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US billionaire calls out Ireland as "no one wants to live here"

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,503 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    riclad wrote: »
    It depends on where you live, I dont think anyone in dublin cares where you come from as long as you are polite well mannered and law abiding
    I like Irish weather because it changes every day
    I would be boring to live in a country where its just
    sunny everyday or maybe rains once a month
    I have always found dublin people very friendly.
    It might be different if you have a foreign accent or are a member of
    a minority group eg Polish etc

    Dublin people are very friendly


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,286 ✭✭✭Kaybaykwah


    It's a pretty arrogant comment to make about a country, any country. Wouldn't have expected that from a billionaire.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 798 ✭✭✭Yyhhuuu


    jackboy wrote: »
    Deep down mostly closed off to insiders also. In modern Ireland true friendships are a rare thing. It might be the same in lots of other countries also but I don’t know much about them.

    This is an extremely interesting discussion regarding the meaning of true friendships. It's sad to read some of these comments. Perhaps it should be a separate thread for discussion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,202 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    Kaybaykwah wrote: »
    It's a pretty arrogant comment to make about a country, any country. Wouldn't have expected that from a billionaire.
    Its not that i wouldn't have expected it from a rich person.

    Its that i wouldn't have expected it from a media savvy person in public.

    In private ..of course. I would expect many people to make unpleasant comments out Ireland and other places in private.

    It seems gauche though..to make it in public ...and to be in the public eye.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 798 ✭✭✭Yyhhuuu


    BloodyBill wrote: »
    Have to agree. My wife isn't Irish and found Dubliners extremely unfriendly but some of the older generation bucked the trend. We live in the UK now where bus drivers have a smile and shop assistants say 'thank you and have a good morning'. The friendly shop assistants in Ireland are Eastern European.
    Ireland is a great country..safe and good standard of living but by God we can be smug. Tucked into the UKs defensive realm but still in Europe we feel as safe as houses. So yeah the billionaire is mostly right we love the sound of our own voices ... lots of egos in Ireland

    I must say I found many people I met in London far friendlier than in Ireland. Very friendly bus drivers and shop assistants in London and others I met there whereas the Irish bus drives were grumpy ( not all though) and many shop assistants unfriendly with a poor attitude. It makes such a difference to make a customer feel welcome.

    Mind you I did always think the true dubs were a friendly especially the down to earth working class. The middle class would not be as friendly in my opinion.

    I still think Ireland is a wonderful country.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,202 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    Hamachi wrote: »
    Another guy had set himself up as a stage Irishman and became borderline hostile when he was no longer the only ‘paddy in the village’.

    The city I lived in had less than a hundred Irish people resident there. I knew a few of the others pretty well and they had similar experiences, particularly with the latter guy who all of us had encountered during our time there. If anything, we concluded that some of the Irish weren’t being themselves and were pretty unrepresentative of people at home.
    :pac: OMG!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,202 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    Yyhhuuu wrote: »
    I must say I found many people I met in London far friendlier than in Ireland. Very friendly bus drivers and shop assistants in London and others I met there whereas the Irish bus drives were grumpy ( not all though) and many shop assistants unfriendly. Mind you I did always think the true dubs were a friendly lot.
    I find the UK very mixed. Some very friendly some not.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,229 ✭✭✭Sam Quentin


    I love Ireland..I love it with all my heart.
    Each to their own on the friendliness of the Irish.
    But I do not and will never understand the reason for the high price of property. It can't be explained and in no way shape or form can it be justified.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 798 ✭✭✭Yyhhuuu


    I find the UK very mixed. Some very friendly some not.

    I was in Manchester three times. The people I met in Manchestr were awful. Liverpool extremely friendly. London has a name as being unfriendly but it's a lot friendlier than people make out in my experience.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,202 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    Yyhhuuu wrote: »
    I was in Manchester three times. The people I met in Manchestr were awful. Liverpool extremely friendly. London has a name as being unfriendly but it's a lot friendlier than people make out in my experience.
    For me it wasn't really based on place.Or class etc.

    I found friendly and unfriendly people everywhere there.

    It was just varied.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 2,807 ✭✭✭ShatterAlan


    buried wrote: »
    Its grand weather for living in Reg. Bit of rain and wind in the winter, sure what about it? Did these Silicon Valley dolls never hear of a coat or jacket? You'd think that some lad who has the term 'cloud' in his company name, he would be actually aware to what a real 'cloud' is capable of.


