Revenge porn

mr_fegelien

Does anyone know of any real life examples in Ireland? I think it was only just made illegal last year. Browsing 4chan, I saw one of my former classmates on an "Irish Sluts" thread. Unexpected but this country is a small place

Arghus

"Browsing 4chan..."

Lewis_Benson

You start the strangest threads on here.

colm_mcm

mr_fegelien wrote: »

Does anyone know of any real life examples in Ireland? I think it was only just made illegal last year. Browsing 4chan, I saw one of my former classmates on an "Irish Sluts" thread. Unexpected but this country is a small place

You must have yourself torn asunder.

TheValeyard

It's a scummy thing to do and people should be prosecuted for sharing intimate things like that without consent.

10pennymixup

Genuinely, truthfully never heard of it. (4 Chan)

Sound like an abbreviation of a Channel 4 online thing.

corner of hells

mr_fegelien wrote: »

Does anyone know of any real life examples in Ireland? I think it was only just made illegal last year. Browsing 4chan, I saw one of my former classmates on an "Irish Sluts" thread. Unexpected but this country is a small place

4chan , so that's where you go when your not posting in AH.

LeYouth

Yawn, this thread.

touts

mr_fegelien wrote: »

Does anyone know of any real life examples in Ireland? I think it was only just made illegal last year. Browsing 4chan, I saw one of my former classmates on an "Irish Sluts" thread. Unexpected but this country is a small place

I do but your mum made me swear I wouldn't tell you.

Panda Killa

Indeed, I'm actually keeping an eye on a blog about a chef and his local (to me) current girlfriend who took money from his ex..and made threats about posting her images....so I'd say while not common..it definitely happens

Always Be Closing

My ex is now a pornstar

She’ll be delighted when she finds out

anewme

Asking people on boards to give you details of illegal websites?

Just gets better.

Quantum Erasure

Arghus wrote: »

"Browsing 4chan..."

the other 4chan

pgj2015

serious question here for the ladies. when your boyfriend takes a picture or video of you naked, do you think he keeps it to himself?

Flavour Diaper

Was expecting a poll.

Dravokivich

pgj2015 wrote: »

serious question here for the ladies. when your boyfriend takes a picture or video of you naked, do you think he keeps it to himself?

What are you suggesting?

Quantum Erasure

Flavour Diaper wrote: »

Was expecting a poll.

that's what she said....

Ultrflat

If your putting up videos of intimate encounters, in an attempt to shame humiliate or get back at a person..

You should essentially be put on some form of sexual predator list. Utterly disgusting thing to do.

Vestiapx

Dravokivich wrote: »

What are you suggesting?

It's clear what he's suggesting, I'm sure loads of people treat the boudoir pics with the intimacy that they deserve but many many lads are insecure children that can't help but boast in every and all ways they can to help them feel important.

Vestiapx

Ultrflat wrote: »

If your putting up videos of intimate encounters, in an attempt to shame humiliate or get back at a person..

You should essentially be put on some form of sexual predator list. Utterly disgusting thing to do.

Sexual predator is a bit much, but I agree that there should be harsh penalties.

Ultrflat

Vestiapx wrote: »

Sexual predator is a bit much, but I agree that there should be harsh penalties.

Harsh? I think its fair. Some hateful human putting a video of some one having sex, Imagine how you'd feel after 1000 people watched it tugging the stomach of them selves. To something you never consented to being put in the public eye it should be viewed as an act of a sexual predator.

The very nature of revenge porn is to humiliate, violate and hurt someone. How is that any different to pedophilia or rape?

AckwelFoley

My ex posted a revenge porn video of me online. It was so short she could have made it into a .gif

jammiedodgers

mr_fegelien

The thing about revenge porn is, does it really affect someone as much in 2020 compared to if it was posted in the early noughties?

If you had told people when the internet began that in not to short time, people would be posting images of themselves at home, on holidays, etc on social media, they would have been utterly perplexed by how stupidly open someone is. One would have thought it wouls bring a lot of attention.

