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How is your cat affecting your life?

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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Fed my mother's cat the other day. She was rubbing against everything, rolling, turning upside down... and the purring! She's so beautiful. Your hand just melts into her fur, which is so thick and luxurious and shiny. And she's no fancy breed - just a brown tabby. She wanted endless rubs, and demanded more when they stopped. Although when she showed me her tummy, which I made the mistake of rubbing, I received a gentle warning bite. She's so sweet but not to be f'd with!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    At this very moment my biggest cat ( I am abed) is tucked behind my very sore knees, snoring.. His body warmth is perfect to heal the pain. Therapy cat



  • Posts: 0 Emery Few Ram




  • Registered Users Posts: 1,580 ✭✭✭Testament1


    Much like some of the posters here I'm much fonder of dogs and never really thought much of cats. Until my wife rescued a gorgeous jet black long haired kitten. The playfulness, closeness and affection displayed by that cat completely changed my mind. She became an integral part of our family, even making the move to another country with us. We recently lost our furry little friend in tragic circumstances and we're honestly heartbroken.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    (((HUGS)))) I just lost my 17 year old cat and feel your pain. Missing him so much.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    I keep wondering where my cats are. The kitchen is warmer than my bedroom so they have chosen that... Abandoned.. lol




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7





  • Posts: 17,378 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    My cat is under the covers with me now while I drink my coffee. (8.25am). He's been a bit annoying these days as he's mad for the ride but overall, a very positive impact on my life. I do everything to take care of him but he prefers my girlfriend.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I lost my 18 year old cat 4 years ago, and my 14 year old dog a year ago, and I was truly reluctant to take on another pet.

    I truly couldn't face getting another dog so soon but these two now 5 months old little hellions, that I have adopted in October have brought some fun back the house (as well as some chaos).

    However, definitely no christmas tree being put up this year, though!!!!




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,028 ✭✭✭PsychoPete


    Herself had been going on about putting the Christmas tree up for days, so I finally put it on Wednesday evening to keep her happy. One of the cats has ran and launched herself at twice already, thankfully its still standing. I know some morning I'll get up and it will be down on the ground



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    I know how you felt. The hardest thing about sharing your life with critters is that we know their life span is shorter than ours. That last loss broke my heart. Can barely bear to even mention it.

    When that one;s sister died a few years ago my family ordered me to go out and get three more cats. They are abundant in Ireland. One of those was sheerly feral and has reverted but this is a small island. The other two are a delight. One is part-Oriental. But this lad was unique. Special. YOU know! Missing him so much. I am homebound and much abed and he was always with me



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,572 ✭✭✭Skill Magill


    2 vaccinations 5 weeks apart, €70 each and €110 for castration around the 6 month mark, €250 all in. Along with litter boxes, litter, toys and food, bites scratches destroyed furniture and the house bowing down before him, be sure this is the reality of them.

    Worth it though, love the little tyrant 😍



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,037 ✭✭✭Harryd225


    I find it hilarious how cat owners become so delusional about how their cats love them,

    https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vox.com/platform/amp/2014/10/16/6982177/the-case-against-owning-cats

    Cat lovers will probably respond here that their pets do show affection, purring and rubbing up against their legs. But there's good reason to believe that, most of the time, these sorts of behaviors that look like affection are conducted with entirely different goals in mind, many cats, for instance, will rub up against the leg of their owner when the person enters a room. It's easy to construe this as a sign of affection. But many researchers interpret this as an attempt, by the cat, to spread his or her scent — as a way to mark territory.

    I'm sure there are still some delusional people on here who will believe their cat loves them no matter what but to the people thinking about getting an animal that doesn't love you, manipulates your emotions to get food, and helps to eradicate endangered species, then be my guest.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,813 ✭✭✭✭looksee


    One of the cats spends the night sleeping on a chair.

    The other, a complete scaredy cat who would give the impression that everyone (including me) is going to beat her, is there waiting for me to go to bed, winding round my feet and telling me to get a move on. She will come up to me and butt me towards the bed then kneading with her paws once I am in bed, purring and demanding to be petted. Eventually I tell her that's enough and she wanders down to the end of the bed and sleeps there. Now you can interpret this any way you want, but she is not looking for food, maybe she is looking for a warm spot to sleep, but the purring and demanding to be petted and efforts to communicate are not necessary to that, she could just jump up and sleep there.

    I have no doubt at all that a good deal of behaviour is self-interest, but don't we all? There is more to it that you are suggesting, and if there isn't, so what? They are entertaining and company.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    Maybe when you have lived with a cat as long as most of us here have you will have the grace to retract your post! We speak from long and real experience... For me. fifty years of cat companionship, of loving and being loved.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 201 ✭✭XLR 8


    I love our cats. But they reinforce my belief that there is no God or if one does exist they had no part in the creation of the cat. With full bellies I have witnessed both of them inflict way over the top pointless suffering on those creatures unfortunate enough to become their victims. Birds (large and small, mice, rats, shrews, squirrels, pine marten and me, they've attacked us all. They really seem to enjoy being čůňţz.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,572 ✭✭✭Skill Magill




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    But unless you are a dedicated vegan? My cats are very kind to everything they meet. And to me... Maybe it is the owners who teach the cats! God gave them so much love for us to comfort and snuggle with us . Mine adore me. As I do them. Attack? Never in fifty years have I been attacked by a cat.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    My lot have deserted me in favour of the glow from the solid fuel stove in the kitchen. .... Later as I am abed for the night already the y will creep in with me. Heat seeking missiles..



