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What's the best way to turn a laddish guy into a middle class man?

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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,078 ✭✭✭IAMAMORON


    Runners are also a big no no.

    If you are exercising you are naturally allowed and entitled to wear sportswear. But wearing sports gear in an inappropriate circumstance is just being lazy and tasteless.

    Anyone casually wearing a track " suit " .... is obviously a working class scrote. Even blingy types don't get middle class acceptance, we know what you are up to. Pff.


  • Site Banned Posts: 280 ✭✭CertifiedSimp


    Beige chinos.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,250 ✭✭✭Seamai


    IAMAMORON wrote: »
    Runners are also a big no no.

    If you are exercising you are naturally allowed and entitled to wear sportswear. But wearing sports gear in an inappropriate circumstance is just being lazy and tasteless.

    Anyone casually wearing a track " suit " .... is obviously a working class scrote. Even blingy types don't get middle class acceptance, we know what you are up to. Pff.

    What about "active wear"? Seems to have become the go to uniform for a large chunk of the population.


  • Posts: 2,077 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    A Helly Hansen coat. With kids who wear Under Armor sports wear.


  • Posts: 17,378 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    IAMAMORON wrote: »
    Runners are also a big no no.

    If you are exercising you are naturally allowed and entitled to wear sportswear. But wearing sports gear in an inappropriate circumstance is just being lazy and tasteless.

    Anyone casually wearing a track " suit " .... is obviously a working class scrote. Even blingy types don't get middle class acceptance, we know what you are up to. Pff.

    It depends on the runners and the situation.. I'm about to go for bias in jeans, a shirt, and my Tigers. No way I'm putting on shoes to meet the lads.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,189 ✭✭✭dinneenp


    Was listening to this song last week. It's about a laddish, working class guy who suddenly develops a love of things that are middle-class and unladdish. He is also a more open minded person, who doesn't mind the fact that people are gay and who doesn't read the Star any more because he "prefer(s) a boring article to a bird in pants and bra".
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gnuepN9EvTw
    What I wanna know is... how would you transform a laddish guy into someone more sophisticated?

    Do you have a BF and want to do this to him?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28 mikecope


    IAMAMORON wrote: »
    I am profoundly middle class. I am only polite to working class folk as a courtesy. But quite deep down I cannot bring myself to trust them and secretly hold them in contempt.

    It is the climbers who phucked everything all up. I find that most working class climbers ( especially successful hard working types ) are literally no craic anyways or either. They smell a bit sometimes too. I hate their smell and their fake smiles. I love it when they put on a posh accent though, I like to see them trying at least, even though I know they are bores and a waste of time. The biggest indicator of a climber is overpriced new cars, always trashy. Don't forget old money = old cars, it is a simple formula.

    I also seethe at Culchies. That includes posh types from Cork City or Killkenny, thats right, I just see a culchie.

    On a final note I looooooove working class women. Especially foul mouthed inner city Dublin types. They turn me on, I love a bit of rough. Also culchie climbers. I love women from Roscommon who are trying to score a rich guy in the "big schmoke", I love it when they adopt the posh accent, instant turn on.
    Username checks out!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,431 ✭✭✭Sky King


    IAMAMORON wrote: »
    Runners are also a big no no.

    If you are exercising you are naturally allowed and entitled to wear sportswear. But wearing sports gear in an inappropriate circumstance is just being lazy and tasteless.

    Anyone casually wearing a track " suit " .... is obviously a working class scrote. Even blingy types don't get middle class acceptance, we know what you are up to. Pff.

    I know your posts in this thread are obviously a p!sstake, but if you really wanted to come across as upper class and sophisticated, you would strive to appear a lot more accepting of those of a different socioeconomic background.

    I refer to inate classiness - a politeness that would put a coarser man at ease rather than make him feel inadequate. Understated manners and broader life outlook that really only comes with an excellent education, and exposure to many other walks of life through voracious, varied reading and extensive travel. Think Stephen Fry.

    Your posts smack of vulgarity of the basest sort - utterly lacking in refinement.

    Good day to you.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,315 ✭✭✭nthclare


    Class is only an illusion, and the illusion has no class.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,189 ✭✭✭dinneenp


    Speaking of trying to climb the social ladder, watch this great film



  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,078 ✭✭✭IAMAMORON


    Seamai wrote: »
    What about "active wear"? Seems to have become the go to uniform for a large chunk of the population.

