another case of the ex's

LegacyUser · 30-09-2002 10:37pm #1

i was just wondering what people think of this:

my ex is dating a friend of mine and we still really get on, and everytime im around and she kisses him he looks at me?

am i just mad?

Funky · 30-09-2002 10:42pm

maybe he feels slightly guilty knowing she's your ex , or maybe suspicious that you still have feelings for her.

LegacyUser · 30-09-2002 10:46pm

im female

Bottle_of_Smoke · 30-09-2002 11:00pm

Did u finish the relationship? maybe its like a sense of revenge - "look at me now" "think about what you're missing?"

eth0_ · 30-09-2002 11:10pm

Originally posted by Unregistered
im female

Good for you!

LegacyUser · 30-09-2002 11:10pm

it was never a 'relationship' if you know what i mean, it just kind of finished

Mercury_Tilt · 30-09-2002 11:18pm

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corkey · 30-09-2002 11:43pm

Originally posted by Mercury_Tilt

Im male. Need a fuk buddy?

Only messing.

It sounds like when she kisses him and looks at you... shes thinking of you.

Cop a feel next time you're alone with her.

Come back and tell us how you got on.

Cop a feel next time ?
What does that mean ?
Phone her talk, you must be holding for something dont read through the lines (Talk)

Mercury_Tilt · 30-09-2002 11:46pm

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Jak · 01-10-2002 12:05am

my ex is dating a friend of mine and we still really get on, and everytime im around and she kisses him he looks at me?

Stop watching them so.

corkey · 01-10-2002 12:05am

Cop a feel ?
You put it there?
Are you single?

Talk its better than a slap in the face
And better than loseing two friends,

Pepe LeFrits · 01-10-2002 12:08am

eh, the original poster is a she (assuming the 2nd anonymous post was made by the same person).

does your advice still stand merc?

CodeMonkey · 01-10-2002 12:09am

Originally posted by Mercury_Tilt

It sounds like when she kisses him and looks at you... shes thinking of you.

Cop a feel next time you're alone with her.

Come back and tell us how you got on.

Errrr, what???? I think the unreged that proclaimed she's female is the original poster

Does everyone always assumes only internet guys posts relationship problems here?

CodeMonkey · 01-10-2002 12:11am

To original poster:
maybe your ex is just worried that you'll get upset seeing them intimate together. Or maybe he still likes you and want to see how you react. Or maybe he's just uncomfortable with you watching. You can always just ask what's up if he's a good friend.

corkey · 01-10-2002 12:14am

Waiting Merc lol

Mercury_Tilt · 01-10-2002 12:15am

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Mercury_Tilt · 01-10-2002 12:20am

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CodeMonkey · 01-10-2002 12:31am

Originally posted by Mercury_Tilt

I think you need to read closer code'ie.

Now that's funny cause the original post said...

my ex is dating a friend of mine and we still really get on, and everytime im around and she kisses him he looks at me?

and you said...

It sounds like when she kisses him and looks at you... shes thinking of you.

And corkey is not the only one who can't understand what you mean by "Cop a feel next time you're alone with her." Now do you mean him here and what does the phrase "cop a feel" mean?

corkey · 01-10-2002 12:38am

Talk its better than putting two&two together burp sorry had a few beers tonight, Talk alone with your friend see what happens,
Other way next time they kiss wink and laugh, Real friends would not carry on in front of you if they had feelings for you

Mercury_Tilt · 01-10-2002 12:46am

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corkey · 01-10-2002 12:57am

All

Were loseing the real post here, Someone is haveing trouble
cop a feel and all that does not work with a real person,

Mercury_Tilt · 01-10-2002 1:08am

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corkey · 01-10-2002 1:27am

Burp Goodnight all

WhiteWashMan · 01-10-2002 9:52am

he either still fancies you, wants to rub your nose in it, or is embarrassed that you have to watch him with his new bird but he still cares for you.

id just go and snog his best friend in front of him and then look at him. and then go and snog your ex's bird.

and then tell us how you feel.

LegacyUser · 02-10-2002 3:28am

Maybe if you stopped watching them snog they'd feel a bit more comfortable about it.

logic1 · 02-10-2002 9:58am

Take naked pictures of yourself and post them on the internet. That's sure to make him jealous.

