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Help to escape toxic relationship

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  • #52
    Unreg for RI
    Registered Users Posts: 10 ✭Unreg for RI


    Thanks for the replies.

    I will read and respond to all on Sunday.



  • #53
    TheadoreT
    Registered Users Posts: 925 ✭✭✭TheadoreT


    It sounds like the perfect storm of her being so insecure that she needs the regular validation that you're madly in love with her, and you being so insecure that you'll accept all the horrible treatment and provide her what she wants. She then bins you and rinse repeat.

    The worrying part here is that your delusions are so deep that if at some point in the future you try to move on you can tell she could pull you back in very easily with a bit of attention. You need to let go of any thoughts that her contacting you is her lingering feeling for you, it's not. Her respect levels for you are sub zero.

    As above, you need to treat this addiction very seriously as your behaviour is becoming very problematic. Addicts do erratic things, and you've moved into stalker territory, don't let this escalate any further.

    And don't feel the need to box her off into some psycho category to explain her behaviour. You both just need to find self worth through none toxic means. She can't be happy either and you're ultimately dragging each other down.



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