Are women as desperate for sex?

Shuhada Davitt

Accepting Cookies wrote: »

You didn't watch the video and it was immediately dismissed as "American crap."
It's obvious that it, and the accusations of American university studies, are to be automatically cast aside on that basis alone. Break out the crayons for yourself. You're a keyboard warrior, full of insults and not much more that makes any sense. You're way off topic now. Do get back to the main thread and stop attacking me. Actually, put away the crayons, I think you need a nap.

more drivel.
utter nonsense that nobody cares about.

you are the one attacking. you are attacking men, you have a disgusting horrible attitude and you are unwilling to learn, or hear about anything unless it fits with your sick narrative of hating men and trying to guilt men into feeling bad about things that none of us have done.

if you want to hate men, then hate appropriate ones that have actually done harm and bad things. you cant hate all men just because they're men.

you have a lot to learn darling.

Leg End Reject

Accepting Cookies wrote: »

So it's either Batman status or nothing or all? It's not warped, it's called changing things for the better. If we all did our part, no one person would have to answer the bat call for an entire city, then maybe our children can live in a better world.

:pac:

Leg End Reject

Accepting Cookies wrote: »

This is literally my point. Exactly. You're arguing now for the sake of it.

And just look how well you responded when posters here did just that to you.

Shuhada Davitt

Accepting Cookies wrote: »

So it's either Batman status or nothing or all? It's not warped, it's called changing things for the better. If we all did our part, no one person would have to answer the bat call for an entire city, then maybe our children can live in a better world.

"if we all did our part" - but that's just it - you're sitting there instructing men to hold other men accountable and all this tripe, when what "part" are you playing other than the villian.
the part you are playing is that of the wannabe dictator.

no man or woman would be on board with a single thing you have said.
why not go out and hold women accountable for the horrible attitudes on display here?

for starters, you need to calm down, and step away from the computer for a while.

and wibbs is right to question the validity of an american sourced youtube clip - why? because it is widely known that america has a huge problem with fake news and different groups of extremist viewpoints which nobody in this country should take anything from.

american media is dangerous, and only a fool who can't think objectively for themselves would get washed up in that.

Accepting Cookies

Shuhada Davitt wrote: »

"if we all did our part" - but that's just it - you're sitting there instructing men to hold other men accountable and all this tripe, when what "part" are you playing other than the villian.
the part you are playing is that of the wannabe dictator.

no man or woman would be on board with a single thing you have said.
why not go out and hold women accountable for the horrible attitudes on display here?

for starters, you need to calm down, and step away from the computer for a while.

and wibbs is right to question the validity of an american sourced youtube clip - why? because it is widely known that america has a huge problem with fake news and different groups of extremist viewpoints which nobody in this country should take anything from.

american media is dangerous, and only a fool who can't think objectively for themselves would get washed up in that.

Shuhada, you're an agressive bully, someone who signed up a NEW account just to hide behind a screen name and insult and name call. You're the one who needs to get a life and calm down. It's just a thread on the internet about sex. I know there's a lot of uncomfortable ideas being thrown out there, but there's no need to go so OTT. You're not actually being threatened, buy you're behaving like your life depends on it, lol.

America doesn't have a problem with fake news, Donald Trump does. He throws that phrase around whenever he's confronted with facts and truth, and if you think Ireland is not affected by extremist views then you have no idea about the country you're living in (if you even are). Ireland is also divided on many topics. These men and that video have nothing to do with "fake news," the "american media," or "extremist views" in America. They're just a group of guys who get together to talk about things that affect them and their children. You would know that if you actually watched it. Your OTT comments only prove my point about anti-americanism.

I'm asking you now to leave me alone. You've crossed over into inappropriate personal attacks. You still haven't contributed one useful, on-topic comment in this thread. Get over yourself.

Gynoid

Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »

Out of curiosity, do you have any examples of good male fashion in movies? I feel like now they're all grunting pornstars and don't have the subtleness of Jack Nickolson, James Dean or even Pierce Brosnan.



