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Sugar daddy's and where to find them

  • 28-02-2018 07:40PM
    #1
    Baymax
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2 ✭


    Hi all, so has anyone ever wondered ho sugar baby's find there daddy's, is it all site based or on fourms, can they meet at meet ups and go from there... Bars maybe.... What do you all think
    Baymax


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  • #2
    Celtic Phoenix
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    Hey there. So there’s an app called daddyhunt which is intended for daddy’s to meet younger guys and vice versa. It’s ok but not as well frequented as other apps. You can also try the mainstream apps by posting exactly what you’re looking for on those and see if there’s any interest. There’s a night called “daddi”, I think it’s on parliament street once a month. Not sure if you’d be guaranteed what you’re looking for there but the name would suggest so. I hope this helps?


  • #3
    Rick_
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,620 ✭✭✭Rick_


    I don't have a sugar daddy, I've never had a sugar daddy, if I wanted a sugar daddy, yes I could probably go out and get one, because I am what? Sickening! You could never have a sugar daddy because You. Are. Not That. Kind. Of. Girl. Baby, everything I have I have worked for and gotten myself, I've built myself from the ground up.... you bitch! *throws drink*


  • #4
    baby and crumble
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,512 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    PFMC84 wrote: »
    I don't have a sugar daddy, I've never had a sugar daddy, if I wanted a sugar daddy, yes I could probably go out and get one, because I am what? Sickening! You could never have a sugar daddy because You. Are. Not That. Kind. Of. Girl. Baby, everything I have I have worked for and gotten myself, I've built myself from the ground up.... you bitch! *throws drink*

    :pac::pac::pac::pac::pac:


  • #5
    JupiterKid
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 13,396 Mod ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    Daddi is more a leather/muscle bears/ fetish club so not quite the “sugar daddies” I think the OP is seeking out. Many if not most of the guys in Daddi would be attracted to similar types, not so much younger “twink” guys.

    I’d look up sites like Daddyhunt to search out what you’re looking for. But can I ask are you simply attracted to older guys (which I was in my 20s) for fun and a relationship or will you be expecting him to pay for everything? Also the age gap is an important factor. If you’re 26 and he’s 47, that’s one thing. But anything over, say, 25 years can be problematic as you are at very different stages of your lives. That said, relationships with bigger age gaps can and do work out. But relationship based on financial dependency may not be the most balanced or healthy.

    I heard of a very sad case of a UK retired vicar in his late 70s who married a 24 year old Romanian guy who clearly didn’t love him from the outset (look at the wedding kiss pic) and took full advantage of the poor elderly man who was clearly love smitten. Since they split, the vicar is now dating another even younger man. IMO these relationships rarely work out, gay or straight.

    Link::
    http://www.ladbible.com/news/uk-man-79-left-homeless-after-buying-husband-24-flat-20171228

    My 2 cents...


  • #6
    Rick_
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,620 ✭✭✭Rick_


    Without taking the thread too off track, I remember seeing that article about the Romanian guy and the old vicar when it first was revealed as everyone was commenting on the wedding day pictures and how disinterested the Romanian guy was and everyone was calling him a user and a fake. So sad to hear now that this was the case and things have not gone well between them, leaving the vicar homeless and broke.


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  • #7
    Celtic Phoenix
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    Here’s an example of a significant age gap (30 years) that seems to be working: Stephen Fry & Elliot Spencer.


  • #8
    baby and crumble
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,512 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    Age gap relationships are different to "sugar daddy" relationships though. There's often a difference in ages but that's not the defining factor. You get this in straight relationships also. You get men who want to spoil a younger man or woman, and younger folks who want everything bought for them. it's definitely not my cup of tea but I certainly wouldn't equate that f*cker who married the vicar as someone looking for a "sugar daddy". He was a scheming little sh*t who preyed on a vulnerable gentleman. Sugar daddy relationships usually are mutual, everyone knows what they're getting into.

    The more traditional "daddy" scene in the gay community usually refers to the leather, Tom of Finland, older man thing. Just dont confuse the two, OP, or you won't find what you're looking for.


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