But posting your entire life is what happens today on Facebook, Instagram and no one gives a **** about it. Ironically, everyone openly posting about their life means that it won't attract attention.

My thinking is that this is the same with revenge porn. There is so much pornography online that if someone were to put a video of you sucking dick for 20 minutes, it would be part of the millions of videos that already exist on thousands of internet sites. Thus, no one would take notice and this would barely affrct your life.

As i told you, one of my classmates in secondary school had her nudes uploaded online. I don't think it's affected her much.

Laura99

pgj2015 wrote: »

serious question here for the ladies. when your boyfriend takes a picture or video of you naked, do you think he keeps it to himself?

Yes, because I trust him.

ArchXStanton

Who even sends someone a nude photo/video, honestly it's a recipe for disaster

ahnowbrowncow

Laura99 wrote: »

Yes, because I trust him.

And you should continue to trust him, your videos are great.

eviltwin

A friend of mine had revenge porn posted online, hidden camera, no consent given. There were threats to send it to her job, family and friends. Absolutely horrific thing to do to someone. The name doesn't help, it's not always a leaked picture you chose to be a part of and even if you do, it's still a violation.

Ultrflat

Ultrflat wrote: »

The very nature of revenge porn is to humiliate, violate and hurt someone. How is that any different to pedophilia or rape?

because it is neither pedophilia nor rape

for the record, it should be an offence

but classing every offence that involves sex as full on sexual assault is a retrograde and counterproductive instinct

JupiterKid

It’s a very good reason why I have never, and would never, consent to have intimate or revealing photographs, video etc of me taken by anyone.

It is an absolutely vile and despicable thing to do to someone.

TheValeyard

TheValeyard wrote: »

It's a scummy thing to do and people should be prosecuted for sharing intimate things like that without consent.

On the face of it, yes. But it depends on what the other person did and whether they deserve it too.

Laura99

ahnowbrowncow wrote: »

And you should continue to trust him, your videos are great.

Haha thanks. Don't do videos but I've been with my OH for a very long time. If we were to break up and my pics were leaked, I wouldn't be embarrassed because we were in a long term, loving, healthy relationship. I think it shows his character, not mine. I also ensure I look good in them, just in case 😉

Mrcaramelchoc

JupiterKid wrote: »

It’s a very good reason why I have never, and would never, consent to have intimate or revealing photographs, video etc of me taken by anyone.

It is an absolutely vile and despicable thing to do to someone.

12 hail marys and an our father for even thinking of it. do it now quickly.

Ultrflat

Deleted User wrote: »

because it is neither pedophilia nor rape

for the record, it should be an offence

but classing every offence that involves sex as full on sexual assault is a retrograde and counterproductive instinct

I get where your coming from, but again, out side the more normal aspects of some one, posting a sex tape. You've also got to look at how that person will be seen by family members, friends in a social setting, walking down the street or even going to work or how that would affect their employment opportunity's.

You agree it should be an offence. But you think its some how counterproductive to class them as a sexual predator and that my attitude is backwards?

The only person who's going backwards is the narcissistic vindictive ass clown who released the video. And shows a complete lack of basic respect or humanity. Much like a rapist and a pedophile.

I think classing them in that way, would harsh but also may make a lot of people who would think about doing it realize that there are indeed hefty repercussions. For doing so.

Church on Tuesday

ReginaldSmythV wrote: »

On the face of it, yes. But it depends on what the other person did and whether they deserve it too.

It's no real excuse and completely un gentlemanly.

And if things did end that badly it's better to be the bigger person and have some class.

Omackeral

mr_fegelien wrote: »

Browsing 4chan, I saw one of my former classmates on an "Irish Sluts" thread. Unexpected but this country is a small place

It’s really, really not with you.


Really not.

RWCNT

ReginaldSmythV wrote: »

On the face of it, yes. But it depends on what the other person did and whether they deserve it too.

