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Dublin mother shares footage of offered council house

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,586 ✭✭✭Jinglejangle69


    Well I'd say you know absolutely nothing about mine or the majority of people you refer too.


    So you're statement is pretty much nonsense.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,195 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    it's the government's problem, not yours or mine.

    whether 13 years is plenty of time to get training and a career or not is irrelevant since we have already established that the most vocal individuals on here complaining about her and others in a similar situation wouldn't employ her.

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words, nobody has better words then me.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,195 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    that's not what i asked.

    would you give her a job if she indeed did actually want it. yes or no

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words, nobody has better words then me.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    The thing is how do you avoid people doing this, I don’t know but vandalism and graffiti destroys a place. Have seen it abroad ( graffiti) a lot more than Ireland and it’s so ugly. We are good at the upkeep of places here to our credit so maybe it’s keeping up the paint work, flower boxes etc tidy towns community .



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,195 ✭✭✭✭end of the road



    bookerlover3:42 pm

    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117738468#Comment_117738468

    Maybe she should have consudered that while she was churning out sprogs.

    Sick of spongers looking for free everything. The rest of us have to work pay rent or a mortgage. Whats so different about her?

    maybe she did, and realised that it was never going to be possible for her, so, due to her income levels decided to apply for subsidized housing.

    to be honest not as sick as i am of the same whinging by the same individuals every time this topic comes up, who have no actual viable solutions and some of who vote for the politicians and political parties which created this, instead of investing in resources to keep people in education rather then letting them leave school early or play truant etc, who refused to ultimately invest in social housing.

    and you only have to pay a mortgage if you choose to buy a house, and choose to get the loan from the bank, you don't have to own a house.

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words, nobody has better words then me.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,396 ✭✭✭mikethecop


    you post that like i should care about your opinion , you want to pay for the lifestyle of some one who doesn't bother to contribute feel free,


    social responsibility works both way



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,381 ✭✭✭Yurt2


    I'm well aware where it came from. And it's the only time I'm aware someone has used it in the media in the way you're describing. It's been repeated ad nauseum on boards and on Twitter by people who have a pathological fixation on single mothers on the scratch. It's a litmus test for how much of a headbanger an individual is. As soon as you read it, you know the individual's brain has been hijacked and you can accurately predict the rest of their grim worldview.

    BuddypalfriendoMATE



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,195 ✭✭✭✭end of the road



    she can look after them alright.

    what i suspect you mean is that she can't look after them to your specifications, which i am afraid is your problem.

    the care system exists for children who are in actual danger or other extreme situations, it is not there to placate to an individual's personal beliefs.

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words, nobody has better words then me.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,211 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack



    I think having viewed the video it was enough to provide evidence that the accommodation was unsuitable for the family. It’s not as though any of us are in a position to suggest that the property is suitable when the person themselves says it’s not suitable for them and their circumstances, particularly after having been on a housing list for 13 years and then being fobbed off with sub-standard accommodation. The housing list was only ever intended to be a temporary measure, certainly not a long term measure, and certainly not 13 years!

    Inefficient policies are the problem, not the individuals who are affected by those inefficiencies. It’s as though you imagine social services aren’t aware of their circumstances, or successive governments aren’t aware of their circumstances. They are, but they chose to ignore them and imagined that throwing more money at the issues would at least keep them quiet.

    13 years later I imagine they’re only wishing they had the benefit of your hindsight when they should have been dealing properly with the issues then, and not having them accumulate to the point they’re at now.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,709 ✭✭✭Feisar


    I’ll take your point to a degree. However it would appear to placate her personal beliefs to be entitled to a free ride.

    First they came for the socialists...



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,396 ✭✭✭mikethecop


    how do you know she can look after them ?


    how do you know what standards she has re childcare


    do you have any actual information or are you just doing your usual bs social justice warrior stick



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,195 ✭✭✭✭end of the road



    no, it really, really doesn't.

    it only entitles you to what you have paid for once you pay for it in full. before that, it belongs to the entity you are paying for it from.

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words, nobody has better words then me.



  • Registered Users Posts: 43 Duffleboxie


    Genuine question here, how is someone unable to get their finances/lives together within 13 years so that they don’t need to be dependant on the state? And a 4th child on the way? I’m baffled???



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,195 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    you think wrong on all counts.

    nobody on the social housing list is going to get a 5 bed in foxrock so this is just hyperbole.

    and if living where she is currently living hasn't stopped her from having children then no other accommodation is likely to either.

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words, nobody has better words then me.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    It is not unreasonable to ask why Aoife had four children over the years of being on the housing list. This seems to occur often, dooming the kids to a crap existence - and it is mindblowing.

