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inverted nipples

  • 19-07-2005 4:53am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    This has been bothering me for a long, long time. I just need to know if any other women around have this problem because my doctor said it is more common than I think, but I have never known any other woman to have inverted nipples and you never see them in movies or in porno.

    The fact is, since I was a little girl the ends of my breasts are soft and go slightly in instead of out. It has caused me to shy away from getting in a relationship and when I do I never let it get very far. I guess I'm afraid I will disappoint a man and also that he might tell his friends and I am very ashamed of my difference even though it was the way I was born and I've no control over the way they are.

    I have talked to my doctor and as I said, he said they are not that uncommon and not to worry. Yet I do.
    How do the men out there feel about this? Would it be a factor in your interest in a girlfriend? Also, would you want her to tell you before you found out on your own and wondered why they weren't normal?


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,010 ✭✭✭kasintahan


    Any guy that gets that far won't be bothered - seriously, none.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,965 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    You're grand - no red-blooded male would mind.
    Seriously.
    None.


    If it makes you that selfconsious, leave your bra on. (That can be major turn on anyway!) ;)


  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    kasintahan wrote:
    Any guy that gets that far won't be bothered - seriously, none.

    couldn't agree more
    there is no such thing as a perfect human being*
    everyone of us have something to complain about with regards to our bodies, it's time to start teaching yourself to be comfortable with your brests.
    Buy yourself some snazzy bras, the next bloke you sleep with should be told that there is a certain celtic royal family going back centuries who only has this trait, he's lucky to be sleeping with you ;) - humour, the breaker of all things icey and uncomfortable.



    *with the exception of brad pitt


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,064 ✭✭✭Gurgle


    kasintahan wrote:
    Any guy that gets that far won't be bothered - seriously, none.
    What he said!

    Actually, sounds kind of sexy.
    Do they pop out when they're erect ?


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 35,508 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    It would be of absolutely no concern. I don't think it's even an issue with breast-feeding and is rather common AFAIK.

    And for heaven's sake stop comparing yourself (and any partner) to porn stars.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,013 ✭✭✭✭Kintarō Hattori


    It isn't a problem for guys, I knew a girl once with the same thing and I never complained, it's not that strange really. As Beruthiel said, we're all not perfect.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,082 ✭✭✭Tobias Greeshman


    You've seriously got nothing to worry about at all! There's no reason to tell him out straight, unless the topic comes up and yere both in bed together, plus no one has the perfect body that they're completely happy with, so stop worrying.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 145 ✭✭Chavster


    As above, this would not be a problem at all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,022 ✭✭✭✭~Rebel~


    absolutely nothing to worry about, i very much doubt anyone would care at all. If you're very selfconscious about it, i know someone who has the same and just got nipples pierced which keeps em out all the time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,109 ✭✭✭sutty


    I'm pretty sure (speaking as a guy) That it would not matter at all.. infact I am damned sure. Boobies are Boobies after all and they are all different and all good... well unless there somewhere around your ankles :eek:

    But to be honest, as long as a guy can "use" them to his advantage doing those naked moments. I douth he would care in any way shape or form.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,730 ✭✭✭✭simu


    Total non-issue.

    I presume they stick out anyway when they go hard - even if they don't, it's not a problem,


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,304 ✭✭✭✭koneko


    I think it's pretty common. I remember seeing some ad in the back of Cosmo or some other stupid womans mag, some little plastic round cover you put over your nipples that might make them protrude a bit more over time. Do they exist or am I imagining things?

    Anyway try not to let it bother you, it really isn't a big deal. Boobs are boobs, as the sutty-man says.


  • Registered Users Posts: 599 ✭✭✭jinxycat


    yes those plastic things do exist indeed and can help to bring them out. think you can get them in a chemist, many mid-wifes will recommend them if a woman decides to breast feed and they have inverted nipples. it's the first question they'll ask about your beasts if you decide to breast feed so i'm sure you can get them in a chemists no problem.

    hope this helps the OP.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thank you all so much! You have no idea how much better I feel about this now, it's like a load off my mind
    koneko-I haven't seen that ad.
    rebel-I'll have to look into that piercing idea if it works
    Again, thank you to everyone who took the time to reply!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,269 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    koneko wrote:
    I think it's pretty common. I remember seeing some ad in the back of Cosmo or some other stupid womans mag, some little plastic round cover you put over your nipples that might make them protrude a bit more over time. Do they exist or am I imagining things?

