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Break Ups.

  • 10-10-2005 7:52pm
    #1
    sirgamblelot
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21 ✭


    Ive been seeing a girl for a couple of weeks and i have just broke it off with her.things were going fine until she keeps ringing me and making me stay at hers every night.she talks down (but says she is only messing) to me and making subtle digs.she really likes me and wants me but i cant put up with it.we r friends now and i think things are going fine but what should i do?HELP!


Comments

  • #2
    Nala
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,959 ✭✭✭Nala


    You've gotta stop going around to your house. This is obviously getting you down and you need to keep her at arm's length. You won't get over her, nor will she get over you, as long as you both have such regular contact.


  • #3
    WhiteWashMan
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,099 ✭✭✭✭WhiteWashMan


    sirgamblelot wrote:
    Ive been seeing a girl for a couple of weeks and i have just broke it off with her.things were going fine until she keeps ringing me and making me stay at hers every night.she talks down (but says she is only messing) to me and making subtle digs.she really likes me and wants me but i cant put up with it.we r friends now and i think things are going fine but what should i do?HELP!

    dont do what you dont want to do.

    if you want to have sex with her, then put up with the crap.
    if you dont want to put up with the crap, then i suggest you tell her to go away.

    its really very simple, just have the balls to make the decision


  • #4
    jellie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,503 ✭✭✭✭jellie


    sirgamblelot wrote:
    Ive been seeing a girl for a couple of weeks and i have just broke it off with her.things were going fine until she keeps ringing me and making me stay at hers every night.she talks down (but says she is only messing) to me and making subtle digs.she really likes me and wants me but i cant put up with it.we r friends now and i think things are going fine but what should i do?HELP!

    making you? how exactly?

    i dont think youre doing her (or yourself) any good letting it go on like this if you dont feel the same


  • #5
    Kell
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭Kell


    WhiteWashMan wrote:
    its really very simple, just have the balls to make the decision

    Here here. OP, why are you going "oh what should I do" when your gut told you what to do and you did it. Your gut is never wrong. Remember that.

    Be glad that you valued yourself more than her here and dumped her before it got serious.

    K-


  • #6
    Zombrex
    Closed Accounts Posts: 25,848 ✭✭✭✭Zombrex


    sirgamblelot wrote:
    Ive been seeing a girl for a couple of weeks and i have just broke it off with her.things were going fine until she keeps ringing me and making me stay at hers every night.
    This was before or after you broke up with her?
    sirgamblelot wrote:
    she talks down (but says she is only messing) to me and making subtle digs.
    Speaking from experience, this could be because she is nervous and arkward about how to relate to you so she goes for the "pull your hair in the playground" approach. It is a bit immature, but then I don't know how old this girl is. If you were still with her I would say have a talk to her about it, tell her that you don't like it and that she doesn't need to be constantly funny or making jokes around you she should just relax and be herself. But since you broke up with her I would say leave it.
    sirgamblelot wrote:
    she really likes me and wants me but i cant put up with it.
    Well you have too options. Tell her that, and say u will go back to her but its got to change (see above). Or, if you don't think it is going to change, then just stay broken up.
    sirgamblelot wrote:
    we r friends now and i think things are going fine but what should i do?HELP!
    About what exactly? Are you thinking you shoudl get back together, or do you want her to leave you alone?


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