Are women as desperate for sex?

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valoren wrote: »

Women have an advantage. They wear make up.

A woman's make up is great imo. Can really tell a lot by what type of makeup a woman's wearing.



I have a theory of not trusting women with bright red lipstick :P

KathleenGrant

Sardonicat wrote: »

Excuse me?! Are you actually trying to tell someone what they do or don't find attractive! Aggression turns me off. Overly beefed up bodies nauseate me. That doesn't change depending on my menstrual cycle.

Have to agree.

The One Doctor

I've got it! Mr f is really Kevin "The anti-Semite" Myers!

Millionaire only not

Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »

A woman's make up is great imo. Can really tell a lot by what type of makeup a woman's wearing.



I have a theory of not trusting women with bright red lipstick :P

Ud be a fool to trust anyone of them !
Myself and a good friend of mine compare notes and omg how bold they are given the opportunity - married unmarried , no difference .
Every bit as bad as men and worse, I’d never trust one of them again!

KathleenGrant

The One Doctor wrote: »

I've got it! Mr f is really Kevin "The anti-Semite" Myers!

I think it's someone hired by boards to keep the site alive for to generate money from advertising.

AllForIt

In my view women are desiderata for sex...which is why I do men instead :pac:

Leg End Reject

Millionaire only not wrote: »

Ud be a fool to trust anyone of them !
Myself and a good friend of mine compare notes and omg how bold they are given the opportunity - married unmarried , no difference .
Every bit as bad as men and worse, I’d never trust one of them again!

Sure we'd ride you sideways when you're not looking.

Ubbquittious

Everyone loves an auld shaggeen now and then

Loving the special gloves idea. Great stuff, couldn't make it up.

So many of the posts on this thread should be read in Dwight Shrutes voice.

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Candie wrote: »

Loving the special gloves idea. Great stuff, couldn't make it up.

So many of the posts on this thread should be read in Dwight Shrutes voice.

Was that directed to me? :P

Wibbs

KathleenGrant wrote: »

Not one of your female friends ever said I'd shag him? Seriously?

That's what I was thinking too KG. Do these guys have women mates? Jaysus the ones I have would be not backward in coming forward with the I'd shag him or variety of that stuff. In private anyway. I have found women less likely in general to bring up the subject in the first place, and much less so around guys they might be actually interested in, but when it does come up...

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Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »

Was that directed to me? :P

Not just your post, there are so many notable ones on this thread it would be unfair to single just one out.

ArchXStanton

valoren wrote: »

Women have an advantage. They wear make up.

I said it awhile back in the thread, make up and all the other fake stuff gives them an extra 2 or
3 points on the attractiveness scale, as you get older you tend to kinda see through it though

Millionaire only not

Leg End Reject wrote: »

Sure we'd ride you sideways when you're not looking.

Doesn’t mean I still don’t like my female friends- lol
The power a woman has to let us between yer legs is underestimated !

Drifter50

mr_fegelien wrote: »

as men are? I went to an all boys school and remember how horny the guys were given by their talk about teachers and women that passed by outside. Funny thing is, I have a few female friends and that seems not to be the case. Never hear about women talking about shagging men.

Sure some female friends of mine admire a cute guy, but I've never heard them say "I'd **** him". Is it just not a thing with women? Are men really more desperate?

Could we kindly wrench /pull deflect this thread back on topic. Where are all the male posters with something relevant to say cos I`m interested in the responses. Probably because Ive never come across a woman that wants sex or admires an ordinary guy. Yes, yes, plenty of women like Brad Pitt Jonnny Depp Jurgen Klopp etc etc but it seems to be only in outer space that regular women fancy regular blokes Certainly not generally so here

So lets have some repsponses

Andrew00

Us men would shag just about any girl but women won't shag any man unfortunately.

They'll only shag good looking men

Simmer down

Jurgan Klopp

M.T. Cranium

Yes they are, and then I woke up.

