I dunno! I really feel for people with all the unknowns! Especially for those of ye on your first babies!!!

I think they will be viewing it from the perspective of a birth partner having the virus and bringing it to the delivery ward rather than a birth partner catching the virus from a hospital patient.

I'm normally an optimist but I think I'm just preparing for the (hopefully unlikely) worst situation so I won't be too upset or worried if it does come to pass.

Pocos

Sprites wrote: »

I think they will be viewing it from the perspective of a birth partner having the virus and bringing it to the delivery ward rather than a birth partner catching the virus from a hospital patient.

I'm normally an optimist but I think I'm just preparing for the (hopefully unlikely) worst situation so I won't be too upset or worried if it does come to pass.

Oh I know it makes sense I get why they would ban birthing partners! One would hope if a partner had symptoms or had been in contact with someone with the virus you wouldn’t go into the hospital!

Like we have pretty much been on as much as possible of a lockdown for the Past two weeks, not seeing anyone and going into public places like shops as little as possible to avoid a chance of having the virus! So that my husband can be present!

But I understand what you are saying Sprites, expect the worst but hope for the best! Mentally prepare yourself to be doing it solo and if your partner can be there then it’s a bonus!

Sprites

Pocos wrote: »

Oh I know it makes sense I get why they would ban birthing partners! One would hope if a partner had symptoms or had been in contact with someone with the virus you wouldn’t go into the hospital!

Like we have pretty much been on as much as possible of a lockdown for the Past two weeks, not seeing anyone and going into public places like shops as little as possible to avoid a chance of having the virus! So that my husband can be present!

But I understand what you are saying Sprites, expect the worst but hope for the best! Mentally prepare yourself to be doing it solo and if your partner can be there then it’s a bonus!

That's my strategy lol!!

I'm also slightly panicking about the lack of stuff I bought for the baby before the shops closed. We didnt find out the sex of the baby so I'm trying to buy unisex baby clothes online, not a huge amount on offer surprisingly!!

Going to send the hubby up to the attic tomorrow to see what we kept from our first over three years ago now. Hopefully we have a few bits and bobs to get us through the first few weeks.

Nickibaby*

Not gonna lie had a meltdown earlier. This all just sucks :mad:

Sprites

Nickibaby* wrote: »

Not gonna lie had a meltdown earlier. This all just sucks :mad:

Agreed!

CPTM

Sprites wrote: »

I think they will be viewing it from the perspective of a birth partner having the virus and bringing it to the delivery ward rather than a birth partner catching the virus from a hospital patient.

I'm normally an optimist but I think I'm just preparing for the (hopefully unlikely) worst situation so I won't be too upset or worried if it does come to pass.

If the dad has it, I would have thought the mother and anyone else he's living with has it, and so the baby is bound to get it, and the nursing staff surely from the mum. I'm not saying that's always the case, but surely it's very likely for everyone in the same household to get it. I just don't know if the risk is decreased by enough to warrant such a grim decision for the dads, if the mum more than likely has it too. Unless they ban dads who aren't living with the mums, then it would make more sense.