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How is your cat affecting your life?

  • 22-09-2021 8:22pm
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    Posts: 0 Emery Few Ram


    Let me start by saying I adore my cat, who has found fame on Boards, having been identified on the “Liveline” thread as a “Pet of de Pandemic”. He survived a huge bone cancer over one and a half years back, by getting an amputation and has been going from strength to strength since. He has been by my side through the pandemic and truly deserves his Liveline accolade.

    Now he is duly demanding my every moment of attention whenever I am near. I cannot look at my phone or any screen without his tapping on my arm in a most insistent and irritating way. I am delighted here here to indulge him. He accepts my looking at the TV, but mostly I look at my phone or other devices whilst half watching TV.

    Is anybody else inhibited or distracted by their feline when trying to access a screen other than TV, which is something a cat can also watch?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,555 ✭✭✭SuperSean11


    Wouldn’t have it any other way



  • Posts: 0 Emery Few Ram


    Fortunately mine is sociable, he needs to be as I’m sociable 😂



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,606 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    My two are insanely sociable, they'll literally scream at me for attention.

    Also wouldn't have it any other way :D



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,066 ✭✭✭bop1977


    Cats are dicks. Dogs ftw.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,096 ✭✭✭✭looksee


    I have one who talks incessantly...I'm coming, I'm going, I need food, I want to go out, I want to sit in your chair, I want you to notice me, I want whatever you are eating, and so on endlessly. The other scuttles around with big scared eyes going 'don't beat me, don't abuse me, don't even look at me because I am terrified of you'...then sleeps on my bed all night. In fact if she figures its getting late she will come and nudge me and tell me its bedtime.



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  • Posts: 0 Emery Few Ram


    Last week, on Liveline, Joe Duffy asked “are cats affectionate?” He hadn’t a clue of feline psychology. They are both semi-self-reliant and dependent at the same time. My own little black panther has been one totally emotionally dependent on me. It’s serious.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,280 ✭✭✭mistersifter


    My cat is seriously taking the piss out of the whole work from home situation. She demands that we get up to open the front door for her every few minutes. Goes mad scratching the door if we don't immediately let her back inside when she feels like it, so it's hard to even ignore her. She will accept being let in the big window but wont jump in the small window even though she's well able, so I cant just leave a window open for her. When she goes outside in the garden she just sits there staring in at me as I work from home with a sinister look on her face. It's a fúcked up situation.



  • Posts: 0 Emery Few Ram


    She has ye twisted around her little sharp claw!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,222 ✭✭✭✭Strumms


    i don’t have a cat, but next door neighbors got one about 18 months ago and it uses our car as a playpen / sun lounger / climbing frame and hangs out in the garden all the time, we’ve found cat crap regularly enough... so I might as well have one, it must have sharp claws as you can hear a faint tap tap tap on the metal along with meowing... also last week and today there were mucky paw marks on the windscreen...I only had a cursory look but there doesn’t appear to be scratches or dings anywhere yet... it’s not my cat but becoming a problem, car only months old... approximately 40 grands worth of car,,, can deal with sweeping up the odd bit of crap but fûck loosing money... stupid dumb hippy cûnts at the beginning were nice enough but jeeez this and other things..



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,143 ✭✭✭Baybay


    My house panther likes his breakfast served between 5 & 6 am while I like to sleep between 5 & 6 am so, breakfast is served between 5 & 6 am.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,313 ✭✭✭✭cj maxx


    Thought I'd put it here as I can't find a dedicated pet thread.

    I'm going to get a kitten , whether from a pet shop or neighbours I don't know.

    What vaccinations/ birth control should I be getting. I had loads of cats before but they were semi feral , only coming when called for meals.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,143 ✭✭✭Baybay


    Your local vet may know of kittens that need homes. They will also advise on vaccinations. Neutering or spaying can also be discussed with them when the kitten is a little older.

    Ours came from a local rescue centre who charged an adoption fee, at the time anyway. The fee included vaccinations, neutering & microchipping plus a little extra to help support the facility. It was excellent value which actually encouraged us to round it up a bit.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,313 ✭✭✭✭cj maxx




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,591 ✭✭✭touts


    I'm the same. One of my neighbors got one of the creatures during lock down. Now it comes into my garden at night and sh1ts in my vegetable beds. I don't particularly want my children eating carrots etc that have been covered in cat sh1t. But my neighbor doesn't care and says he can't control the animal. I tried blocking off gaps in the fence etc and spreading pepper, cat deterrent, spikes etc. Nothing works. Looking into getting one of those pest control companies who will catch ferral cats but there seem to be a lot of charlatans out there offering the service as some sort of a con. So a bit stuck at the moment. If I get my hands on the creature it is going for a long drive in my boot and will be released in a wood three or four counties away.


