Bagrat Kudzievi

Man, I wouldn't like to leave any of my female friends or relations either in your company or in the vicinity of you when you were sneaking around.

I wouldn't want you to think they might have had a drink and were therefore fair game for whatever you wanted to do to them

You are twisting yet again. I never said she was the only one to be blamed. I said she has some accountability for what happened because for all we know she made herself a sitting duck. Maybe this is a cultural difference, but I never came across people telling their kids that they should not be careful because someone might harm them.

And before you turn this into a strange chauvinist thing again: I say the same when a man get himself into a state that disables him, or when someone is just being naïve enough to be screwed over. But you never saw those posts of mine because they don’t interest you.

You can (all) emphasise how the world should be, and how humans should behave, but it doesn’t make it real.

what if two drunk people end up getting together? both were active participants at the time, neither can remember consenting afterwards

are both blameless? do both have responsibility for their own actions? if neither want to press charges, has an assault occurred?

well, how many rapes go unreported?

so, exactly same set of circumstances can lead to two very different outcomes, depending on how one party feels about the encounter the morning after...

You have been twisting my words ever since, I called you up on it several times.

Of course it's her own fault for getting totally drunk, who else is responsible for it? I never said she was the sole responsible person, but I find it beyond bizarre that she is excused from any responsibility because she got locked. It does not make any difference if it was her first college night out, or what age she was since she was legally an adult.

None of us can definitely say what happened, but we should be able to ask questions without being accused of things.

And that's a really nice story there from your friend, I hope they turn it into a Disney film.

Yawn, so you admit that you are judging me based on my comments on two threads. As expected.

You know you should really try to distance yourself from what you think people are like, and accept them for what they are/ could be like. It would probably save you, and your cronies, a lot of heartache in the long run.

It’s adorable that you expect everyone to be and think like you, but it’s nothing but naïve. You will always have someone taking advantage, because they can.

Re-read what you just quoted. That question had clearly not been gender specific until I asked the addressee to clarify their previous statement. I don’t think it was unclear.