i dont want to deal with the guy...

claire h

Originally posted by It wasn't me!
Feel free to use or abuse me whenever suits you!

Well, if you insist...

Mystic Fibrosis

Originally posted by It wasn't me!
It's more of a guy thing as far as I know.

What the hell kind of thing is that for a guy to do ? NO ONE does that. We're not (all) retarded. There are nice guys. But they get shoved into the bacground.k

claire h

Ah, it's just easier for guys to get away with it. There are girls that do it too. I personally don't think it counts as 'using' if you both enjoy it. Meaningless fun is good, really!

(I really need to develop some sense of morals and self-respect, don't I?)

It wasn't me!

That's kind of my point. I mean, if you enjoy it, then you're not being used! Therefore, since everyone enjoys sexual activity, there's no such thing as being used! Who invented using anyway. Also, to Dukman, I use that, most of my friends use that, except for one who is kind of an asshole, he just tells them to f*ck off! The point is it does happen!

ll=llannah

yeah, that's all fun and everything 'till you get hurt. just keep that in mind.

Mystic Fibrosis

Originally posted by It wasn't me!
Therefore, since everyone enjoys sexual activity, there's no such thing as being used! Who invented using anyway.

It's the emotional reprucussions that entail being "used" esp. if you like that person, it can really screw with you.

ll=llannah

and the connotation of being used is that someone is screwing with your feelings. a fling when both are flippant is entirely different.

qwidgybo

Originally posted by claire h

(I really need to develop some sense of morals and self-respect, don't I?)

not at all!keep up the free love!!!

purplepolkadot

I don't mind being used, seriously! I never could figure out what the hell is the problem with being used! I guess I'm one of those people. Feel free to use or abuse me whenever suits you! I've never been in a relationship that lasted more than a night so maybe that's it but come on!

itwasn'tme; you're one of those horrible manwhore bastards that go to underage discos duck with lots of gel in their hair and most of the buttons of their shirt undone, aren't you?

sex-related entertainment

porn-addict

It wasn't me!

First button only actually, and its not that much gel, seriously! But it's hard to find an underage disco when you're 13!! Also, "porn-addict". That I don't agree with! Maybe I phrased the question wrong but anyone who knows me won't agree with that. Actually they probably will! But I'm not! I'm really not!!

Littletinyman

In response to the original question: kill him.

Mystic Fibrosis

Originally posted by purplepolkadot
itwasn'tme; you're one of those horrible manwhore bastards that go to underage discos duck with lots of gel in their hair and most of the buttons of their shirt undone, aren't you?

OHH, you mean the assholes who get all the girls....

ll=llannah

not necessarily. usually they're just the assholes.

purplepolkadot

yeah they usually ending up meeting at least one person in the group i go with. or doing that strange drunken-yet-trying-to-impress-you dance behind you which puts everyone else off. bastards.

oh, and you're getting there itwasn'tme, soon you will be just like them, my son, i've seen it happen to may's the decent fella.

ll=llannah

yeah, lisa's right...first its one button, then its three and then four and then u might lose the shirt altogether. and the gel, goodgod, the gel. one morning you will wake up and the gel will never come out- you will have used so much that your hair will be permanently gelled. *twitch*

alaskagirl

well i agree that its not using if you both know that its no strings attached, but how do you know for sure what the other person thinks?

ya know, after all, its alot more fun when ya REALLY like each other.... or ..yeah. surprisingly, my favorite meet was with someone that i didnt really know i liked that way until afterwards...hm....

Littletinyman

No really! Kill him!

ll=llannah

alrighty then dear....don't forget to breathe every so often...

oq4v3ht0u76kf2

Yeah, it's really cool when you actually really like each other... sometimes things get in the way of that though. Things like the Atlantic Ocean, eh Clare?

Happy CTYI guy

excuses, excuses

Happy CTYI guy

excuses, excuses. Did alaskagirl actually gain any answers from this thread?

It wasn't me!

If anyone has the same mind as I do, they might have interpreted it as the guy trying to use her and making her feel nervous about saying "No" by saying he really likes her. Maybe he just thinks she's a good meet and trying to get more out of it! Anyone else actually think of that?

purplepolkadot

no one would think of doing that, but then we don't all have IQ's of 171. soon you'll be a drunken manwhore bastard, killing some of your brain cells and reducing your IQ, and surely some of the gel will sap down into your ears and cause brain rot, or you'll catch hypothermia from not wearing a shirt.

and she did so get advice, i gave some darn good advice, that she should bloody well have used.
what did you actually do btw alaskagirl (clare?), you may have said, but i can't scroll back because....<valid reason here>

i think meaningless meets are better but then i'm fairly easy.

It wasn't me!

Hear hear!

Barry Aldwell

By saying hear hear you have just validated that post and admitted that you are going to turn into a drunken manwhore bastard. Sure it isn't an I.Q. of 17.1?

It wasn't me!

I know what I said, and after rechecking, my score is still 171

Mystic Fibrosis

let me guess, online test:rolleyes:

Barry Aldwell

Or he has the answers written down and memorised.

Happy CTYI guy

I believe i am now in the position to say "Hear Hear"

alaskagirl

bob: damn! I HATE OCEANS!!!! rrrrrr.... CTYI 2003....i want a time-travel machine!!!! anyone have a time travel machine handy?

happy: yes i got plenty of good advice, not only to use in that situation but for future use as well. plus plenty of laughs from a couple of answers.

duKMAN: i agree, most likely the online test.