Bigger women - secretly liked

Wibbs

Trigger Happy wrote: »

I like a bigger lady but not too big. Skin and bones is not attractive at all imo.

It's also very subjective where those definitions lay. One person's "fat" is another's "average" and that average has tended to go more upwards weight wise. "Normal" weight is heavier than it used to be for many.

Segotias

Secretly I'm sure plenty do. From personal experience as a bigger woman I've no problem getting a man into bed but a date is a different thing altogether.

I'm not hideous but find most prefer to be seen with smaller women. Those who like extremely large women tend to be more along the fetish line and I don't want to be someones fetish.

I think the line "there's a woman you'll bring to bed and there's a woman you'll take out to meet the family" larger tend to be the former and in secret

Dial Hard

Segotias wrote: »

Secretly I'm sure plenty do. From personal experience as a bigger woman I've no problem getting a man into bed but a date is a different thing altogether.

I'm 5' 7", a size 10 and classic hourglass - I've a very small waist and DD boobs - and I haven't had sex in almost 3 years. Make of that what you will!

Alecto

Dial Hard wrote: »

I'm 5' 7", a size 10 and classic hourglass - I've a very small waist and DD boobs - and I haven't had sex in almost 3 years. Make of that what you will!

But I'm assuming you've had offers but haven't been interested?

Segotias

Dial Hard wrote: »

I'm 5' 7", a size 10 and classic hourglass - I've a very small waist and DD boobs - and I haven't had sex in almost 3 years. Make of that what you will!

Don't know what to tell you there, is it that you've had offers but you've turned them down.

It's no great compliment to be wanted just for sex

Alecto

Segotias wrote: »

Don't know what to tell you there, is it that you've had offers but you've turned them down.

It's no great compliment to be wanted just for sex

I have absolutely no problem having casual sex with men. Never have. Relationships are a whole other issue though.

EDit

Dial Hard wrote: »

I'm 5' 7", a size 10 and classic hourglass - I've a very small waist and DD boobs - and I haven't had sex in almost 3 years. Make of that what you will!

I’m going to assume that’s because you don’t want someone to have sex with you just because you are 5' 7", a size 10 and classic hourglass, with a very small waist and DD boobs. That is a good thing IMO

Mad_maxx

Segotias wrote: »

Secretly I'm sure plenty do. From personal experience as a bigger woman I've no problem getting a man into bed but a date is a different thing altogether.

I'm not hideous but find most prefer to be seen with smaller women. Those who like extremely large women tend to be more along the fetish line and I don't want to be someones fetish.

I think the line "there's a woman you'll bring to bed and there's a woman you'll take out to meet the family" larger tend to be the former and in secret

some guys cant do any better than a big lady , go heavy or go alone

Ush1

I think the blokes should post there ethnicity also. #blackblokesloveabigwhitewoman

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts

BeerWolf wrote: »

Curvy sure, rolls of fat obese with underarm wings **** no!

Obesity should always be discouraged, not accepted as a norm...

Right but at the same time, I have no interest in hectoring or even making any comments at all towards obese folks because

a) I’m far from perfect myself. Flaws a-plenty.

and

b) they are well aware that they are obese. Or overweight anyway and I don’t really care if they classify themselves as obese or overweight.

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Homelander wrote: »

With both men and women it really depends on the way the weight is held. Personally I like bigger pear or (generally) hourglass shaped women at all as much as slender or athletic, both are equally appealing in different ways. Similarly many women are OK with a stocky or husky guy, but less so with a man who carried it disproportionately, like having a slender waist/legs but a big gut.

It's a funny perception thing despite it being all about genetics really. Woman A and Woman B could have the exact same height and frame and diet, but one could develop a heavy pear or hourglass shape, while the other develops a gut and big double chin. While I would generally find the former appealing the latter is the polar opposite to the point of personal revulsion.

So when people ask questions like "Do you like bigger girls/guys", it's pretty much impossible to answer with a black/white answer really, unless you're a person who's exclusively attracted to people who are slim/athletic/skinny (which is fine as a preference).

Nigella Lawson is a good example. She gained a lot of weight a few years back and still looked pretty darn good. Her beautiful face helped of course but she could just carry the extra weight really well.

Plumbthedepths

I like a woman who can be described as voluptuous, think Nigella Lawson a couple of years ago. I draw the line at land whales.

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Plumbthedepths wrote: »

I like a woman who can be described as voluptuous, think Nigella Lawson a couple of years ago. I draw the line at land whales.

But not at triteness apparently.

