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My girlfriend took the BF/GF label back

  • 12-04-2019 11:50AM
    #1
    rob15
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9 ✭


    so my girl asked me to be her boyfriend and days later she said she wanted to take to the label back because it scares her. so I was angry and hurt. she said we are in a relationship/exclusive but she just doesnt like the bf/gf label. she said shes in love with me but why wouldn't she want a label then? advice on this? how would you react?
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  • #2
    Mr. CooL ICE
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,787 ✭✭✭✭Mr. CooL ICE


    Mod: Moved from Fitness, as this forum is more suitable.

    Please read the charter before posting.


  • #3
    xi5yvm0owc1s2b
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,325 ✭✭✭xi5yvm0owc1s2b


    What age are you two?


  • #4
    Ursus Horribilis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,168 ✭✭✭Ursus Horribilis


    How long are you together?


  • #5
    rob15
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9 ✭rob15


    4 months


  • #6
    Ursus Horribilis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,168 ✭✭✭Ursus Horribilis


    It's hard to advise, going by what little information you've given us. Is this more than just an issue with a "label"? Do you think she is having second thoughts about you becoming exclusive? Has her behaviour changed in any way?


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  • #7
    kg703
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,047 ✭✭✭kg703


    Either you are under 18 or she is just trying to get attention / reactions from you.

    Tell her fine, you don’t want me to officially be your boyfriend, then technically I am single.

    She can’t have it both ways. Tell her to grow up. (Im female by the way)


  • #8
    Jurgen Klopp
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,807 ✭✭✭Jurgen Klopp


    I wouldn't be a fan of that behaviour at all at all

    Just screams she's not as bothered about it as you are

    After 4 months you'd surely know if you are sure you want to be in a relationship proper with someone

    I'd be fcuking her off tbh just screams Messer/headwrecker to me


  • #9
    tara73
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,358 ✭✭✭tara73


    how old are you, I presume you both are very young? Could it be she still lives at home and her parents disapprove of any relationship ? Tthinking she's too young or for whatever else reasons?


  • #10
    Calypso Realm
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 416 ✭✭Calypso Realm


    Or maybe she just panicked and became overwhelmed with the intensity of it all? It can and does happen! I would just give her space for now.


  • #11
    Paddy Cow
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,576 ✭✭✭Paddy Cow


    She's in love with you but doesn't want to be called your girlfriend? That's really immature and head wrecking. If she's like this after four months, what will she be like in the future?


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