KathleenGrant

Wibbs wrote: »

That's what I was thinking too KG. Do these guys have women mates? Jaysus the ones I have would be not backward in coming forward with the I'd shag him or variety of that stuff. In private anyway. I have found women less likely in general to bring up the subject in the first place, and much less so around guys they might be actually interested in, but when it does come up...

Maybe our group of friends are just outspoken but we have a level
Shag if I was made to
Shag if I paid
Shag if I was drunk
Shag if I was bored
Would shag
Would totally shag
Would pay to Shag
Would shag in Dunnes Stores doorway on a Friday.

Ok tongue in cheek stuff but women do like sex.

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Candie wrote: »

Not just your post, there are so many notable ones on this thread it would be unfair to single just one out.

Ah well, fair enough, but you would be suprised how much a man's hands can play a part in attraction. I guess they can evoke feelings of comfort, protection, fatherliness, hard working, sacrifice, rough sex, so on and so forth.



sure imagine a strong looking man, big shoulders, strong tighs, and then imagine him with small hands with stumpy fingers. It's not necesarilly the most appealing thing in the world :P

Sardonicat

Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »

Ah well, fair enough, but you would be suprised how much a man's hands can play a part in attraction. I guess they can evoke feelings of comfort, protection, fatherliness, hard working, sacrifice, rough sex, so on and so forth.



sure imagine a strong looking man, big shoulders, strong tighs, and then imagine him with small hands with stumpy fingers. It's not necesarilly the most appealing thing in the world :P

I hate to break it to you, Reviews, but a good pair of hands with long, nimble fingers are attractive for much baser reasons than the ones you outlined above. ....

ITman88

Drifter50 wrote: »

Could we kindly wrench /pull deflect this thread back on topic. Where are all the male posters with something relevant to say cos I`m interested in the responses. Probably because Ive never come across a woman that wants sex or admires an ordinary guy. Yes, yes, plenty of women like Brad Pitt Jonnny Depp Jurgen Klopp etc etc but it seems to be only in outer space that regular women fancy regular blokes Certainly not generally so here

So lets have some repsponses

I think the range and band of desireable guys women would have sex with, happens to be similar to the kinda girls guys would hypothetically marry, let’s say a band of attractiveness in the 9-10 scale.
The type of girls guys would happily marry are kind of rare, similar to the type of man women would openly have sex with

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Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »

sure imagine a strong looking man, big shoulders, strong tighs, and then imagine him with small hands with stumpy fingers. It's not necesarilly the most appealing thing in the world :P

Indeed, just ask President Tiny Hands.

KathleenGrant

ITman88 wrote: »

I think the range and band of desireable guys women would have sex with, happens to be similar to the kinda girls guys would hypothetically marry, let’s say a band of attractiveness in the 9-10 scale.
The type of girls guys would happily marry are kind of rare, similar to the type of man women would openly have sex with

**** me but a lot of over thinking going on. I'm in my late 50's. It wasn't hard back then. Nobody was on about types and hypothetically situations. You met a lad, you clicked or you didn't. There was none of this bull**** there is now. Or am I wrong?

ITman88

KathleenGrant wrote: »

**** me but a lot of over thinking going on. I'm in my late 50's. It wasn't hard back then. Nobody was on about types and hypothetically situations. You met a lad, you clicked or you didn't. There was none of this bull**** there is now. Or am I wrong?

It was once that way, I think online dating is incredibly complicated nowadays.
It’s perhaps in part due social media etc.
I could bet my life online dating is different now than it was in the 1970s😂

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Sardonicat wrote: »

I hate to break it to you, Reviews, but a good pair of hands with long, nimble fingers are attractive for much baser reasons than the ones you outlined above. ....

Call me educated

KathleenGrant

ITman88 wrote: »

It was once that way, I think online dating is incredibly complicated nowadays.
It’s perhaps in part due social media etc.
I could bet my life online dating is different now than it was in the 1970s😂

I was dating in the 70's and 80's. There was no online dating.

