How old would you date?

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts

I’m 37 and female. If single.... 50?

KathleenGrant

My last relationship was with a man over 20 years younger than me. I have no other point to make. I just want to brag, that's all.

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts

FTA69 wrote: »

Nonce chat that is.

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IAMAMORON

Hellokitty1212 wrote: »

A gentleman wouldn't refer to being with someone as nailing them. The cast of American Pie might however.

Oh I nail.

I clatter sometimes also, no complaints either.. so far.

Mimon

I'm male, early forties. Would probably go for 33 to 45.

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts

tomwaits48 wrote: »

100% - a fairly well known Irish musician ended up in a relationship with a fan who he met when she was just 14. Always thought that was a bit off.

Glen Hansard and Marketa Irglova. Met her when she was 12, they got together when she was 18. He was 30ish when they got together. Ew.

Pherekydes

I'm 60. If my wife died or divorced me then my range would be a fairly narrow 57-59.

Church on Tuesday

Aongus Von Bismarck wrote: »

When I was 32 I was involved in a quick, passionate, and slightly volatile relationship with an extremely attractive 51 year old woman. It was sensational at the start - she was extremely passionate, highly intelligent, and the love making was absolutely sensational.

However it quickly became apparent why she had been divorced twice. An extremely volatile woman whose temper outside the bedroom was soon matched by her kinks within it. I didn't want to arrive home some day and find out that one of my beloved cats was boiling in a saucepan on the stove.

The breakup was actually surprisingly easy, and I've since stuck to partners who are 5-10 years younger than me.

What in the fcuk?? :D:D



Jesus, I can't wait for pubs to open again.

AdrianBalboa

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts wrote: »

Glen Hansard and Marketa Irglova. Met her when she was 12, they got together when she was 18. He was 30ish when they got together. Ew.

There’s something not right about that, or him.

Hellokitty1212

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts wrote: »

Glen Hansard and Marketa Irglova. Met her when she was 12, they got together when she was 18. He was 30ish when they got together. Ew.

Celine Dion and her now late husband. 12 too - never sat well with me that.

Irish_rat

Aongus Von Bismarck wrote: »

When I was 32 I was involved in a quick, passionate, and slightly volatile relationship with an extremely attractive 51 year old woman. It was sensational at the start - she was extremely passionate, highly intelligent, and the love making was absolutely sensational.

However it quickly became apparent why she had been divorced twice. An extremely volatile woman whose temper outside the bedroom was soon matched by her kinks within it. I didn't want to arrive home some day and find out that one of my beloved cats was boiling in a saucepan on the stove.

The breakup was actually surprisingly easy, and I've since stuck to partners who are 5-10 years younger than me.

I think that more has to do with the person rather than the age! Sounds bat crazy!

Mimon

lucalux wrote: »

I know one guy who seriously considered breaking up with his (13 years younger than him) girlfriend, because her sex drive was too high

Was in stitches with the stories of one lad and his Italian ex, she would be ready to pounce as soon as he came in the door. Would want to do it everywhere in public and all areas of the house like cramped cupboards. He couldn't keep up and ended it

lucalux

Mimon wrote: »

Was in stitches with the stories of one lad and his Italian ex, she would be ready to pounce as soon as he came in the door. Would want to do it everywhere in public and all areas of the house like cramped cupboards. He couldn't keep up and ended it

Cramped cupboards.. oh holy god Biddy

KathleenGrant

KathleenGrant wrote: »

Well hellooooooo ; )

KathleenGrant

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts

Hellokitty1212 wrote: »

Celine Dion and her now late husband. 12 too - never sat well with me that.

I didn’t know that. :eek: I thought she was at least of age when they met. Puke.

B.A._Baracus

10 years either way seems to be the acceptable norm in society.
But I think it has to be said that while many would view a 40 year old dating a 20 year old as weird officially. Unofficially there is a lot who would if they could.

Many a rich man has someone quite younger hanging out of them.
Jerry Seinfeld at age 38 dated a 17 year old. Even Elvis Presley, the king himself first met Priscilla when she was only 14! Now that's mental.

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts wrote: »

I didn’t know that. :eek: I thought she was at least of age when they met. Puke.

I think it's ok but I can see how it feels yucky. Just because they met when she was 12 doesn't mean anything negative about him. When she became an adult they probably grew close and fell in love. Their relationship looked very genuine, well as much as a complete strangers can.

izzyflusky

I'm 32 and I think I would probably prefer someone from age 36 up to 45 max. I've met very handsome 50 year olds that looked better than a lot of men my age, but I know it's not the norm.