    You might get away with sailing or hiking gear, even a golf jumper. But this only makes you middle classless rather than middle class, you get a pass if you are on your way or coming home from your preferred pastime or activity. Rugby jerseys also, big no no. I always giggle at working class types shouting at Lansdowne road, wearing a Leinster or Ireland jersey. OMG. Middle class types might wear their club or university scarf to a match, but jerseys are for peasants and knackers, even I know that.

    Proper middle class dress properly. A nice well fitting suit to work. Drive responsibly. Eat well and party hard, when necessary. If you are dressing casually dress casually, but sports gear is a definite faux pas, unless you are actively participating.

    It reminds of lefties like Richard Boyd Barrett, Paul Murphy or Eoin Ó'Broin. You can take the man from the posh south Dublin housing estate but you can't take the posh south Dublin housing estate out of the man. All these guys are quintessential middle class and dress appropriately. Kites in a whirlwind all things said.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,078 ✭✭✭IAMAMORON


    It depends on the runners and the situation.. I'm about to go for bias in jeans, a shirt, and my Tigers. No way I'm putting on shoes to meet the lads.

    Watch out long term for ailments such as athletes foot. Your middle class pals ( the real ones ) are also sniggering at you btw. Get some nice comfy shoes and put them on.

    Women won't go for you either. Not if you are wearing runners. Smelly feet etc, they don't like that unless they are too drunk to notice.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 798 ✭✭✭Yyhhuuu


    In my experience many middle class people hate working class people especially in Dublin where there is a huge class divide. Ironically in Dublin the working class can be far nicer people than the stuck up perceived middle or upper middle class, many of whom come from a thatched cottage if you trace far back enough. I myself come from a long line of medics going back generations. I find some working class people like those in shops or security can be very petty minded and vindictive, just plain mean and the higher the pay scale the more 'polished' people become. However, I can't stand social climbers who often have ostentatious displays of wealth to cover up their insecurities. Is class nowadays defined exclusively by your profession or is it also defined by ones net wealth.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,078 ✭✭✭IAMAMORON


    Yyhhuuu wrote: »
    In my experience many middle class people hate working class people especially in Dublin where there is a huge class divide. Ironically in Dublin the working class can be far nicer people than the perceived stuck up middle or upper middle class, many of whom come from a thatched cottage if you trace far back enough. I myself come from a long line of medics going back generations. I find some working class people like those in shops or security can be very petty minded and vindictive, just plain mean and the higher the pay scale the more 'polished' people become. However, I can't stand social climbers who often have ostentatious displays of wealth to cover up their insecurities. Is class nowadays defined exclusively by your profession or is it also defined by ones net wealth.

    What is bred in the marrow comes out in the bone. The apple rarely falls far from the tree.

    I think you need to spend at least 3 to 4 generations at a profession before you can really declare yourself properly middle class. There is too much opportunity around and an awful lot of imposters.

    Primary school teaching is not a profession btw. Unless you are a principal. Correcting kids' copybooks does not make you middle class, at all. Unless your dad owns a boozer, exceptions can be made.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18 Greta_Funberg


    I didn't know we had classes in Ireland.

    I think that's very naiive. Sure it's not the same as the UK but thinking back on our class in school. There were certain kids, from certain areas who would go on foreign holidays (not Spain booze ups, but actual "cultural" ones!), would have grinds by default, parent's tended to socialise/know each other, attended speech-and-drama/dance/etc classes on weekends. Then there were those of us, from whom any of those was about as likely to happen as getting top of the range Nike Air Max. Which is to say, zero.

    Easy credit and lower cost stuff like flights nowadays, might mask that to some degree but it's still there.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,078 ✭✭✭IAMAMORON


    I think that's very naiive. Sure it's not the same as the UK but thinking back on our class in school. There were certain kids, from certain areas who would go on foreign holidays (not Spain booze ups, but actual "cultural" ones!), would have grinds by default, parent's tended to socialise/know each other, attended speech-and-drama/dance/etc classes on weekends. Then there were those of us, from whom any of those was about as likely to happen as getting top of the range Nike Air Max. Which is to say, zero.

