Loan Shark Needed - URGENT Ex gambled all my money

realdanbreen

Sammyy24 wrote: »

I would give my left arm to have this be a fantasy.
I haven't told them, they both needed it, my dad for medical expenses and my brother is going back to college, so I couldn't do that to them.

What about your ex's parents? After all it was their son who robbed you.

Sammyy24

Sammyy24 wrote: »

I would be lucky if I even got €500 for it, it's 2002. No, I'm not asking for money from anyone on here, thank you though.

I had a gofundme and received nothing but abuse and threats.

All I want is recommendations for payday lenders, or as bad as it sounds, dodgy loan sharks,

Amigo loans. Ask your dad to be a guarantor. Sorted. Thread \

Sammyy24

minikin wrote: »

Post photos of the Golf, with a copy of today's National Skeptic in the foreground.

Here is my golf seen as you keep assuming I am a scam when I have literally not asked a single person for money but if it'll shut you up:

https://www.gumtree.ie/a-cars/dublin/2002-volkswagen-golf-hatchback/1006082351290912477385609

HeidiHeidi

Jeepers, taking this thread at face value, it would be lovely if all the posters throwing wild accusations around and making suggestions that have been made six times already would actually READ THE WHOLE THREAD.

It's not that long! Yet.

Sammyy24

realdanbreen wrote: »

What about your ex's parents? After all it was their son who robbed you.

His mother gave me €500 which helped but won't help with anything else unfortunately, She has two young children too so I couldn't be bad and harass her for more

Kimbot

Sammyy24 wrote: »

Here is my golf seen as you keep assuming I am a scam when I have literally not asked a single person for money but if it'll shut you up:

https://www.gumtree.ie/a-cars/dublin/2002-volkswagen-golf-hatchback/1006082351290912477385609

that ad was only posted 10 mins ago.........

ednwireland

can you talk to MABs ?

https://www.mabs.ie/en/how_we_help/who_we_help.html

even if only it sounds better coming from them, and it helps to talk

Stevieluvsye

Sammyy24 wrote: »

Here is my golf seen as you keep assuming I am a scam when I have literally not asked a single person for money but if it'll shut you up:

https://www.gumtree.ie/a-cars/dublin/2002-volkswagen-golf-hatchback/1006082351290912477385609

You'll get €450 max

minikin

Sammyy24 wrote: »

I would give my left arm to have this be a fantasy.
I haven't told them, they both needed it, my dad for medical expenses and my brother is going back to college, so I couldn't do that to them.

Well obviously not communicating with them is a fantastic plan... :rolleyes:

Here I'll play along.

Why did you need a loan of a deposit from your father?
You have a good job don't you?
Why are you living beyond your means?
Buying a car for someone else when you haven't a pot to relieve yourself in?
Who gives their bank details to a gamblaholic?
Who gets into a lease with a moneysponge?
Who lets a couple move in to an apartment without receiving the deposit first?

Sammyy24

Kimbot wrote: »

that ad was only posted 10 mins ago.........

It has been pending since this morning....

Sorry to sound rude but I don't understand why any of you trying to prove I am a scam are doing this? I have not and do not want money from anyone, I am asking for advice for payday lenders and if anyone knows of any loan sharks???

minikin

Sammyy24 wrote: »

Here is my golf seen as you keep assuming I am a scam when I have literally not asked a single person for money but if it'll shut you up:

https://www.gumtree.ie/a-cars/dublin/2002-volkswagen-golf-hatchback/1006082351290912477385609

I don't think you're scamming anyone... though it might just be a very creative way of marketing a car for sale :pac:

Kimbot

Sammyy24 wrote: »

It has been pending since this morning....

Sorry to sound rude but I don't understand why any of you trying to prove I am a scam are doing this? I have not and do not want money from anyone, I am asking for advice for payday lenders and if anyone knows of any loan sharks???

OK i'll bite, you wont get recommendations for a loan shark here, as you say yourself they are dodgy. As the mod here I will remove any recommendation that is not above board.

Some (not so) Ninja editing going on there.

Edit - and I don't mean the op.

Sammyy24

minikin wrote: »

Well obviously not communicating with them is a fantastic plan... :rolleyes:

Here I'll play along.

Why did you need a loan of a deposit from your father?
You have a good job don't you?
Why are you living beyond your means?
Buying a car for someone else when you haven't a pot to relieve yourself in?
Who gives their bank details to a gamblaholic?
Who gets into a lease with a moneysponge?
Who lets a couple move in to an apartment without receiving the deposit first?

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Seen as you want to play detective, here is a copy of my lease for your perusal.

Yes we have figured out that I am an absolute idiot for trying to help someone with an addiction who has bled me dry and promised this time things would be different.

MOD Removed link due to name

BorneTobyWilde

Every vehicle on Gumtree uses ebay imaging for posting the pictures uploaded.

realdanbreen

Sammyy24 wrote: »

His mother gave me €500 which helped but won't help with anything else unfortunately, She has two young children too so I couldn't be bad and harass her for more

What about his father?