Give me the URL when you do.

That is all.

.logic.

Occidental · 02-10-2002 10:09am

Merc,

I didn't think you had colloquialisms up north. Always thought the weather was too harsh.

I'll take €20 on him trying to make you jealous. Go get a life that doesn't involve either of them before you drive yourself mad.

Mercury_Tilt · 02-10-2002 1:46pm

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Typedef · 02-10-2002 2:07pm

Originally posted by dazed 'n' confused!
i was just wondering what people think of this:

my ex is dating a friend of mine and we still really get on, and everytime im around and she kisses him he looks at me?

am i just mad?

This is called 'rubbing your face in it'.

No that is not madness on your part, that is you getting your face rubbed in it. 'Friendly advice', don't look, or better yet, don't be in a situation where you will interact with l'couple, I assure you that as soon as you are no longer there to have your face rubbed in it, you will have already taken half the joy away from the sad case who was deriving fun out of it to begin with.

Revel in this, and derive satisfaction from it. Yes and get another boyfriend..... did I mention I'm single.........

Beruthiel · 02-10-2002 2:19pm

Originally posted by Typedef
did I mention I'm single.........

going in for the kill while she's still on the rebound there typedef???

Typedef · 02-10-2002 2:35pm

Originally posted by Beruthiel

going in for the kill while she's still on the rebound there typedef???

ah, umm me.... ?
I was empathising .... offering kind words

/mental_note Beruthiel knows too much

WhiteWashMan · 02-10-2002 3:08pm

Originally posted by Typedef

ah, umm me.... ?
I was empathising .... offering kind words

/mental_note Beruthiel knows too much

you didnt look like you were doing more empathizing with my mate debbie last week.

and she told me what you got up to after the pub.
i believe there were sexual relations involved, want to tell the world about them?

Beruthiel · 02-10-2002 3:22pm

Originally posted by Typedef
/mental_note Beruthiel knows too much

I believe WWM knows a LOT more than me! I suggest you take the hit out on him first!

by which time I should be well out of the country...

Typedef · 02-10-2002 5:43pm

Originally posted by WhiteWashMan

you didnt look like you were doing more empathizing with my mate debbie last week.

and she told me what you got up to after the pub.
i believe there were sexual relations involved, want to tell the world about them?

The word no, springs to mind on so many different levels you wouldn't believe it....... besides.... that would be creepy.... really creepy

logic1 · 02-10-2002 5:54pm

Originally posted by Typedef

did I mention I'm single.........

There's a reason for that.

.logic.

pickarooney · 02-10-2002 6:58pm

As he plunges his tongue meat ever deepr into the fetid recesses of your friend's gullet, his mysterious gaze in your direction is meant to signify "Do you fancy a threesome, then?".

Oh, and, you despise the girl you so affectionately refer to as "a friend of mine", admit it.

LegacyUser · 03-10-2002 11:12pm

in answer to the topic of why do i watch, i have no choice. his g/f lunges at him when im around, to prove to me that "he is mine". does this help in any way?

WhiteWashMan · 04-10-2002 7:49am

Originally posted by dazd n cunfusd
in answer to the topic of why do i watch, i have no choice. his g/f lunges at him when im around, to prove to me that "he is mine". does this help in any way?

childish and immature behaviour.
she obviously has issues and thinjs you may try and get him back or that he may fancy you.
she is just insecure.
stop hanging around if its that painful, otherwise either move on, tell them to move, or just go and find someone else.
but hanging around and worrying about is going to do you about as much use as a chocolate fireguard.

OLDYELLAR · 07-10-2002 4:56pm

i`m a likle bit confused , but LOL , at mercury , aw man ur so subtle , cop a feel , oou aarr with a bit o raaarrrr mama , funny. newho , he probably thinks that because you are looking at him when he looks at you that you still have feelings for him or feel uncomfortable , or maybe he wants to get back with you and thats why he keeps looking at you .

strawberry · 07-10-2002 5:45pm

I think you could be imagining it all. Maybe you're going quietly insane from the pressure of seeing your ex and your friend go out. Or maybe they're instigating a plot to kill you.
Hell, at least your ex still talks to you and isn't trying to turn everyone against you. (I'm bitter, leave me alone.)

another case of the ex's

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