The Princess Bride

KathleenGrant wrote: »

**** me but a lot of over thinking going on. I'm in my late 50's. It wasn't hard back then. Nobody was on about types and hypothetically situations. You met a lad, you clicked or you didn't. There was none of this bull**** there is now. Or am I wrong?

You're so so right.
Everything is over analysed and the craic is gone out of dating.
Yeah, back then, so he approached you for the slow set or the shift at 1.50AM, feCk, we didn't complain cos we were having fun too.

Jeez if a lad produced a pic of his cocK back in the 80s, I'd have foaled laughin'.
Now?
For some it's like handing out a CV.

Am waiting for OP to start a thread asking who had sex today/this week/this month/this decade.

Ten of Swords

Don't be giving him ideas :mad:

KathleenGrant

The Princess Bride wrote: »

You're so so right.
Everything is over analysed and the craic is gone out of dating.
Yeah, back then, so he approached you for the slow set or the shift at 1.50AM, feCk, we didn't complain cos we were having fun too.

Jeez if a lad produced a pic of his cocK back in the 80s, I'd have foaled laughin'.
Now?
For some it's like handing out a CV.

Am waiting for OP to start a thread asking who had sex today/this week/this month/this decade.

Thanks I feel so out of touch at work sometimes but mostly I feel sorry for the young people. Apart from all the regular worries and insecurities i had when dating they need to worry about dating sites, social media, is he/ she sharing this, did he/she google this, porn sites, unrealistic expectations in film/on tv, oversexualisation in music industry.

Oh my God! I have used the term "the young people". I have turned into my mother!

IAMAMORON

Andrew00 wrote: »

Us men would shag just about any girl but women won't shag any man unfortunately.

They'll only shag good looking men

The beauty of alcohol. It really has its' qualities. All the barfights, nasty brawling, street puking, obscene gesturing, family quarrels, hangovers, pants peeing, illegal driving, AA meeting attending etc etc and it all relates back to one single thing ….

Men wanting to get the ride.

If there was no alcohol I really don't see how we would have survived?

It is almost like a love potion, so many women out there turn into man-eaters after 3 glasses of Cab Sav. The pheromones run riot. It is almost a rite of passage, slug slug, slurp slurp and it's handbags to the dance floor. Arse pinching and groin grabbing. It all kicks off once the alcohol arrives.

Deebles McBeebles

KathleenGrant wrote: »

I think it's someone hired by boards to keep the site alive for to generate money from advertising.

Pass it on.

So women like sex and Jurgen Klopp is up there with Brad Pitt. That's what I've learned.

Andrew00

Andrew00 wrote: »

Us men would shag just about any girl but women won't shag any man unfortunately.

They'll only shag good looking men

I completely agree with your first sentence and completely disagree with your second one.

Its really not about good looks its about attractiveness and its difficult to explain tbh.Some good looking men are attractive but I personally rarely fancy them myself. It can be how he dresses, his arms,his height, his nice hands lol,its so hard to explain.
You said it yourself, men will sleep with the majority of women but it's not that we won't it's that we can't, there has to be something about a man that appeals to us ,we cant scratch that itch with just anyone..unfortunately.

I'm not explaining it well but theres a reason that theres so many options for men to pay for it and practically non e for us,we'd be wasting our money because unless we genuinely fancied the man it wouldn't do anything for us.

Gynoid

I really dont think most men would sleep with any woman. Crikey. Maybe I am bewildered.

Deebles McBeebles

Gynoid wrote: »

I really dont think most men would sleep with any woman. Crikey. Maybe I am bewildered.

No, you're right. IMO anyway. We would certainly be less picky though.

Gynoid

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

No, you're right. IMO anyway. We would certainly be less picky though.

Heh, the ones I know would be fairly picky! And here is another heresy - men are more romantic than women.