I did meet my husband at 19 when he was 30.

Irish_rat

KathleenGrant wrote: »

Well hellooooooo ; )

Kathleen we need to know your age 😅

suicide_circus

Does "date" imply more than just committing unspeakable acts upon each other?

Gruffalux

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts wrote: »

Glen Hansard and Marketa Irglova. Met her when she was 12, they got together when she was 18. He was 30ish when they got together. Ew.

I actually know one couple who are married now for years but she babysat him from birth. It has never not been weird in my mind no matter how I try to arrange it. Though they get on very well and are solid.
As for dating, if I was, I would not go for much younger guys - there is just a big mental and emotional difference. 40 - 50 ish is fine. I wouldn't want to be minding them when they are doddery either!

suicide_circus

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts wrote: »

Glen Hansard and Marketa Irglova. Met her when she was 12, they got together when she was 18. He was 30ish when they got together. Ew.

thats a bit wrong

Qwertyminger

A friend of mine left her abusive boyfriend recently (both 30) Brilliant I thought. About five minutes later she was in a relationship again with a man in his 60s.

Do some people just hate themselves and have no self esteem or do you reckon they could be happy? If I were with someone twice my age all I could think about is how we'd only have half my current lifespan tops before I have to change his nappy.

KathleenGrant

Irish_rat wrote: »

Kathleen we need to know your age 😅

Need to know or would like to know? There is a difference.

KathleenGrant

Qwertyminger wrote: »

A friend of mine left her abusive boyfriend recently (both 30) Brilliant I thought. About five minutes later she was in a relationship again with a man in his 60s.

Do some people just hate themselves and have no self esteem or do you reckon they could be happy? If I were with someone twice my age all I could think about is how we'd only have half my current lifespan tops before I have to change his nappy.

Or maybe she met somebody nice who values and respects her and she feels safe with him.

ILoveYourVibes

You can't say unless you know the person.

They could be 35 and like 17 mentally. Or 40 and 87 mentally ...just really jaded

ANYWAY ..from the outside you really don't understand other people's relationships.

Sam Hain

Homelander wrote: »

I'm 33. I'd be okay with about ten years older. I wouldn't say no to someone younger but usually I prefer people my own age or older.

But they all do.

LilacNails

Went out with someone 10yrs older than me. Kinda want them back.

Sam Hain

IAMAMORON wrote: »

I am nailing a 27 year old from around the corner at the moment.

Absolute bear in the sack, she loves it.

Is a bear not an excessively hairy, large homosexual?

breezy1985

Sam Hain wrote: »

Is a bear not an excessively hairy, large homosexual?

Wouldn't be my thing but nothing wrong with his girlfriend roleplaying as a large hairy man.

Or if he is being literal Yogi Bear

Mimon

Sam Hain wrote: »

Is a bear not an excessively hairy, large homosexual?

:D

IAMAMORON

Sam Hain wrote: »

Is a bear not an excessively hairy, large homosexual?

That is just narrow minded stereotyping.

How crude.

It is also a colourful noun to emphasise a libidinous lover.

It sounds like you are not getting enough yourself? A distinctive pong of envy off your post.

KathleenGrant

IAMAMORON wrote: »

That is just narrow minded stereotyping.

How crude.

It is also a colourful noun to emphasise a libidinous lover.

It sounds like you are not getting enough yourself? A distinctive pong of envy off your post.

It does not emphasise a libidinous lover to most of us.
Like a bear with a sore head/like a bear in the mornings. None of these sound good.
If you google like a bear in bed a lot of results come up for how well they sleep, not how much sex they have.
I got no pong of envy from the post, i got a sense of having a laugh.

Bowlardo

Qwertyminger wrote: »

A friend of mine left her abusive boyfriend recently (both 30) Brilliant I thought. About five minutes later she was in a relationship again with a man in his 60s.

Do some people just hate themselves and have no self esteem or do you reckon they could be happy? If I were with someone twice my age all I could think about is how we'd only have half my current lifespan tops before I have to change his nappy.

You’d be surprised how many woman have daddy issues.

The Inbetween is mine

KathleenGrant wrote: »

It does not emphasise a libidinous lover to most of us.
Like a bear with a sore head/like a bear in the mornings. None of these sound good.
If you google like a bear in bed a lot of results come up for how well they sleep, not how much sex they have.
I got no pong of envy from the post, i got a sense of having a laugh.

He was extracting the urine I believe.

