red flags

the_pen_turner

when you meet someone for the first time. what things about them make you dislike them

corner of hells

the_pen_turner wrote: »

when you meet someone for the first time. what things about them make you dislike them

If they have a knife and they're trying to stab me .

hairyslug

Poor dental hygiene.

BDI

Not immediately bowing to my superior intellect.

Anus Von Skidmark

hairyslug wrote: »

Poor dental hygiene.

Poor genital hygiene.

Sorry about that

A limp handshake.

Exclamation Marc

Someone who spends too much time on their phone.

Timberrrrrrrr

"Have ye 2 euro for bus fare buuuuuuud"

monkeysnapper

Please......... I had a guy a few weeks ago .....boyfriend of a good friend ... and he just went on and on and on about how he bought this house and he bought it cheap and how he bought everything cheap and did it up himself on the cheap ....

I get it mate .... now let me leave for the love of God or who Evers out there.

Air of entitlement.

EmmetSpiceland

Sorry about that wrote: »

A limp handshake.

And bootcut jeans.

Wanderer2010

Laughing at their own jokes. Shocking insecurity.

LETHAL LADY

Their face

Timberrrrrrrr

"Im not a racist....but"

Yer Da sells Avon

An overly strong handshake.

Strumms

Type of person I dislike mostly is someone who is very free with casual criticism towards other people in front of me and or others.. that’s just a big fûck off red flag.

Church on Tuesday

If they are rude or short with waiting staff.

Only talking about themselves.

Collie D

Bullfighters. Massive red flag right there.

eviltwin

Wants to know how much you earn

eviltwin

People who slag off others looks, clothes etc

antodeco

Either a Nazi uniform or an ISIS flag

Ecce No Homo

Something I notice a lot with less confident men in Ireland is that they are a bit perturbed by the protuberance in my pants. Actually guys, I am just trying to go about my day, do my chores, answer to the boss, pay my taxes, or whatever (self employed in this country since four years), and maybe we can agree to get over this and just continue with our chores?? I'm noticing distasteful, envious look, escpecially if I go out to bars in the city

Ecce No Homo

Ecce No Homo wrote: »

Something I notice a lot with less confident men in Ireland is that they are a bit perturbed by the proturberence in my pants. Actually guys, I am just trying to go about my day, do my chores, answer to the boss, pay my taxes, or whatever (self employed in this country since four years), and maybe we can agree to get over this and just continue with our chores?? I'm noticing distasteful, envious look, escpecially if I go out to bars in the city

Is a proturberence some sort of mushroom?

Ecce No Homo

Ward J. Littell wrote: »

Is a proturberence some sort of mushroom?

I mean bulge, you know otherwise I have to wear very loose fitting pants which are not giving a professional look

JohnnyFlash

Neck tattoos.

alchemist33

Slagging off other people. You just know they'll turn on you when it suits.

dexter647

Man Utd jersey

If they have dirty or unkempt footwear, unless they’ve a physically dirty job, are wearing their workwear and in the middle of a working day.

If they speak with their mouths full or chew food with their mouth open.

If they stand with their hands in their pockets when introduced, or exhibit similar ignorant behaviour.

If they fail to say please and thank you as appropriate.

If they reside primarily in a mobile dwelling which is not placed on the construction site of their future home, one to be paid for by the sweat of their own brow, not the coffers of the state.

If they take offence or attempt to dismiss my dislike of any of the above.

fryup

no eye contact when they speak to you...is a sure sign of an arrogant arseh@le

JayZeus

JayZeus wrote: »

If they take offence or attempt to dismiss my dislike of any of the above.

I'll confess to a chuckle.

IAMAMORON

I can never trust people who wear shades, especially in pubs and when they don't need to have them on. I need to have proper eye contact with someone or else I have no idea what I am dealing with.

If the convo goes past initial small talk I will always ask to see their eyes if I like them, I need to see them.

riclad

People who smoke, people with large tattoo,s on their arm,s ,neck,
legs.
Unless you are a wrestler, boxer, mma fighter, a large tattoo just looks bad.
a woman who just wants to talk about their ex, the problems they had
or trivial issues they had in previous relationships .
Go to your mother or your best friend, no one else cares about this.
People who go to a pub or a restaurant and are taking photos of the food,
or selfie,s ,
People who are constantly checking facebook, social media on their phone
where ever they are .

ILoveYourVibes

If they can do something to make me dislike them the first time I meet them that's a red flag.

MiliMe

Arrogance and / or an unwarranted air of superiority.
Possibly down to my own insecurities but still...

ILoveYourVibes

MiliMe wrote: »

Arrogance and / or an unwarranted air of superiority.
..

I so love that.

whisky_galore

Activist types and professional protesters.

Third wave feminists.

Vegans/vegetarians only if they bang on about it.

BMW owners.

Grown adults who still use skateboards.

fryup

fryup wrote: »

no eye contact when they speak to you...is a sure sign of an arrogant arseh@le

It can also be a sign of anxiety and insecurity.

Gregor Samsa

Being a Boardsie.

If they feel like they should add their vapid input on every single topic of conversation even when they have no meaningful contribution to make.

ILoveYourVibes

JayZeus wrote: »

If they feel like they should add their vapid input on every single topic of conversation even when they have no meaningful contribution to make.

oh i wonder who baby jesus is talking about.

eviltwin

People getting too political. I don't want to talk about contentious issues when I barely know you.

ILoveYourVibes

eviltwin wrote: »

I don't want to talk about contentious issues when I barely know you.

Or at all.

It helps weed out the drama lamas though.

bassy

skinny jeans

Leg End Reject

A bang of BO
Getting all up in my personal space
Continuing to drone on when it's obvious I have zero interest
Me, me, me types
False smile
The type to brush others off as insignificant
People who derive their self esteem from their possessions - brand of clothing, model of car etc.

ILoveYourVibes

Bullying.

Being a coward.

Still waters

I take people as they come, i don't care about colour, sexuality, religion, politics, gender, nationality, career, as long as they don't preach any of their bull to me i can hold a conversation and chat away, if they do i lose interest fairly quickly

SuperSean11

Smoking

De Bhál

Wearing a Glasgow Celtic shirt

Roger Hassenforder

A slouchy beanie hat.

Tikki Wang Wang

the_pen_turner wrote: »

when you meet someone for the first time. what things about them make you dislike them

Puking in the kitchen sink and not unblocking it. Storing poo in the freezer. Mashing spiders into a very fine paste. Picking their toes. Pulling dead skin off their feet and flicking it into the unlit fireplace. Scratching their piles. Biting off bit of toenails. Using kitchen knives to cut hardened skin off their feet.