    The guy pisses about the weather in Ireland. In 2019, just 70 days into the year and it had already rained 38 days in San Francisco and 44 days in San Jose. The so called sunny Silicon Valley. Place is wetter than Galway.


    https://abc7news.com/weather/2019-has-been-a-year-full-of-rain-so-far/5184352/


  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 12,955 Mod ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    I’d never heard of him before, I was presuming someone like Tim Cook of Apple or a top financier and investor was giving out about Ireland.

    This country certainly has its flaws, but on balance it is a great place to live in. We can be very clannish and cliquey, but frankly we need to develop some thicker skin. Yes, the reality is that not everyone likes Ireland, and I can live with that.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 423 ✭✭AutoTuning


    Well, he suggested that we stick to our strengths, as should he: PR should be left to professionals!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 882 ✭✭✭ygolometsipe


    Well if he was after fee publicity, he sure got it now!!

    So can we kick him out now?

    Visa Revoked,

    now **** off :) is that welcoming enough for ya:)


  • Registered Users Posts: 10,943 ✭✭✭✭the purple tin


    Can't stand that fake US style courtesy 'have a nice day' and all that shíte. Like you really give a fúck about my day :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,184 ✭✭✭riclad


    Property is expensive in city's in the UK and Ireland ,
    our population has been increasing since the 90s
    The no of houses built has not been enough to
    meet demand .its not a mystery at all You can buy a cheap house if you are willing to live in a rural area
    Young people tend to like to live in city's to study and to work. Rich people from America will pay more tax here than they would pay in America
    Trump has increased tax credits for the top 5 per cent
    and for big corporations
    Irish politicians do not in general make changes to tax
    rates when they get elected
    American republicans would regard Ireland as a country governed by Liberal socialists


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,632 ✭✭✭✭M.T. Cranium


    Is there any actual downside to having U.S. billionaires avoiding your country?

    I wish they would avoid my country too.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,503 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    riclad wrote: »
    Property is expensive in city's in the UK and Ireland ,
    our population has been increasing since the 90s
    The no of houses built has not been enough to
    meet demand .its not a mystery at all You can buy a cheap house if you are willing to live in a rural area
    Young people tend to like to live in city's to study and to work. Rich people from America will pay more tax here than they would pay in America
    Trump has increased tax credits for the top 5 per cent
    and for big corporations
    Irish politicians do not in general make changes to tax
    rates when they get elected
    American republicans would regard Ireland as a country governed by Liberal socialists

    American Republicans wouldn't be too far wrong on that one


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,687 ✭✭✭beggars_bush


    I love Ireland..I love it with all my heart.
    Each to their own on the friendliness of the Irish.
    But I do not and will never understand the reason for the high price of property. It can't be explained and in no way shape or form can it be justified.
    History.
    Comes down to the attachment to land and property.
    Its from our history when majority of population were not allowed own land or anything but small houses from the Penal laws.


    Then there's a cultural thing about the stigma of small houses.


  • Registered Users Posts: 859 ✭✭✭Randy Archer


    Kaybaykwah wrote: »
    It's a pretty arrogant comment to make about a country, any country. Wouldn't have expected that from a billionaire.

    He’s American, it’s hardly a shock


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  • Registered Users Posts: 859 ✭✭✭Randy Archer


    AutoTuning wrote: »
    Yeah I find Conan quite unfunny at times, but then I’m not entirely plugged into American late night show humour. The unfunny monologues and set pieces on all those shows are often not funny at all and then you get the “zany” wisecracking that seems to be upstaging the guests.

    I find though that on a few occasions I was basically expected to “do your Irish thing” and act the clown which I found really annoying after while and they’ll throw ludicrous stereotypes - particularly some guy taunted me in a bar and kept saying stuff about the “fighting Irish.”

    I’ve also had people tell me “ah you’re not Irish” because I don’t meet the stereotype they expect me to.

    The worst I’ve ever encountered was a tourist on the Cork to Dublin train. I was in a very quiet, off peak city gold coach, about 5 seats away from him and trying to get a ton of work done ahead of a meeting and I was on the phone a few times.

    He wandered over and asked me where I was from. I said Dublin. He responded “You really need to work on your Irish accent buddy! - You sound like a Brit!”

    I didn’t really know how to respond, but he kept trying to talk to me so, in the end I was pretty blunt and told him I booked the seat to be able to work en route, and would he mind leaving me alone!

    No doubt he’s probably gone home going on about how unfriendly the Irish (or the Brits as he seems to think) are and we are sooo unwelcoming because I wasn’t flattered by being spoken to by some obnoxious asshat.