Nonsense. You can't share revenge porn in self defence. Outside of some kind of utterly ridiculous hypothetical situation there is zero excuse for it whatsoever.

Feisar

Church on Tuesday wrote: »

It's no real excuse and completely un gentlemanly.

And if things did end that badly it's better to be the bigger person and have some class.

Carrying oneself with a certain level of class seems to be a lost art.

Church on Tuesday

Feisar wrote: »

Carrying oneself with a certain level of class seems to be a lost art.

I agree, it also is a sign of self respect.

How would people feel towards someone who came home to find their wife in bed with some guy, who subsequently cleaned out their joint account, and stopped him seeing their kids by accusing him of molesting them etc, posting some revenge porn?

Two wrongs don't make a right and all that, and of course it's wrong, but in some very limited circumstances I would have sympathy.

Church on Tuesday

Deleted User wrote: »

How would people feel towards someone who came home to find their wife in bed with some guy, who subsequently cleaned out their joint account, and stopped him seeing their kids by accusing him of molesting them etc, posting some revenge porn?

Two wrongs don't make a right and all that, and of course it's wrong, but in some very limited circumstances I would have sympathy.

What would that achieve though?

If it were me, I'd be looking to get the best solicitor I could find and take things from there.

eviltwin

[Deleted User] wrote: »

How would people feel towards someone who came home to find their wife in bed with some guy, who subsequently cleaned out their joint account, and stopped him seeing their kids by accusing him of molesting them etc, posting some revenge porn?

Two wrongs don't make a right and all that, and of course it's wrong, but in some very limited circumstances I would have sympathy.

Any sympathy I'd have for someone in that position would be gone the moment they posted revenge porn. Makes you just as bad as her.

ILoveYourVibes

I don't look good during sex no one wants to see that.

greenspurs

this person …. another sex/sex related thread

stop feeding …… !!!

tayto lover

Ah FFS three pages and no pictures. Waste of time.

CrankyHaus

[Deleted User] wrote: »

How would people feel towards someone who came home to find their wife in bed with some guy, who subsequently cleaned out their joint account, and stopped him seeing their kids by accusing him of molesting them etc, posting some revenge porn?

Two wrongs don't make a right and all that, and of course it's wrong, but in some very limited circumstances I would have sympathy.

I'd have sympathy for anyone in that situation but it would be heavily eroded if they shared revenge porn, which leads into the next point.
Leaving aside the moral issues I'd consider him a massive idiot for prejudicing himself in his legal troubles by acting that way.

Anyway how often is this the case with revenge porn? It's such a weirdly specific circumstance that it feels like you're jumping through hoops to justify revenge porn.

Ultrflat

Ultrflat wrote: »

The very nature of revenge porn is to humiliate, violate and hurt someone. How is that any different to pedophilia or rape?

Hmmm, a choice between having my naked pictures posted on a porn site or having a man lie on top of me forcing his cock up my ass?
Not sure about you but I'd probably go with the old photographs on a website option.

Ultrflat

Deleted User wrote: »

Hmmm, a choice between having my naked pictures posted on a porn site or having a man lie on top of me forcing his cock up my ass?
Not sure about you but I'd probably go with the old photographs on a website option.

All I'm saying is I think its as utterly deplorable as any other sex crime, I'm not trying to compare them. There's a huge difference and both can create large physiological hurdles for people

How ever you can make the punishment so harsh, that it intimidates people from doing it.

circadian

mr_fegelien wrote: »

Does anyone know of any real life examples in Ireland? I think it was only just made illegal last year. Browsing 4chan, I saw one of my former classmates on an "Irish Sluts" thread. Unexpected but this country is a small place

4chan.

The penny has dropped.

LillySV

4chan... thanks for the tip!!! 😀

Church on Tuesday

Church on Tuesday wrote: »

It's no real excuse and completely un gentlemanly.

And if things did end that badly it's better to be the bigger person and have some class.

Nah, gentlemanly doesn’t come into it. Obviously people break up for other reasons but if she was riding your mate or brother or something then game on.