Straight male, but fashion has always intersted me.

Gosh, Ive never been asked that before Cannot think of a movie star or movie per se. I like my husbands style, though it is variable. It us comfortable and individual, no tight clothes. Nice big woollen jumpers and cords in winter, thick lumberjack shirts for outdoor work, funky unusual shirts for summer, tee shirts are not great on an older guy, a few hand made pieces, like waistcoats, invest in durable classic pieces that last especially coats and shoes. Then he also has ethnic pieces like weird baggy trousers and flowing kurtas for when he is really lounging. I like clothing with a bit of a story on a man - a good friend sources unusual canvas tops online because they are so useful for his hobbies in terms of pockets and design.
Anyway I will stop there before I find out I missed my vocation as a fashion expert

Millionaire only not

JohnnyFlash wrote: »

Most of the time, yes. I in my mid-50’s and in the market for recently separated or divorced women from 40-50. Raw from saw to be honest. Plenty of them were in sexless marriages with Nice Mike and now want something a bit different. Some absolutely filthy women out there. Fantastic!!

Totally agree there out of control when they get there freedom!
Bit of training hey presto ur own porn star!
Just unbelievable what’s going on in little old Ireland!

Shuhada Davitt

Accepting Cookies wrote: »

Shuhada, you're an agressive bully, someone who signed up a NEW account just to hide behind a screen name and insult and name call. You're the one who needs to get a life and calm down. It's just a thread on the internet about sex. I know there's a lot of uncomfortable ideas being thrown out there, but there's no need to go so OTT. You're not actually being threatened, buy you're behaving like your life depends on it, lol.

America doesn't have a problem with fake news, Donald Trump does. He throws that phrase around whenever he's confronted with facts and truth, and if you think Ireland is not affected by extremist views then you have no idea about the country you're living in (if you even are). Ireland is also divided on many topics. These men and that video have nothing to do with "fake news," the "american media," or "extremist views" in America. They're just a group of guys who get together to talk about things that affect them and their children. You would know that if you actually watched it. Your OTT comments only prove my point about anti-americanism.

I'm asking you now to leave me alone. You've crossed over into inappropriate personal attacks. You still haven't contributed one useful, on-topic comment in this thread. Get over yourself.

sorry no, you are ridiculous.
you can't just claim all of the above. i dont need to calm down, as i have been calm the whole way through posting here.

why are you not addressing any of the valid points i made?

the reason you feel personally attacked is because you probably think that what i've said is personally insulting, but it's not the meaning, i am just telling you and the other readers of this thread what MY own opinion is on the matter, and then you come in the thread and say all this horrible stuff about men, try to derail to a thread about how men should treat women better - when the op is about sex. it's not about rape, or sexual harrassment, or anything to do with the points you made.

you derailed to this point, not me. i was annoyed by your posts, as many would be, and you deserve to be told the truth - that your opinion, from what i can gather from people i speak to in reality, not online, is that they wouldnt agree with any of it either.

i am not, nor have i personally attacked you, i was attacking your ideas and your posts.

look at what i quoted up there - that's the method you have been using all along - you make YOUR point, and then when your post is criticised in any way, you go straight for the "boo hoo i feel personally attacked".

i could also say that YOU created a new account to troll - you have very little post count and most of which are in this very thread.

just leave it there with me - i am in no mood to listen to a woman like you.

the only uncomfortable ideas thrown around here were your suggestions and trying to dictate to people about what they should and shouldnt do, or how to treat each other.
i decide how i treat people. if i want to treat someone with disdain i will do so, but usually i would only do that to somebody who deserves it.

i havent done that to you. i have been civil, and actually maybe you're so enraged by me telling you the truth of the world, that your opinion is in the minority and that other women do not agree with the things you say, then you try to say i'm a bully?

you seem to think that you're the only one who gets an opinion around here.