Plumbthedepths

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts wrote: »

But not at triteness apparently.

Thanks, the old ones are sometimes the best. ;-)

iguana

the_syco wrote: »

Not a fan of being able to see their rib cage.

The rib cage is visible for the vast majority of people when they are at a healthy weight.

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iguana wrote: »

The rib cage is visible for the vast majority of people when they are at a healthy weight.

But to varying degrees of definition. I suspect he means really being able to see it.

Felix Jones is God.

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts wrote: »

Nigella Lawson is a good example. She gained a lot of weight a few years back and still looked pretty darn good. Her beautiful face helped of course but she could just carry the extra weight really well.

I think Nigella Lawson was a fantastic looking woman when she was approx size 16..and when she lost weight... nope...it didn't work...
IMO, she lost her physical sex appeal..her face actually started to look tired and drawn, and her bum and boobs shrank...Jesus, even I remember 1 episode where she had a midnight snack in her red nightgown...the papers and Twitter were hopping the next day, ...no fatshaming, just a lot of people gushing over a very attractive woman in her 50's.....I do miss that version of Nigella myself I must admit

DellyBelly

I like chubbier girls myself. 2 of my favourites would be classed as a liitle chubby but still very beautiful Scarlet Johanson and Jennifer Lawrence. Gorgeous women despite not being "skinny"

We have significantly different definitions of 'chubby'.

misterme123

DellyBelly wrote: »

I like chubbier girls myself. 2 of my favourites would be classed as a liitle chubby but still very beautiful Scarlet Johanson and Jennifer Lawrence. Gorgeous women despite not being "skinny"

Wow, chubbiness really is in the eye of the beholder.

Segotias

Mad_maxx wrote: »

some guys cant do any better than a big lady , go heavy or go alone

Wow I'm guessing we should all be grateful then so that these men can't do better so we can stand a chance of finding a man :eek:

Segotias

Alecto wrote: »

I have absolutely no problem having casual sex with men. Never have. Relationships are a whole other issue though.

Nor do I if that's what you fancy. It gets old though if that's all that's on offer

SusieBlue

DellyBelly wrote: »

I like chubbier girls myself. 2 of my favourites would be classed as a liitle chubby but still very beautiful Scarlet Johanson and Jennifer Lawrence. Gorgeous women despite not being "skinny"

Neither of those women are, or ever were, remotely chubby

Don Joe

DellyBelly wrote: »

I like chubbier girls myself. 2 of my favourites would be classed as a liitle chubby but still very beautiful Scarlet Johanson and Jennifer Lawrence. Gorgeous women despite not being "skinny"

Crazy talk.

Plumbthedepths

Hmmm...




https://images.app.goo.gl/rHv2NaPirHz5acdk8

limnam

I'd hop off lawson any size any time anywhere :pac:

limnam

limnam wrote: »

I'd hop off lawson any size any time anywhere :pac:

Very pretty, and wouldn't kick her out of bed for her cooking, but...





Still a no.

DellyBelly

DellyBelly wrote: »

I like chubbier girls myself. 2 of my favourites would be classed as a liitle chubby but still very beautiful Scarlet Johanson and Jennifer Lawrence. Gorgeous women despite not being "skinny"

Jesus, what do you consider skinny - Ms Anorexia 2019?

Deebles McBeebles

Deleted User wrote: »

Very pretty, and wouldn't kick her out of bed for her cooking, but...


Still a no.

Just don't tell her that. I'm sure she'd be f*cking devastated.

Deebles McBeebles

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

Just don't tell her that. I'm sure she'd be f*cking devastated.

Too late, and she was, but she consoled herself with a bacon butty.

nkl12xtw5goz70

I would not blame any woman for feeling insecure about her body type or weight after reading this thread. Even the stunningly beautiful Scarlett Johansson and Jennifer Lawrence described as "chubby"...?

ceadaoin.

Tegan Flaky Marathon wrote: »

I would not blame any woman for feeling insecure about her body type or weight after reading this thread. Even the stunningly beautiful Scarlett Johansson and Jennifer Lawrence described as "chubby"...?

Why do you think that blatant nonsense written by some person on boards.ie would make female posters feel insecure? I think we all know that guy is talking ****e.

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Scarlett Johansson chubby? I shamefully admit I have seen the leaks nudes of her and I’ve never seen a more perfect arse and waist. And on a crappy phone camera with poor lighting.

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Obvious Desperate Breakfasts wrote: »

Scarlett Johansson chubby? I shamefully admit I have seen the leaks nudes of her and I’ve never seen a more perfect arse and waist. And on a crappy phone camera with poor lighting.

