Loan Shark Needed - URGENT Ex gambled all my money

dodderangler

Sounds more like you have a drug debt and can’t afford it! I smell bull off this post!!!

Sammyy24

The Satanist wrote: »

The car is in "Mr. Adam"'s name, the donedeal account is "Adam" too. You say it's your everyday car, yet his car, which you claim that you bought for him, was in your name before you sold that.

Lots of pieces of your story don't add up.

Think what you like, I bought two cars, one for me and one for him, he's done a runner so I think I'm entitled to try and get myself out of this mess don't you?

Be as judgemental as you want, but at the end of the day, I'm only looking for advice, you're someone who goes out of their way to put people down

Sammyy24

dodderangler wrote: »

Sounds more like you have a drug debt and can’t afford it! I smell bull off this post!!!

I'm not a scumbag, I don't and have never used drugs, call me boring.

Yes, what an awful person I am by asking for advice on payday lenders, I may as well change my name to Walter White.

dodderangler

Sammyy24 wrote: »

I'm not a scumbag, I don't and have never used drugs, call me boring.

Yes, what an awful person I am by asking for advice on payday lenders, I may as well change my name to Walter White.

None of your stories add up. Smell of bull through me phone from your post!!
Glad to see I’m not the only one who doesn’t believe you !
Your “ ex” takes your money which is a criminal offense and instead of getting the Garda involved you go straight to boards.ie? Asking for a loan shark?

LollipopJimmy

Kimbot wrote: »

Yes and forging someone's signature is fraud, if this is real then they could end up in far more bother

Dont be so dramatic. This happens all of the time in the motor trade

Likeabossboss

You must have the worst credit history of all time if provident refuses to loan to you

Jeff2

dodderangler wrote: »

None of your stories add up. Smell of bull through me phone from your post!!
Glad to see I’m not the only one who doesn’t believe you !
Your “ ex” takes your money which is a criminal offense and instead of getting the Garda involved you go straight to boards.ie? Asking for a loan shark?

The money is gone.

Going to the Gardai won't get it back.

Sammyy24

dodderangler wrote: »

None of your stories add up. Smell of bull through me phone from your post!!
Glad to see I’m not the only one who doesn’t believe you !
Your “ ex” takes your money which is a criminal offense and instead of getting the Garda involved you go straight to boards.ie? Asking for a loan shark?

Maybe if you had read the rest of the comments you would see that I have reported him, I have a pulse number for it and everything but it could take weeks to get sorted if it even does, as the garda said, I basically gave him access to my account so it's not exactly stealing and boards is my last resort for finding info on any payday lenders

weldoninhio

Sammyy24 wrote: »

My brother and father already helped me out, or was their money that was taken. My workplace gave me a 500 euro advance, my coworkers either live in rented accom or have families and my friend unfortunately won't help.

As for the banks, no they won't help due to the gambling on the account. Yes I'm an idiot for enabling someone with an addiction, but I also tried to help them with meetings,counselling and just being there for them.

What does it say about you? Coming onto a thread where someone is only looking for advice and picking them apart like this?

I use my bank account for paddy power every week. I’ve never had a loan or overdraft request turned down.

Sammyy24

Likeabossboss wrote: »

You must have the worst credit history of all time if provident refuses to loan to you

I live in an apartment so they won't lend to me as they said I need a front door that leads onto the street, the same as umbrella and r&p

weldoninhio

Sammyy24 wrote: »

Think what you like, I bought two cars, one for me and one for him, he's done a runner so I think I'm entitled to try and get myself out of this mess don't you?

Be as judgemental as you want, but at the end of the day, I'm only looking for advice, you're someone who goes out of their way to put people down

So why was his car in your name (your words) and now we find out your car is in his name??

Likeabossboss

Sammyy24 wrote: »

I live in an apartment so they won't lend to me as they said I need a front door that leads onto the street, the same as umbrella and r&p

Bull ****

Sammyy24

weldoninhio wrote: »

I use my bank account for paddy power every week. I’ve never had a loan or overdraft request turned down.

They have refused me, the bank account was only opened in June so maybe its not old enough? But he said if I show them I can put savings into an account every week for 3 months they might consider it, just doesn't help me now, hence asking about payday lenders

BDI

Just tell the truth, are you a Nigerian prince.

weldoninhio

Sammyy24 wrote: »

They have refused me, the bank account was only opened in June so maybe its not old enough? But he said if I show them I can put savings into an account every week for 3 months they might consider it, just doesn't help me now, hence asking about payday lenders

So the story changes again??

