Masturbation

greenspurs

Irish_rat wrote: »

I'll go for no fap feb.

However if the gf does it, is it technically no fap?

well i think any manual stimulation done by anyone, is a Fap...

Ruggabugga101

Gael23 wrote: »

I’m going to run out of lube if the sex shops don’t open soon

Amazon is your only man....I used to use baby oil too which you can buy in any supermarket.

Good old spit works as well I find.

Lads, man has wanked for years. Its enjoyable and hurts nobody. In these difficult times you have to get relief wherever you can get it!

Gael23

Ruggabugga101 wrote: »

Amazon is your only man....I used to use baby oil too which you can buy in any supermarket.

Good old spit works as well I find.

Lads, man has wanked for years. Its enjoyable and hurts nobody. In these difficult times you have to get relief wherever you can get it!

Spit dries out too fast.

Will try baby oil, never wanked with it before

Real Donald Trump

What's the average amount of time you should spend masturbating ?

Gael23

Real Donald Trump wrote: »

What's the average amount of time you should spend masturbating ?

However long it takes for the juice to start flowing

AndrewJRenko

yesiam1 wrote: »

I've tried 3 seperate sex toys and I'm unable to climax with them using any other method other than actually emulating sex with them. Which unfortunately makes the bed make a lot of noise.

Are we talking about fleshlight devices here?

Gael23

The play blue website seems to be down😢😢

Stigura

Opening fine, for me, right this minute?

Gael23

Stigura wrote: »

Opening fine, for me, right this minute?

They must have blocked me or something��

The lube is €10, any recommendations what else to buy for free delivery?

Stigura

Two lots of lube?

Dunno. No idea what the ceiling is, for free postage. Or what might take ye fancy.

No idea if ye can get it on Amazon Prime?

Ruggabugga101

Stigura wrote: »

Two lots of lube?

Dunno. No idea what the ceiling is, for free postage. Or what might take ye fancy.

No idea if ye can get it on Amazon Prime?

Amazon has Durex and some other brands, all free delivery via Prime.

AndrewJRenko

Ruggabugga101 wrote: »

Amazon has Durex and some other brands, all free delivery via Prime.

So do many supermarkets and most chemists.

mr.anonymous

Seems to be the only kind of date a lot of us will have today

Gael23

Ruggabugga101 wrote: »

Amazon has Durex and some other brands, all free delivery via Prime.

The Durex lube is really expensive for what it is.

Ruggabugga101

mr.anonymous wrote: »

Seems to be the only kind of date a lot of us will have today

Sadly yep.

Painters are in here, had a tug this morning...will treat myself to another I think to cheer myself up after the rugby lol.

Stigura

Gael23 wrote: »

The Durex lube is really expensive for what it is.

I'm pretty sure I came across a recipe, on you tube or somewhere, how to make your own. Not 'Durex' necessarily. I'm sure it's all much of a muchness though.

Didn't really take in the details. But, I'm pretty sure it was based on something supposedly available in a supermarket. Something and water, basically?

Couldn't be bothered, myself. End up with a litre of the bloody stuff?! Jesus! I just buy some.

DopeTech

Gael23 wrote: »

I don’t even want to think about what that smelled like🀮

Baby Guinness

Joe Don Dante

yesiam1 wrote: »

By applying pressure to the base of my penis or by prone masturbating. It results in a very intense climax.
But unfortunately it also results in traumatic mastubatory sydnrome. It's not even that much pressure. It's just bad for the nerves and tissue in the base.

As for the other possible ways. I've tried all the ways trust me. The typical ways do not work no matter how much I try.


I've tried 3 seperate sex toys and I'm unable to climax with them using any other method other than actually emulating sex with them. Which unfortunately makes the bed make a lot of noise.

I didn't have to stop masturbating. I just had to reduce how often I did it as it was causing damage.

what the hell have I just read ..

greenspurs

Some people do at work !

Bogwoppit

Lots of people work from home......

Patches oHoulihan

this thread:eek::D

greenspurs

Bogwoppit wrote: »

Lots of people work from home......

true...

Irish_rat

Patches oHoulihan wrote: »

this thread:eek::D

Its definitely be-cuming a handful

yesiam1

Joe Don Dante wrote: »

what the hell have I just read ..

The thread asked about masturbation, and how often one should do it and if there are any issues that come with masturbating too much etc.
So I gave my two cents.

Traumatic masturbation syndrome is a thing.