    It isn't unreasonable either to ask why some folk have a sense of entitlement to state supports when others in difficult situations work, and rent private accommodation.

    That said, I still prefer a society where there are social supports.

    And the council shouldn't be letting absolute kips. A paint job and a clean should be the expectation in any circumstances.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    It does indeed. But a lot of the big corps here pay little tax and how come we never hear a word about that. It’s always blame the little people, a divide and conquer strategy. Sad that it’s becoming so bitter. When I started paying tax never thought a jot about where it was going and didn’t begrudge it to anyone, but now the country is so squeezed that these people bare the brunt.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,211 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack



    I know it’s a serious question, but I’m just thinking to myself “what finances, they’re dependent upon the State?”

    Genuinely though, it’s often the case that most people in that position have different values and they aren’t the financial wizards in this thread who are giving fantastic financial advice, in hindsight.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,938 ✭✭✭✭Kermit.de.frog


    Other countries have a very simple solution to this problem and that is they give them absolutely nothing and will leave them actually homeless and defenceless on a point of principle.


    The United States being the best example of true personal accountability in regard to welfare.

    We have no accountability here. It's cradle to grave welfare and it is slowly eating this society.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    That's punishing the kids though. People can't be surprised when those kids grow up a mess and the cycle continues.

    A situation where people don't see an incentive to work has arisen in this country, but America is too far the other way. A balance is difficult to strike though.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,195 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    i already told you, because all accommodation needs to be to a certain standard and that's it.

    the point of working is you earn money and in certain situations may have certain extra choices others won't have.

    but like i pointed out to another poster, it does not make you more entitled, worthy or important.

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words, nobody has better words then me.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,071 ✭✭✭Notmything


    Daddy(s) not on the scene......until she gets a council gaff and then they decide to give it another go for "the kids"



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,396 ✭✭✭mikethecop


    13 years and 4 kids is a long time to get your act together , i wonder did she ever contribute to society in any meaningful way ? or her partner (partners ? )


    again social responsibility is a real thing for some and a joke to others



  • Posts: 5,369 [Deleted User]


    So you don't consider the primary cause of her issues to be her? Instead you choose to target the council who spends their days repairing properties for people that couldn't be bothered taking responsibility for their own lives or the property they are provided?

    Exactly why we have the **** show we have.



  • Posts: 5,369 [Deleted User]


    If she was suitable qualifed and passed the exams, she could have any number of public sector jobs. Not all of them require more than a leaving cert



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,195 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    we already aren't paying people to "spawn"

    we are paying individuals who have children, so they can support those children, due to their low to lack of income.

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words, nobody has better words then me.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,211 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack



    Four children in 13 years is a significant contribution to society for one person. Though of course whether or not that meets YOUR idea of a meaningful contribution to society is a different standard entirely.

    Plenty of miserable shytes who have never actually contributed to society but only ever thought of themselves exist in society too, but I wouldn’t judge anyone too harshly on the basis that they themselves contribute fcukall to society, and their contribution to society measured in terms of their criticism of others really offers nothing of any value to society.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,381 ✭✭✭Yurt2


    And what has a rugby club, a mica-affected privately owned house, and co-operative housing got to do with headbangers using the 'forever home' meme in relation to social housing? Nada.

    Headbangers and the bitter have taken something Erica Fleming said once in the media and turned into some sort of oddball battle cry. You're the ones repeating it over and over droning on ad-nauseum.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,195 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    realistically not the case since payment or lack of payments to support children have no effect on numbers in the real world.

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words, nobody has better words then me.



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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Jeez a public sector job these days is like gold bullion. Anyone with the leaving cert and any kind of training certification - or even just the LC - could get a job all right though.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,455 ✭✭✭FGR


    Time to put the kids in their school uniforms despite it being the holidays and sleep in the garda station.

    Its worked before.

    /sigh

    People deserve a roof over their heads but when you don't do anything for it you shouldn't be picky.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Nobody, a local authority especially, should be letting out an absolute kip though. Thinking this and agreeing that there's a sense of entitlement/lack of willingness to take responsibility, are not mutually exclusive.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,381 ✭✭✭Yurt2


    It's a shitbox and shouldn't be offered to anyone on the housing list (not to mention it's probably leased at an eye-watering cost totally divorced from the market), the council know it and have withdrawn the unit according to the latest media.