    Easy credit and lower cost stuff like flights nowadays, might mask that to some degree but it's still there.

    Greta, I find it intriguing that you have mentioned such maternal habits and child pruning. This is actually textbook social climbing behaviour. Most working class types infatuated with getting ahead will insist on sending their children to elocution lessons and other such social improvement techniques.

    Scouts, drama class and/or dancing class. These are essential areas for the middle classes to nod condescendingly from the sidelines at each other. Textbook child pruning and is borderline nouveu riche, be careful here if you are acting out. Real middle class will sniff you out and you will become a pariah very quickly, they hate triers and climbers.

    If you do insist on manipulating your children at least be honest with their middle class friends parents about what you are up to. The penalty for not doing so is the unending back chat and underhanded bitching and sniggering which only genuine middle class are capable of, they invented it btw. Thread carefully Greta.

    My best advice to social climbers is to play long ball and try to associate with other social climbing types. They are easy to spot. Watch out for children who swear to much and dads in big aggressive immaculately washed sports cars, pure trash and easily spotted. Parents will always discuss money and enquire about your career etc. Real middle class know that such conversations are a drag.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,942 ✭✭✭topper75


    When a poor working class man from Galway who could only speak Irish, his name was Maolra Seoighe was wrongly (known) convicted of murder & hanged in 1882 & was pardoned by president Higgins in 2018.
    During the trial a London based paper published this very un-biased & not at all bigoted article on class.

    "The Tragedy at Maamtrasna, investigated this week in Dublin, almost unique as it is in the annals of the United Kingdom, brings out in strong relief two facts which Englishmen are too apt to forget. One is the existence in particular districts of Ireland of a class of peasants who are scarcely civilised beings, and approach far nearer to savages than any other white men; and the other is their extraordinary and exceptional gloominess of temper. In remote places of Ireland, especially in Connaught, on a few of the islands, and in one or two mountain districts, dwell cultivators who are in knowledge, in habits, and in the discipline of life no higher than Maories or other Polynesians." http://archive.spectator.co.uk/article/18th-november-1882/7/the-tragedy-at-maamtrasna

    This was during the time of the rise of the Home Rule movement & the IPP, over 130 years ago. Unfortunately lots of people still hold these views of poor working class people.

    Peasant? The fools, the fools, the fools. Did they not realise that with a name like Maolra that he was in fact a posh south Dublin gaelscoil kid?!


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Home & Garden Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 22,430 CMod ✭✭✭✭Pawwed Rig


    Zaph wrote: »
    Or f*ckin' brutal

    The middleclass mask slips :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 167 ✭✭BillyBiggs


    Was listening to this song last week. It's about a laddish, working class guy who suddenly develops a love of things that are middle-class and unladdish. He is also a more open minded person, who doesn't mind the fact that people are gay and who doesn't read the Star any more because he "prefer(s) a boring article to a bird in pants and bra".
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gnuepN9EvTw
    What I wanna know is... how would you transform a laddish guy into someone more sophisticated?

    Get him to go out with a girl from a higher social class, who has airs and graces about herself and whose parents will judge him severely. That’s the best way to get him to change his ways.:-)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 572 ✭✭✭Errashareesh


    Being serious though, so much missing the point as to what middle-class means. Numerous mentions of buying more expensive stuff. Could easily be said about some working class folk.

    And shunning flashness and living modestly can be ultra middle-class.

    By its very nature - being in the middle - it encompasses all kinds. The rugby heads and the bohemian types living in squalor while attending NCAD. Or neither of those. And the notion that middleclass people would only vote FG and are right of centre? Lol. Middleclass liberals are one of the most parodied groups there could be.

    I'm middle-class and cannot bear pretentiousness. Putting on a posh accent - gtfo. No interest in expensive cars, clothes, gadgets, jewellery, accessories etc. Big houses are pointless unless you've a massive family.

    Where I meet the stereotype all right though is food and wine. Not that I wouldn't enjoy a bag of chips (I absolutely do) but I do love good restaurants and fancy wine.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,315 ✭✭✭nthclare


    Being serious though, so much missing the point as to what middle-class means. Numerous mentions of buying more expensive stuff. Could easily be said about some working class folk.

    And shunning flashness and living modestly can be ultra middle-class.