“As for the banks, no they won't help due to the gambling on the account”

Sammyy24

Likeabossboss wrote: »

Bull ****

How is that bs? They literally even say on their sites that they won't lend to someone without a door on the street, unless you have advice about other lenders, jog on

dodderangler

Likeabossboss wrote: »

Bull ****

Seriously smell of bull**** off this poster isn’t there mate? None of her story adds up.
This is definitely someone with a drug debt that won’t admit it. Seen it before tooo many times.

The Satanist

Sammyy24 wrote: »

Think what you like, I bought two cars, one for me and one for him, he's done a runner so I think I'm entitled to try and get myself out of this mess don't you?

Be as judgemental as you want, but at the end of the day, I'm only looking for advice, you're someone who goes out of their way to put people down

I'm not judging you, I'm just asking you to explain the points I made in my post. You don't have to, if course, but you're taking the time to reply to most of us so why do you keep ignoring the questions? I also don't believe I've put you down.

gwalk

Likeabossboss wrote: »

Bull ****

Their website says you need to be a resident in Ireland

Nothing about needing a door that leads to the street

Yer Da sells Avon

Sammyy24 wrote: »

my friend unfortunately won't help.

Even without having read anything else in this thread (I'm a very busy man), I don't blame them. I've lent people money for their rent before and it was very difficult for them to pay me back - because they had to pay their rent again the following month, and the one after that, etc. You might have the best intentions. You might believe that you'll be able to repay them in no time, but life is expensive. Other expenses will crop up. In the absence of someone willing to gift you the money you need, it might be worth coming to some kind of arrangement with the landlord (you might have to cut your losses and lose what you've already paid) immediately and searching for somewhere much cheaper to rent - even if that means staying Mon-Fri in a family's box room while you save.

I'm currently paying close enough to 40% of my wages on renting on my own - After paying the rent, I can afford to live and save a little, but even still, I'm strongly considering sacrificing it all and going back to sharing in the near future because I'm not saving enough.

weldoninhio

weldoninhio wrote: »

So the story changes again??

“As for the banks, no they won't help due to the gambling on the account”

Just by the by too. I used to work for AIB a few years ago. No lender will turn someone down flat, ‘because the account is new’. What they will do is ask for 6 months statements from your previous bank and assess from there. Your story has more holes in it than a soup strainer.

Sammyy24

weldoninhio wrote: »

So the story changes again??

“As for the banks, no they won't help due to the gambling on the account”

How has it changed, he said I should be able to get one because he gambles so I said maybe it's down to the age of the account, there's a question mark there to show that. I don't know, I'm just surmising

Bobblehats

Dear sir(?), you have my deepest sympathies where can I go fund you.

weldoninhio

Sammyy24 wrote: »

How has it changed, he said I should be able to get one because he gambles so I said maybe it's down to the age of the account, there's a question mark there to show that. I don't know, I'm just surmising

You are making statements that are provably untrue, then whinging that people are picking on you when they point out the lies.

Likeabossboss

I hope your sleeping bag if you do go homeless wont have as many holes as this story

The Satanist

Sammyy24 wrote: »

Maybe because I just came on here to ask advice, while I was at work, chucked my thread up, in the time it has been up all I have got is abuse, I have had people sending disgusting messages to me, when what have I actually done wrong except ask for advice and recommendations for payday lenders?

Yes my ex fudged me over, yes it's fkn **** and yes I don't need to explain myself anymore. If I had just come on here, not mentioned anything and just asked for payday lenders do you think I would get people like you trying to make me feel worse than I already do? No

If you have no advice to give, I don't need your two cents. I'm stressed enough without having to prove myself to random people.

The only advice I can offer is to report the messages, stop replying, and next time you want a list of licensed money lenders, Google it.

Sammyy24

weldoninhio wrote: »

You are making statements that are provably untrue, then whinging that people are picking on you when they point out the lies.

I wrote an extremely quick question, asking if anyone knew any payday lenders except x y and z, and all I have gotten is abuse, there are no lies, ex gambled my money and vanished, I'm left picking up the pieces.