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,094 ✭✭✭Baybay


    Not to derail but, Graces 7 I’m delighted to read about your kitty companions again. With all the changes on Boards, a lot of the threads I used to follow are harder to find & with notifications scarce, I’d missed your updates.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,232 ✭✭✭TooTired123


    My cat Jackson is 12 and is blind in one eye but she’s still a horrific bully and thug.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,971 ✭✭✭Flaccus


    We have a cat which must be around 25 years old. Still on the go. Plus we have her children and their grandchildren. The eldest turned up out of the blue with her children over 2 decades ago and we couldn't turn them away. In total their are five cats still alive (we once had nearly 10!!). They spend most of their time outside and sleep in a purpose built shed with beds and central heating. The grandmother sleeps indoors with the cocker spaniel.

    Any new cats which arrive (which is very rare these days) we have always found homes for.

    Lately one of the cats or the cocker spaniel is turning up with bats at night, sometimes not dead. We also have the usual assortment of visiting foxes, hedgehogs and stoats.

    Biggest issue now is finding the cat food they like. Since Brexit and the trucking crisis, pickings are slim in most supermarkets. At least for the food my lot like.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    People can post all they like about how "hilarious" they find those who think their cats love them, but I think most people here acknowledge that cats are mostly self interested and manipulative.

    They can absolutely be affectionate though - including after they've eaten. And they're cute and funny. Don't care that they're selfish - that can be one of ther funniest traits.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,971 ✭✭✭Flaccus


    The old saying goes, "dogs have masters, cats have staff"



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,037 ✭✭✭Harryd225


    At the end of the day your cat doesn't love you and you are delusional to think it does, cats are not nice creatures like dogs are any normal non cat loving owner will look into the eyes of a cat and see evil eyes like what you would see in a snake.

    In fact it has been proven in multiple studies that if that cats were bigger they would attack and eat their owners the only reason they don't at their current size is because they are too afraid and don't feel capable.

    https://www.chicagotribune.com/os-cats-kill-you-bigger-study-story.html

    There are strong parallels between domestic cats and their larger feline brethren, including aggression and neurotic behavior.

    The study rated domestic cats as expressing high levels of dominance, impulsiveness and neuroticism, characteristics they share with larger felines like the clouded leopard, African lions, snow leopards and Scottish wildcats. House cats also have high levels of anxiety, insecurity, tension, suspicion and fear of people.

    Either way, the results of the study, while not completely a shock, are unnerving, especially a conclusion that domestic cats have a desire to kill humans and would more than likely do so if they were bigger and stronger.

    If you want actual real love and affection from an animal you should get a dog but you likely won't because cat owners are generally lazy self centred women just like their cats, who want an animal that doesn't need much taking care of and that they can ignore and only pay attention to when they feel like it.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,580 ✭✭✭Testament1


    Show us on the doll where the bad cat touched you Harry....



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,813 ✭✭✭✭looksee


    Honestly! Did you read that study? There were so many flaws in the basic premise that it could not possibly be taken seriously. They studied domestic cats in a shelter and concluded, according to the newspaper article, that they demonstrated that 'House cats also have high levels of anxiety, insecurity, tension, suspicion and fear of people'. Well yes they were in a shelter. The other big cats were in zoos! Then the Scottish wildcats they did not even study, just used previous date.

    Anyway it is obvious that your ramblings were solely to allow you to insert the last paragraph. Why you would want to bother engaging in a thread about cats I have no idea.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    re your last para... There is a verse in "Alice" that applies,,,"He only does it to annoy because he knows it teases>" But we have the IGNORE button.. Coming back fresh to boards there is a lot of that mentality around



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    They're only trying to get a rise. Don't give them what they want! The first one they posted didn't have much of an impact so they posted another one repeating much of the first one (as if people can't read) and then more provocative stuff to up the ante, but lacking substance.

    I love dogs too and I don't care if cats would kill me if I was small enough, because I'm not small enough.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,028 ✭✭✭PsychoPete


    To be fair I'd love if my cats were the same size as my dogs

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,572 ✭✭✭Skill Magill


    Boo and double boo, did a kitten scratch you when you were younger? Let it go, you're safe now 😍



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,037 ✭✭✭Harryd225




  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    What is your purpose here? What are you hoping to achieve, in a thread populated by people talking about their own pets?

    Your first post, since deleted, was about how you wanted to kill your cat and bury it in a field somewhere and pretend it had run away.

    We get it. You don't like cats and that's fine, not everyone sees their charm. But to threaten an animal much smaller than you with harm is not on. By the way, many cat owners are also dog owners.

    I suggest you consider seeking some professional help if your hatred is running so deep that you are googling internet studies about cats and are threatening to kill an animal and need to seek attention about it on the internet.



  • Registered Users Posts: 18 BlockPartee


    You have to feel pity for harryd. He has some amount of hatred (and is also a misogynist) and is projecting. Take a break from the internet and leave this thread to us cat lovers. You're not wanted here.



  • Registered Users Posts: 48 oookkkaaayyy


    Little Jackson might only be 10 months old, but he already knows how to pose for a photo.



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,106 ✭✭✭katiek102010




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    I reported that post and until yours did not connect it with this XXXX Ah well..



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,530 ✭✭✭Sgt Hartman


    My neighbor's cat has some of my plants destroyed because he comes in jumping around my flower patch and pooping there also. I had to buy cat repellent pellets which I now have scattered all around my flower patch to stop him from coming back.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,500 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Wait till you hear about squirrels, foxes, rats, badgers and other animals.



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