Leaks? She's completely starkers in a movie, COMPLETELY, and there's not a pick on her.

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She has an hour glass figure like, she's curvy, but I'll eat my hat if she's bigger than a size ten.

I think when she first started her career she would have stuck out a bit more because the small-framed very skinny look was more in style but nope, she ain't chubby.

But, I do agree she and Lawrence are gorgeous. That lean but not super toned, slim but not skinny figure is a beautiful thing to behold.

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Deleted User wrote: »

Leaks? She's completely starkers in a movie, COMPLETELY, and there's not a pick on her.

Oh, I haven’t seem those films.

Mad_maxx

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts wrote: »

Nigella Lawson is a good example. She gained a lot of weight a few years back and still looked pretty darn good. Her beautiful face helped of course but she could just carry the extra weight really well.

She was never fat, incredibly sensual woman

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Mad_maxx wrote: »

She was never fat, incredibly sensual woman

Ah no, she was quite overweight for a while. No doubt about it.

harry Bailey esq

Alecto wrote: »

So my question is, do you think it's not as rare as we're led to believe and that some men secretly like bigger women

I'm sure some of the chaps do 'secretly' like bigger women, but there's plenty more who make no secret of it, in my peer group at least. I'll tell you something though, bigger girls (single ones,on the market, looking etc etc) get more action than than your run of the mill, ten a penny, single, orange Barbie girls. I'm not going to explain why, as to an unaccustomed ear I'd sound like a complete mysogynist bastard, which I'm not btw. But the theory is solid. I've an analogy about fergies last six seasons at United that would wholly vindicate me if I explained my theory, but that would take me too long to type out. Besides it's too early in the day and im too f*ckin sober too be putting the time into it. Welcome back btw

Better Than Christ

Some girls are bigger than others. Some girls' mothers are bigger than other girls' mothers.

I don't have any real preference. Not in an "any hole's a goal" kind of way or anything - I'm actually way fussier than I ought to be. It's just that I've been attracted to women of various different shapes and sizes over the years, from underweight to average weight to overweight. Although I've never actually weighed them. The only common denominator is a nice face (oh yeah and personality, blah, blah, blah).

mikeym

I love the big beautiful women.

hullaballoo

My wife is a big girl and I'd never been with a big girl before her, all my exes were "perfect" 10s or 12s with curves. I'm with my wife nearly 10 years and haven't looked back.

Not sure what the attraction is but I suppose you can't rule out gravity. :pac:

Raconteuse

DellyBelly wrote: »

I like chubbier girls myself. 2 of my favourites would be classed as a liitle chubby but still very beautiful Scarlet Johanson and Jennifer Lawrence. Gorgeous women despite not being "skinny"

They're slim with curves. Chubbier than really thin yes, but not in any way actually chubby in its true sense.

Bobblehats

You don’t be pokin’ the fire while you’re... dusting the mantelpiece is this correct?

antimatterx

I'd give it to them up the arse and **** off. That's it. I would not marry them.

Bobblehats

Some people look better fat.

antimatterx

antimatterx wrote: »

I'd give it to them up the arse and **** off. That's it. I would not marry them.

You'll be sorry if Elf on the Shelf sees your post and you'll be getting coal on Christmas morning. Now go to bed.

antimatterx

Deleted User wrote: »

You'll be sorry if Elf on the Shelf sees your post and you'll be getting coal on Christmas morning. Now go to bed.

Once I get a skinny girl with ambition I'm G.


Fat birds are not highflyers

the_syco

NewRed2 wrote: »

You wear boots?

Yup. Cosy & waterproof; https://global.danner.com/men/law-enforcement/acadia-8-black.html

NewRed2 wrote: »

Of course if we're talking about obesity to the point of health issues then yeah you need to be careful but aside from that live and let live.

Live & let live is cool, but when the person gets so obese that they must depend on others to help them live, it'll be too late.

Mad_maxx wrote: »

curvy and fat are not the same thing.

Heck, curvy can mean very different things, depending on country!

Curvy in Irish Tinder; round.

Curvy in Toronto Tinder; big boobs, big ass, but slim waist.

Dial Hard wrote: »

I'm 5' 7", a size 10 and classic hourglass - I've a very small waist and DD boobs - and I haven't had sex in almost 3 years. Make of that what you will!

That you only spread your legs for someone who you like after you get to know them?

Bobblehats

People fluctuate but they will always be...how do we say that person.