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online dating

jay432 · 2022-12-19 21:55:32

I'm an attractive Irish woman who cannot get a date. Everyone keeps asking me how am i single and I dont know why. i am constantly matching people and they never talk or ask me out. I have also dated numerous men for months and then they ghost me or say they dont want a relationship. I dont know what to do?!

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#19142 20-07-2024 2:09pm
orchidkey

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What's changed for women with online dating is they have too many options. The paradox of choice. That's why they're finding it hard to settle. Looking at a fella, they know there's another just a swipe away. So it's harder to make that life long decision and settle with the person with that teeny tiny flaw right in front of you.
If women knew their options were much more limited to those they know personally or whoever they happen to bump into in real life, it would take away the paradox of choice.
If our parents generation carried on the way people do today with online dating, there'd be far less of us alive.

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