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Rose Of Tralee now accepting trans applicants (Threadbanned List in OP)

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  • Registered Users Posts: 33,329 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    I never claimed to be, THAT'S the difference.

    The rules are up to the organisers - THEY choose what is right or wrong.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Posts: 18,749 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Of course it makes it right.

    The organisers of a competition make the rules, why would you possibly think that you or anyone else have the right to tell them what rules should apply in their competition?

    I didn't believe the rule was wrong before, why do you think I did?







  • Registered Users Posts: 10,855 ✭✭✭✭martingriff


    Realised that after wring the reply and as I could not delete it I wrote the last line. Sorry



  • Registered Users Posts: 8,386 ✭✭✭AllForIt


    Well if there is one thing you can't accuse Eskmo of and that is being a coward to debate. I don't know where he gets the energy from.

    I'm still waiting for you to show me that line-up challenge you proposed earlier btw, however you're thinking of presenting that.



    reason: typo

    Post edited by AllForIt on


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  • Site Banned Posts: 12,341 ✭✭✭✭Faugheen


    They're not trying to.

    This is what you're missing. You want to enforce YOUR beliefs on society despite the fact this particular situation has NOTHING to do with you.

    Most arguing with you are not, have not and will not find themselves impacted by this, so aren't bothered.



  • Registered Users Posts: 23,649 ✭✭✭✭Kermit.de.frog


    The Big Fight Debate Live, is it?

    Ooooh

    So what are the rules? i.e how much verbal violence are we talking?

    Will there be a trash talk build up? A weighing of egos?

    Is this thread the arena? How much is the entrance fee? ...

    So many questions but so excited!! 😀



  • Registered Users Posts: 8,423 ✭✭✭Quantum Erasure


    bring back The Thunderdome...



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    You're out of your league, buddy. Even you know it.



  • Posts: 18,749 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Between 2000 and 2018, the population of Romania reduced from 22.4 million to 19.5 million. As the best and brightest flee, mass emigration is just as damaging to the host country as mass immigration is for the target country." - Eskimohunt

    whatsoever this mean?



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  • Registered Users Posts: 8,386 ✭✭✭AllForIt


    Erm, I don't think Eskimo is trying to enforce his 'belief's' on anyone since most people do share his beliefs. If they didn't there wouldn't be gender ID controversies on the front pages relentlessly, a new one ever week.

    The reality is Gender Ideologists are severely on the back foot as it currently strands. They've taken a massive hit this last year especially in the UK. It's not a change in tide but more a tsunami coming towards them. I've never seen anything like it. I can't say I'm personally surprised. I've always felt that the Gender ID theories are a very small usual types minority that exist within the wider LGBT demographic, which I stated in past threads, and it looks to me I was right about that.

    The LGB demographic are sick to death of this issue (for a long time) and it seems to me their is an 'uprising' going on to counteract whats been going on over the last few years. We are intrinsically 'involved' so the tired old argument of 'how does this affect you', doesn't apply in my case.

    I know what kinds of people are out there, because I've been exposed to them. I know there are people who are sex addicts, live in a fantasy world driven by sexuality, which are medially described as sexual paraphernalia, sexuality based personality disorders, psyco-sexual disorders, and so on. I'm not saying these are necessarily bad people, but I know they exit.

    What clearly is happening is all of this is being promoted by leftist progressives, who are driven to turn your reality upside down, just for the sake of it. They are social anarchists. Gay leftists, Trans leftists, Heterosexual Leftists. You can spot them in the street by they way they dress. Like a hipster but ever more odd. The are weird for the sake of it, they couldn't exist if noone else existed. You can't be a drag queen if there was no one else to look at you. They wouldn't exist without 'normal' people around them. They don't make any sense in isolation, because then there wouldn't be anything 'off the wall' about, which is the whole point of them.

    I always wondered what the general political Left would do when they've succeed in their aim of equal wealth and equal rights. Where do the go then? That's an impossible dream for the simple reason people are not same or have the same abilities. So they focus on more and more niche issues, like this one.

    And the line of attack is, it's always your fault. The way you look at people and access them, is wrong. It's grounded in some phobia or other. As a general idea maybe there is some truth to that historically, but at the same time, they have gone too far now imo, as the Leftists are desperate to fight for the rights of anyone niche they can find, and people with psycho-sexual disorders are all they have left. Criminals is another one, where they talk about reforming them instead of punishment. The idea you could think badly of a criminal shows there's more wrong with you than the criminal. Again, to the leftists anarchist, everything wrong in the world is all your fault. 'Normal' is the enemy, to them.