    I would appeal to people considering getting a cat not to.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 230 ✭✭whereto now


    I was reading yesterday that the ISPCA are desperately looking for hones for kittens and cats, they'll be vaccinated and spayed/neutered and in good health. Worth looking into before you buy one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,593 ✭✭✭theteal


    They cost me money - constantly e.g. cattery, vets, zooplus, insurance. I never wanted them and foresaw how it would play out but "they're part of the family". They can be funny at times when they're acting the idiot but in general they're just an inconvenience. I love playing with other people's pets and was happy to never have my own. The last 6 years have solidified that idea and there won't be any more after these are gone.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 161 ✭✭honeyjo


    I love my house panther but Jade Martha is a diva. She sits on the rug in living every morning and every evening demanding her treats. If she sees us, she will refuse to use the small window and meows at the door until we open it. Jade is spoiled rotten and I wouldn't have it any other way. She loves to jump up onto your lap and get strokes.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,510 ✭✭✭fun loving criminal


    Use a spray bottle of water and squirt the cat. Do it a few times and they won't come back.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,313 ✭✭✭✭cj maxx


    Actually what do I need living wise for a indoor cat? , littertray, basket, cat food?. All my cats, when I was younger, lived in sheds outside and came in ( hung about) for food.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,817 ✭✭✭✭whisky_galore


    Too late, several furry freeloaders have turned up already.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,339 ✭✭✭The One Doctor


    Cats are not great - too stringy and not enough meat on them for a good feed. Get chickens instead.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,591 ✭✭✭touts


    It comes in the middle of the night. I just can't stay up all night. I have seen it a few times but by the time I get out my back door the creature runs away. I'm looking at options to safely trap it and then release it miles away.



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Arts Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 50,895 CMod ✭✭✭✭magicbastarder


    one of ours is the same as your second one. she's exceptionally shy and skittish (rescued from a feral litter at about 8-10 weeks old) and won't allow you to get near her during the day, but sleeps on the bed and is known to headbutt you awake several times during the night for a belly rub.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,143 ✭✭✭Baybay


    New news. One of his nocturnal visitors, who wouldn’t dare come into the garden when The House Panther is aware / awake, peed on the front door mat last night. The waft of Eau du Chat as we opened & closed the door this morning has added a certain something to our day.



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 40,552 CMod ✭✭✭✭ancapailldorcha


    I wish to God I had a cat. And a place of my own for it. And no allergies to the little monsters. I swear, it's like something the Greek Gods would do.

    The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the LORD your God.

    Leviticus 19:34



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,510 ✭✭✭fun loving criminal


    That's cruel if your neighbour owns the cat. What about using a garden sprinkler? Cats hate water and it will learn to stay away from your place.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,096 ✭✭✭✭looksee


    And a complete waste of time, it will come back no matter how far you take it. (Don't do it anyway).



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,767 ✭✭✭GingerLily


    My cats favourite hobbie is to disrupt nap time for my baby. If she hears the lullabies she'll find her way to the window to be let in, no matter how long ago she's asked to go out. Or today instead she wanted to go outside via the window and got herself tangled in the blinds and decided they blinds were fun to play in. Her little bell jingling while my hands are full nursing 😩

    She also likes morning cuddles, a tradition that predates the baby so will wake up everyone demanding it when she hears the baby stirring in the morning.

    She's taken to sneaking into neighbours houses too now, don't know what to do with her, they all say they like her, but I know she's a menace.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,767 ✭✭✭GingerLily


    She also gifted us a dead rat yesterday and was really mad when we didn't keep it, spent the day in a huff.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,249 ✭✭✭TomSweeney


    Post pics OP !

    If there is one thing the interwebs needs more of, it's pictures of cats!! :D



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 40,552 CMod ✭✭✭✭ancapailldorcha


    Indeed. You don't want someone else to beat you to putting up a picture of their cat first.

    The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the LORD your God.

    Leviticus 19:34



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,700 ✭✭✭storker




  • Posts: 0 Emery Few Ram


    I use an automatic feeder. He gets his meals at the assigned times and is pretty good not to annoy me when I’m eating.



