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Harassment- Kids Playing and Parents abusive behavior

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    #92
    marauxsal
    Registered Users Posts: 21 ✭marauxsal


    Thank you all genuinely for understanding my situation and adding your thoughts. You work hard to build your life and buy a house worth a fortune with a hope of having decent neighbors but I was proven completely wrong this time. We were so unfortunate this time. The stress is real and I haven’t slept properly in three months. We cannot keep our windows open which is terrible and the house is facing beautiful landscape main reason for buying the house in the first place.

    The green area in the front is not even a pitch or a ground it is a tiny patch for aesthetic purposes never thought in a million years this small space would invite trouble but thank you all. I am not going anywhere and manage the situation thank you all again.



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    #93
    o1s1n
    Registered Users Posts: 34,892 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121074913#Comment_121074913

    Escalating and 'standing up for yourself' is all well and good in certain circumstances but in property/home type situations you've to be very very careful.

    You live beside your neighbours, they're not going anywhere. If you want to continue living there, you need to come to some sort of amicable side by side living situation. Escalating things, especially when it comes to people's children can really lead to very bad blood between neighbours and an unpleasant experience all around (which seems to be what the OP is now facing after the situation has escalated)

    For example, if you accuse your neighbour of stalking to the Gardai, your relationship with them is going to be soured beyond belief. You then need to live beside a person you've reported to the Gardai for stalking, a person who will be very unhappy with this, for years - potentially decades. Long after those kids with the annoying ball aren't kids anymore.



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