Feisar

JohnnyFlash wrote: »

Most of the time, yes. I in my mid-50’s and in the market for recently separated or divorced women from 40-50. Raw from saw to be honest. Plenty of them were in sexless marriages with Nice Mike and now want something a bit different. Some absolutely filthy women out there. Fantastic!!

“Raw from saw”, the only good thing to come out of this thread.

Accepting Cookies

Shuhada Davitt wrote: »

sorry no, you are ridiculous.
you can't just claim all of the above. i dont need to calm down, as i have been calm the whole way through posting here.

why are you not addressing any of the valid points i made?

the reason you feel personally attacked is because you probably think that what i've said is personally insulting, but it's not the meaning, i am just telling you and the other readers of this thread what MY own opinion is on the matter, and then you come in the thread and say all this horrible stuff about men, try to derail to a thread about how men should treat women better - when the op is about sex. it's not about rape, or sexual harrassment, or anything to do with the points you made.

you derailed to this point, not me. i was annoyed by your posts, as many would be, and you deserve to be told the truth - that your opinion, from what i can gather from people i speak to in reality, not online, is that they wouldnt agree with any of it either.

i am not, nor have i personally attacked you, i was attacking your ideas and your posts.

look at what i quoted up there - that's the method you have been using all along - you make YOUR point, and then when your post is criticised in any way, you go straight for the "boo hoo i feel personally attacked".

i could also say that YOU created a new account to troll - you have very little post count and most of which are in this very thread.

just leave it there with me - i am in no mood to listen to a woman like you.

the only uncomfortable ideas thrown around here were your suggestions and trying to dictate to people about what they should and shouldnt do, or how to treat each other.
i decide how i treat people. if i want to treat someone with disdain i will do so, but usually i would only do that to somebody who deserves it.

i havent done that to you. i have been civil, and actually maybe you're so enraged by me telling you the truth of the world, that your opinion is in the minority and that other women do not agree with the things you say, then you try to say i'm a bully?

you seem to think that you're the only one who gets an opinion around here.

You're actually insane, that's the only thing I'm sure most readers are taking from this.
I didn't say anything horrible about men. Wtf are you actually on about.
You didn't give your own opinion on "the matter," you started attacking me and you haven't stopped though I have asked you to leave me alone.
I never said anything about rape, how many times do you have to be told? Wtf is actually wrong with you. You're in full-on attack mode talking absolute rubbish, you need to step away from this thread because you are obviously seriously triggered.
Stop speaking for everyone else. When you keep feeling the need to pull everyone else in on your comments and presuming to know what they think then it's obvious you're feeling really insecure about your position. Stop derailing this thread by attacking me and actually post something on topic.
You actually don't have to attack me or my posts either. Just showed yourself up there. You can post your opinion and leave it at that. You know thats in the range of possiblities, right? You just admitted you attacked me and my posts and won't admit you're the problem here? Okaaay...
You're not civil actually, and you're the only one coming across as enraged. So enraged you had to sign up a new account to "attack you and your posts."
You're a bully. Asking again that you leave me alone now.

One eyed Jack

SD and AC

Wibbs

Accepting Cookies wrote: »

You didn't watch the video and it was immediately dismissed as "American crap." It's obvious that it, and the accusations of American university studies, are to be automatically cast aside on that basis alone.

Dear God woman, have you lost the ability to read? I've already said I suffered through the first 15 minutes of it. Do you need me to write a dissertation on the bullet points for you? If I did, would that satisfy? I doubt it. Though I'd certainly lose the will to live.

Me. Earlier. wrote:

A bloody narrow view it is indeed and from an even narrower subset of men, couched in American college campus intersectional feminist guff

The bolded bits. Read them. read them a second time until they sink in. A narrow subset of a particular kind of narrow view of American college campus intersectional feminists. Clearly this means I'm denigrating all Americans and hold a grudge against the physics department of MIT and the Harvard history department. That's sarcasm BTW, just in case... Then again intentionally misreading appears to be your forte so just to be sure.