    By its very nature - being in the middle - it encompasses all kinds. The rugby heads and the bohemian types living in squalor while attending NCAD. Or neither of those. And the notion that middleclass people would only vote FG and are right of centre? Lol. Middleclass liberals are one of the most parodied groups there could be.

    I'm middle-class and cannot bear pretentiousness. Putting on a posh accent - gtfo. No interest in expensive cars, clothes, gadgets, jewellery, accessories etc. Big houses are pointless unless you've a massive family.

    Where I meet the stereotype all right though is food and wine. Not that I wouldn't enjoy a bag of chips (I absolutely do) but I do love good restaurants and fancy wine.

    You hit the head on the nail there.

    And class isn't about what you own or the toy's and threads you have at your exposal.

    Being cool and classy,has nothing to do with your look or luck for that matter.

    Just humility and being able to adapt to any situation at anytime.

    As a woman I knew once said, it's the man that makes the clothes and not the clothes that maket the man... this anology can be used in different ways...

    Most famous people who are admirable, don't have a flashy lifestyle.

    Living in the Burren there's a few cluster's of famous actors and musicians and they mix with us through walking groups and hobbies etc

    You'll have the usual Dick's asking how come you were having coffee with so and so in Kinvara on a Saturday morning, how do you know them ???

    It's not a business transaction that's for sure.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,055 ✭✭✭IK09


    Beige chinos.

    Was going to try and fight this but im middle class and own multiple pairs of beige chinos.

    And im wearing a pair right now


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,193 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    Received pronunciation, dear fellow. Trips to theatre, as opposed to theater. Faded grandeur and Wintering abroad. E-Class Mercs for the golf clubs and Volvo XC60s for the woman, and cookery classes in Ballymaloe and the Feng Shui and turning your nose up at Ikea - the Wonderful, every day! - and don't forget the tennis club. Oh and, hoors. Big bony hoors, and plenty of 'em. That lot'll knock the tin of Stella and the Celtic jersey off of the best of 'em.


  • Posts: 5,121 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    What makes a person middle class or not these days?
    Income, attitude, career, address, pcp?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,624 ✭✭✭Working class heroes


    Why would you want too....

    Racism is now hiding behind the cloak of Community activism.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 572 ✭✭✭Errashareesh


    What makes a person middle class or not these days?
    Income, attitude, career, address, pcp?
    Nothing specific at all. As I said, by its nature, middleclass means all kinds.

    There is this fashionable, prejudicial notion of what it means but it's a vast chasm realistically.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,716 ✭✭✭pgj2015


    I come across people from all corners of Ireland and the world while working, people from all a classes. The working class Dubs are 99% of the time absolute gentlemen and ladies, very generous, easy to talk to and good craic. The upper middle class are usually ok but some of the middle class are a serious pain in the arse, they really try to put people down and try to show their imagined superiority over people they feel are below them. The worst thing about them is they are really boring, blabbing on about their boring lives, culchies who pretend to love rugby are the worst.

    A middle class social climber would rather earn 20,000 per year as a solicitor than 100,000 a year as a bin man. They are idiots.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 798 ✭✭✭Yyhhuuu


    jimgoose wrote: »
    Received pronunciation, dear fellow. Trips to theatre, as opposed to theater. Faded grandeur and Wintering abroad. E-Class Mercs for the golf clubs and Volvo XC60s for the woman, and cookery classes in Ballymaloe and the Feng Shui and turning your nose up at Ikea - the Wonderful, every day! - and don't forget the tennis club. Oh and, hoors. Big bony hoors, and plenty of 'em. That lot'll knock the tin of Stella and the Celtic jersey off of the best of 'em.

    Some of that sounds upper class to me. My ancestors came from a landed Estate. Many of them were academics and professionals when Ireland was incredibly impoverished during the establishment of the Irish free state and some were key players.

    I just dislipise some so called professionals be it solicitors or Medics etc I came across often conceited with fake accents who consider themselves the elite of Ireland I came across many and I just know that if one goes back far enough they originated in a thatched cottage. I value people who are down to earth irrespective of status.

    I never needed to ostentatiously display my wealth and consider myself comfortable but frugal. My family were the same.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,787 ✭✭✭Feisar


    IAMAMORON wrote: »
    What is bred in the marrow comes out in the bone. The apple rarely falls far from the tree.

