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Changing Your Mind Constanly

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  • #52
    pretty-in-pink
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,007 ✭✭✭pretty-in-pink


    Sorry ruthie.....

    quick the guy in the cloak is coming your way WWW.

    I'll stop now.

    Anyhoo, I reckon the OP will be back repeatedly. All the same, I want to say thanks to him, entitling me to my opinion was very good of him.....

    Sure self-delusion is part of life, and if nothing else the OP has mastered that


  • #53
    Gilgamesh
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,239 ✭✭✭Gilgamesh


    last words on this.

    don' tlike people wo can't accept other people's opinions on a matter.


  • #54
    annR
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 319 ✭✭annR


    Can't you people see the guy's upset. Haven't you ever been dumped. He's hardly in a balanced reasonable state of mind. And just because you post an opinion doesn't mean he has to agree with it. Consider it maybe not necessarily agree with it.


  • #55
    toyomi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13 ✭toyomi


    annR wrote:
    Can't you people see the guy's upset. Haven't you ever been dumped. He's hardly in a balanced reasonable state of mind. And just because you post an opinion doesn't mean he has to agree with it. Consider it maybe not necessarily agree with it.

    I agree with you
    The guy is hurting big time which is understandable. He was thinking that his girl was his soul mate, love of his life and that she felt the same way, hence he thought she was moving to be with him. But she kept letting him down which would hurt and anger anyone.

    But you have to ask yourself why she didnt want to move to be with you
    (A)She did love you but didnt see a future together- which is always a difficult thing to tell someone
    (B)she got scared when reality hit home- committment is scary

    (A) Get on with your life- it will hurt like hell but there are other great girls out there whom you will meet when ur ready
    IF (B) is the case let her go and she may come back.

    Theres no point in a slagging match guys!


  • #56
    the_syco
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,316 ✭✭✭✭the_syco


    Greazo wrote:
    IM IN THE WRONG
    The phrase "I'm right, your wrong" comes to mind when I read these posts. At the start, I felt he maybe right, but every post after that, he continues with the "I'm the victim" marlarky. You posted up on a public forum, dude, so expect the feedback.

    By the way, you seem to think that she should go to you. Why you? Why not you goto her? Or why not both of ye go to Spain? You seem to want the easy life, tbh.

    It seems that you kept trying to get her change her mind to suit you, hence the way she changed her mind when she talked to you. Also, when you got her to verify that she is going to come with you 5 times, this sounds a little possesive.

    He may be hurting, but putting all the blame on the other person is too convienent. Next time, if this sh|t starts to happen, hopefully he'll either end the relationship, or take steps to properly fix it.


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