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Went cyberstalking, he had a fianceé until recently.

The Young Wan · 2022-09-08 12:50:13

Ok I know this will make me look more unhinged than a broken door but we're here now so I really would appreciate some advice. Matched on Tinder last week. Spent the whole weekend messaging back and forth. Quiet during the work day, messaging again at night after work. Even messaged me while in the middle of a brothers…

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#52 22-09-2022 11:54am

Henry Ford III

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Way too much intensity OP.
You need to relax and stop overthinking as it's fairly obvious that it's ruining your potential for a relationship.

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#53 22-09-2022 12:17pm

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I would read it as him saying he's open to meeting up, no pressure though. If we don't click romantically, it won't be for nothing - we'll have had a friendly chat.
But didn't you arrange to meet and he went silent with the meet up not happening? And he's getting in touch now, a week later? If that's the case, I don't think meeting up is a good idea. You're letting him make all the calls here. You ended up extremely hurt last week, and now you're in two minds about meeting him? I'd give it a miss tbh.

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