I have been refusing to show my gofundme, I have already refused two offers of financial help, all I was looking for is advice, what possible advantage would I get from lying when all I want is advice

Sammyy24

The Satanist wrote: »

The only advice I can offer is to report the messages, stop replying, and next time you want a list of licensed money lenders, Google it.

Thank you.
Will stop replying now.

weldoninhio

Sammyy24 wrote: »

I wrote an extremely quick question, asking if anyone knew any payday lenders except x y and z, and all I have gotten is abuse, there are no lies, ex gambled my money and vanished, I'm left picking up the pieces.

I have been refusing to show my gofundme, I have already refused two offers of financial help, all I was looking for is advice, what possible advantage would I get from lying when all I want is advice

It’s a discussion board, not Google. Your story doesn’t add up whatsoever.

Bigbagofcans

The ad on Gumtree has been taken down..hmm.

Likeabossboss

There’s always hooking

Ginger83

Could you not go on the game for a few nights?

Purple Mountain

Go fund yourself.

weldoninhio

I think this is a thread planted by Boards.ie staffers to try and create some buzz/discussion on AH. It’s very sad if true.

Thread title is looking for a loan shark, which is illegal and afaik you aren’t allowed ask where to find illegal things on boards. (You aren’t even allowed ask for a link ffs) Yet is still allowed lie and waffle for a good few hours throughout the day. Thread starter hasn’t used boards for 2 years until today. Yet it’s still going.

Ninthlife

Ginger83 wrote: »

Could you not go on the game for a few nights?

No need for me to start a thread on my financial woes, the answer to my problem right there ...Thanks Ginger

Anyone looking for a good albeit quick time hit me up on my gofookme page

Likeabossboss

Am I allowed to post a few phone numbers mods or PM the OP since loan sharks are illegal mods?

Since the thread is open I presume it’s okay?

Sammyy24

Bigbagofcans wrote: »

The ad on Gumtree has been taken down..hmm.

No actually someone reported it, the same as the donedeal

Sammyy24

weldoninhio wrote: »

I think this is a thread planted by Boards.ie staffers to try and create some buzz/discussion on AH. It’s very sad if true.

Thread title is looking for a loan shark, which is illegal and afaik you aren’t allowed ask where to find illegal things on boards. (You aren’t even allowed ask for a link ffs) Yet is still allowed lie and waffle for a good few hours throughout the day. Thread starter hasn’t used boards for 2 years until today. Yet it’s still going.

I don't even know why I'm responding but I haven't used it in 2 years because I use reddit and this is geared towards Ireland which is better for help in this country.

Haven't lied or waffled, have refused monetary help from about 6 people at this stage, was just looking for advice. Thanks to the people who reported my gumtree ad and donedeal ad, really know how to kick a girl when she's down.

I really really hope none of you go through a difficult time in your lives.

the whole year inn

Could someone not post a genuine money lender since the op doesn't matter if she wants to pay high apr .
Let that be the end of it .

Ninthlife

Sammyy24 wrote: »

I don't even know why I'm responding but I haven't used it in 2 years because I use reddit and this is geared towards Ireland which is better for help in this country.

Haven't lied or waffled, have refused monetary help from about 6 people at this stage, was just looking for advice. Thanks to the people who reported my gumtree ad and donedeal ad, really know how to kick a girl when she's down.

I really really hope none of you go through a difficult time in your lives.

Its irrelevant whether I believe you or not but After Hours really isnt the place to look for sane or serious advice.

sham58107

WTF , some really nice people on here ! " go on the game" etc
The OP asked a simple question, which is not an option for anyone, but why people want her life story and copies of private details is beyond me.

She is not asking for money or am I reading it wrong ?

Loan sharks are no way to go, but Provident should be able to help, they make money from selling loans so contact one of their agents, it that is your last hope.

Sorry " hope" a bad choice of word, everything will work out, I would suggest having a quiet word with landlord and try to sort something.

Good luck.

hynesie08

I lived in an apartment with a coded gate and door and lived on the 3rd floor, provident didn't even question it, just rang me when he was outside.....

Buford T. Justice XIX

Sammyy24 wrote: »

Thank you.
Will stop replying now.

Mod note: Might be for the best. As suggested before, Google or any search engine should be able to help you find a lender for someone in your position.

Or look into MABS in the morning, they might have better advice than you've had here.

https://www.mabs.ie/en/

I'm closing this down now as I reckon it has gone as far as it can towards being helpful.

Thanks to all for your contributions.

Buford T. Justice.