**** Buddies?

yossarin

why dont you do it with her a few times and then regret it / see if its a good thing or not?

/typical male comment

The Saint

Jeebus saint, you know some fúcked up women.

Yip. This particular girl was always ****ed up and I was the only one who didnt realise it until I broke up with her then she went ****ing psycho and kept calling me telling me I ruined her life and that she hated me and then the next day telling me she loved me and wanted to try again. She got her whole family to hate me by lying her ass off (which cosequently she did all along with everyone she knew) too which was a shame coz I got on better with them than I did with her. Thankfully all of her friends and my friends knew she was a compulsive lier so it worked out quite well. I never knew some women could be like that.

mooman_00

i know a lot of women who get like that, they can go fukking nuts alright

The Corinthian

Not unusual to find such extreme emotional responses in people. Of course, on the upside, they can make for some great entertainment:

Old Chinese proverb - "Fragile objects dropped from great heights make interesting noises" :rolleyes:

Giblet

Do it until it gets boring or she starts getting attached and then, tell her you have become gay.

The Saint

Yeah, that'll do miracles for her self confidence.

Kairo

Originally posted by The Saint
Yeah, that'll do miracles for her self confidence.

If she's only a f*ck buddy, then why care?

To hell with telling her you're gay! Tell her you have syphilis. She won't be back in a hurry, I tell you.

Stanley_kubrick

Thats nasty.
Hhehehe

polarbelly

was watchin a programme bout this on e4 last night, quite an interesting topic

thedrowner

that's what you were talking about polarbelly?! i'm so slow. anyway, i think i'd be scared to get a **** buddy. and i think im about to get one . i guess you'll never know how you'll feel until after it. i don't think it's a good idea to do it with someone you ahve a history with though.

BuffyBot

There is no such thing as sex with no strings (emotional) attached. Eventually, one party or the other invariably wants something more or better.

Bollox. Plain and simple. Maybe, just maybe, in your experience..but don't generalise.

My only qualm about this particular situation is that there is a previous tie bwetween the two parties which could make it more complicated.

Typedef

Bollox.

In your opinion, but, don't force your tunnel vision down on me man.... set my people free.

I just pose the porposition that when you have sex with someone one or another party (presumably both) parties become emotionally involved, eventually.

Certainly between men and women, I don't subscribe to the notion of sex buddies, for women, I don't particularly think that is the way intimate relationships work.

Men can be a little more crass in that regard, quite obviously, but my point (in the heterosexual sense) is that for women anyway, I don't really think the idea of a sex buddy is a valid proposition for most women, because, lets face it, women like romance and affection and about the last thing having sex for the sake of sex is, is romantic or affectionate, for a woman.

It's just sex.

The Corinthian

Originally posted by Typedef
Men can be a little more crass in that regard

You really need to get out more Typey... :rolleyes:

Typedef

Bah tell it to the masses.

Typedef : Thinks it's pretty conservative to think that 'everbody' is an unreformed hedonist. Typedef, for example is well reformed at this stage.

And no-body can prove otherwise....
I've made sure of it.

Mercury_Tilt

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Typedef

Originally posted by Mercury_Tilt
Damn right. Silk scarves are better though.. and no friction burns either!

I don't do sex, without strings*

*emotional....

go on... take that bait

Mercury_Tilt

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Typedef

Well that's the thing.

There is no bait... but, you know, loaded threads like this can sometimes bring all sorts out of the woodwork.... who find innuendo in everyday objects and phrases.

Thus, conversation becomes impossible... due to paranoid people looking for bait, where there is none.

I reckon it's something to do with the Oedipus complex*

*honest.

Mercury_Tilt

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The Corinthian

Originally posted by Typedef
And no-body can prove otherwise....
I've made sure of it.

Touch of the Geoffrey Dahmer here, methinks...

DannyD

Originally posted by tman
give her a quick rodgering & then tell the dumb broad to stop watching sex & the city.

You are a Genius !!!

Irish_Ranger_IR

Originally posted by sisob
Personally I wouldn't bother because I don't thing sex is really worth it without love.

ROFL..................


Your a lucky sod, give her one for the boards..............

bug

I really just dont get this f**k buddy stuff, sounds like alot more hassle than its worth, I don't get why people make these sort of arrangements. If you like to sleep around then do that but why give it a crass term? Its bizarre to me. I met this group of people once at a party-none of which I liked -incredibly superficial people. They played this thing called "the game" where they would f**k each other and f**k each others head up on purpose.. all centered around sex. It all a load of B*llox if you ask me. People make such a big deal out of sex. Just go with the flow.

Zombrex

Mate this has "walk away" written all over it.

In my experience there are very few women who can actually handle the idea of a ****-buddy. When a woman says she wants no-strings sex she really means she wants a no-strings relationship which is not the same thing. She wants the emotional satisfaction from having a consistent person in her bed with the freedom of saying she is not in a relationship. At this age and in this society it is very easy to confuse sex for emotion (considering sex chemically causes emotions, especially in women). Once she realises that you aren't actually giving her any emotion and that you actually don't want her, she is probably going to feel used and pissed off.

Another point, and one that is NEVER raised, is that there is an STD epidemic in this country at the moment. STD infection rates have literally skyrocketed in the last few years, especially in young people (16-25). In the current climate it is probably not a very good idea to be sleeping with multiple partners on a regular basis (who are in turn sleeping around themselves).

smiles

Originally posted by Irish_Ranger_IR


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Originally posted by sisob
Personally I wouldn't bother because I don't thing sex is really worth it without love.

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ROFL..................


Your a lucky sod, give her one for the boards..............

Well considering she's on boards and probably has read that...

*rolleyes*
how come guys slag other guys when they're not into random sex?

It shows a rather childish and arrogant attitude.

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The_Bullman

Originally posted by smiles
Well considering she's on boards and probably has read that...

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Do you know something that I don't, how did you figure that out. Unless of course that the partner is thedrowner in which case...

The_Bullman

Or maybe you made the offer to the lad..

Giblet

Seperate your d**k from your emotions. People you f**k don't have to control your life because you f**ked them. She's knows what to expect, and if she goes beyond what is on the table, tell her to f**k off. And if she can't deal with it, and starts bad mouthing you, she's pretty stupid considering it's a pretty slutty thing to do in the first place and you have all the ammo you need. Just my opinion...

smiles

Originally posted by The_Bullman
Do you know something that I don't, how did you figure that out. Unless of course that the partner is thedrowner in which case...

no, she's not. And yes, i do know more than you do. ;P

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thedrowner

yup it's not me. i was making a joke at polarbelly