Bigger women - secretly liked

ILoveYourVibes

Alecto wrote: »

I'd really like if this could not turn into a fatty bashing thread but I won't hold my breath. So I'm a size 16-18 myself and while I'd definitely like to be toned and less wobbly, I'm not too bothered about my actual size, though my self esteem tends to fluctuate. I actually prefer bigger women myself. I used to be on this feeder website and I was really surprised how many men loved chubby and bigger women. So my question is, do you think it's not as rare as we're led to believe and that some men secretly like bigger women but it's not acceptable in society to say so?

I think men like bigger women. I think bigger women are beautiful.

I'm small ...petite as i like to say..:) That's me.

I think bigger women are gorgeous too...we're all beautiful

harry Bailey esq

antimatterx wrote: »

I'd give it to them up the arse and **** off. That's it. I would not marry them.

I read that in Eamonn deValeras voice. An odd post, but amusing to my drug addled brain. Why up the arse though? I mean, each to their own and all that but eh if yer gonna do that you might as well go to up to Newry and ride a bloke no?

ILoveYourVibes

antimatterx wrote: »

Once I get a skinny girl with ambition I'm G.


Fat birds are not highflyers

I am a skinny girl with zero ambition. I find your post .....silly.:)

Dial Hard

Alecto wrote: »

But I'm assuming you've had offers but haven't been interested?

Not really, tbh. I've no issue at all with casual sex if I get chatting to a guy and the spark is there. I just very, very rarely get chatting to anyone anymore. Part of that is because I just don't go out a whole lot, most of my socialising is done with my family over food and it tends to be weekend afternoons rather than nights. But even when I do go out I just very rarely see anyone I like the look of, tbh. I've no issue making the approach, there just seems to be a distinct shortage of people *to* approach!

SusieBlue

Dial Hard wrote: »

Not really, tbh. I've no issue at all with casual sex if I get chatting to a guy and the spark is there. I just very, very rarely get chatting to anyone anymore. Part of that is because I just don't go out a whole lot, most of my socialising is done with my family over food and it tends to be weekend afternoons rather than nights. But even when I do go out I just very rarely see anyone I like the look of, tbh. I've no issue making the approach, there just seems to be a distinct shortage of people *to* approach!

Yeah I’d be similar.
I would have always said I wasn’t fussy or overly picky, I probably even posted here saying so, but it turns out I really am.
Not even in a shallow way, but I just have a specific type personality and looks wise and I find it very hard to build a connection or attraction with men who don’t fit that mould. I’d obviously rather not be that way but I can’t force feelings!

Montage of Feck

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She looks great in that picture ffs.

Segotias

SusieBlue wrote: »

Yeah I’d be similar.
I would have always said I wasn’t fussy or overly picky, I probably even posted here saying so, but it turns out I really am.
Not even in a shallow way, but I just have a specific type personality and looks wise and I find it very hard to build a connection or attraction with men who don’t fit that mould. I’d obviously rather not be that way but I can’t force feelings!

You can't force something so no point in making yourself, it'd never work out.

I'd never approach someone, usually if I see someone I like the look of I'll assume they're out of my league and not bother...this thread certainly highlights that if you're bigger you're going to be someones secret or fetish so approaching a bloke in public would probably be a disaster

banie01

Dial Hard wrote: »

I'm 5' 7", a size 10 and classic hourglass - I've a very small waist and DD boobs - and I haven't had sex in almost 3 years. Make of that what you will!

Where were you when I was bloody single?

Hooked up with my now wife in 2012....
If you have dark hair i may have to go and start banging my face against the wall!
Then tinder exploded and i missed all that :pac:

On the subject at hand however.
I have a type, that type would be somewhere between the Corr sisters, and Selma Hayek or Nigella Lawson
Picture that as a spectrum....

Luckily for me, both my wives are well on the spectrum

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts

SusieBlue wrote: »

Yeah I’d be similar.
I would have always said I wasn’t fussy or overly picky, I probably even posted here saying so, but it turns out I really am.
Not even in a shallow way, but I just have a specific type personality and looks wise and I find it very hard to build a connection or attraction with men who don’t fit that mould. I’d obviously rather not be that way but I can’t force feelings!

You know, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being a bit picky. People are so afraid of being single that they’ll settle for relationships that aren’t right.

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts

Segotias wrote: »

You can't force something so no point in making yourself, it'd never work out.

I'd never approach someone, usually if I see someone I like the look of I'll assume they're out of my league and not bother...this thread certainly highlights that if you're bigger you're going to be someones secret or fetish so approaching a bloke in public would probably be a disaster

I think the thread has been mostly positive, tbh.

Raconteuse

Ush1 wrote: »

I think the blokes should post there ethnicity also. #blackblokesloveabigwhitewoman

"If you a white woman and black guys start checkin' you out, you need to get yo' ass to the gym!" - Chris Rock

Segotias

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts wrote: »

I think the thread has been mostly positive, tbh.

Everyone's perceptions are their own. Someone saying that men can't do better so go for bigger women so they don't go home alone wouldn't be positive in my books.

And some of the women mentioned as being bigger wouldn't be bigger in realistic terms.

Also some have gone from bigger which was asked about to curvy which as stated is worlds apart, a size 10 can be curvy.

It hasn't given me any confidence in wanted to approach someone

Shapely yes, round no.

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts

Segotias wrote: »

Everyone's perceptions are their own. Someone saying that men can't do better so go for bigger women so they don't go home alone wouldn't be positive in my books.

And some of the women mentioned as being bigger wouldn't be bigger in realistic terms.

Also some have gone from bigger which was asked about to curvy which as stated is worlds apart, a size 10 can be curvy.

It hasn't given me any confidence in wanted to approach someone

What about all the posts from people saying they’ve fancied people of different sizes or that they prefer bigger women? It would unlikely to have full agreement on it.

Segotias

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts wrote: »

What about all the posts from people saying they’ve fancied people of different sizes or that they prefer bigger women? It would unlikely to have full agreement on it.

I supposed I'm relating back to the real world outside of AH where its not quite the truth, they might hook up with you but not marry or be seen with you. I think someone said as much

Felix Jones is God.

Raconteuse wrote: »

"If you a white woman and black guys start checkin' you out, you need to get yo' ass to the gym!" - Chris Rock

I adore a big ass!!!

And I'm whiter than Caspar

Pauliedragon

HappyAsLarE wrote: »

I’d tea bag a fatty but I wouldn’t marry one, if ya get me

This is why I love boards. I applaud you. 😅