    Something about “putting your head through the glass window” (Fr Fintan Stack style - Brendan Grace) might have left him in no doubt ...

    Some Americans are incredible obnoxious when they get into the whole research thing ie Wikipedia and start telling you reels of irrelevant “fun facts” about ones own area, never mind the country .

    They are big into the home testers for DNA tests (total scams , doesn’t take into account the history ) now, yet, like many of us here, they couldn’t tell you a thing about their great great grand parents - oddly enough unless one’s family were in public office of some sort , we know very little about our relations beyond the grandparents pre 1950s ... families just don’t talk about them (bit like how you don’t hear people of the Irish civil war era (who are still alive or lived long enough to meet you) want to talk about it )

    The McDonagh brothers ,who wrote plays and films , have regularly put in cheeky home truths / gags about the typical Yank

    One of the worse experiences I had was in a Boston Bar , visiting an aunt . We made the mistake of travelling up to near Southie (junkies and knackers) It was March 1996 . A bucket came around the pub , collecting for “the cause” . My father , who had friends in the Gardai and army ,who had dealt with a lot of attacks in the 1980s at the hands of the Ra , politely declined to contribute . Surprise surprise that didn’t go down well with the Yank

    My auld fella humiliated the lads who started questioning our nationality , asking them basic questions about the country that , inevitably they were clueless about . They were reminded that Irish people were getting caught up in the bombings in British cities that are heavily populated by the Irish. Probably but for the bar man and bouncer, things would have got violent because the shuttering Yank didn’t take to kindly being dressed down and laughed at


    It was shortly after the Canary Warf bombing in London , I had a cousin and two aunts working in that area of London and the cousin got attacked by thugs because he was Irish ,who were understandably angry (but you were arrested and prosecuted) , so naturally it was hard to stomach what was going on in the bars of Boston - but, it was our own fault, we knew what we were getting ourselves into by going into those bars .

    As for Conan O’Brien, it is hard to believe that he was part of the Simpson writing team back in the day. He’s a lot smarter than that (his act on his tv shows) but then, he probably knows what the audience wants

    Late Night US shows can be dreadful. The host always wants to be the centre of attention , David Letterman was a whore for that . You see in the U.K., Jonathan Ross was like that but, he was funny and he wasn’t as bad as those two


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 105 ✭✭Elite Genetics


    The guy pisses about the weather in Ireland. In 2019, just 70 days into the year and it had already rained 38 days in San Francisco and 44 days in San Jose. The so called sunny Silicon Valley. Place is wetter than Galway.


    https://abc7news.com/weather/2019-has-been-a-year-full-of-rain-so-far/5184352/

    Ireland bas better weather than San Francisco lol. That's a first bahahahahaha.


  • Registered Users Posts: 957 ✭✭✭BloodyBill


    I wonder why the people of Cork didn't like the uppity billionaire.

    His Twitter is full of comments made in questionable taste.

    Do I think we are overly friendly ? No. We are genuine.

    We keep to ourselves.

    Is the food great ...no.

    He comes off as bitter. Which is a pathetic thing for a billionaire to be.

    The idea of him feeling rejected by Ireland in his position is sad.

    I am Irish ..I would never really strike up a conversation with a stranger. I find for the most part other Irish people don't either. Its not a great habit to have in the 21st century. Unless you live in a small town. But generally its not safe. And it does mark you out as a tourist. Which again marks you out as ...vulnerable. I wouldn't advise it.

    Thats sad. I dont think any statistics would back you up on your assertion that its unsafe to strike up a conversation with a stranger. You've more chance of getting killed my a kick from a horse than something bad happening during your interaction.
    I disagree on all the American bashing. I lived in Texas and Arkansas. Best few years iv had. Absolutely outstanding people who are friendly. Most in Arkansas were Scotch Irish..real aware of their Presbyterian Irish background.. not aware of the modern Ireland but so what. We native Irish dont actually have a monopoly on how the Irish culture should develope. Irish Americans and Anglo Irish have just as valid an Irish identity as we do. Like I said we native Irish are smug...very condescending


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,067 ✭✭✭✭FixdePitchmark


    I love Ireland - but said I would challenge my natural thinking on this , to try understand his perspective.

