Am I still bi?

What are you even on about

That's all just jibberish to me I haven't a clue what you're on about, anyway call yourself whatever you want.

Some of us are into a bit of everything, bisexuality, homesexuality, bestiality, is that still regarded as bi if you're into all that?

I'm just winding you up man😂 don't mind me

I get you. What you are saying is that you are into cis-gendered males and females. But you feel labelling yourself as bisexual implies you are sexuality attracted to trans folk who are non cis-gendered males and females.

What I would say is that sex and gender are too related but different constructs. Yes you are bisexual because you are into cis gendered males and females, the fact that transfolk are part of the sexes you are into does not make your bisexuality less valid, equally the fact that you are not sexually attracted to transfolk does not make their gender less valid.

Isn't this kind of confusion why people have started identifying as pan-sexual. I had a friend who was a gay cis male, then he identified as non binary and now she/ they/trans. Their new partner was a cis female lesbian who has transitioned and is a FTM so they are now both pan, but they aren't truly pan in my opinion as they wouldn't have been attracted to the opposite sex before they transitioned. Now folks will reply and say you are never 100% gay but the speed with which the switch has been achieved surprises me. One is on hormones so maybe that has influenced their new attraction but then..... it just gets more confusing.

Wtf is this? No being into bestiality isnt regarded as bi.

There's nothing really new going on here. Dictionary definitions are a bit of an illusion. They're fine in most cases as we all agree what some words mean and who or what they apply to. But when there's disagreement over the meaning of words dictionary definitions are useless.

For example there have always been men who like cis women and trans women but are not into men. This is nothing new, nothing to do with the recent trans debates etc. I would describe them as straight. Others would describe them as bi. Taking out a dictionary is never going to resolve that difference.

If anyone asks you can tell them you're bisexual and if they want more clarification you can explain what YOU mean by bisexual.

But if you are upset that some people use a word differently to you then maybe have a chat with Shakespeare or Chaucer. Language changes.

Not what I said at all.

Dictionary definitions are different than meaning.

Keep calling yourself bisexual. Everyone will understand what you mean. Everyone will know that you are into men you find attractive and women you find attractive.

What I meant was that it doesn't really matter if one person frames this as gender and another frames it as sex. The end result is largely the same.

Whew thats a relief. Because I really love the D. Id hate to think I wouldn't be gay because I wasn't attracted to all men.

Methinks they were being facetious.

@VENEATS

People of all hues can be attractive regardless of how you see yourself. The world is expanding to see that we all have tastes niche and some not so much. Main thing is if you are happy in yourself, this matter is no one elses business but yours .I would not give too much thought to what nomclemanture says. Enjoy it :)

Its nothing new and dont start some absolutely crazy garbage about straight men being into trans women being gay