Looks VS Personality

The_B_Man

also, if a girl is hot but has no personality, I will (as a favour to her) take her on as a project and improve her personality by enforcing mine on hers. hehe.

nah but seriously, some girls wont be the most attractive but have potential. all they need is a good fella to bring them out of their shell and fill them with confidence and before u know it, they'll be very attractive!

Loco

slap the fat and ride the waves

SoupyNorman

cant work without both for me, im really energetic and constantly on the look out for a laugh. my previous g'friend was a size 12 when we met, really nice looking and a energetic personality. after about 5 months i noticed her putting on a little weight which didnt bother me what so ever, i think its totally healthy. after the 8 month mark she had gone up to a size 16, at this point it did bother me the reason being she stopped playing rugby and hurling while we were going out, gotten lazy,chain smoked ,cried on my shoulder evey day about her weight without doing anything about it....i brought her to the gym(bring a horse to water but cant make drink...etc), i changed my diet with her, i was 100% supportive but she wanted to lose the weight as fast as the weight was gained and wasnt prepared to work for it(many an arguement ensued!)

the most distressing of the lot was near the end, i got the impression she had us married off (we were both 20 then), she was talking about kids alot and the day she told me she could be pregnant i nearly lost me life, oh and apparently four weeks previous she had gone off the pill (without telling me) cos it was "the reason" why she had put on all the weight. thankfully twas a false alarm, i'd like to believe she had'nt planned to "trap" me with a gossen but i didnt stick around to find out.

with my current g/f nearly 2 fantastic years, it must be a perfect personality match or something cos it just works (helps that i think she is super-stunning in my eyes, probably just regular old stunning to every1 else!)

in all i think its hit n miss alot of the time.

SoupyNorman

The_B_Man wrote:

nah but seriously, some girls wont be the most attractive but have potential. all they need is a good fella to bring them out of their shell and fill them with confidence and before u know it, they'll be very attractive!

true enough, some girls and fellas just have no sense how to dress or act when they go out which can disadvantage them in the courtship ritual straight away.

taby

Hmmm well i'd say personality beats looks hands down. But than again you do have to be attrcated to the person. Like if there's no chemistry that way than why are you with them? But what i find attractive someone else might not find attractive and thus looks depends on who's looking. Personality tho means that when looks goes ( like when they're 80 or so or more) u still have someone to talk to. My mum also always said that they could be the best looking guy in the world but if they aren't your friend first than after the 'heat' is gone you'll have nothing to hold onto.

Hugh Hefner

taby wrote:

My mum also always said that they could be the best looking guy in the world but if they aren't your friend first than after the 'heat' is gone you'll have nothing to hold onto.

Ah, motherly advice. Don't ya just love it?

Christ.

CathyMoran

One thing that I realised that is very important to me is that the person is intelligent and witty, I get very bored if I can not hold a decent conversation with them on wide ranging issues. I do not think that looks are important if the person has a sexy voice but otherwise I do need them to have both on mature reflection.