    I think you need to spend at least 3 to 4 generations at a profession before you can really declare yourself properly middle class. There is too much opportunity around and an awful lot of imposters.

    Primary school teaching is not a profession btw. Unless you are a principal. Correcting kids' copybooks does not make you middle class, at all. Unless your dad owns a boozer, exceptions can be made.

    There is something to this. I'd be middle class, however you can tell I'm 1st gen. I just don't have that cut about me.

    First they came for the socialists...



  • Posts: 3,689 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    • on public transport like bus or train nobody else gives a sh|t about you regaling the quality of your physio session after the match.
    • other passengers on the train don't care about you going on to your college mates about where you'll find a job for Christmas holidays from college
    • you might feel cool yourself with that can if Dutch gold in front of you but it's definitely most in middle class
    • the highlight of your week is not the nightclub or chicks on the side
    • throw out that games console.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,078 ✭✭✭IAMAMORON


    Feisar wrote: »
    There is something to this. I'd be middle class, however you can tell I'm 1st gen. I just don't have that cut about me.

    Don't sweat it Feisballs, I feel your worry and pain.

    My best advice is to not go overboard on expensive wines and whiskeys. Very uncouth.

    Dress smart and be polite. Think of your grandkids.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,078 ✭✭✭IAMAMORON


    • on public transport like bus or train nobody else gives a sh|t about you regaling the quality of your physio session after the match.
    • other passengers on the train don't care about you going on to your college mates about where you'll find a job for Christmas holidays from college
    • you might feel cool yourself with that can if Dutch gold in front of you but it's definitely most in middle class
    • the highlight of your week is not the nightclub or chicks on the side
    • throw out that games console.

    Middle class don't use public transport after their student days. They might get the bus to school or college to ensure they are rounded. Maybe when they retire when they are older, but only a few times until they realise getting a taxi is less bother.

    They also know how to automatically get a car parking space at work, even if they are interns or plebs. It is a class thing after all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,193 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    IAMAMORON wrote: »
    I am profoundly middle class. I am only polite to working class folk as a courtesy. But quite deep down I cannot bring myself to trust them and secretly hold them in contempt.

    It is the climbers who phucked everything all up. I find that most working class climbers ( especially successful hard working types ) are literally no craic anyways or either. They smell a bit sometimes too. I hate their smell and their fake smiles. I love it when they put on a posh accent though, I like to see them trying at least, even though I know they are bores and a waste of time. The biggest indicator of a climber is overpriced new cars, always trashy. Don't forget old money = old cars, it is a simple formula.

    I also seethe at Culchies. That includes posh types from Cork City or Killkenny, thats right, I just see a culchie.

    On a final note I looooooove working class women. Especially foul mouthed inner city Dublin types. They turn me on, I love a bit of rough. Also culchie climbers. I love women from Roscommon who are trying to score a rich guy in the "big schmoke", I love it when they adopt the posh accent, instant turn on.

    Obi Wan is here - the Force is with him! :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 798 ✭✭✭Yyhhuuu


    IAMAMORON wrote: »
    Middle class don't use public transport after their student days. They might get the bus to school or college to ensure they are rounded. Maybe when they retire when they are older, but only a few times until they realise getting a taxi is less bother.

    They also know how to automatically get a car parking space at work, even if they are interns or plebs. It is a class thing after all.

    Are you sure this is true I.e. that they dont use public transport, that's not what I saw travelling to south county Dublin by public transport nor on the London underground. By the way would I be categorised as middle class(forgetting about public transport)?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,193 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    Yyhhuuu wrote: »
    Are you sure this is true I.e. that they dont use public transport, that's not what I saw travelling to south county Dublin nor on the London underground. By the way would I be categorised as middle class?

    It isn't - there's a couple of very convenient bus routes near my house (South-West Cork suburbs) and Woman and I often hop it into town and a half-decent restaurant. I even have a Leap card, like a student! :D

    That reminds me, beware of anyone who talks the talk and walks the walk, but has never eaten fresh Hake - they're an impostor.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,078 ✭✭✭IAMAMORON


    Yyhhuuu wrote: »
    Are you sure this is true I.e. that they dont use public transport, that's not what I saw travelling to south county Dublin by public transport nor on the London underground. By the way would I be categorised as middle class?