    So, i am not saying trans people have *psycho-sexual 'conditions'. I'm saying some people do and they can be indistinguishable from trans people. I'm saying that their (transsexuals) nature is purely psychological and in no way can those psychological conditions ever be considered as an 'identity' or classification, in the same way a man or a woman.

    *Having said that, I do personally feel there is something intrinsically sexual about trans gender identity, if not in the same league as transvestites. How can it not. How can a trans heterosexual male dress as a woman in society and not know they are giving off female sexual vibes to heterosexual male based on the way they dress. All the changes they make to their bodies are 'sexual' ones. But they never do anything to change other stuff like softening their skin or changing the shape of their jaw-line. Looking female and looking male can never be sexually neutral. Since transwoman expect to be treated as women, then surely they expect to be treated as sexually attractive to heterosexuals males as well. I'd love to get to the bottom of this one, but as ever, there are no trans people willing to answer these kinds of questions here. Just people talking on their behalf. Curious that.



  • Site Banned Posts: 12,341 ✭✭✭✭Faugheen


    I absolutely would accept it, and indeed I did accept it.

    Until you were caught posting in another thread about your girlfriend.

    Since you can't keep your story together I'm going to question it. You muddied the waters about your sexuality, nobody else.

    So are you going to admit that your girlfriend doesn't exist? Or are you going to admit that you aren't actually gay? Or perhaps both? You were lying about at least one of them.

    If you're going to muddy the waters and you want people to take you seriously then be a grown up and face the f*ck ups you created and nobody else.



  • Registered Users Posts: 4,275 ✭✭✭km991148


    A lot to go through in that post, too late for now.. but on your very last point.. what appeal is there to trans people to come on here and face with the bullshit and constant need to prove every single point to people who have absolutely no desire to engage or understand anything about them. Constant belittling, derogatory language, piss taking, and being constantly asked to prove they are not some sexual deviant - and that's before we get to the posts that routinely removed by the usual transphobes and their re-regs.

    I'm sorry but unless you up your game you will be confined to your LGB alliance style echo chamber. That's fine, they represent your views, but don't then come on and feign surprise that there are a lack of trans people left to engage with.



  • Posts: 18,749 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    ' Since transwoman expect to be treated as women, then surely they expect to be treated as sexually attractive to heterosexuals males'

    There's a lot in this post which imo merely shows you to be intolerant and lacking in empathy, but just on this line above, how do you treat women as sexually attractive to hetro males? If they should expect this treatment, what should they expect, exactly?



  • Registered Users Posts: 23,695 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack



    Eskimo IS trying to force his views on other people, specifically - people who don’t share his views. It doesn’t matter whether anyone else agrees with him or not, the point is that he is aiming for people who don’t. The Rose of Tralee Committee aren’t telling Eskimo that he has to accept the idea of transgender women. Eskimo is saying that they shouldn’t, because from his point of view it simply boils down to - “It’s not right”. That’s not a sufficiently compelling reason for anything that anyone should be obligated to take seriously. There aren’t gender controversies on the front pages every week, or anything like it. It’s largely uncontroversial save for the tabloid media in the UK trying to whip up a bit of moral panic every so often. Generally speaking people just have more to concern themselves with than grifters getting their knickers in a twist over what they attempt to portray as the world gone mad.

    Gender theorists and theories about gender were academic discussions and pursuits long before they were ever picked up on by anyone outside of academic circles. Feminists in particular were a long time arguing about gender and discrimination and oppression long before the idea of “gender critical feminists” ever identified themselves as such. It was well outside of the “LGB demographic”, which was an entirely different conversation before the concept of “Intersectional Feminism” was coined, which aimed to increase Feminism’s popularity by suggesting that more than just women were oppressed, that there were all sorts of groups in society who were oppressed in some way or another, or faced multiple vectors of oppression.

    What’s happening and what has been happening for some time now is that as more and more people are unwilling to conform to other peoples expectations, it’s putting some peoples noses out of joint. This isn’t exactly “does a bear shìt in the woods?” stuff. These people have always existed, but it’s simply a fact that most people in society don’t care to see much further than the end of their own noses - their reality is simply what they’ve grown up with, and their version of normal is what they imagine is shared by everyone else. Anything which causes them to question that is an affront to what they like to call “objective reality”, which is nothing more than what reality looks like from their perspective. Even down to the idea that you think you can pick people out by the way they dress. The way someone dresses is never a good indicator of their innermost thoughts. Obviously they couldn’t exist if no-one existed, the point of that surely speaks for itself? They do exist though, and they exist independently of whether or not anyone else does or doesn’t exist. You would need to be fairly egocentric to imagine that other people couldn’t exist if you didn’t exist. I don’t imagine for example that people in Africa don’t exist simply because I can’t see them.