Sammyy24

Sammyy24 wrote: »

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Seen as you want to play detective, here is a copy of my lease for your perusal.

Yes we have figured out that I am an absolute idiot for trying to help someone with an addiction who has bled me dry and promised this time things would be different.

I wouldn't leave your name on it.

Stevieluvsye

MOD Removed name....

Sammyy24

realdanbreen wrote: »

What about his father?

He doesn't have a father, he has an uncle who I have asked for help but I'm not holding my breath

Wayne Jarvis

Sammyy24 wrote: »

Seen as you want to play detective, here is a copy of my lease for your perusal.

Yes we have figured out that I am an absolute idiot for trying to help someone with an addiction who has bled me dry and promised this time things would be different.

Please take that link down! Your full name is on it and the full name of the landlord. It’s not safe to do that.

Sin City

Sammyy24 wrote: »

https://ibb.co/Z2VMZYC

Seen as you want to play detective, here is a copy of my lease for your perusal.

Yes we have figured out that I am an absolute idiot for trying to help someone with an addiction who has bled me dry and promised this time things would be different.

You might want to redact the names on that document OP
but hope you get sorted

Sammyy24

Stevieluvsye wrote: »

*searches s on facebook rapidly

lol I don't have facebook

Necro

Loan Shark...

Jesus Christ on a bike, just take the hit and move home. Don't be getting involved with those scumbags anyways.

Stevieluvsye

Sammyy24 wrote: »

lol I don't have facebook

Delete the post with your lease on it PRONTO

Sammyy24

Guy Person wrote: »

Please take that link down! Your full name is on it and the full name of the landlord. It’s not safe to do that.

I have taken it down, I put it up as I am just getting so fed up. I have been told to kill myself by 4 separate people who have seen my gofundme or my asking for advice on different forums and I am just exhausted

dunnerc

ToBeFrank123 wrote: »

So what happens the Boyfriend? Does he just move on to take advantage of another girlfriend? Gambles away her money too? And then on again?

What has that got to do with the ops problem ? the dominance of Dublin in the gaa must be closed :rolleyes:

weldoninhio

Sammyy24 wrote: »

https://ibb.co/Z2VMZYC

Seen as you want to play detective, here is a copy of my lease for your perusal.

Yes we have figured out that I am an absolute idiot for trying to help someone with an addiction who has bled me dry and promised this time things would be different.

Page does not exist. Quelle surprise.

Stevieluvsye

Sammyy24 wrote: »

I have taken it down, I put it up as I am just getting so fed up. I have been told to kill myself by 4 separate people who have seen my gofundme or my asking for advice on different forums and I am just exhausted

Don't be minding them. Just meet with the landlord and you'll get sorted!

Stevieluvsye

weldoninhio wrote: »

Page does not exist. Quelle surprise.

She was told to take it down. I saw it and her name and her landlords name

weldoninhio

weldoninhio wrote: »

Page does not exist. Quelle surprise.

It did exist, slow coach :pac:

Sammyy24

weldoninhio wrote: »

Page does not exist. Quelle surprise.

Please read other comments.......I put it up with full names on and was urged to take it down

realdanbreen

Sammyy24 wrote: »

He doesn't have a father, he has an uncle who I have asked for help but I'm not holding my breath

OK I take it his father is either dead or skipped it.
Unless this guys relations are much the same as he is then between them they should be able to raise the money he robbed from you, yes/no ?

gwalk

Sammyy24 wrote: »

It has been pending since this morning....

Sorry to sound rude but I don't understand why any of you trying to prove I am a scam are doing this? I have not and do not want money from anyone, I am asking for advice for payday lenders and if anyone knows of any loan sharks???

How did you have 2 no shows already if the ad is 10 minutes old?

Sin City

weldoninhio wrote: »

Page does not exist. Quelle surprise.

She took it down
I saw the document

NabyLadistheman

Iseedeadpixels wrote: »

When I worked in the gambling industry we called the likes of him degenerates!

Really feel for you OP try the Garda again, ask for a female one she might be a little more sympathetic to you.

It's the gambling industry where the degenerates are

Sammyy24

gwalk wrote: »

How did you have 2 no shows already if the ad is 10 minutes old?

That's just one of the ads, I have it up on like 3 other advert sites too

It says pending because it only just got approved on gumtree

Sammyy24

Sammyy24 wrote: »

That's just one of the ads, I have it up on like 3 other advert sites too

It says pending because it only just got approved on gumtree

Yeah, but show him a link to one to prove him a big bad bah humbug.

Sammyy24

realdanbreen wrote: »

OK I take it his father is either dead or skipped it.
Unless this guys relations are much the same as he is then between them they should be able to raise the money he robbed from you, yes/no ?

