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At what age did you first go abroad?

  • 22-12-2020 4:09pm
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    Registered Users Posts: 40


    I saw this alluded to elsewhere and am wondering at what age did you first leave Ireland? I think there might be a significant generational divide on the matter!

    I'm an 80s kid and I was 19 (Spain). Obviously paid for it myself, I remember being worried about what to do in the airport in the lead-up to it. You wouldn't even dream of going abroad as a kid. None of my friend's did. I remember there being a lot of excitement when a friend of mine's family went away when we were about 13? They were excited for the whispered potential of seeing a nude beach.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,220 ✭✭✭✭biko


    Holidays abroad with parents at 4/5 (mainly camping) but left to travel with friends first time at 17.
    Trains around Europe, awesome!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,228 ✭✭✭The Mighty Quinn


    Went to Lourdes when 17 in 2003. About 50 of us from 25 secondary schools in Wexford.

    Introduced me to lots of unholy things.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,543 ✭✭✭✭Thelonious Monk


    3 years old, 1984, Le France


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,003 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    1987, I was 5, we went to Portugal for two weeks.


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,731 ✭✭✭jam_mac_jam


    4 or 5 I think. In the eighties. France.

    On my own 14 or 15 to London. Then Paris at about 19 or 20.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,597 ✭✭✭Witchie


    I was 10 months old when we emigrated to Canada in the mid 70's. We came to Ireland on holidays when I was 2 so that's probably the first holiday abroad. Moved back to Ireland in 1978 and went to America on holidays in 1980.

    I blame my parents for my wanderlust and life in recent years as a digital nomad.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,728 ✭✭✭Badly Drunk Boy


    1984, when I was 11, went on a day trip on the ferry to Holyhead. Due to problems disembarking, we only spent less than an hour on foreign soil.

    The first time proper was in 1995 when I was 22. I flew from Dublin to Frankfurt to Amsterdam to Munich and then back to Dublin. Not a day trip.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,543 ✭✭✭✭Thelonious Monk


    3 years old, 1984, Le France

    I just remembered that they took photos of my family and I and used them in the holiday brochure the next year. I knew I should have been a model.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,884 ✭✭✭Tzardine


    First trip was to Bultins Wales when I was about 10. The first "proper" trip was to Spain when I was about 13.

    First trip without the parents I was 16 (had finished leaving cert) and went to Santa Ponsa with friends. Alcohol poisoning ensued.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,714 ✭✭✭ThewhiteJesus


    i was 20 (long time ago) and it was my first time on a plane aswell, i went to australia for a year with my mates !


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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,174 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    8 to Spain and France, back in the 70's.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,442 ✭✭✭✭AMKC
    Ms


    I was 12 it was the early 90s and we went by ferry to The Isle of Mam. It was a lovely little Island and I remember enjoying it there. It's very hilly do my older sister was working at a hotel there at that time. Then in 96 first time on a jet with younger sister and the parent we went to the Canaries. It was lovely and so warm like a whole other world.

    Live long and Prosper

    Peace and long life.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 468 ✭✭w/s/p/c/


    Went to Butlins Pwllheli in Wales with the family and cousins in 1988 aged 6. Other than that the school tour to Paris in 99 aged 17 (first proper time on a plane, other than a trip to Shannon from Dublin with the Scouts, we went down on the plane, back on a bus!).

    First proper holiday away with the mates etc was Tenerife in 2001 was 20.


  • Registered Users, Subscribers, Registered Users 2 Posts: 47,343 ✭✭✭✭Zaph


    Had my second birthday while the folks were visiting family in England. Don't remember any of it though, I presume I blacked out from all the booze at the birthday celebrations. First time without the parents was a school trip to Paris when I was 15. Due to what went on on that trip and the school trip to Germany the following year, if I had kids there's no way I'd ever allow them go on a foreign school trip. :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,119 ✭✭✭Gregor Samsa


    Went on the ferry to Liverpool when I was about 7 (1980 or 81) with my family as my Dad was doing an exam over there.

    Next time, and first time ever on a plane, was when I was in second year in college (age 20), where I went to Barcelona in 1993 on a college trip. I think I've been abroad at least once a year since then until this year. All three of my children were abroad before they were one.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 501 ✭✭✭HorseSea


    4 weeks! Flew to London.