    The dude is from California or at least has spent a good bit of time there - as Irish we probably need to keep that mind - it must be one of the most amazing places to live in the world , from a cultural, entertainment, weather, landscape, sport - incredible place. Then the food there must be as good as it gets in America. We have this attitude that food is crap in America , but that is a bit over simplistic . There must be a fairly hip food scene in California to start. With their weather and landscape - it is a bit naive or at least closed mind to say Ireland has better produce. Ireland has the best produce is a bit clichéd here now. We buy all our food in mega corporations . We don't go down to the local farmers market - and do we really trust our restaurant scene here. Yes there is a top level , that you pay massive money , but I wouldn't be convinced many below that are going out and sourcing produce in an ethical way. The way you get gouged on wine and price - they already have lost a bit of faith in me.

    In relation to weather - I personally like it - but the dude again is referring to California. Even the south coast of England / France is phenomenally better than Ireland - we need to take that one on the chin.

    On the friendliest front - Ireland has changed a good bit. people are more closed off , tied to their phone and social network .People have very established relationships from their education and families. It is very rare you see an Irish person get a "new friend" - in fact it would almost be a joke if you did - is that your "new friend" - lol. Can imagine that happen - in fact I've experienced it.

    I would criticize the lad in one way - if he is a billionaire and ate poorly in Ireland - he would want to do his research a bit better. Isn't a county in Ireland without stunning food. Yes if he was going into the likes of Spar or going to the now horrendous service stations - you could see a bad experience. We really made a balls of our service stations / chains like Supermacs / Costa / Burger King - they are mostly horrendous places and again - you are totally gouged.

    To try be light hearted for a second.
    We should really blame coffee culture - bring back the pub. I can't remember anyone opening up to me in a coffee shop , people sitting down with phones , laptops and they are typically filthy places, charging almost 5 euro for a coffee and begrudge you use of the toilet. You can't imagine someone sitting down in a Costa and singing all 8 verses of Arthur Mcbride. You'd almost get daggers for asking for milk.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 423 ✭✭AutoTuning


    There is a growing “stranger danger” paranoia and unfortunately it’s more global than just an Irish thing. People are increasingly in a bubble or headphones and screens and the art of small talk is dying.

    Big cities were always like that, especially on public transport like the Tube, Metro, Subway etc, but it’s spreading to everything else now.

    There’s a friendly degree of small talk that isn’t intrusive or annoying, but I think we are losing the art of how to do that all over the world.

    You don’t stop and ask for directions, you use Google Maps. You don’t talk to someone on the train, you’re too busy interacting with someone 200 or 2000km away on Twitter. You don’t chat people up, it might be weird, so instead you swipe left and right based on head shots and meet strangers from the internet for anonymous sex.

    You’re fed a constant diet of BE AFRAID be VERY AFRAID, especially of OTHERS! That’s not coming from an Irish source, but it’s bleeding in online. The world is less dangerous than it has probably ever been, yet we are living in bubbles of paranoid fear a lot of the time.

    That’s not an Irish unfriendliness. It’s modernity and the internet.

    I was in Brussels Airport about a year ago and there was a big delay, and an 60-70 year old Dutch lady I was sitting beside struck up a conversation. She was old enough to be at least my mother, anyway we ended up blabbing away. There was a major delay at the airport and we ended up deciding to grab lunch, and even had drinks and it was weird in a way, but we were both saying, it’s nice to be human sometimes and she was saying the world used to be a lot more like that.

    We’re definitely losing something by being so steeped in the internet and, this isn’t America bashing, but the fear of others thing is most definitely breezing in from a transatlantic direction as American media and politics increasingly thrives on creating that sense of fear and Irish and British media and online commentary more so is starting to follow - all it takes is talking to one old lady on a train and you’ll end up being kidnapped by the mafia or worse... apparently and that’s if you’re not caught up in a terrorist incident, stuck by lightening or hit in the back of the head by a meteorite

    and don’t get me started on Irish roads! Let’s ignore all the facts and statistics, showing how it’s probably one of the safest countries in the world to drive, the fact you even survived that entirely boring and uneventful trip up the M8, with its conservative drivers and perfect surfaces is a miracle!


  • Registered Users Posts: 31 sidegolo


    Gruffalux wrote: »
    Haha :D He is not wrong about the food and weather. It is often shyte but with moments of heart stopping revelation.
    I love this country and the people but the whole blather about the wonderful "Irish" is a bit condescending.
    I am not all that sad about him thinking we are unfriendly. A bit of honest Eastern European style grumpiness would do us no harm. The top o the morning milking the brim of the hat shyte has long worn thin.
    A few years ago I was having a month in Bulgaria and the locals were delightfully unimpressed and misanthropic. None of this licking your arse spiel. They could not give a toss where you were from, had barely the patience or interest to take your order, much less converse. I loved their honest humanity. I found the same in Hungary. Nobody putting on a show. Other countries too. I enjoy it. Plamas is unnerving. Let us be honest and unfriendly and grouchy and say fcuk you Mr Billionaire, like it or lump it, we are done pretending to be nice and oozy all the time like some creepy paedophile uncle. No more sycophancy.