  • Posts: 0 Emery Few Ram


    Missing one hind leg and most of one original cornea.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 392 ✭✭Fionne


    You do realise that even without a cat, you need to wash veg anyway because it will have had other animals (rats, mice, birds, foxes, rabbits) also doing their toilet businesses in the area? I can sympathise as I have both cats and veg beds but I've had to put chicken wire around the veg beds to keep them from digging in it. Have you tried a repellent like Defenders Cat Repellent?

    Please don't trap it and release it miles away. For one thing, it will likely find it's way home again (or the neighbours just get another cat) and it's also very cruel to leave a creature that depends on humans for food and shelter to fend for itself.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,143 ✭✭✭Baybay


    THP is an older gentleman, with dental issues. For years he only ate dry food & that was at will from a dispenser. He’s no longer able for “biscuits” & supervises the opening of all pouches to make sure they’re fresh enough for his very discerning palate! If it’s not finished in one go, he’ll act as though his dish is empty. This early rising lark is a relatively new development which makes me the automatic feeder!


    And, snap!




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,591 ✭✭✭touts


    My neighbour should look after his cat. I have asked him to control it and he says he can't. He shouldn't be surprised if it disappears. I can't leave my sprinkler on all-night for months in the hope of scaring off the cat.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,591 ✭✭✭touts


    I do wash the veg. But reaching in to pull veg and getting a handful of cat sh1t is not something I would wish on even my neighbour. I think cats can fend for themselves but if it makes you feel better I will look to drop the cat off at a shelter far away with the collar etc removed.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,510 ✭✭✭fun loving criminal




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 392 ✭✭Fionne


    I have just one cat now since the previous one died earlier in the year and he's become incredibly possessive and clingy since becoming the only cat of the house. He definitely doesn't miss the other cat one bit, he's revelling in having all of the attention. He insists on breakfast at 4.30am every morning (it seems to be a pattern with cats to want breakfast at that time, my cousin in Australia has cats waking him at that hour too). He is probably too affectionate if anything, he has to be sitting on top of me or at least pinning an arm or leg down for him to be happy that I'm close by. He's an ex-feral cat so is out rambling all day, he's always waiting when I get home though and in for the night then, which is I suppose how he has survived for 14 years when an outdoor cat's life span is often half that.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,715 ✭✭✭blackbox


    The scratches are healing up nicely now.



  • Posts: 0 Emery Few Ram


    My guy is totally indoors only. Live in a first floor apartment, so no question of his getting out and he never asks to be outside.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,280 ✭✭✭mistersifter


    I would appeal to people not to deliberately take animals away from their homes and abandon them where they will end up suffering a fairly **** death. A tame cat wont survive long in the wild - you cant really "safely trap" a cat. It would be seriously traumatised if you locked it in a cage.

    If people did not domesticate the kittens that are born and spay them, you would have a far bigger problem with cats than you do now You should be appealing to people to take responsibility for their animals - not to avoid taking them in.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,909 ✭✭✭✭Galwayguy35


    I've a stray that turned up at my place a few years ago and decided to stay, she is tame enough now but is an outdoor cat and a great rat catcher.

    Problem is she attracts all the local toms who like pissing up against the side of the house.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,282 ✭✭✭PsychoPete


    If you done that to my cat, I'd go full John Wick on you and make sure you are never found



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 181 ✭✭AustinLostin


    They say cats can't be trained, but I've taught mine to scratch the car of one neighbour to the left of me, and poop in the veg patch of the neighbour the other side of me.



  • Posts: 0 Emery Few Ram


    Cats often know full well what they ought to be doing in your eyes, but they choose to do otherwise. Eg, mine has a giant panther-proportioned scratching post but he chooses to sharpen his clothes on the once-good armchair. He knows he will get my attention, and that is the purpose of his move.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,591 ✭✭✭touts


    Is that you James??? 😂

    You won't be laughing when your cat disappears and ends up in a shelter in Sligo. 😂



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,633 ✭✭✭✭murpho999



    You need to get yourself when of those. I use it all the time for cat that loves his food and shakes the bed at silly o'clock to get his food and this machine has been a lifesaver.

    Also sturdy lock on it so curious cats can't open it and access other meals like they can on some machines.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,633 ✭✭✭✭murpho999


    A scratching pole. You must get this for an indoor cat otherwise your furniture is going to get badly clawed.

    Some toys as well as indoor gets need entertainment.


    Also another tip.Cats require water and many people put a water bowl beside their food bowl.

    Cat will be fine with this but if you want them a little more at ease and happy then put the water in another part of the room not near their food.

    This mimics their natural instinct as a wild cat will never drink water downstream of where it has caught and eaten food as it will contaminated so having water away from their food will replicate that.



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