Break out the crayons for yourself. You're a keyboard warrior, full of insults and not much more that makes any sense. You're way off topic now. Do get back to the main thread and stop attacking me.

Ah here we go... can't back up your position, see, more claim everything as an attack, so here comes the victimhood train, step right up, next it'll be accusations of bullying etc. Your intent being of course to crowd out the wrong think. It's equivalent to asking others to stick their fingers in your ears.

Oh and you were the one most responsible for dragging this thread kicking and screaming off topic with all the BS around feminism and #metoo and all the other ChickThink(tm) hysterics. Then again as a feminist woman you're blameless and it's always somebody else's/men's fault, because they're all bullies. Waaaah waaaah. Christ it's like talking with a delicate adolescent. But away you will go further convinced of your worldview and you can tell others how agree with it about all the bad Men(tm) with "toxic masculinity" and that's all that matters. You'll leave out the part where you failed to come up with anything approaching a consistent and cogent argument of course.

This folks is what happens to any philosophy grown in an echo chamber. It doesn't survive much contact with the enemies it has created.

Accepting Cookies wrote: »

You're actually insane, that's the only thing I'm sure most readers are taking from this.

Ehhh I suspect you may have the wrong focus there. Nice try with the appeal to the mob though. I doubt you'll get much succour though.

The One Doctor

Is mr f just Wibbs in disguise I wonder? Wibbs has so many erudite and insightful posts... maybe one day he flipped and started posting rubbish? I used to have a looney Boards alter ego too.

bodhrandude

mr_fegelien wrote: »

as men are? I went to an all boys school and remember how horny the guys were given by their talk about teachers and women that passed by outside. Funny thing is, I have a few female friends and that seems not to be the case. Never hear about women talking about shagging men.

Sure some female friends of mine admire a cute guy, but I've never heard them say "I'd **** him". Is it just not a thing with women? Are men really more desperate?

Ehhh hello guys and gals can we get back to the OP's question again.

Wibbs

The One Doctor wrote: »

Is mr f just Wibbs in disguise I wonder? Wibbs has so many erudite and insightful posts... maybe one day he flipped and started posting rubbish? I used to have a looney Boards alter ego too.

Mr_F definitely has a spreadsheet of potential threads.

jimgoose

Accepting Cookies wrote: »

American crap? A word of advice, just because the men having this conversation in the video are American doesn't make it crap. How is okay to dismiss an entire culture of people and their content as "crap?"

I've been working for and with Americans for 25 years, and you're putting words in my mouth yet again! I'm not talking about the eejits in that video, I'm talking about the rubbish congealing on third-level campuses in some of the more window-lickingly dysfunctional corners of their education system.

Galwayguy35

We are no different to every other animal on the planet, the males want sex and the females pick the best looking ones.

I often hear women say personality is the most important thing but that's BS, if a fella is ugly it doesn't matter how good his personality is he will never get the good looking women.

bfa1509

Mad_maxx wrote: »

Most men are not attractive to most women, a majority of women are attractive enough to most men

Women are picker.

Correction: Most women get many advances by men, all men get no advances by women

Purple Mountain

Kimbot wrote: »

Bots cant be employee's :P

No, him and Vibes are the web version of chain letters.
This thread must be liked by at least 12 people or the world will end.

jimgoose

bfa1509 wrote: »

Correction: Most women get many advances by men, all men get no advances by women

Speak for yourself, chief!

bfa1509

bfa1509 wrote: »

Correction: Most women get many advances by men, all men get no advances by women

jimgoose wrote: »

Speak for yourself, chief!

Fine... all men get no advances by biological women.

jimgoose

bfa1509 wrote: »

Fine... all men get no advances by biological women.

Careful now!

KathleenGrant

mr_fegelien wrote: »

I have a few female friends and that seems not to be the case. Never hear about women talking about shagging men.

Sure some female friends of mine admire a cute guy, but I've never heard them say "I'd **** him". Is it just not a thing with women? Are men really more desperate?