    You know, people are either 'peaches' or 'coconuts' type. For example, Americans fall into the former and eastern European people you described are definitely in the latter category.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,067 ✭✭✭✭FixdePitchmark



    My auld fella humiliated the lads who started questioning our nationality , asking them basic questions about the country that , inevitably they were clueless about . They were reminded that Irish people were getting caught up in the bombings in British cities that are heavily populated by the Irish. Probably but for the bar man and bouncer, things would have got violent because the shuttering Yank didn’t take to kindly being dressed down and laughed at


    I had a father a bit like that - I always admired his courageousness - but a brother of mine said to me a few years after - na , he was just a bit of an arsehole. :D

    If your going into a bar in a dodgy area - you can go in and have the craic or you can cause trouble.

    Even if your going to say something controversial , you need to have the skill and street smart to do it. In fact - the Irish are masters at it. Others get into daft fights.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,067 ✭✭✭✭FixdePitchmark


    @ AutoTuning

    The mobile phone has really ****ed up human interaction. People literally do not interact. At this stage - some can't. Even in work now - lads have headphones on.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 423 ✭✭AutoTuning


    @ AutoTuning

    The mobile phone has really ****ed up human interaction. People literally do not interact. At this stage - some can't. Even in work now - lads have headphones on.

    They won’t even answer voice calls. We have *HUGE* issue at work with people who are terrified to pick up the phone. Instead they listen to voicemails and respond by email. We have literally discovered some people have their phones forwarded permanently to voicemail and had to issue policies asking people not to “hide behind voicemail”.

    Other people will get their noses out of joint if someone rings instead of texting / IMing.

    Also the issue of people point blank refusing to answer non displayed or unfamiliar phone numbers. We’ve had issues on sites where contractors don’t take calls because they didn’t recognise the numbers.

    I appreciate you get the odd spam call, but I mean I could count the number of scam / spam calls I got in 2020 on one hand. You also aren’t going to get kidnapped and teleported into a parallel universe by a chancer on the other-side of the world telling you they are calling from “Windows” about your virus problem ... There's a hang up button and an ability to say feck off!

    I mean seriously? What do they think will happen if they answer a call from an unfamiliar number?! Do they have that many debt collectors, private detectives and tabloid journalists trying to track them down ?!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 691 ✭✭✭jmlad2020


    Maybe he is talking about Dublin specifically and it's depressing housing market /quality of life which is dire to the majority who don't have a high wage or have struck it lucky with inheritance.

    Poor weather, poor transport system and average food - yes i'd agree with some of his comments.


  • Registered Users Posts: 10,943 ✭✭✭✭the purple tin


    You can get very good food in Dublin. Nearly any type of cuisine from around the world.

    Was your man getting batter burgers and spice boxes out of a local chipper or something :confused:


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,807 ✭✭✭ShatterAlan


    Mad_maxx wrote: »
    American Republicans wouldn't be too far wrong on that one


    They WOULD be wrong in that they have no idea what liberalism or socialism is.


    They equate universal healthcare with Soviet gulags and Pol Pot style purges.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 423 ✭✭AutoTuning


    I think though we are getting carried away. Random tech bro makes comment that we find obnoxious. Time to move on?

    Did anyone know who he was last week? I doubt it.

    Maybe he doesn’t like Ireland. Big deal! Tastes vary.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,807 ✭✭✭ShatterAlan


    Ireland bas better weather than San Francisco lol. That's a first bahahahahaha.


    Did you read the article? It said it rained more than 50% of the first 70 days of 2019. Maybe you want to call up ABC news and tell them that they are a pack of liars or maybe just shout "bahaha" down the line.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,324 ✭✭✭JustAThought


    jmlad2020 wrote: »
    Maybe he is talking about Dublin specifically and it's depressing housing market /quality of life which is dire to the majority who don't have a high wage or have struck it lucky with inheritance.

    Poor weather, poor transport system and average food - yes i'd agree with some of his comments.

    i think his enterprise was based in Cork so i’d assume that was where his comments were about. I’d agree with him on the weather and poor housing - compared to the spacious pads with all mod cons and pools in landscaped gardens and decking set up for outdoor living and rhe variety of architectures and styles in California I can’t imagine that we compare well. That having been said Cork has one of the more interesting and varied city ‘landscapes’ in Ireland so that’s as varied as its going to get - assuming he pays his staff well enough to afford non-boxy identikit suburban houses.