    It’s not just “people on the left” in any case, but it’s not surprising that you don’t see any correlation between your own prejudices, and WHY people campaign for equal rights and equal treatment of others - precisely because of your own attempts to denigrate people you find objectionable as having psychosexual disorders and all the rest of it. There’s no escaping the fact that such an identification of other people as being disordered in some way is based upon your own moral standards of what is or isn’t normal, or acceptable to you personally. Thankfully, you’re not actually so lacking in self-awareness that you don’t see how you speak of other people now, is exactly the same way you were once spoken of (and still are, if we’re to be completely honest!). The same cannot be said of Eskimo whom I truly don’t believe possesses the same self-awareness as you do.

    Anything, can be considered an identity or a classification in exactly the same way as man or woman are considered identities or classifications. It’s exactly what classifications and identities are. I don’t use the terms ‘transgender’ or ‘biological’ to refer to anyone, but that doesn’t mean other people CAN’T use them to refer to themselves or others. It would be just as unusual and unnecessary from my perspective to refer to anyone as ‘organic’ or ‘artificial’ depending upon their circumstances in order to distinguish one from the other. Within certain contexts it is perfectly appropriate to refer to people as organisms, but you wouldn’t generally use that terminology when referring to human beings outside the context of biology, and that’s notwithstanding the fact that if we were to extend the logic of the distinction between organic and artificial organisms to people, then how are people who have artificial limbs or transplant organs classified? Are they to be denigrated and denied equal status in the same way as the attempt to denigrate and deny people who are transgender equal status in law? That’s a rhetorical question btw, I know already that for some people the answer is a resounding YES.

    As for the idea of how can anyone not know they are giving off sexual vibes to anyone else? Because nobody can read minds is how. I’m sure you’ve been in plenty of situations where you weren’t thinking of how attractive you were or weren’t to other men, and other men approached you to leave you in no doubt whatsoever that they found you sexually attractive to them! It’s the same for everyone, regardless of their own sexual orientation or anything else. Asserting that anyone should have to undergo unnecessary medical treatments or surgeries to conform to someone else’s standards of what is or isn’t attractive, isn’t everyone’s cup of tea. There’s no great mystery that needs to be understood there. You’re old enough and experienced enough to understand that different people find different attributes sexually attractive. Precisely what’s frustrating for some people who argue that other people should be denied equal status in society is that the people they most vociferously argue against, are people who are unwilling to undergo unnecessary medical treatments or surgeries in order to conform to those people’s expectations. Why SHOULD those people waste their time arguing with, or explaining themselves to people who they’re fully aware couldn’t care less about them or are unwilling even to make any attempt to understand where they’re coming from? They know they’re just putting themselves in the firing line to be told how they’ve gone too far, that they shouldn’t expect to be treated as equals, that it’s just not right and they should accept it.

    Would you just accept it if you were being denied being treated as equal to someone else for reasons which from your perspective are unjustifiable? Some people do, for the sake of a quiet life, and some people don’t. It’s really not as difficult to understand as you make out if you actually really thought about it and put yourself in someone else’s position in order to attempt to understand their perspective.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    If giving an opinion on a subject is considered "forcing views onto other people", then you would be just as guilty.

    But of course, I'm not guilty of any such thing because all I'm doing is expressing a widely held view.

    I'm not marching into the Rose of Tralee head office with a bandana and an AK47; I'm talking politely about the subject in an online forum with a limited reach.

    This is just the latest red herring to be dragged across the floor because it's easier to ventilate about nonsense like this when you're losing the argument rather than to engage with the impenetrable points I've raised throughout the course of this thread.



  • Registered Users Posts: 4,275 ✭✭✭km991148


    Completely blind. I think you live too deep in a bubble tbh and as for your 'widely held' views.. I'd even check that "fact" as well.



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,354 ✭✭✭newhouse87


    Presume you also disagree with this? Believe it or not, alot of people don't agree with your views, even if you blab on for many paragraphs.



  • Registered Users Posts: 4,275 ✭✭✭km991148


    Maybe try reading the article and think about what the schools are saying.