    Abs, you will get a bit of drib and drab around internships and finishing uni.

    London is a bad example, as middle class there can be super rich and getting the tube is a formality. Boris Johnson gets the tube ffs.

    I am not so sure you are middle class either, unless you're still a teenager and then maybe you are. But you are certainly ascertaining to be quite naive.

    Do you get an allowance, pocket money or "spends"?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 798 ✭✭✭Yyhhuuu


    IAMAMORON wrote: »
    Abs, you will get a bit of drib and drab around internships and finishing uni.

    London is a bad example, as middle class there can be super rich and getting the tube is a formality. Boris Johnson gets the tube ffs.

    I am not so sure you are middle class either, unless you're still a teenager and then maybe you are. But you are certainly ascertaining to be quite naive.

    Do you get an allowance, pocket money or "spends"?

    In what way naive?

    I work part time but much of my income is rental income. I do not need to work financially.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,482 ✭✭✭✭Ush1


    Yyhhuuu wrote: »
    In what way naive?

    I work part time but much of my income is rental income. I do not need to work financially.

    Don't worry, you likely are middle class. Some people on here read too many Paul Howard books and not enough actual literature.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,078 ✭✭✭IAMAMORON


    Yyhhuuu wrote: »
    In what way naive?

    I work part time but much of my income is rental income. I do not need to work financially.

    Ohhhhh?

    Now I know your nouveau, only a climber would need to associate their income prospects with what they do for a living.

    Stop digging please, it's very unbecoming.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 572 ✭✭✭Errashareesh


    pgj2015 wrote: »
    I come across people from all corners of Ireland and the world while working, people from all a classes. The working class Dubs are 99% of the time absolute gentlemen and ladies, very generous, easy to talk to and good craic. The upper middle class are usually ok but some of the middle class are a serious pain in the arse, they really try to put people down and try to show their imagined superiority over people they feel are below them. The worst thing about them is they are really boring, blabbing on about their boring lives, culchies who pretend to love rugby are the worst.

    A middle class social climber would rather earn 20,000 per year as a solicitor than 100,000 a year as a bin man. They are idiots.
    This is such a narrow definition of what middleclass is though. It's one type of person out of the most diverse "class" of all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,716 ✭✭✭pgj2015


    This is such a narrow definition of what middleclass is though. It's one type of person out of the most diverse "class" of all.



    I know, I don't think all middle class are like that, Im middle class myself and not like that. The middle class I don't like are the ones who someone said earlier are only a couple of generations away from a thatch house on a small farm but because they are a solicitor or doctor think they are above others from less prestigious jobs.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 798 ✭✭✭Yyhhuuu


    IAMAMORON wrote: »
    Ohhhhh?

    Now I know your nouveau, only a climber would need to associate their income prospects with what they do for a living.

    Stop digging please, it's very unbecoming.

    "Nouveau" with generations of my family in the professions since the foundation of the state?

    That's a bizarre interpretation of the word nouveau

    I never commented on my income prospects.


  • Posts: 3,689 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    IAMAMORON wrote: »
    Ohhhhh?


    it's very unbecoming.

    So Samuel L Jackson of you, Jedi Windu! May the force be with you


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,787 ✭✭✭Feisar


    IAMAMORON wrote: »
    Don't sweat it Feisballs, I feel your worry and pain.

    My best advice is to not go overboard on expensive wines and whiskeys. Very uncouth.

    Dress smart and be polite. Think of your grandkids.

    No worry or pain here, I am what I am. It is deffo something I've noticed though. When I had GFs from the higher echelons of the social strata, at parties I would notice the lads just seemed more polished or something. I could dress the same, probably making as much if not more than most however I just didn't fit in. One lady said i had an "edge" to me or something.

    First they came for the socialists...



  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,078 ✭✭✭IAMAMORON


    Feisar wrote: »
    No worry or pain here, I am what I am. It is deffo something I've noticed though. When I had GFs from the higher echelons of the social strata, at parties I would notice the lads just seemed more polished or something. I could dress the same, probably making as much if not more than most however I just didn't fit in. One lady said i had an "edge" to me or something.

