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Should I tell him?????? Please help

  • 04-09-2005 9:58pm
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    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hi im a regular boards user, but i thought id go anon for this one.

    basically im an ex-self harmer. ive been with my bf for nearly a year now, and its something id like to be able to talk to him about.

    we're pretty open about most things, but we've never really talked about anything remotely like self harm. im just afraid he might kinda freak out or something if i come clean about it. im sure hes noticed the scars, but they dont really look like ive done it myself if you get me.

    ya see, self harm is something he wouldnt be really familar with so im afraid i might scare him away a bit. im just wondering from anyone elses experiences of telling your partner the truth about the scars, did they react negatively or what? and what in your opinion is the best way to go about it?

    thanks xxx


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