Are we dating the same guy Dublin

BigbogmcG

You are a know all huh u got a big mouth

BigbogmcG

What an appauling condescending horrific remark. You are a nasty piece of work. There are very well educated professional women as well as not so much, in the groups.

BigbogmcG

It’s not true. Scorned women,make scurrilous accusations, when rejected or scorned. A young guy seems a classy, nice looking well educated guy has been posted and branded a rapist. When this was questioned. The anonymous poster got defensive and agressive and posted his full name, location media Handel and an album of his photos.

highpitcheric

That there is no comparable male version (by size, intensity of intererst) is very telling of the sexual dynamics which some people tie themselves in a knot to deny.

(im aware of the token 'are we dating the same girl' but nobody seems to give a shyte about it).

Women date up, and often at a steep angle, as steep as possible. And many women still struggle to understand how they're victims of their own haughty standards. And won't listen to the truth that prince charming is always fcking around, because he can, because of women like YOU.

Ivor_Guddon

i'm waiting for the first suicide to happen from this so called group

a female friend of mine is on this group and she has sent me some of the posts and comments posted on it and tbh it's catastrophic to a person , alot of lies and people just chiming in with the 2 cents , do these women even think that the lies can have a lasting affect on a guys mental health ?? i'm sure there are absolute scrotes in both sexes etc but what i seen wasn't " making others aware of a narcissist or whatever " it was like a trex tearing into a mouse , shocking and there will be suicides from these groups wait and see

Wanderer2010

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/120705948#Comment_120705948

Not a smaller percentage of men as per your last paragraph. One of the most enduring and extremely powerful myths in our society is that women are bitchier than men and thats simply not true and allows a significant number of men to express their horrendous poison and can get away with it because "ah shur men arent like that"...

Ivor_Guddon

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121757040#Comment_121757040

both sides are known to be petty and small minded etc

fact is , these pages should NOT be allowed , purely toxic as the other side can't defend themselves

buckman99

Has anyone actually got access to the Dublin or Ireland group and is willing to help me out?

I have a very strong suspicion I've been posted about by a disgruntled ex and this is having a huge impact on me.

You would have less of these problems if dating apps weren't a thing. Dating apps just exasperate women's hypergamy. So they end up competing for the same men where the vast majority of men are ignored. And also by the way plenty of settled / married men use dating apps for something on the side while masquerading as been single. It's a system that destroys the traditional nuclear family. Both women and men lose out ultimately.

Jequ0n

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121795633#Comment_121795633

Nonsense. People cheat when they want to and they will find opportunities either way. The apps might facilitate this somewhat but they are an easy way to get caught (especially when you are living in fish bowl like Ireland). Apps are not destroying the glorious nuclear family that is far too overrated.

mariaalice

There are hundreds of new houses being built around the area I live in and hundreds more within 10k, the vast majority purchased by couples, the nuclear family or coupling up isn't going anywhere.

Dating apps are possibly making some more picky though.

YellowLead

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121796186#Comment_121796186

I think the reality is that many more women are working in good careers than previous generations and so they don’t feel like they need to settle down in order to buy a house / be looked after / have a good life for themselves and their kids. I think there are a lot of unhappy marriages out there from people settling - many divorced men I’ve spoken to have admitted the only reason they got married was because their friends were doing it or pressure was put on them etc - they don’t take the time to select a compatible partner they just go with whoever they are dating at the time. Women are often the driving force behind marriage and if they can be choosy now instead of just a guy who can support them financially they will do so.

Ivor_Guddon

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121795583#Comment_121795583

join the club

and i actually know the one who posted about me 100 %

and she is blatently lying to ruin a persons character

like i said before i'm waiting on a person to commit suicide because of the lies and not having a thick skin

louisaa

As a female I randomly came across that page and I just don't feel right about it. its awful some of the stuff they say. Like for instance it's a red flag that one man is living with his elderly mother. Tbh I think worse of the women posting such things. And people make up lies etc etc. Hope It gets taken down.

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121750814#Comment_121750814

Mainly because men are generally speaking physically stronger and statistically more likely to have a serious narcissistic component to their personality which poisons the experience of the other half in any dating scenario.