    If someone offered you the choice of living in A house of your choice in Cork, or in California I know which one I’d choose! That having been said the endless complaints and negativity about work and lifestyles in the US on another thread here askjng about work life balance & work holidays in the US has clearly shown that the Irish also either have huge misconceptions or misgivings about living and working in the US.

    Personally I’d great experiences - especially in California (San Fran) where the food IS great and varied - and like the company owner I had the extra stone or two to prove it after I came home here! First world problems!

    As for friendliness I wonder whom he is referring to here? His American staff? People he met in hotels or serving him over here? In all likelyhood probably a far cry from the over friendly USA customer service - but more likely not even Irish - who knows. But we are a living breathing interacting people not a pop up friendliness booth for the amusement of visitors or strangers. I doubt in the US that staff are rolled out and expected to perform their americanness like performing monkeys or some free historical talking musuem as many seem to expect...and endless platter of data on the IRA, Northern Ireland, the famine and their own personal roots/Irishness. It gets predictable and tedious after a while - thou no doubt well intended. Peoples Irish lives and likes are not freebies for his staffs entertainment or gratification - that’s what tour guides and service staff in good hotels offer - for everyone else you have to be nice and earn friendship or be lost or in trouble and someone will help you.

    As for himself - maybe part of his problem was that over here he is not known,was not recognised, not fawned over or blackslapped and high fived like he would be in a media focused high recognition spot like Silicon Valley where many would recognise him and know his wealth - and usefulness and market value to them personally or professionally. Perhaps part of his problem is that over her he was unrecognised and treated just like anybody else, not the billionaires reception he has grown used to - and he didn’t like it or just being another Joe Soap who has to earn his friendships not just demand or expect it.


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    Well no one ever said it was perfect but FFS maybe your man could try living up the side of a mountain in fukcin' Somalia and then come back and tell us all how Ireland is a bit shyte :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 423 ✭✭AutoTuning


    i think his enterprise was based in Cork so i’d assume that was where his comments were about. I’d agree with him on the weather and poor housing - compared to the spacious pads with all mod cons and pools in landscaped gardens and decking set up for outdoor living and rhe variety of architectures and styles in California I can’t imagine that we compare well. That having been said Cork has one of the more interesting and varied city ‘landscapes’ in Ireland so that’s as varied as its going to get - assuming he pays his staff well enough to afford non-boxy identikit suburban houses.

    If someone offered you the choice of living in A house of your choice in Cork, or in California I know which one I’d choose! That having been said the endless complaints and negativity about work and lifestyles in the US on another thread here askjng about work life balance & work holidays in the US has clearly shown that the Irish also either have huge misconceptions or misgivings about living and working in the US.

    Personally I’d great experiences - especially in California (San Fran) where the food IS great and varied - and like the company owner I had the extra stone or two to prove it after I came home here! First world problems!

    As for friendliness I wonder whom he is referring to here? His American staff? People he met in hotels or serving him over here? In all likelyhood probably a far cry from the over friendly USA customer service - but more likely not even Irish - who knows. But we are a living breathing interacting people not a pop up friendliness booth for the amusement of visitors or strangers. I doubt in the US that staff are rolled out and expected to perform their americanness like performing monkeys or some free historical talking musuem as many seem to expect...and endless platter of data on the IRA, Northern Ireland, the famine and their own personal roots/Irishness. It gets predictable and tedious after a while - thou no doubt well intended. Peoples Irish lives and likes are not freebies for his staffs entertainment or gratification - that’s what tour guides and service staff in good hotels offer - for everyone else you have to be nice and earn friendship or be lost or in trouble and someone will help you.

    To be quite honest, with a big budget in California or Cork you’ll get a fantastic home. I mean a big budget in Cork will probably get you some very well designed home with sweeping views over the city, potentially some period mansion or a very architecturally driven home in Kinsale, living a yachty, foodie lifestyle.

    On a lower budget you get much blander and smaller. The same applies in California. Some of the cities, particularly as you get closer to Silicon Valley are extremely expensive and have lots of small housing by American standards.

    Big, cheap houses tend to be more of a feature of the US Midwest and less high demand areas.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,324 ✭✭✭JustAThought


    AutoTuning wrote: »
    To be quite honest, with a big budget in California or Cork you’ll get a fantastic home. I mean a big budget in Cork will probably get you some very well designed home with sweeping views over the city, potentially some period mansion or a very architecturally driven home in Kinsale, living a yachty, foodie lifestyle.

