confused

LegacyUser

was seeing a guy for 11 months, he dumped me because he thought it was geting 2 serious,so we took a "break".were back together now, but i dont know if i can trust him, because he was with this other girl when we were on our "break", and i think he's still txtn her, because i got a txt a few days ago, tellin me that i walked past where he worked, but i wasn't in that town, then when i did get into town, i seen "her" sittin on a wall, not far from where he works......mabey he genuinly thought it was me, i dont know if i can trust him,Anyone else ever in a similar situation?please reply, let me know, as this never happened2me before, and i dont know what to do.i love him really.i realy, really do. :-(

bellend

he sounds like a jerk... to be honest id say he cheated on u before he broke up with u and now hes stringing u along for a back up shag..

move on and find a new dude to be honest.. one u know u can trust..

BaZmO*

homegirl... wrote:

was seeing a guy for 11 months, he dumped me because he thought it was geting 2 serious,so we took a "break".were back together now, but i dont know if i can trust him, because he was with this other girl when we were on our "break"

His name's not Ross is it?

Anyway, I think he's just stringing you along by the sounds of it. He's trying to have his cake and eat it.

B.

dudara

It really does sound as if he's still in contact with this other woman. You need to know where you stand with him. Take no BS from him.

Stabshauptmann

You havent given even the slightest bit of information on which people here can offer advice, untill you tell us more, ignore all advice given here (this isnt advice, its a caution )

How were your 11 months together
How long was the break
How did ye get back together
What age are ye
Have ye made any commitments (living together, pets, etc)
Have you spoken to him about her
What do you know about their relationship

quad_red

bellend wrote:

to be honest id say he cheated on u before he broke up with u and now hes stringing u along for a back up shag..

What?!?!?!??! What the hell is that based on?

The Kaptain is dead right. You haven't given enough details for anyone to have a proper opinion on this. The fact that he went off with someone when ye were on a break might've made him realise just how much he wanted you!! And many people feel the fear when things get very serious.

I'm not saying any of that is right. But it's no more wrong than some of the thoughtless automatic venom spouted by some on here.

bellend

well im basing it on the fact that.. ive cheated on a girl before and i gave the same reason... if he liked her enough he wouldnt be putting himself about town.. if its a proper break its for a reason..not to go off scoring birds..

have abit of dignity and find urself another guy.

thundercats

hi

im 19 and male my gf of 3 months cid the same to me. u sound like a realy nice girl and u deserve better. i hope we chan chat more

Kell

thundercats wrote:

hi

im 19 and male my gf of 3 months cid the same to me. u sound like a realy nice girl and u deserve better. i hope we chan chat more

And in need of some English lessons methinks.

To the OP - if you are that unhappy about the situation, stop wondering about this, that, and the other. Dump the fúckwit and move on. Trust me, you'll feel a hell of a lot better for it in two weeks when the problem that has been wrecking your head for x amount of time has vanished.

K-

StandnDeliver

have it out girl,no where u stand,demand answers

_Turismo4

homegirl... wrote:

was seeing a guy for 11 months, he dumped me because he thought it was geting 2 serious,so we took a "break".were back together now, but i dont know if i can trust him, because he was with this other girl when we were on our "break", and i think he's still txtn her, because i got a txt a few days ago, tellin me that i walked past where he worked, but i wasn't in that town, then when i did get into town, i seen "her" sittin on a wall, not far from where he works......mabey he genuinly thought it was me, i dont know if i can trust him,Anyone else ever in a similar situation?please reply, let me know, as this never happened2me before, and i dont know what to do.i love him really.i realy, really do. :-(

Relationships are based on trust if you don’t have that then it will never work, and your head will be constantly wracked.
If you cant bring yourself to trust him you'l never be happy.