He never knew him, his mum "didn't" know who he was so he never had one, his brother and sister are from a different guy, his stepdad, who kicked him out at 16 because he found out he wasn't his real dad. Not a chance in hell will that man try and help me.

I am praying his uncle will

The Satanist

How come the DoneDeal ad for that car is under the seller's name "Adam"?

How did you get on with Amigo loans, OP?

The Satanist

And the name of the Vehicle Licensing Cert "Mr. Adam"?

realdanbreen

Sammyy24 wrote: »

He never knew him, his mum "didn't" know who he was so he never had one, his brother and sister are from a different guy, his stepdad, who kicked him out at 16 because he found out he wasn't his real dad. Not a chance in hell will that man try and help me.

I am praying his uncle will

You need to come clean with your own family and get it sorted. There's no magic solution here so just do it.

The Satanist

Gwan ta fcuk

https://www.donedeal.ie/cars-for-sale/02-golf/23176248

weldoninhio

The Satanist wrote: »

How come the DoneDeal ad for that car is under the seller's name "Adam"?

And it went up 6 days ago. :rolleyes:

BDI

Are you hoping somebody private messages you offering the money on your go fund me?

I remember a thread like this before. Somebody on personal issues I think it was a year or two ago.

Anyway nobody in this country is let starve to death. We have one of the best social welfare systems in the world. If you go homeless tonight you will get emergency accommodation tonight.

Loan sharks will break your legs. Payday lenders are nearly as bad moralwise.

Pretending to need charity when you don’t is the worse thing you can do because it may take away mo eh from somebody who genuinely needs it that was about to be donated it. It also may stop a regular charity donating guy/girl to stop donating if they find they have been made a fool of.

Anyway the fact that you have been working for years now and don’t have a thousand quid or a car worth a thousand quid even though you work in a supposedly good job just makes me feel that if I gave you the money you would just need it again in a few weeks. Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day, teach him to fish and he will eat for life.

weldoninhio

BDI wrote: »

Are you hoping somebody private messages you offering the money on your go fund me?

I remember a thread like this before. Somebody on personal issues I think it was a year or two ago.

Anyway nobody in this country is let starve to death. We have one of the best social welfare systems in the world. If you go homeless tonight you will get emergency accommodation tonight.

Loan sharks will break your legs. Payday lenders are nearly as bad moralwise.

Pretending to need charity when you don’t is the worse thing you can do because it may take away mo eh from somebody who genuinely needs it that was about to be donated it. It also may stop a regular charity donating guy/girl to stop donating if they find they have been made a fool of.

Anyway the fact that you have been working for years now and don’t have a thousand quid or a car worth a thousand quid even though you work in a supposedly good job just makes me feel that if I gave you the money you would just need it again in a few weeks. Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day, teach him to fish and he will eat for life.

It's at best a very poor joke, at worst a scam.

BorneTobyWilde

BDI wrote: »

Are you hoping somebody private messages you offering the money on your go fund me?

I remember a thread like this before. Somebody on personal issues I think it was a year or two ago.

Anyway nobody in this country is let starve to death. We have one of the best social welfare systems in the world. If you go homeless tonight you will get emergency accommodation tonight.

Loan sharks will break your legs. Payday lenders are nearly as bad moralwise.

Pretending to need charity when you don’t is the worse thing you can do because it may take away mo eh from somebody who genuinely needs it that was about to be donated it. It also may stop a regular charity donating guy/girl to stop donating if they find they have been made a fool of.

Anyway the fact that you have been working for years now and don’t have a thousand quid or a car worth a thousand quid even though you work in a supposedly good job just makes me feel that if I gave you the money you would just need it again in a few weeks. Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day, teach him to fish and he will eat for life.

Could give it direct to landlord? Ring him, confirm the situation and then give to him if you are generous enough to do that.

BDI

BDI wrote: »

Loan sharks will break your legs.

That's the shill. Dad needs money for medical bills, and she was helping out an addict.

Heartless bástards the lot of ye! :pac:

BDI

This looks to be the most disgusting thing I have ever seen here. What if I said to myself, hey instead of helping the battered wives refuge out with the few quid I donate each month I will help this poor girl out.

What if the battered wives place had to turn a mother and her family away because of that money.

Sammyy24

Okay, I genuinely don't care what any of you think, I don't want money from anyone on here, I have said it I don't know how many times now. I have come here to ask for advice for fast cash loans, payday lenders and so on.

I was an idiot by helping someone like that and if you really want to know, I did have money, not much but was comfortable and yes, it has all gone by trying to and I guess enabling someone with a serious addiction.

And not that it is anyone's business but my father is a recovering alcoholic, he had a stroke a few months back and is recovering, while getting sober. He was sober for 10 years and relapsed and the reason I only said medical expenses is because it is embarrassing and no one else's business.

Yes the done deal is my exs account, I am selling it there. I don't want anything from anyone, just advice about payday lenders