Not one of your female friends ever said I'd shag him? Seriously?

IAMAMORON

I am desperate for a ride after reading all that tripe.

Re Reg City.

KathleenGrant

IAMAMORON wrote: »

I am desperate for a ride after reading all that tripe.

Re Reg City.

I read the tripe and it killed all my urges. Might never get the urge back again!

IAMAMORON

KathleenGrant wrote: »

I read the tripe and it killed all my urges. Might never get the urge back again!

It's ok for you Kathleen, at least women can walk it off....

I am not sure I will ever be the same, I feel mired after reading all the hatred.

I thought screwing was supposed to be fun ?

Where did it all go wrong?

KathleenGrant

IAMAMORON wrote: »

It's ok for you Kathleen, at least women can walk it off....

I am not sure I will ever be the same, I feel mired after reading all the hatred.

I thought screwing was supposed to be fun ?

Where did it all go wrong?

The thread is kinda stupid but I thought the answers be light-hearted. The hate and accusations flying. Serious amount of people in need of a valium or a ride.

Assetbacked

KathleenGrant wrote: »

The thread is kinda stupid but I thought the answers be light-hearted. The hate and accusations flying. Serious amount of people in need of a valium or a ride.

The almost perpetual urge to have sex is either admitted to or not admitted to for men. For women, they have a window of horniess but also a window of pure unreasonableness and vindictiveness. The reason that window exists is because they didn't get the ride during the horny window. Morale of the story, everyone needs the ride regularly.

IAMAMORON

KathleenGrant wrote: »

The thread is kinda stupid but I thought the answers be light-hearted. The hate and accusations flying. Serious amount of people in need of a valium or a ride.

I think I could do with a bit of both if I am honest.

Some lithium riding , that's what I need more of.

KathleenGrant

IAMAMORON wrote: »

I think I could do with a bit of both if I am honest.

Some lithium riding , that's what I need more of.

Would offer to join you but like I said, urges killed...

Aceandstuff

Shuhada Davitt wrote: »

i know i'm literally brand new here, but i had to register after reading this thread.

Can i point out that "accepting cookies" and the "SarahDunners" are most likely the same person??

the writing style is the exact same, and they arent posting in real time together. one dissapears as the other takes the helm.

jus saying.

either way - both of these people are talking about something completely different to the OP.... how is that helpful to people if they want to look up a particular topic but then they click into that topic or thread and its about something else??

maybe i have a bit to learn about the site, but it seems a bit mad to allow 2 false profiles to have an argument with themselves about something completely different to the original post.

Sockpuppet accounts. Straw feminists. Bait.

They said some feminist-sounding things at the beginning, and followed it up with more and more intentional misinterpretations of other people's posts, hate, and pure nonsense. This is a thread hijacking technique, and nothing more. Now everyone is on about how feminism is the worst thing in the world. People keep feeding the trolls, and this is why an honest discussion is almost impossible to have in this day and age.

I'm not going to get into a debate on feminism, masculinity, or anything else, but it's "good" to see where some posters stand on these issues.

Accepting Cookies wrote: »

America doesn't have a problem with fake news, Donald Trump does.

:pac::pac::pac:

dark crystal

Galwayguy35 wrote: »

We are no different to every other animal on the planet, the males want sex and the females pick the best looking ones.

I often hear women say personality is the most important thing but that's BS, if a fella is ugly it doesn't matter how good his personality is he will never get the good looking women.

Lyle Lovett, Johnny Vegas, Woody Allen & Jay-Z would argue with your hypothesis...

Reviews and Books Galore

KathleenGrant wrote: »

The thread is kinda stupid but I thought the answers be light-hearted. The hate and accusations flying. Serious amount of people in need of a valium or a ride.

And I just wanted to talk about sex

Reviews and Books Galore

Aceandstuff wrote: »

Sockpuppet accounts. Straw feminists. Bait.

