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El_Duderino 09 wrote: »

It might be inconvenient that i prioritise a feminist issue that doesn’t annoy you. Maybe you even agree with it (gasp).

I hear this stuff about women don’t trust a nice guy. I can’t really comment on that. I’ve grand relationships with men and women. In work, friend groups, Friday night pints after work with mixed groups. No bothers.

I’ve seen a fascinating phenomenon in other threads where men have accused me of pretending just to get close to women. Variously because I don’t have any women friends or I can’t get an girlfriend. Neither are true in my case. But I’ve also seen those same posters who accused me of those things, admit they are in those situations. One poster who accused me of all sorts, turns out he was bullied by his wife. He wasn’t allowed out for a pint, couldn’t go see friends.

Others who can’t get or keep a relationship. I don’t take it personally as these blokes are in seriously unhappy and unhealthy situations so they vent on the Internet.

I’ve no idea if what you’re saying is true or not. I’ve been asking whether these posters do any of this “light of truth” stuff in the real world. Of course they don’t. It rarely come up in real life. Nor do I talk about this stuff in the real world unless it comes up.

Fair enough.



I personally don't think it's healthy to be a male feminist (I've noticed that they are very submissive around women), but I will leave it at that.



Have a good weekend.

El_Duderino 09

Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »

Fair enough.

I personally don't think it's healthy to be a male feminist (I've noticed that they are very submissive around women), but I will leave it at that.

Have a good weekend.

Not I. I tend to be the same around the women. It’s almost as if they’re... normal people with individual differences. Leave it there so.

El_Duderino 09

Mercurytiger wrote: »

Why is it relevant if I'm great craic to be around

Oh here. I’ve no idea about your craic. If you go on about this guff in the real world, you’d be world class bore.

El_Duderino 09

Mercurytiger wrote: »

Women are different to men in general. They experience the world differently, this has been verified by studies on babies.

Women tend to be more risk averse, with better social skills. This makes sense from an evolutionary point of view as women were more reliant on social bonds for survival than men. So it makes sense that trait would be selected for in women.

So?

Urquell

El_Duderino 09

Mercurytiger wrote: »

You were the one that made reference to how much craic I was, I don't follow why you are bringing this up.


Why is it relevant to this conversation if I'm a world class bore?

My interest is dispelling myths and the pursuit of truth.

Mercurytiger wrote: »

Some people are under the false belief that men and women are the same.

Ok. I don’t think anyone has suggested that they are the same in this thread.

I brought it up as a joke. If you want on about this stuff in real life you’d be a bore. And for all the big talk some posters go on about the bravery needed to “blaspheme” against feminism, they don’t actually talk about this stuff in real life. If they did they’d be pretty boring to be around.

Maybe you do go an about this stuff and are boring in real life. I don’t know. That’s all.

El_Duderino 09

Mercurytiger wrote: »

Why are you fixated on whether someone is a bore or not? It doesn't really matter if someone is boring. That's not the topic of discussion here.

Ok. Forget it. Doesn’t matter. You’re gone a bit off topic on this one.

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Mercurytiger wrote: »

Women are different to men in general. They experience the world differently, this has been verified by studies on babies.

Women tend to be more risk averse, with better social skills. This makes sense from an evolutionary point of view as women were more reliant on social bonds for survival than men. So it makes sense that trait would be selected for in women.

I don't know about social skills, but it has been proven that emotional intelligience (in regards to reading of body language) can be learned by men. Men in nursing, teaching, or other fields where interpersonal skills are important scored just as high as women in regards to the reading of body language in a study.



Of course, the study was on the reading of the woman's body language, and I am curious in the result if it was a 'boardroom' meeting vs a relationship meeting.