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Relationship Cruel Ending

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    #32
    B.A._Baracus
    Registered Users Posts: 11,192 ✭✭✭✭B.A._Baracus


    I know it's a clichéd response, however it does sound like you dodged a bullet.

    To me, it sounds like she's either half mad as no normal sane person books a holiday a week before randomly breaking up with someone. If not that then she's slippery as a snake. All smiles and making plans while she was thinking / gearing up to break up with you. Into using someone territory then.

    To be honest it sounds like the veil dropped and the real person came out. Surprised it took a year. However as you say you and your family thought she was genuine. Maybe just good at hiding her real self. To a point of course as here we are.


    Ps, not that it matters but I reckon the 600 was the money she got from her mate to go on the holiday. Surprised she gave it to you.



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    #33
    The Silver Branch
    Registered Users Posts: 204 ✭✭The Silver Branch


    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117959210#Comment_117959210

    Thanks. Yes she gave half the 600 back.



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    #34
    B.A._Baracus
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    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117959324#Comment_117959324

    Oh sorry, I read that wrong. Thought it was 600 given back with 300 missing (900 in total) I get you now. Ah, nothing you can do man. I know you're probably hurting a little (hence the thread) but you'll be fine in time. Sure with 7+ billion people on this planet, cruel and messy breakups happen every day of the week.



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    #35
    The Silver Branch
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    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117959347#Comment_117959347

    They surely do! Live and learn! Onwards and upwards.



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    #36
    Pussyhands
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    Very strange situation. A year is quite a length of time to be seeing someone for them to just suddenly cut all ties overnight.

    OP how much time would you have spent with them each week? Are they local?

    She knows she fcuked up and didn't want to explain herself, that's why she blocked you on everything. Dirty individual.



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    #37
    The Silver Branch
    Registered Users Posts: 204 ✭✭The Silver Branch


    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117959381#Comment_117959381

    Would generally meet 2 full days a week. 50 miles away.



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    #38
    B.A._Baracus
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    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117959396#Comment_117959396

    A fair distance. Towards the end was it you making the trip to see her and not the other way round?



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    #39
    The Silver Branch
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    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117959438#Comment_117959438

    In fairness 50/50. It had never been a problem for her or me.



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    #40
    The Silver Branch
    Registered Users Posts: 204 ✭✭The Silver Branch


    I'm going to ask to close the thread as there aren't really any answers. Believe me I was very introspective and beating myself up on every part of mine in the relationship.

    But the coldness of the discard and finding out that she booked a holiday under a friend's name, with my money going halves on it, a week before breaking up led me to be less harsh on myself.

    Why open a thread here, type it out, let it be cathartic. But what's done is done. I don't know her reasons, I never will. Time to make a fresh start.

    So whoever closes these threads, feel free to do so.

    Thanks to everyone for the kind words and contributions. It could be a lot worse.



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