Deebles McBeebles

Gynoid wrote: »

Heh, the ones I know would be fairly picky! And here is another heresy - men are more romantic than women.

Thats an interesting one. I think men feel more pressure to be romantic and so probably try harder in that regard. Thats a massive generalisation though in fairness.

Dr. Bre

Christmas is a great time to go on the pull no matter how ugly you are . Single Women are desperate to meet men around Christmas time

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Dr. Bre wrote: »

Christmas is a great time to go on the pull no matter how ugly you are . Single Women are desperate to meet men around Christmas time

+1,you'd pull at Christmas and new year's eve.

Gynoid

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

Thats an interesting one. I think men feel more pressure to be romantic and so probably try harder in that regard. Thats a massive generalisation though in fairness.

Its just, for examples, the small boys I have known can be so romantic about little girls, very idealistic, perceptive of unusual facets of beauty, men are the very romantic poets, even novelists, women can be very pragmatic of necessity, the romantic idea has been a luxury for women, historically, I mean. I have a little book of love letters from famous men, and I can guarantee women would not write with such expansive abandon...though having said that a lot of the same famous love letter writers were also shagging the scullery maid.

KathleenGrant

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

Pass it on.

So women like sex and Jurgen Klopp is up there with Brad Pitt. That's what I've learned.

I'd do Klopp.

Deebles McBeebles

KathleenGrant wrote: »

I'd do Klopp.

I'd give him one too, so long as he kept repeating "Ya, its cool" in his smooth German accent.

jimgoose

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

I'd give him one too, so long as he kept repeating "Ya, its cool" in his smooth German accent.

That Baden-Württemberg lilt of his is quite pleasant, actually.

suicide_circus

this is all really basic animal biology.

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IAMAMORON wrote: »

The beauty of alcohol. It really has its' qualities. All the barfights, nasty brawling, street puking, obscene gesturing, family quarrels, hangovers, pants peeing, illegal driving, AA meeting attending etc etc and it all relates back to one single thing ….

Men wanting to get the ride.

If there was no alcohol I really don't see how we would have survived?

It is almost like a love potion, so many women out there turn into man-eaters after 3 glasses of Cab Sav. The pheromones run riot. It is almost a rite of passage, slug slug, slurp slurp and it's handbags to the dance floor. Arse pinching and groin grabbing. It all kicks off once the alcohol arrives.

Careful. Some countries are passing drunk women cannot consent malarkey laws.



I'm not afraid of a false accusation myself (as a woman wouldn't feel out of power with me), but you never know

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Deleted User wrote: »

Its really not about good looks its about attractiveness and its difficult to explain tbh.Some good looking men are attractive but I personally rarely fancy them myself. It can be how he dresses, his arms,his height, his nice hands lol,its so hard to explain.
You said it yourself, men will sleep with the majority of women but it's not that we won't it's that we can't, there has to be something about a man that appeals to us ,we cant scratch that itch with just anyone..unfortunately.

Not really. The thing is that many men don't fall into the stereotype of being willing to shag anything that is female. Oh, that might have been true when we were in our early teens, although again, many guys I know, weren't interested in sex with someone they considered unattractive (physically or mentally). They held out until they found someone they truly found attractive and went on from there.

I've always had a standard that I've held to, and I rarely break it (twice in 30 years). I won't sleep with the majority of women because sex, itself, isn't incredibly important. This is what young guys/gals seem to miss in understanding. There's a lot of bad sex out there and it's not solely the responsibility of the male for it happening. Personally, I find I have to hold to certain standards, because by not doing so, leads to a complete waste of time, since I won't remember that person or the encounter (in a positive manner) a few weeks later, if at all. It's better to spend that time with someone worthy of the attention, and if I don't have someone, then it's reason to find him/her.

I'm not explaining it well but theres a reason that theres so many options for men to pay for it and practically non e for us,we'd be wasting our money because unless we genuinely fancied the man it wouldn't do anything for us.