    On a lower budget you get much blander and smaller. The same applies in California. Some of the cities, particularly as you get closer to Silicon Valley are extremely expensive and have lots of small housing by American standards.

    Big, cheap houses tend to be more of a feature of the US Midwest and less high demand areas.

    Yes I agree totally with all your comments but if you are working in a tech company one would hope you are being paid a decent wage & can afford somewhere that isn’t a hovel to choose to rent. I know Silicone Valley has its unique problems with market rates for rentals but the range and variety are still far better than in Cork! No offense Cork which has some beautiful areas! And you don’t have to put an umberella over California to be able to sit outside or have a rowboat at the end if your garden on hand for the annual floods! If someone offered me San Fran or Cork I’d be on the plane again asap!! (Pretending Covid & usa medical bills didn’t exist of course!)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    Our weather is shocking, in fairness. Not being able to anywhere this summer highlighted its crapness for me.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    Bigus wrote: »
    People from very hot dry countries, really appreciate our Irish weather, I’ve been told this, numerous times , first hand from both tourists and full time immigrants to Ireland from Australia,Florida,Texas, the Middle East and even met people from Germany and Italy, who come here summertime for the cool.

    Their quest for colder climate, helped me appreciate our actual weather and also how get the most out of it ,by adapting my outdoor activities to suit. I also have experience of living for extended periods in hot countries so I’m not blinkered and would much prefer our mix, rather than intense heat, especially now with actual global warming.

    I, on the other hand, have heard numerous complaints about the weather from people from hotter climes. The novelty of the mild climate quickly wears off when you are facing your 100th overcast day in a row and can’t make reliable outdoor summer plans.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 423 ✭✭AutoTuning


    Yes I agree totally with all your comments but if you are working in a tech company one would hope you are being paid a decent wage & can afford somewhere that isn’t a hovel to choose to rent. I know Silicone Valley has its unique problems with market rates for rentals but the range and variety are still far better than in Cork! No offense Cork which has some beautiful areas! And you don’t have to put an umberella over California to be able to sit outside or have a rowboat at the end if your garden on hand for the annual floods! If someone offered me San Fran or Cork I’d be on the plane again asap!! (Pretending Covid & usa medical bills didn’t exist of course!)

    Unless you live on the quays or practically in the Lee, you’re not going to have a rowboat for annual floods. Anymore I suppose than you’d need asbestos suits and breathing apparatus for the annual fires in California, as they don’t typically rage through Silicon Valley.

    The choice of rental options in Ireland is a mess thought we don’t seem to get that society isn’t about 4 bedroom suburban houses in the 1970s anymore and supply isn’t meeting demand at all.

    What’s annoys me about Irish cities is that we are recreating the price points and low quality accommodation that drags somewhere like London or Paris down, but our cities are small and not taking advantage of their scale.

    You can literally see the countryside from O’Connell Street, yet Dublin seems to imagine its London or NYC.

    There’s nothing wrong with the fact it’s a small European capital or that Cork is a small European city, but we need to start thinking more like them.

    The models should be Copehangen, Bordeaux, Oslo etc for Dublin and places like Bergen or Aarhus or Nantes or Rennes for Cork.

    We keep repeating British city mistakes and using the U.K. as our bar and it often is a very low or undesirable bar or we are off imagining Dublin is comparable to Paris or Madrid, which it absolutely isn’t even in the same ball park size wise.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 105 ✭✭Elite Genetics


    I, on the other hand, have heard numerous complaints about the weather from people from hotter climes. The novelty of the mild climate quickly wears off when you are facing your 100th overcast day in a row and can’t make reliable outdoor summer plans.

    Exactly the same. I work in a multinational with majority of the office non irish. Number #1 complaint is the weather.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 105 ✭✭Elite Genetics


    AutoTuning wrote: »
    Unless you live on the quays or practically in the Lee, you’re not going to have a rowboat for annual floods. Anymore I suppose than you’d need asbestos suits and breathing apparatus for the annual fires in California, as they don’t typically rage through Silicon Valley.

    The choice of rental options in Ireland is a mess thought we don’t seem to get that society isn’t about 4 bedroom suburban houses in the 1970s anymore and supply isn’t meeting demand at all.