They said some feminist-sounding things at the beginning, and followed it up with more and more intentional misinterpretations of other people's posts, hate, and pure nonsense. This is a thread hijacking technique, and nothing more. Now everyone is on about how feminism is the worst thing in the world. People keep feeding the trolls, and this is why an honest discussion is almost impossible to have in this day and age.

I'm not going to get into a debate on feminism, masculinity, or anything else, but it's "good" to see where some posters stand on these issues.


:pac::pac::pac:

I don't think they're sockpuppets imo.

IAMAMORON

KathleenGrant wrote: »

Would offer to join you but like I said, urges killed...

Oh Kathleen , that is very thoughtful off you. Thanks.

KathleenGrant

Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »

And I just wanted to talk about sex

Me too. Will we start our own sex chat.

IAMAMORON

I am going to go upstairs and watch some Japanese Hentai cartoons.

KathleenGrant

IAMAMORON wrote: »

I am going to go upstairs and watch some Japanese Hentai cartoons.

Didn't have a clue googled no wiser.

Arghus

Great thread so far. Full of the genuinely hilarious stuff you hope to read when you see another men vs women thread with over 200 replies.

Pity that Sarah Dunners Accepting Cookies has closed their account

IAMAMORON

KathleenGrant wrote: »

Didn't have a clue googled no wiser.

It is Japanese cartoon pornography, it is my new favourite thing. After Gin, Pineapple and Grapefruit juice that is.

Sardonicat

KathleenGrant wrote: »

Didn't have a clue googled no wiser.

STOP! You don't want to know.

Reviews and Books Galore

KathleenGrant wrote: »

Me too. Will we start our own sex chat.

I might scare you

Wibbs

KathleenGrant wrote: »

Didn't have a clue googled no wiser.

This is a good thing KG.

dark crystal wrote: »

Lyle Lovett, Johnny Vegas, Woody Allen & Jay-Z would argue with your hypothesis...

True dat DC. Just looking around my male friends, yes the good looking guys were generally in demand, but of all of them the men I've known with the least difficulty in finding women throughout their lives and good looking women to boot, were not exactly blessed in the traditional good looks department. And before the question is raised, nope they're not rich either and two of them are knee high to a grasshopper. What they have in common is they're gregarious, a bit of craic to be around, don't play games, are content to the point of giving few fecks and don't sweat the small stuff.

KathleenGrant

Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »

I might scare you

Intrigued.

Reviews and Books Galore

Leg End Reject wrote: »

Woman's opinion here, but I'd say ignore fashion and go for a more classic look unless you're in the teen-mid 20s age bracket.

It would be disturbing if young men dressed like young women. You know, makeup to make the eyes look more 'heated', shoes to make them taller, padded shirts to give the appearance of an adult male, various other padding, and gloves to make the hands look larger and more masculine.



It kind of sounds like a horror movie :P

KathleenGrant

Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »

It would be disturbing if young men dressed like young women. You know, makeup to make the eyes look more 'heated', shoes to make them taller, padded shirts to give the appearance of an adult male, various other padding, and gloves to make the hands look larger and more masculine.



It kind of sounds like a horror movie :P

Sounds like the kind of movie that needs to be made.

Sardonicat

Papaya499 wrote: »

Personality is a much bigger factor for men in being attractive to the opposite sex. Look at a short little gremlin like Conor McGregor. Even if he were poor he'd have no problem attracting beautiful women because of his personality. Many women will deny and try to ignore the tingle between their legs, but it's true.

His 'personality ' would kill my tingle stone dead

valoren

Mad_maxx wrote: »

Most men are not attractive to most women, a majority of women are attractive enough to most men

Women are picker.

Women have an advantage. They wear make up.

Arghus

Sardonicat wrote: »

Excuse me?! Are you actually trying to tell someone what they do or don't find attractive! Aggression turns me off. Overly beefed up bodies nauseate me. That doesn't change depending on my menstrual cycle.

He's trying to get a reaction.