The only other posts ITT are lads talking about the smell of their own semen or pulling themselves at work or something idk.

greenspurs

yesiam1 wrote: »

The thread asked about masturbation, and how often one should do it and if there are any issues that come with masturbating too much etc.
So I gave my two cents.

Traumatic masturbation syndrome is a thing.

The only other posts ITT are lads talking about the smell of their own semen or pulling themselves at work or something idk.

Theres a difference between lighthearted (childish) banter and giving a medical history ! Personally i wouldnt be going so indepth, but ......

Aidan Harney

greenspurs wrote: »

Personally i wouldnt be going so indepth, but ......

He he he

maniac2003

Mister Vain wrote: »

Would the involuntary nocturnal emissions not negate any benefits of abstaining?

Does that happen?

greenspurs

Wet dreams ?

i think they do ... if you abstain for a long while ?

Mister Vain

Yeah if you abstain long enough it will find someway out. After a few months you'd nearly be afraid to sneeze.

greenspurs

MONTHS !!!!!! :O

Gael23

Going to get some baby oil in my shopping later. Have already banged one out today so might be tomorrow do my verdict

Stigura

Baby oil's fantastic, on skin!

But, don't ye have to keep it the hell away from rubbery stuff though. I'm pretty sure I've had it dissolve a condom before.

So many years ago I had to concern myself with stuff like that

Old mate of mine had a brilliant, hysterical anecdote about some chick and baby oil! Sadly, it's a visual one. No way I could just 'tell it' here.

Gael23

Stroked one out with baby oil earlier.

Not impressed I’m afraid. It’s not thick enough, it just runs all over the place. That said I did get the business done 💦

EI121

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Has anyone every used a Fleshl*ght? If so, would you recommend?

Finding this lockdown a bit more challenging then the other two...

Thanks!

Stigura

Damnit! I don't believe ye just posted that!

Just eyeing up the finances ~ having had a Really spendy last month! ~ and thinking maybe now I can dare to treat myself to that Flight.

This'll be my second Flight. Damn Dog got hold of the last one! I see they're E50 a throw now? Lawd! I didn't remember them costing that much. Wonder I never murdered that Dog!

But, yeah; Had / got several. Absolutely recommended!

Again, if a passing Mod' doesn't like this bit? But; They have their own forum. It's an eye opener!

Gael23

Yes I have a flashlight is great. I’d like a fleshjack if I could find one

EI121

Stigura wrote: »

Damnit! I don't believe ye just posted that!

Just eyeing up the finances ~ having had a Really spendy last month! ~ and thinking maybe now I can dare to treat myself to that Flight.

This'll be my second Flight. Damn Dog got hold of the last one! I see they're E50 a throw now? Lawd! I didn't remember them costing that much. Wonder I never murdered that Dog!

But, yeah; Had / got several. Absolutely recommended!

Again, if a passing Mod' doesn't like this bit? But; They have their own forum. It's an eye opener!

Thanks Stigura. (I think, ur message confused me a bit lol) If there is a specific forum please forward it on, im new to this forum.

Gael23 wrote: »

Yes I have a flashlight is great. I’d like a fleshjack if I could find one

Can you PM some suggestions?

Cheers lads

Stigura

PM sent, EI. Couple of links in there, should see ye right

Gael; I just saw links to FleshJack. You truly unable to get one? Or just haggling over price / location? I used to buy my FleshLights direct from US. Murder, sitting on ye hands for a month, waiting for the bugger to arrive! But, I'm sure I can't remember they were as brutally pricey as they now seem?

Ultrflat

how I feel after reading this thread.




Does any one who masturbated more than twice a day not have concerns of ED?

Dr Turk Turkelton

Ultrflat wrote: »

how I feel after reading this thread.




Does any one who masturbated more than twice a day not have concerns of ED?

I'd say the least of anyone that's masturbating twice a days worries are ED somehow.

Loafing Oaf

Gael23 wrote: »

Yes I have a flashlight is great.

Couldn't find the old chap in the dark no?:P

Gael23

Stigura wrote: »

PM sent, EI. Couple of links in there, should see ye right

Gael; I just saw links to FleshJack. You truly unable to get one? Or just haggling over price / location? I used to buy my FleshLights direct from US. Murder, sitting on ye hands for a month, waiting for the bugger to arrive! But, I'm sure I can't remember they were as brutally pricey as they now seem?