    Posters don't know the circumstances and character of the woman, they just want to give someone a shoeing while telling the world how awfully hard working they are. It's standard boards fare. They want a medal for putting on their trousers and going out to work in the morning like 95% of adults and blame the wrong people for the housing obscenities in the country.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,184 ✭✭✭riclad


    Maybe it used to work like that in the 90s, have 2 or 3 kids wait 5 years get offered a house, but since 2000 the council sold off council houses to anyone who wanted to buy one , theres only a tiny amount of council houses left . Most maybe 90 per cent council stock is now apartments . How many council apartments would even be big enough for a woman with 4 kids

    I'm suprised there's a woman out there having 4 kids, is it still the 80s when contraception was tough to get

    Most couples are having 1 or 2 kids at most since most women are now working we are in a pandemic how does a mother of 4 go to work when most child care facility's are closed you can't leave 4 children alone in a house if a woman wants a house my advice is look for a nice bloke who has a good job and get into a serious relationship we have a homeless crisis many women with kids are living in hotels for years

    Dublin City Council has very high standards in the design and construction process of New apartments and buildings are checked and inspected probably to a higher standard than the average private builder and they have rules re size of rooms insulation energy effeciency too



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 513 ✭✭✭The DayDream


    Years ago, before the housing crisis, my sister who was a single mum was offered a council place with no proper floors, no radiators, loads of rubbish and cigarette butts etc on the bare concrete floors from the builders that had left it in that state.

    She took it because she needed somewhere to live, called in favors or borrowed money to get the work done. Because it was still better than having no house and cheaper than buying one. And this wasn't in Dublin it was way down the country. Later on she went back to college and has since gotten a job abroad. Not being a bootstrapper here just saying her post smacks of entitlement.

    To be brutally honest what really makes me have no sympathy for your wan is the way she wrote the Facebook post as one long sentence. Why should the rest of us bother learning anything when you're better off being a moronic baby factory who can't be arsed to even stick in the odd comma or full stop. If she even broke that post up into just 2 paragraphs I'd say, Och, gwan, give her a garden, like.

    I wonder has she listened back to her own video. Hard to imagine having that grating, aggressive 'howya' tone of voice that generally accompanies a request for 2 euro for a hostel then being all shocked pikachu face when the council decide you belong in a slum.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,184 ✭✭✭riclad


    It's inflation I used to be asked for 1 euro, now its 2 euro, have cigarettes gone up in the last year , or is drink more expensive ? There's soup kitchens everyday to provide food for the homeless

    Many single mothers get jobs and get a qualification when the child gets older and they go to secondary school

    But I find it strange a single mother who has 4 kids are they all from one father ? I suppose in a few years time the government might be complaining people are not having enough children to keep the economy going

    Eg we need a growing population to grow the economy



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,128 ✭✭✭✭Oranage2


    With 4 kids, housing allowance and children's allowance would put her close to 36k a year. Not including medical cards and other supplements. So if she had to pay rent and childcare she'd need to earn north of 70k a year.



  • Registered Users Posts: 43 Duffleboxie


    Making her ‘American’ homeless would cost the state in medical bills and in policing anti-social behaviour, I’m sure the list goes on.

    When I asked how is someone unable to get their lives in order within 13 years I’m talking about finding a job, not having kids and growing a small business (tiny in fact!) finding a partner who might support her if she has children. Like how difficult is it for people? We can create our own realities, our universe is a mirror of our own consciousness. soz to be philosophical but like, why don’t people like her know this. It actually makes me think that the State financial support facilitates and enables this entitled mentality instead of shaming/triggering her into action



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,760 ✭✭✭dudley72


    SomE of these people use children as a source of income, if not children allowance then no income

    I wonder all the years this lady has been on housing list has she ever got a job?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,468 ✭✭✭✭lawred2


    Do you actually think that's a better solution?

    That's just some form of Victorian era retribution to make you feel better. Does nothing whatsoever to actually help.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,211 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack



    The list does go on, and we’re aware of the effects of a combination of factors in US society which has led them to the point they’re at now where the President is talking about spending Trillions of dollars on “building back better”. US society is an absolute basket case, and cherry picking the bits we like and pretending the bits we don’t like don’t exist, is ignoring reality. I detest the idea of the Welfare State for example, but in order to have a society in which people don’t need a welfare state, that requires a significant shift in social attitudes and Government policies. In reality it’s deemed far easier to continue to throw good money after bad, and increase taxes when the money is running short. It’s a short term solution but it keeps people quiet for the most part as most people will simply resign themselves to the fact that there’s very little they can actually do to change it, and more people are actually quite happy to maintain the status quo as long as they’re profiting from it, and make no mistake there are plenty of people profiting from the fact that in 2019 the number of people on national housing waiting lists was over 68,000 (old article, I don’t know the figure for 2021) -



    That surely would indicate that contrary to your belief, we certainly don’t and can’t choose to create our own reality. It would be silly to suggest that you’re responsible for a reality where there are 18,000 people on housing waiting lists over 7 years. Is that a reflection of a universe you created? I don’t think so, I don’t think you think so either.

