My girlfriend has epilepsy and recently had a seizure at work.

Relax brah

My girlfriend has epilepsy and recently had a seizure at work. She ended up with 2 black eyes from hitting her head on her desk. So, many people have made jokes about how I hit her. I hate this sexist mentality.

I wonder, if this hadn't happened to her in a public place, would I have to work harder to prove to people that I didn't do this?

KilOit

Your social circle are morons then

Jequ0n

People have accidents for all sorts of reasons, and most people won’t assume domestic violence by default.

No need to turn this event into a gender war drama.

afatbollix

My wife pucked so hard from morning sickness she ruptured so many blood vessels in her eye and it then swelled up like a black eye.

Every single time she was taken aside in the hospital at every scan away from me to be asked what happened. To be honest, as she should.

She had to get an eye patch as she was teaching kids online during covid at the time. I'm sure her nickname was pirate or something.

Only thing that came out of it is me getting the snip as she won't get up the duff again.

Pauliedragon

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058287319/my-girlfriend-has-epilepsy-and-recently-had-a-seizure-at-work

I'd be more concerned about the seizure OP which I'm sure ye are rather than people's reaction to it. Those things can be dangerous forget about other people's moronic opinions.

apache

She should be on anti seizure medication to prevent it. Dangerous.

Pauliedragon

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/120327831#Comment_120327831

Anti seizure medication isn't 100% foolproof. They can still happen.

walterking

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058287319/my-girlfriend-has-epilepsy-and-recently-had-a-seizure-at-work

Sadly it probably would be the case.

Happened to a very good friend of mine. A neighbour called the gardai. They would not believe her and took him for questioning. One of the gardai wanted to charge him until he used his phone call to contact a superintendent in another area that was a family friend and knew of the collapsing.

If the Garda had the intellectual ability to call her gp he would have had the information immediately.

I believe he got a very meek apology

Mrs OBumble

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058287319/my-girlfriend-has-epilepsy-and-recently-had-a-seizure-at-work

Yes. Proper order too. Abusers have all sorts of MO for covering their tracks, and all possible abuse should lead to the (possible) victim being offered the chance to access support services.

Not sure how this is a Current Affairs topic though.

Relax brah

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/120328217#Comment_120328217

As mentioned by an earlier poster, this did happen in the hospital and subsequental medical follow ups.

We are together since our teens over 20+ years. Our friends and family would never suggest such a nasty thing.

However, “jokingly,” her female friends make jokes about it aimed towards me. Both in public and private, this is not a laughing matter and makes me extremely uneasy. They know me just as long as I know her and know damn well I would never do such a thing. It’s disgusting sexist behaviour and I have spoken to their partners about it as has my gf spoken to them.

It’s just shockingly accepted towards men these days which isn’t fair.

Jazz Hands

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/120328365#Comment_120328365

Why have you spoken to their partners and not directly to them.

Relax brah

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/120328381#Comment_120328381

I have spoken to them and they laugh it off as a “joke.” We are in the same friends group for so many years and I am close to their partners. Many of which I was friends with before I met my partner and they met theres, so it wasn’t exactly a difficult point to get across or discuss

Annasopra

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/120328385#Comment_120328385

It seems it was difficult to get across though. From your own admission they didnt see your perspective and brushed it off as a joke.

JohnnyFortune

So you can't take a joke. Hardly worthy of a thread?

Because women...

Ten of Swords

Mod - Not a CA, thread closed.

If you want to continue this I suggest starting a thread in the PI forum