Wedding Coming Up

clenspraoi

So myself and herself decided to finally get married and our wedding is scheduled for the summer which suits both our families and friends.

I'm just having a slight meltdown about one guy in particular, a close friend of mine when we were younger. We haven't spoken in a long time, we were always regularly chatting and would always put in the effort to meet up, not really within the last few years, we drifted away from one another, I initially thought that we would become close again, but for whatever reason, it didn't happen and I was angry about it for a while, he kind of distanced himself from me, though he would still contact our mutual friends, and in fairness, his life became busy, so did mine, I guess.

Anyway, we had to send out the invitations a few weeks ago and I didn't include him, which I think might be a mistake, but maybe it's the right thing to do.

Sometimes I really want him to be there, but I'm so uncertain sometimes, like I don't consider him a close friend anymore, but I did in the past and this is important!

My parents were asking me whether or not he would be invited, I told them straight out - I haven't seen or heard from him in years and they were disappointed, in fairness, so was I.

I mentioned it to the misses a few times and she told me to think about it for a while longer because we still have a few months to go

I really miss him and have done for years, but sometimes friendships end.

Does anyone have any advice or were you ever in a similar position before?

Baybay

Meet up with him beforehand, if you can. See how it goes.

Enough happening on the day of the wedding without wondering / worrying about someone who hasn’t bothered about you for years.

After the meet-up, invite him if it feels right.

SAMTALK

I really miss him and have done for years, but sometimes friendships end

This stood out to me. Get in contact , you obviously miss him