    My mother asked the doctor "Would it be ok for the baby to fly", he replied it would be very unusual, they don't have wings!" Then said yes there should be no problem. We flew back 6 weeks later.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,999 ✭✭✭✭Strumms


    The Isle of Man when I was 1 and a half.

    I’ve no recollection of the trip obviously but I was shown the photo recently, I put a couple up on Facebook ... my older cousin commented... “ Jesus, you were so damn cute, what happened ?” .... Much appreciated that was !


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,503 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    galway_lad wrote: »
    I saw this alluded to elsewhere and am wondering at what age did you first leave Ireland? I think there might be a significant generational divide on the matter!

    I'm an 80s kid and I was 19 (Spain). Obviously paid for it myself, I remember being worried about what to do in the airport in the lead-up to it. You wouldn't even dream of going abroad as a kid. None of my friend's did. I remember there being a lot of excitement when a friend of mine's family went away when we were about 13? They were excited for the whispered potential of seeing a nude beach.

    two months shy of twenty one

    Dublin to Auckland via London - Bangkok - Sydney


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,593 ✭✭✭theteal


    Florida at 15 (~1998)

    My first born was 8 weeks old on her first trip.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,319 ✭✭✭Half-cocked


    5 years old in 1974. Parents drove me to Portugal via UK, France and Spain in a VW Beetle. The carnation revolution happened while we were there.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 804 ✭✭✭French Toast


    Germany, 5-6. Had an uncle working out there so it was a handy enough holiday for my parents at the time.

    Can't wait for organising the next holiday, whenever that'll be.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 69,903 ✭✭✭✭L1011


    9 with my parents, 15 with school and 17 on my own.

    Last trip abroad was the end of October 2019 and that 14 months is longer than any gap since I was ~12.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,028 ✭✭✭NewbridgeIR


    12 - I was in 6th class. We went on a school tour to London. Ferry from Rosslare on a Wednesday night. On the ship, we watched Liverpool beat Roma in the European Cup Final. Saw Madame Tussauds, Natural History Museum, Science Museum, HMS Belfast, Tower Of London, Buckingham Palace. Went shopping on the Saturday - Hamleys, HMV & Virgin. Had the nicest burger ever. A half-pounder that cost £1.78. I can still remember how good it tasted. Arrived back home on the Sunday morning. Reagan was in Ireland.
    Three days later (6 June) I went to Irish College for the rest of the month. What a few weeks that was. Always grateful to my parents for making the sacrifices and giving me the opportunity.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,075 ✭✭✭smellyoldboot


    Went to London to visit relatives when I was about 7. Was in England/Wales a few times then after that. First "real" holiday was to Ibiza aged 19. Got Sunstroke from drinking and falling asleep on a beach, slept on a beach as I forgot where my hotel was. Drank everything, took everything. It was deadly.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,094 ✭✭✭Sarn


    Went to Malta when 2 or 3 back in the late 70s.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,503 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    theteal wrote: »
    Florida at 15 (~1998)

    My first born was 8 weeks old on her first trip.

    so you had your first born at fifteen ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,305 ✭✭✭✭branie2


    Six years old, and I went to Lourdes


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,402 ✭✭✭McGinniesta


    15.

    I got a hand job too.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,962 ✭✭✭r93kaey5p2izun


    I was 10, in the early 90s, an aunt brought me to England. She brought me to Florida when I was 13 too. My own family never went abroad ever. My father has never been abroad. Went to Switzerland on a school trip in 5th Year. After that I went to Greece after my first year in college. I have not been abroad since 2015 though. I haven't been more than 15 miles from home in 5 years. Feels like I'll never get away anywhere again.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    Sounds so odd seeing the UK being referred to as "abroad"... Isle of Man?

    As for me; a camping holiday all round Europe aged 7. At that age memories tend to be ...unusual. One such is that we kids slept in sleeping bags in the car and in france it got infested by ants. So a white circle of DDT was created round the site...

    Some of the other memories are best left unsaid :eek

    I did write a diary at school about it all that was well received by the teachers!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,228 ✭✭✭The Mighty Quinn


    Graces7 wrote: »
    Sounds so odd seeing the UK being referred to as "abroad"... Isle of Man?

    Well, its a different country so it is abroad I guess? Maybe because you're British you have a different view of it? Would like to hear your view?

