Harmless?

Seoige

Hi, just a quick question. I’ve been going put with my bf for nearly two years so we’re obviously very close and he knows my friends well. We were out the other night and he was a bit drunk and was what I would describe as, flirting with my friend, teasing her all the time and stuff…what’s the deal?? I found it kind of annoying!! He doesn’t do it all the time and its not really full on but still! I dunno, maybe I do it too or maybe I was just in an over sensitive mood…should I bother saying it to him or will I just let it go?
Thank you!!

shellby

if it bothers you then you should say something just say it makes you uncomfortable or your not even sure he was aware that he was doing just don't blow it all out of proportion

Seoige

Maybe if it happens again I'll say something like that to him afterwards. Sounds like a sensible option!!

shellby

its completely your decision
it could very well be nothing, your imagination running wild with a few drinks on you

Seoige

Could be it, paranoia setting in! I hadnt had a great night and the drink had made me feel miserable rather than giddy like I usually get...was probably a combination of factors. Anyway, will try not to dwell on it too much Thanks

Talliesin

For now, forget about it.

If it happens again and it bothers you again, then talk about it. It probably is harmless fun to his mind (and if anything one can flirt more outrageously with people you've no notion of doing anything else with - there's no risk of going too far and blowing your chances with them, since you don't care for those chances anyway) but you might need to hear that from him and get an idea of what each other's limits are in this regard.