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/03/150304104040.htm

One of many studies. I can’t post others from medical sites here, but there are literally tons. Yes, there are indeed female narcs, goodness knows I have worked with a couple of them, my name cousin was married to one of them, but statistically women are more likely to be subject to the coercive control of a male. Males are statistically less likely than females to have self-control, and have serious addiction issues which interfere with how they behave towards partners.

Having said that, most men are fine, but the ones who aren’t fine are very likely to persistently inhabit the dating sites in search of prey.

I’ve got into trouble on social media before for defending the male population in general and “letting down” women, but most men are not the source of problems, but males are overall considerably more likely to be a danger to women, and indeed other men, which shouldn’t be forgotten either.

As I said the dating sites are inhabited by a significant cohort of men who are best avoided by anybody.

Jequ0n

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121852133#Comment_121852133

Own fault if people are too dumb to fall for crap and promises.

highpitcheric

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121852133#Comment_121852133

Ok that all seems true but I dont see how it relates to anything previous.

The top men are probably going to be narcissists, and thats where women aim. Which facilitates the aforementioned narcissism.

Basically mr right is oftentimes a trap. Some women struggle to see the mechanism. And they wonder what happened.

Are we dating the same guy? Pretty easy to answer.

Is he a complete Chad? If he is. Yes you are.

jay1988

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121852709#Comment_121852709

Excuse my ignorance but what is a Chad?

highpitcheric

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121862555#Comment_121862555

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chad_(slang)

jay1988

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121863856#Comment_121863856

Appreciate that but definitely feel like I've lost brain cells after reading that, manosphere wtf.

highpitcheric

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121865666#Comment_121865666

The old term is 'stud'. It just means stud. Hunk.

YellowLead

https://evoke.ie/2024/04/10/wellness/sex-relationships/bachelor-women-bad-date

Wonder what the outcome will be

Grayson

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/122001993#Comment_122001993

However I feel about groups that can make unproven accusations about people, that guy sounds like an asshole.

Hotblack Desiato

It's still possible for an asshole to be wronged 😉 you can't say someone is a murderer ffs unless you have proof

Ivor_Guddon

just an update on this , 2 irish guys have commited suicide in Dublin over these groups , 1 know 1 of them guys through some other people and his life was persecuted by 1 particular wench who had been reported numerous times and nothing done about it , i fecking knew this would happen to somebody was only a matter of time , RIP Liam

remember ladies 2 sides to everything and very easy to make up a fake whatsapp chat depicting shite , so well done

2 lives gone over this tripe

Ivor_Guddon

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/122026792#Comment_122026792

and don't ask for news articles to show they died , it wouldnt be on the headline news but maybe will be soon as his parents will speak out

Musicrules

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/122026792#Comment_122026792

What was his second name? Suicide is an awful thing, would like to leave a comment on rip.ie.

Ivor_Guddon

he was driven to it , don't forget that

them pages are vile and a sesspit of negativity and his name was dragged through the mud

Hotblack Desiato

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/122054935#Comment_122054935

Seriously? You would leave a comment on the page for relatives and friends to mourn their loved one, of somebody you don't know and never met, about the circumstances of their death, of which you know nothing either, because some randomer on the internet told you them wimmins were to blame?

Yeah that's completely rational and helpful 🙄

Musicrules

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/122056372#Comment_122056372

No, not seriously. The man doesn't exist. I thought that was obvious.

Ivor_Guddon

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/122057968#Comment_122057968

sick person to suggest that

because i wouldn't tell you his name ?

1 of them i knew , i knew all about the crap he had been dealing with weeks before his passing , reported to facebook etc and they did sweet fa about it , it's only going to get worse with these groups , mark my words on that

Jequ0n

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/122077604#Comment_122077604

Nothing sick about it. If you make allegations that cannot be verified you will have to accept that people might not believe you.

Ivor_Guddon

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/122077952#Comment_122077952

so because i don't post a rip link to the individual its a lie ?

what would i have to gain for making this up ?

Jequ0n

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/122077975#Comment_122077975

I can’t be bothered to even debate this.