Pretty much although it's the inborn drives within either gender. Males "tend" to be more physical than women so they're less interested initially in the emotional connection, and more interested in the physical. A lot of it biological, but there's also a fair degree of social conditioning too. When dating, for a male, a woman's appearance is first and foremost the drive, with compatibility in attitudes coming somewhere after. Whereas women tend to focus on the emotional aspect with the physical being secondary.

However, with the internet and changes in social conditioning, such things are changing with more women judging first on appearance with personality lagging behind, because the focus has shifted away from relationships, and more towards sexual experiences.

Given some time, it's likely that we'll see a growth in the paid sex for women as they become more expressive about their sexuality and the traditional dating routines decline, especially should the drive to make all males into perceived sexual predators become more commonplace..

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Deleted User wrote: »

Given some time, it's likely that we'll see a growth in the paid sex for women as they become more expressive about their sexuality and the traditional dating routines decline, especially should the drive to make all males into perceived sexual predators become more commonplace..

China and Korea seem to be quite into male's appearance I think?

Drifter50

Drifter50 wrote: »

Could we kindly wrench /pull deflect this thread back on topic. Where are all the male posters with something relevant to say cos I`m interested in the responses.

I can only go off personal anecdotes - mostly from talking with friends either individually or while playing the occasional game of truth/dare.

But nothing in my anecdotal experience makes me think women are any less interested in sex, or want to have it any less than men. There are just many factors that lead them to indulge less than men would. The three more obvious of those factors being - they can get pregnant - men are lauded for getting lots of sex encounters but women are derided for it often - and of course the safety aspect of making yourself vulnerable to what is more often than not a more powerful individual.

What does always strike me consistently though is if we ever get onto the topic of sexual fantasies or bucket lists the answers from the gals are often much deeper and elaborate than what you get from the guys.

The guys usually have one or two word answers. "Threesome" and "anal" or "older woman / Younger woman" seemingly featuring often. Maybe a non-standard location. Or they would name specific people they would want to have sex with.

The gals however tend to have some of the more eye opening and intricate answers. Like they have thought them out long and deep and hard (the scenarios - not the sex - though probably that too). And sometimes the eye brows get sent to the back of my head by the sources as the more "out there" answers come from the gals I would have considered the most innocent or quiet.

So if anything my experience - the mileage of others likely varies - is that if anything women are more preoccupied with sex on some levels than guys are.

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Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »

China and Korea seem to be quite into male's appearance I think?

I don't quite understand the point you're making.

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Deleted User wrote: »

I can only go off personal anecdotes - mostly from talking with friends either individually or while playing the occasional game of truth/dare.

But nothing in my anecdotal experience makes me think women are any less interested in sex, or want to have it any less than men. There are just many factors that lead them to indulge less than men would. The three more obvious of those factors being - they can get pregnant - men are lauded for getting lots of sex encounters but women are derided for it often - and of course the safety aspect of making yourself vulnerable to what is more often than not a more powerful individual.

What does always strike me consistently though is if we ever get onto the topic of sexual fantasies or bucket lists the answers from the gals are often much deeper and elaborate than what you get from the guys.

The guys usually have one or two word answers. "Threesome" and "anal" or "older woman / Younger woman" seemingly featuring often. Maybe a non-standard location. Or they would name specific people they would want to have sex with.

The gals however tend to have some of the more eye opening and intricate answers. Like they have thought them out long and deep and hard (the scenarios - not the sex - though probably that too). And sometimes the eye brows get sent to the back of my head by the sources as the more "out there" answers come from the gals I would have considered the most innocent or quiet.

So if anything my experience - the mileage of others likely varies - is that if anything women are more preoccupied with sex on some levels than guys are.

In fairness, there is more judgement, as you can see from this thread, in regards to male sexuality. I am sure those men have deep and intricrate fantasies but they would be prefer not to be laughed at or demonised :P