    Anyway try not to let it bother you, it really isn't a big deal. Boobs are boobs, as the sutty-man says.
    I've no idea how I've heard of it but I'd definitely heard of those as well. ~Rebel~'s suggestion is perhaps a little extreme but would definitely work.

    And no, it wouldn't bother me in the slightest. In fact, assuming they pop out when erect it could even be a bit of a turn on tbh. (though I am a bit kinky!)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Einstein


    have no fear, won't bother men in the slightest!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,349 ✭✭✭nobodythere


    sutty wrote:
    Boobies are Boobies after all and they are all different and all good...

    What he said


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,559 ✭✭✭DublinWriter


    kasintahan wrote:
    Any guy that gets that far won't be bothered - seriously, none.
    To be honest, it's should be about how you feel about yourself, rather than how you feel others will percieve you.

    There are various simple surgecial procedures around that would correct this - try a google on it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 451 ✭✭Gross Halfwit


    I went out with a girl who had an inny. It didnt bother me in the slightest. It is very common also. Do not be worried about this!

    Also the product in question is Nipplette as far as Im aware. It can be gotten in Boots.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,010 ✭✭✭kasintahan


    To be honest, it's should be about how you feel about yourself, rather than how you feel others will percieve you.

    How you feel about yourself is derived from your perception of how others perceive you.

    In this case she is worrying about nothing as it's not something that would bother guys - full stop. In fact, I'd wager there would be more than a few that would have their interests piqued by such a variation on the theme.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 75 ✭✭ADUB?


    OP
    Wouldnt bother me in the slightlest, Definetly not a problem to me!
    Just remember
    LIFE is not a porno
    If it was I'd have to worry, that I dont have a chiselled enough face, my biceps arent big enough, I'm not tall enough, I dont have a washboard stomach etc. list is endless
    Porno stars are not the norm, all they (generally) do is look good and thats it, personally I'd prefer a brain, personality and numerous other qualities, vain porn stars are (generally) void of, and wouldnt be holding them on a pedestal
    We are all different shapes sizes etc, otherwise life would be dull.


  • Subscribers Posts: 19,425 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    Have got this far in my life, and its never been a problem ;) . Avent make Niplette, takes about two months to see a full effect. Does work tho!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 318 ✭✭qwertyphobia


    as most people have said not a problem.

    Girls can be so highly critical of themselves often usualy about things guys won't even notice


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,639 ✭✭✭Laguna


    I just like the knockers themselves really lol, i don't care if the nipples are in, out, to the side, green...well i'd mind if they were green


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 368 ✭✭Maynooth


    Does anyone know what Boots sell those Niplette things? Does the Liffey Valley one have them? Thanks.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,807 ✭✭✭chump


    Where you from Maynooth?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 368 ✭✭Maynooth


    chump wrote:
    Where you from Maynooth?

    Maynooth...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 45,630 ✭✭✭✭Mr.Nice Guy


    Maynooth wrote:
    Maynooth...

    Are you serious?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 368 ✭✭Maynooth


    Are you serious?

    Well ask a stupid question....

    ;) :rolleyes:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    BAck on Topic all of you
    off topiciness can result in banning,
    This is a warning.
    Please read the charter.
    Have a nice day,
    Thaed


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 368 ✭✭Maynooth


    Thaed wrote:
    BAck on Topic all of you
    off topiciness can result in banning,
    This is a warning.
    Please read the charter.
    Have a nice day,
    Thaed

    I wasn't the one that went off topic!

    Now back to my question about Niplette and where definitely sells them....thanks.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 368 ✭✭Maynooth


    I just read it affects one in ten women.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,743 ✭✭✭funk-you


    tbh i probably wouldn't notice or care if they're inny's or outies. its all good.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 451 ✭✭Gross Halfwit


    I believe the one in Jervis St Centre have it. Not sure though.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 368 ✭✭Maynooth


    I believe the one in Jervis St Centre have it. Not sure though.

    Cheers! :)


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  • Registered Users Posts: 569 ✭✭✭Pauly26


    Not sure how i feel about this one, would kinda need to see them any pictures?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Pauly26
    Stop trolling that and unhelpful comments will get you banned.
    Please read the charter,
    Have a nice day.
    Thaed


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,494 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    Maynooth wrote:
    Does anyone know what Boots sell those Niplette things? Does the Liffey Valley one have them? Thanks.
    I imagine many of the bigger ones would. Not sure about the smaller ones.

    I've seen pictures of a few models with one or both nipples inverted. Kate Moss comes to mind, but I'm not very sure about that.

    "Different" does not mean "bad"


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