Difficult conversations

TracyFlick

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TheadoreT

This is the guy you wrote a thread about not being sexually attracted to him because he's very overweight?

You seem to have a lot of fondness and respect for him as person but if that fire is lacking between you two you can see why he's always been hesitant to commit to anything.

People don’t break up with people they're in love with. I think you both need to accept youve a great friendship and not much more.

Dial Hard

If this is all the same person, you've had four different threads questioning your relationship with this guy. I think that probably answers whatever question you had in your OP, tbh.

YellowLead

OP if you want kids, and he’s very unsure, I don’t think there’s a promising future here. It’s not like the decision to cut and run would be a hurried one. You’ve been on and off and unsure about this guy - it’s not like it’s all sunshine and roses bar the pretty big life decision about children.

If you stick with him and it works out you might not get over the urge to have kids and resent him, if you stick with him and it doesn’t work out you’ll be annoyed at yourself for wasting more time. Don’t stick with him out of desperation if it doesn’t feel 100% right.

HildaOgdenx

Mod Note - OP deleted - thread closed.

Hilda