    You can't blame the location for that. The fires are caused by humans by performing actions such as gender reveal parties. Remove the humans and it is solved.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,600 ✭✭✭✭whisky_galore


    AutoTuning wrote: »
    Unless you live on the quays or practically in the Lee, you’re not going to have a rowboat for annual floods. Anymore I suppose than you’d need asbestos suits and breathing apparatus for the annual fires in California, as they don’t typically rage through Silicon Valley.

    The choice of rental options in Ireland is a mess thought we don’t seem to get that society isn’t about 4 bedroom suburban houses in the 1970s anymore and supply isn’t meeting demand at all.

    People will still look for the semi d as they're quite rightly wary of the appalling sh1tbox standard of apartment that have been fired up in this country.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 105 ✭✭Elite Genetics


    People will still look for the semi d as they're quite rightly wary of the appalling sh1tbox standard of apartment that have been fired up in this country.

    Would never live in an apartment. Having to hear annoying children screaming and trampling.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 423 ✭✭AutoTuning


    People will still look for the semi d as they're quite rightly wary of the appalling sh1tbox standard of apartment that have been fired up in this country.

    That and the expectation that independent adults should have to share suburban family homes as a solution to housing isn’t really acceptable.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    Sky King wrote: »
    We need to get over our obsessive need for validation, to be seen as being 'sound' ... to agonise over how we're perceived elsewhere.

    Go on a tourists YouTube video guide OF Ireland, or a video guide which explains irish accents and sayings to outsiders and it's all Irish eejits in the comments.

    And don't get me started on the 'sound irish football fans' changing peoples tyres and cutting people's lawns. Fkin CRINGE.

    We're not that sound. Its a total veneer of fakeness which is a combination of the aforementioned need for validation mixed with an inferiority complex, blended with our total indirectness as a culture.

    Speak to an immigrant in this country. Irish people are unbelievably cliquey and difficult to make good friends with after you crack past the first hour or so.

    I’ve been lambasted both online and in real life for saying how cringeworthy I find all that shite. Now, I have no problem at all with Ireland fans heading off to tournaments and joining street parties and having the craic with fans of other nations. That sounds great. It’s just all that performative nonsense, the desperation to go viral that has happened in the last few tournaments. CRINGEWORTHY.

    And agreed on the YouTube videos wondering at our accents and names and saying. Lads, we live on a planet with over 6,000 languages. I’m sure they all have colourful phrases and names and all the rest. We’re not unique.

    And also agreed on the last bolded bit. The place in rural Ireland where I’m originally from still sees people unironically use the phrase “blow in”. The amount of raised eyebrows about a decade ago when a local man married a Japanese woman, all very “Where did he meet HER?”.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 423 ✭✭AutoTuning


    I guess I grew up in a *very* different Ireland to most of you then. Non-religious household and extremely multicultural extended family, including Europe, Asia and African in-laws. I never really thought of it as unusual to have French and German speaking cousins, to be able to pick up the phone in Shanghai and have relations or going to a NYC Jewish wedding.

    On both sides of my own ancestry I’ve Irish, English, Scottish, French, Italian, Spanish and Norwegians.

    Seems many of the rest of you seem to have spent your time marrying your cousins from the same village (No offence)

    I’m probably a blow in everywhere! Who knew.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,807 ✭✭✭ShatterAlan


    AutoTuning wrote: »
    Unless you live on the quays or practically in the Lee, you’re not going to have a rowboat for annual floods. Anymore I suppose than you’d need asbestos suits and breathing apparatus for the annual fires in California, as they don’t typically rage through Silicon Valley.

    The choice of rental options in Ireland is a mess thought we don’t seem to get that society isn’t about 4 bedroom suburban houses in the 1970s anymore and supply isn’t meeting demand at all.

    What’s annoys me about Irish cities is that we are recreating the price points and low quality accommodation that drags somewhere like London or Paris down, but our cities are small and not taking advantage of their scale.

    You can literally see the countryside from O’Connell Street, yet Dublin seems to imagine its London or NYC.

    There’s nothing wrong with the fact it’s a small European capital or that Cork is a small European city, but we need to start thinking more like them.

    The models should be Copehangen, Bordeaux, Oslo etc for Dublin and places like Bergen or Aarhus or Nantes or Rennes for Cork.

    We keep repeating British city mistakes and using the U.K. as our bar and it often is a very low or undesirable bar or we are off imagining Dublin is comparable to Paris or Madrid, which it absolutely isn’t even in the same ball park size wise.


    You can see the countryside from the top of the Empire State on a clear day :p


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,570 ✭✭✭vriesmays


    The factories are full of dancing bog men - microdisney.


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