I can’t see any in Ireland and then delivery is really expensive. Where are you seeing them?

Stigura

Google 'Fleshlight.eu'. Top right.

Can't vouch for the prices though. Didn't check.

EI121

Ultrflat wrote: »

how I feel after reading this thread.




Does any one who masturbated more than twice a day not have concerns of ED?

Honestly I taught that at first Ultrflat when I came across this thread for the first time today but from what I've seen its just people looking for advice

no harm in that

Ultrflat

Dr Turk Turkelton wrote: »

I'd say the least of anyone that's masturbating twice a days worries are ED somehow.

If you watch high amounts of porn it rewires your brain to what you find a turn on and after a while it just doesn't turn you on. And you start watching extreme styles in order to turn you on Porn desensitizes you mentally. Which affects your ability to have sex. Which is known as ED.

EI121 wrote: »

Honestly I taught that at first Ultrflat when I came across this thread for the first time today but from what I've seen its just people looking for advice

no harm in that

Nah I get that its just the wording in it at times is like. :eek:. Mental picture I did not want.

Ultrflat

Ultrflat wrote: »

Does any one who masturbated more than twice a day not have concerns of ED?

Ultrflat wrote: »

If you watch high amounts of porn it rewires your brain to what you find a turn on and after a while it just doesn't turn you on.

Your first and second post are entirely different things. Not all masturbation involves porn. Not all porn involves masturbation. Let's not move between them seamlessly as if talking about the same thing.

People watch porn without any of the effects you list. Phrases like "high amounts of porn" and "re-wires your brain" are very vague.

A little porn "Twice a Day" is not something that strikes me as "high". "Extreme styles" or "desensitization" are not automatically a given either.

Porn and masturbation seem no different to me than gambling, alcohol, drugs, comfort food, television or computer gaming. Most people can do things daily without any effects. Some minority of people far into addiction and extremes.

Mr.Crinklewood

EI121 wrote: »

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Has anyone every used a Fleshl*ght? If so, would you recommend?

Finding this lockdown a bit more challenging then the other two...

Thanks!

Never heard of this beforehand (excuse the pun), now I know there is a "Bug's Life" version!

Ultrflat

Deleted User wrote: »

Your first and second post are entirely different things. Not all masturbation involves porn. Not all porn involves masturbation. Let's not move between them seamlessly as if talking about the same thing.

People watch porn without any of the effects you list. Phrases like "high amounts of porn" and "re-wires your brain" are very vague.

A little porn "Twice a Day" is not something that strikes me as "high". "Extreme styles" or "desensitization" are not automatically a given either.

Porn and masturbation seem no different to me than gambling, alcohol, drugs, comfort food, television or computer gaming. Most people can do things daily without any effects. Some minority of people far into addiction and extremes.

Well actually your entirely wrong on the effects of porn.
The problem is the brain slowly becomes tolerant to the porn you watch which essentially forces you into a box where you begin to watch more extreme porn to get off. This is a known a proven fact.

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Feel free to entirely disagree, If you have to crack one off twice a day that's a habit. Whether you choose to except or believe it.

greenspurs

Ultrflat wrote: »

Well actually your entirely wrong on the effects of porn.
Feel free to entirely disagree, If you have to crack one off twice a day that's a habit. Whether you choose to except or believe it.

So, do you think watching a few mins of porn, every so often, is a habit/addiction /damaging ?




Whats wrong with "cracking one off" twice a day ?
A habit, yes, But so what ? Whats wrong with that ??

Ultrflat

greenspurs wrote: »

So, do you think watching a few mins of porn, every so often, is a habit/addiction /damaging ?

No I don't, I use my porn every so often but insure that its tame and and the biggest sexual organ in my body which is the brain.

The inherent issue at the moment is men don't know how to have pleasure, instead its regarded as some sort of quick 5 knuckle shuffle shoot your load and relax. Where given some education it can be much more than that.

What's wrong with "cracking one off" twice a day ?
A habit, yes, But so what ? What's wrong with that ??

Its unhealthy for a start, if you can't function with out having a **** that should be a read flag. It effects your concentration levels, Potency, ability to maintain an erection during intercourse. Above all the shame and increased anxiety it creates.



FYI: I'm not against masturbation in any way shape or form. My concerns are based on what seems to be such a worryingly common issue for men all over the world. Since your all discussing how often you masturbate. I feel its perfectly acceptable to bring these issues into light.