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Is this technically assault? No??

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  • #102
    kowloonkev
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,672 ✭✭✭kowloonkev


    bubblypop wrote: »
    I dont believe I saw anyone advise the OP to endure a long court trial?
    Of course, seeing as how you don't think a husband can rape his wife, I'm not surprised you don't think she should report him. Also, you shouldn't be advocating violence or threats of violence as some kind of defence. I think this is a bad enough relationship without bringing more violence into it, & actively encouraging her own children to get involved is just wrong.


    OP, as some on here have advised, it is rape, just so you are aware & do not allow yourself to be persuaded otherwise. What you do about it it entirely your decision. Don't think for a minute you are in the wrong, you are not.
    This is not a healthy relationship & I think everyone will advise you to leave, anyway you can.

    Please don't fabricate opinions and blatantly lie in order to satisfy your outrage and prolong a disagreement.

    I never said a husband can't rape his wife and I didn't advocate violence. I advised the OP to have someone with her who is a physical match to stop him attacking her. It called being proactive.

    Mods, I know I have not included any new advice for the OP here but I think it's that the dishonesty of the post I quoted is addressed.


  • #103
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 18,749 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    kowloonkev wrote: »
    I think a marriage certificate is consent unless he was threatening or physically abusive during the act or she said no for whatever reason.
    .

    here you are, you don't believe a man can rape his wife unless he uses violence.

    A marriage certificate is NOT consent..


  • #104
    crazy maisie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16 ✭crazy maisie


    I am so sorry for this happening to you. What he did was not just assault, it was RAPE. Even in marriages and relationships, non-consensual sex is rape. He should not have done this. You should ring rape crisis centre for advice and direction.
    Also relationship counselling could help him see that he was wrong.


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