Virginity

The Corinthian

Originally posted by elexes
which brings up point if a girl asks a guy not to tell anyone about what just happened they guy usualy respects that and dosnt but if the guy dose the same thing to a girl it means nothing to the girl and usualy she goes off and tells all her mates .

That's a little unfair. I think it depends on the indiviual more so. Guys can be just as bad.

I think the only major difference between the genders when they kiss 'n tell is that women are often far more graphic when discussing it with their friends than men would be.

elexes

unfair maby

but the truth always hurts

The Corinthian

Unfair as in inaccurate.

ProtoN

I think that to dismiss the idea of waiting for the right person is putting social pressure on folks to have sex.

Do what you think is right.

I wasn't in any hurry to get it over with and as a result it was amazing. I think if you're in an incredible hurry to get it over with, you're not treating your body with the respect it deserves.

Mutz

The first time I did it i was 18 and was with a girl I knew for about a month and I was feeling a bit dodgy about whether I liked her or not. Boy do i wish I had never gone near her!!!! That was the deciding factor for me in that relationship.

It really just stood out that I didnt like her and It was the wrong decision at the time, but Hey.. we all get carried away

I'm now with somone I really really adore and I must say that having sex with someone you love (*what is love... the unanswered question!* ) is soooo much better than just goin out.. having a drunken shag with a stranger (this can be good, dont get me wrong )

It all depends on how sensitive you are towards the situation.
If you have an open mind towards sex.. the more able you will be to handle it.

WhiteWashMan

Originally posted by ProtoN




I wasn't in any hurry to get it over with and as a result it was amazing. I think if you're in an incredible hurry to get it over with, you're not treating your body with the respect it deserves.

actually, i dont think thats right at all.
as with love making from within a relationship, you dont have amazing sex all the time. usually it great about 4 times, amazing once, good 3 and bad once or twice.

im quiet sure that waiting for 'the one' does not make for an awsome experience. i think its dwn to how relaxed you, and mostly the person you are with and how experienced they are and far out of their way they go to make you relaxed and enjoy yourself.
the problem is that too many people thrown themselves into some sort of penatrive position before you can get your pants of and thats going to make for an embaressing fumble the first time.
im sure we have all had those marvelous moments with our partner, but nowdays it wont bother you becusae you were probably pissed and she probably told you to bugger of and go to sleep
but if that happened as a virgin youd be devestated. now you would just roll over in the morning and try it on again

ykt0di9url7bc3

for the all virgins on boards.ie, thx for fu<kin nothing...:)
<very bad joke>

its something thats going to be a defining moment in the rest of your life, its good to try and have it a good memory at least...

darthmise

Originally posted by darthmise

Dragging someone home from a nightclub you don't know from adam is hollow and will leave you feeling empty.

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Originally posted by Dustaz



um, no.

It will if its you rfirst time.

The Corinthian

Originally posted by darthmise
Dragging someone home from a nightclub you don't know from adam is hollow and will leave you feeling empty.

I think drained is the correct term...

photty

Originally posted by WhiteWashMan

actually, i dont think thats right at all.
as with love making from within a relationship, you dont have amazing sex all the time. usually it great about 4 times, amazing once, good 3 and bad once or twice.

I agree 100% but I'd be looking for more than 10 shags from a long term relationship