IAMAMORON

KathleenGrant wrote: »

It does not emphasise a libidinous lover to most of us.
Like a bear with a sore head/like a bear in the mornings. None of these sound good.
If you google like a bear in bed a lot of results come up for how well they sleep, not how much sex they have.
I got no pong of envy from the post, i got a sense of having a laugh.

Don't tell me you're jealous too Kay?

Have you never phucked someone like an animal?

KathleenGrant

IAMAMORON wrote: »

Don't tell me you're jealous too Kay?

Have you never phucked someone like an animal?

Jealous? Oh no I'm not jealous at all. No need to be.
And no, i never "plucked" anyone. I make it my business to stay away from turkeys.

IAMAMORON

KathleenGrant wrote: »

Jealous? Oh no I'm not jealous at all. No need to be.
And no, i never "plucked" anyone. I make it my business to stay away from turkeys.

Do you wear glasses in bed?

Did you forget to put them on this morning?

KathleenGrant

IAMAMORON wrote: »

Do you wear glasses in bed?

Did you forget to put them on this morning?

you got me there. That was a bad one!
No am posting while cooking dinner with one eye on tv and trying to figure what bet I'm doing on Pool v Utd.
Wasn't paying attention.

IAMAMORON

KathleenGrant wrote: »

you got me there. That was a bad one!
No am posting while cooking dinner with one eye on tv and trying to figure what bet I'm doing on Pool v Utd.
Wasn't paying attention.

Dinner sounds lovely Kay.

What's on today?

Who are Poo?

purifol0

Dating - half my age plus 7

Riding - half my age (I wish)

Qwertyminger

Qwertyminger wrote: »

A friend of mine left her abusive boyfriend recently (both 30) Brilliant I thought. About five minutes later she was in a relationship again with a man in his 60s.

Do some people just hate themselves and have no self esteem or do you reckon they could be happy? If I were with someone twice my age all I could think about is how we'd only have half my current lifespan tops before I have to change his nappy.

Maybe your friend is happy in the now.

IAMAMORON

IAMAMORON wrote: »

That is just narrow minded stereotyping.

How crude.

It is also a colourful noun to emphasise a libidinous lover.

It sounds like you are not getting enough yourself? A distinctive pong of envy off your post.

Ooohh someone is touchy. Must have hit a nerve :-)

IAMAMORON

Qwertyminger wrote: »

A friend of mine left her abusive boyfriend recently (both 30) Brilliant I thought. About five minutes later she was in a relationship again with a man in his 60s.

Do some people just hate themselves and have no self esteem or do you reckon they could be happy? If I were with someone twice my age all I could think about is how we'd only have half my current lifespan tops before I have to change his nappy.

Moths love older guys, there is less bullshight going on.

60 year old blokes know exactly what they want and when they want it, birds love that.

begbysback

KathleenGrant wrote: »

you got me there. That was a bad one!
No am posting while cooking dinner with one eye on tv and trying to figure what bet I'm doing on Pool v Utd.
Wasn't paying attention.

Pool deffo, no value in utd parking the bus again.

HBC08

AdrianBalboa wrote: »

My husband and I discussed this a few weeks ago. The traditional view is very misogynistic: it’s considered alright, in the media, if some greasy middle aged man is creeping on younger women. Especially so if his wife is portrayed as some shrew or, forgive me for using a disgusting term, a “Karen” shrilly henpecking him in rollers while waving a rolling pin.

Alternatively if a woman is involved with a younger man she is accused of being some demented sex pervert à la Samantha in SATC, “mutton dressed as lamb” or a cougar (there is no equivalent term for a man). Ephebophilia is excusable if the elder of the couple involved is a male.

I may have strayed in the past with younger men but that was a long time ago, we have had marriage counselling and we need to move on. I warned my husband that if he ever considered leaving me for a young one that I would ride him so hard in the courts all he would have left are the ****ing fillings in his teeth. We’re in our early forties.

Sounds like he bagged himself a keeper and ye have a great marriage.

The Inbetween is mine

KathleenGrant wrote: »

you got me there. That was a bad one!
No am posting while cooking dinner with one eye on tv and trying to figure what bet I'm doing on Pool v Utd.
Wasn't paying attention.

2-0 United... Liverpool are rattled

IAMAMORON

Zaiden Shrilling Wig wrote: »

Ooohh someone is touchy. Must have hit a nerve :-)

My nerves are exhausted after the amount of touching they got last night.

They were kept fervently busy by my divine 27 year old lover. She rocks.

horsebox1977

Plumbthedepths wrote: »

I’d view a 30 year old (male/female) dating a 17 year old as a predator.

Imagine being 30 and going to someones debs.