    Agreed Feisomondourous. Old money can be intimidating and condescending in the very same breath. As I alluded to in my previous post, it is best in your circumstance to keep a low profile. If you get snared climbing by the bourgeois ( pronounced bore-jew-ah btw, please ask if there is anything you aren't following, I will do my best to help )... they will simply find you insufferable and set about annihilating you, bit by bit. They may have already started, be careful out there.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,716 ✭✭✭pgj2015


    IAMAMORON wrote: »
    Agreed Feisomondourous. Old money can be intimidating and condescending in the very same breath. As I alluded to in my previous post, it is best in your circumstance to keep a low profile. If you get snared climbing by the bourgeois ( pronounced bore-jew-ah btw, please ask if there is anything you aren't following, I will do my best to help )... they will simply find you insufferable and set about annihilating you, bit by bit. They may have already started, be careful out there.



    The thing you fail to realize is most people couldn't give a fcuk what these snobs think. we are all only passing through, the royal family are no better than you or me, they just happen to live in a palace.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,787 ✭✭✭Feisar


    IAMAMORON wrote: »
    Agreed Feisomondourous. Old money can be intimidating and condescending in the very same breath. As I alluded to in my previous post, it is best in your circumstance to keep a low profile. If you get snared climbing by the bourgeois ( pronounced bore-jew-ah btw, please ask if there is anything you aren't following, I will do my best to help )... they will simply find you insufferable and set about annihilating you, bit by bit. They may have already started, be careful out there.

    And there was me thinking it was booz-was-ee.

    All damage has been done, I've hung up my boots and declared my innings. Rearing the 2nd gen at the moment. Just need to figure out how to keep that bit of steel in him somewhere.

    On a separate note some lads would be up to feck all in life however still have that middle class polish. And I know a lad who's parents came from nothing however done exceeding well, he went to all the right schools etc, his friends are all middle class however he's the same as me. People might think I'm daft however there is something to it.

    First they came for the socialists...



  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,078 ✭✭✭IAMAMORON


    Feisar wrote: »
    And there was me thinking it was booz-was-ee.

    All damage has been done, I've hung up my boots and declared my innings. Rearing the 2nd gen at the moment. Just need to figure out how to keep that bit of steel in him somewhere.

    On a separate note some lads would be up to feck all in life however still have that middle class polish. And I know a lad who's parents came from nothing however done exceeding well, he went to all the right schools etc, his friends are all middle class however he's the same as me. People might think I'm daft however there is something to it.

    Collectively know as " 3rd generation bums ". Basically their grandpas or great grandpas make a packet of money, their Dad's follow suit and in fact invigorate the earnings. By the time off spring gets to a spending age they look around and realise there is no point in working because their Dad and great grand parents have made enough wedge for generations. Think of wealthy families which own half of the property on Grafton Street, Cleary's Arnotts etc etc. Racehorse owners and stuck up Trinners Alumni. Types from Rathgar that have summer barbecues that turn into weekend cocaine romps attended by Judges, Barristers, Surgeons, Accountants and gold digging over thirtysomething year old former models looking to catch a rich man for baby making. That type of thing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 798 ✭✭✭Yyhhuuu


    IAMAMORON wrote: »
    Collectively know as " 3rd generation bums ". Basically their grandpas or great grandpas make a packet of money, their Dad's follow suit and in fact invigorate the earnings. By the time off spring gets to a spending age they look around and realise there is no point in working because their Dad and great grand parents have made enough wedge for generations. Think of wealthy families which own half of the property on Grafton Street, Cleary's Arnotts etc etc. Racehorse owners and stuck up Trinners Alumni. Types from Rathgar that have summer barbecues that turn into weekend cocaine romps attended by Judges, Barristers, Surgeons, Accountants and gold digging over thirtysomething year old former models looking to catch a rich man for baby making. That type of thing.


    Why should they work if they're happy and don't have to work provided they have a permanent income stream coming in from their ancestors' properties. The vast majority of ordinary people work to pay their mortgage/rent and living expenses. In England they would be classed as the Aristocracy. These people probably have so much money coming in they can afford to buy a new property every year to increase their portfolio. There are plenty of examples of this on a larger scale in places like London e.g. the Weldon Estate, the Bedford Estate, Grosvenor etc.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,211 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    This hasn't become a musical yet and i am very disappointed.


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