    Your idea is entirely philosophical and is the basis for what’s commonly referred to as the myth of the American Dream. It’s idealism, an avoidance mechanism rather than having to deal with a reality where other people don’t share your idealism and running a tiny business won’t keep a roof over anyone’s head in today’s economic climate. What you’re talking about amounts to a hobby, not a viable business. I know it was just an example you were giving, but it’s just not grounded in reality which is that there are numerous factors beyond people’s control which influence the positions they’re in which limit the choices they make and mean that they are often just trying to make the best of a bad situation.

    People make bad decisions based upon having limited access to opportunities and resources, that’s just a fact, and it can and does lead to circumstances culminating in a reality where some jobsworth either in the local council or advising the local council, thought it was appropriate or acceptable to offer substandard accommodation to a family in need of accommodation after being 13 years on the housing waiting list already, and the person being offered the accommodation would take it and say nothing and just accept it as that’s all they deserve.

    Whoever signed off on that shìthole obviously didn’t envisage this woman going off the script and highlighting the fact that they’re being treated like shìte. That’s not entitlement, it’s the exact opposite of entitlement, it’s saying that what they’re being offered shouldn’t be acceptable to anyone, and they’re right. The council shouldn’t be permitted to get away with that sort of incompetence and treating people like shìte. Nobody deserves to be treated like that regardless of their circumstances or whatever decisions they have or haven’t made or regardless of what anyone thinks in hindsight they should or shouldn’t have done differently.

    It’s the council are responsible for providing accommodation, and that responsibility filters right UP, rather than down, to the successive Governments failed policies which are meant to govern Irish society, because it’s not just failures in housing or accommodation policies, it’s the complete failure to provide support and put in place measures in society that would mean there weren’t 68,000 people on housing waiting lists in this country.

    The woman being referred to in the opening post is just one of those people, and I doubt either you or I or anyone else here has either the time or the resources to investigate and determine where 68,000 people went wrong in their lives or were incapable of seeing things as we see them, or creating their own reality or their universe being a reflection of their own consciousness or any of the rest of it. You didn’t create the current reality, and I know I sure as hell didn’t create the current reality, but I do know how difficult it is to change one’s circumstances when one doesn’t have either the opportunities and the resources to do so. I still wouldn’t go near the national media to publicise the issue though because I know they’re not particularly interested in addressing the issues involved. Their only interest is in generating revenue, often by pricking the undercurrent of resentment of the underclasses that is festering in spiteful and bitter middle class Irish society.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,391 ✭✭✭olestoepoke


    Some of the comments in this thread are disgraceful, some people would do away with social housing altogether and let people live in tents on the side of the road. We don't know enough about this woman's history. Get a job, stop wasting tax payers money, stop getting pregnant, take what you're given. Not everyone is lucky enough to be born into decent families with loving parents who pay for college and live in nice estates. Some people get a raw deal from the very start in life and putting 4 children into a **** hole like that is just keeping the cycle going. Every modern society needs social housing and there should be an acceptable standard especially when children are involved.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,339 ✭✭✭SAMTALK


    She should try live in some of the places out there for college students !

    And the pleasure of paying premium for these dumps



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,339 ✭✭✭SAMTALK


    It is understandable that people get riled up over stories like this, people going to work and paying big money on rent, childcare etc and may never be able to get a mortgage.

    Nobody would expect anyone to live in a dump but the pictures were very selective and sharing/complaining on social media is bound to get a negative reaction



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    It’s telling enough that there is no footage of the inside of the property. If it was dire they certainly would have included it.

    nothing to see here



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,709 ✭✭✭Feisar


    Can you explain to me why is should pay for her house? The way things are going I'm setting up provision for the young lads place and I've to pay for her as well?

    And yes i'm aware I'm paying in to a system and the system dolls out the money as it sees fit. However why is the system supporting the likes of her and not investing in us the people actually contributing?

    Further, I'm not totally heartless however the system encourages this type of behavior.

    First they came for the socialists...



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,468 ✭✭✭✭lawred2


    ah yeah but for most college kids it's a rite of passage onto a brighter future

    should have seen the kips I rented in



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,468 ✭✭✭✭lawred2




  • Registered Users Posts: 1,000 ✭✭✭Mike Murdock


    Housing shortages? Wait until we throw Roderick O'Gorman's "Brotherhood of Man" Asylum Seeker housing policy into the mix.....



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,709 ✭✭✭Feisar


    Explain to me the morality of the workers having to carry the non workers. Like I understand it's the tax we pay to keep them semi sedated on Johnny Blues and Dutch Gold, the country would be lawless if we didn't pay them. I've no issue with a help up but the current system is a joke.

    First they came for the socialists...



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