    Graces7 wrote: »
    Some of the other memories are best left unsaid :eek

    That sounds sinister! I hope it wasn't


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    Well, its a different country so it is abroad I guess? Maybe because you're British you have a different view of it? Would like to hear your view?



    Oh yes it is because I am Engish. Seems strange to see my homeland referred to as " abroad" ! And I never think of myself having moved " abroad" when I came to ireland. " Abroad" would be France etc. Odd that I thought of ireland as not abroad when I was planning the move too . I had lived a year here earlier

    Perspectives are interesting !

    That sounds sinister! I hope it wasn't

    More embarrassing ( for my parents) than sinister! I have aired one of them on boards! About.. beachwear! lol....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,272 ✭✭✭Barna77


    First time abroad when I was about 10, to Portugal

    First time leaving Ireland, 29 to the UK


  • Registered Users Posts: 20 Chaoticawk


    I still haven't been with a broad


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,593 ✭✭✭theteal


    Mad_maxx wrote: »
    so you had your first born at fifteen ?

    :confused: nope, just offering a generational comparison


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,157 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    I was 23 and I went to the U.S alone. It was both terrifying and brilliant.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 36,170 ✭✭✭✭ED E


    Boston at age 2 I wanna say, might have been 1.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Music Moderators, Politics Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,360 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dravokivich


    Not sure, the younger i had done something, the less reliable I am as a source :P As I only remember the second time I was in England.

    By the time I was 4/5 I had been to England twice and France once. England was to visit family. A tear was drawn when I heard of the demolition of Camelot recently.


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,431 ✭✭✭Cody montana


    21.
    Which is late.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,208 ✭✭✭LuasSimon


    For many my age the first time you went abroad normally meant going to work on the buildings in England with the chance you might never again come home . Not that long either early eighties.
    Started secondary school with 20 boys in my class. , after inter cert 5 finished school and went to England to older brothers etc . Of the 15 that managed to do their leaving 11 went to England and of the other 4 two went to college because their parents could afford it and two took up family farms .
    Of the 16 that went to England , 4 or 5 still live there in varying set ups at this stage , one is super rich from building and two or three are nearly homeless from drink . Others went further to USA and Australia . About half returned home at some point .


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,373 ✭✭✭✭gmisk


    My dad worked abroad when I was growing up so quite young...I would guess about 6/7 maybe.
    I think Saudi Arabia was the first or maybe Iraq


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,432 ✭✭✭SusanC10


    I was 12. We went to France on the Ferry. Great holiday.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,977 ✭✭✭Andrea B.


    Was in London in late 80's. Not common but there was a few 15 year old Irish lads working over there. Mad when I think of it and have kids of my own now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,391 ✭✭✭olestoepoke


    Boat from Dublin to Hollyhead when I was around 6. First time on a plane I was 17 and flew to Barcelona to work on the building of the Olympic village/ hotel.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,033 ✭✭✭PsychoPete


    Never, I also don't plan on going abroad in the future


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,152 ✭✭✭BobMc


    Parents immigrated 1974 I was about 10 months old, back and forth to the old sod every few years, returned in 1984,

    never taken on a sun holiday per se with the folks, first time abroad alone was 17 or 18 Playa de las Americas with the then girlfriend, remember it still to this day, great time had would have been '90 or '91


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,134 ✭✭✭Living Off The Splash


    First time abroad aged under 10 was to the island of Jersey with my parents. Around 1962.

    Still remember visiting the Underground Hospital and learning about the German occupation. Around then you could buy small pocket sized war comics that were called 64's.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,333 ✭✭✭Hamsterchops


    galway_lad wrote: »
    At what age did you first go abroad?.

    Six years old when we went camping in the Isle of Man. Laxey Wheel, horse drawn trams, Snaefell mountain railway, cats without tails!

    Not sure if that's 'abroad' though?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    SusanC10 wrote: »
    I was 12. We went to France on the Ferry. Great holiday.

    We had school trips to France on the ferry from England; my memories of the bad crossings...


  • Registered Users Posts: 7,955 ✭✭✭YellowLead


    For me it was 16, to Lanzarote, paid for by myself from a summer job - went with a friends family and another girl. To be fair we were very well behaved at that stage but I still think the other girls parents were so good to have brought us, I’m not sure I’d take on somebody else’s teenagers - well behaved or not.
    My own family didn’t do Irish holidays even - could take a break from the farm for one thing.


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