Has she right to be upset

Supersiderman

With my partner over ten years. Anytime she is on her period, I refuse to have sex with her. Now a bit of back history, during my 20’s and 30’s, I’ll admit I slept with 10 prostitues. She knows about this. She gets annoyed saying oh you will sleep with up to 10 brazzers that had hundreds of c..k up them but you can’t sleep with your partner when I’m on my time of month.

My question is, has she a right to feel like this and am I a hypocrite.

Akrasia

Supersiderman wrote: »

With my partner over ten years. Anytime she is on her period, I refuse to have sex with her. Now a bit of back history, during my 20’s and 30’s, I’ll admit I slept with 10 prostitues. She knows about this. She gets annoyed saying oh you will sleep with up to 10 brazzers that had hundreds of c..k up them but you can’t sleep with your partner when I’m on my time of month.

My question is, has she a right to feel like this and am I a hypocrite.

Where to start.....

Is this a real thread or are you taking the piss?

endacl

If she’s upset she has a right to be upset.

Can’t speak to the hypocrisy question. Only you can answer that one.

Supersiderman

Akrasia wrote: »

Where to start.....

Is this a real thread or are you taking the piss?

No far from a piss take.

05eaftqbrs9jlh

Anything over seven prostitutes and you're actually obliged to have sex with menstruating women.

Supersiderman

endacl wrote: »

If she’s upset she has a right to be upset.

Can’t speak to the hypocrisy question. Only you can answer that one.

Thanks, that’s why I came on here for an advice/opinion. I know most women would run a mile if they knew about the brazzers. I think she feels that I think she’s more “dirtier” down there then them. Just trying to get a better understanding

Akrasia

Supersiderman wrote: »

No far from a piss take.

You need to compromise, big dildo and latex gloves should cover most of it

Supersiderman

Ensley Teeny Fluff wrote: »

Anything over seven prostitutes and you're actually obliged to have sex with menstruating women.

I have slept with my partner and I was like this is horrible in the sense of it’s blood

Supersiderman

Just to be clear this isn’t a piss take thread but I’m trying to understand her point of view.
Thanks

Purple Mountain

endacl wrote: »

If she’s upset she has a right to be upset.

Can’t speak to the hypocrisy question. Only you can answer that one.

Of course she has a right to be upset if something has upset her but is it justified is the question?
I'm a woman and I don't think so.
The OP has a right not to want to have sex with someone when it doesn't feel right for him.
The history with prostitutes shouldn't even come into it.
If the genders were reversed and a woman posted on her saying she didn't want to have sex with her male partner when he was menstrual (if biology allowed), I'll bet she'd get a different answer. Just sayin!

Supersiderman

She feels that I’m making her out “her body” to be more dirtier, unhygienic then brazzers who yes I know can have numerous men a day/week for years and this is what upsets her

Akrasia

Supersiderman wrote: »

Just to be clear this isn’t a piss take thread but I’m trying to understand her point of view.
Thanks

The compromise answer is the answer. If she wants sex during her period then she needs to be open to alternatives to vaginal penetration if it’s something you are (understandably) reluctant to do.

Sex toys are wide and varied and can accommodate both of your needs

Dtp1979

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Supersiderman

She wants to have sex with me.

Akrasia

Supersiderman wrote: »

She wants to have sex with me.

After 10 years that novelty will have worn off

Atlantic Dawn

Was it 10 prostitutes at the same time?

Supersiderman

I don’t like having sex with her on her period but she throws in my face my past and I’m here asking what’s the best solution.
I know most women would run a mile when they find out which she hasn’t

Supersiderman

Would you be with your partner if you found out about this

Tom Mann Centuria

All of a sudden a partner of 10 years wants sex whilst menstruating, or all of a sudden, after years of enduring sex with woman who's menstruating, OP snaps and seeks help on boards (after years of not posting anything).

Yeah, I call shenanigans.

Supersiderman

Tom Mann Centuria wrote: »

All of a sudden a partner of 10 years wants sex whilst menstruating, or all of a sudden, after years of enduring sex with woman who's menstruating, OP snaps and seeks help on boards (after years of not posting anything).

Yeah, shenanigans. Utter shenanigans.

Just to clarify, I only admitted it to her in the last year.

woodchuck

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