    It will require you to follow beyond the headline tho, there are at least 10 paragraphs tho so might be a big ask.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    The fact that there's a thread on the front page weekly doesn't mean a whole lot. Eg this thread is active but overall it's a handful of posters, many of whom got banned for posting poor taste and nasty jokes. The exact same posters are invariably engaged in each of the weekly topics. By your logic, there's mass opposition to things like immigration etc. But exit polls from last year indicates there isn't. So what's on the front page of boards doesn't tend to represent much.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 23,695 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack



    You’re not just giving your opinion on a subject though, your attempts aren’t nearly as benign as you’re trying to make out. You’re well aware that your declarations with regards to how the Rose of Tralee Committee should run their own festival is in your opinion discrimination and denying womens rights and an affront to what you call objective reality and all the rest of it. In your own words this is just another example of the encroachment of gender ideology and all the rest of it.

    Anyone is entitled to question your opinion and to point out the many, many glaring flaws in your reasoning. The Rose of Tralee Committee have declared that people who are transgender are not prohibited from participating in a competition that they have organised, meaning that you didn’t just lose an argument - you never had one to begin with. You’re literally coming along after the decision has been made and you want your objection to be acknowledged.

    Nobody has suggested you marched anywhere with an AK-47, and neither did anyone else, nor are your points as impenetrable as you think they are when it’s precisely because they’ve already been shot to shìt is the reason why the Festival organisers clarified that people who are transgender have never been discriminated against, because the point was brought up when they declared that they were changing the rules to permit married women to participate in the event.

    What’s not the least bit surprising is that you attempt to argue your own idea of what qualifies as unlawful discrimination in the face of people who are transgender being regarded as being of equal status, and what distinguishes the competition winner from the other participants isn’t based at all upon their physical attributes, but what they’re like as a person, and whether they embody or best represent the spirit of what the judges are looking for. Using your rationale of what you call “biological reality”, the winner of the competition couldn’t even be a woman, it could only be a plant, because that’s the title of the competition and that’s how roses are classified according to biology.



  • Registered Users Posts: 41,062 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    And now we see your real thoughts on trans people being disordered sex addicts. 🤣 I feel genuinely sorry for you that you reduce everything in life to overt sexualisation.

    Post edited by Annasopra on

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,354 ✭✭✭newhouse87


    Yep reads it all, they are looking for guidance. As it stands they don't want to admit people who are biologically male. Spin it all you want.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    In summary, yet another pathetic example of casual dismissal, again encased in unnecessary slabs of unreadably tiring text. Never in the history of writing has so much been written with so few points made, but you appear to have made an art out of it.

    My reality is clear: that biological males - irrespective of whether they identify as women or whether they don't - should not enter women's competitions and women's spaces, including the Rose of Tralee.

    Deep down, we all know this to be true. Some let emotional arguments displace their rationality, and that's fine. People are perfectly entitled to suspend their critical faculties in favour of a political or social cause. But allowing policy to be dictated by how a small number of people feel is a terrible idea. They're entitled to that view, of course, as long as they don't force anti-reality onto everyone else, which is what's happening - and what a very large and growing number of people are beginning to recognise and oppose. In the same way that Young Earth Creationists are entitled to their views, I don't want their version of anti-reality imposed on the rest of society, either.

    As @AllForIt argued earlier, there is a uprising of opinion - both within the LGBT community and beyond it - against this kind of anti-reality, and the sooner it reaches a crescendo, the better.



  • Posts: 18,749 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    'Deep down, we all know this to be true. '

    No, that is your opinion. You think you are right, but that doesn't make it so.



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,354 ✭✭✭newhouse87


    Exactly how you think you are right and it doesn't make it so. Its an opinion forum, we all differ luckily.



  • Registered Users Posts: 4,275 ✭✭✭km991148


    Oh wow congratulations!

    So what's your problem? School seeks guidance, most likely to ensure they keep getting funding. No spin (well apart from the sensationalist headline).

    Probably some stronger protections for trans rights and legal clarifications would help a lot? For both the schools and the trans people currently attending.

    Maybe write to your mp if you are in UK?



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,354 ✭✭✭newhouse87


    Why so angry? Schools wants to keep their status as single sex educators, that's the crux of it. I'm guessing you are totally against single sex schools too though. They said in the article if somebody decides to transition after starting they would help, i agree with that sentiment.



  • Registered Users Posts: 41,062 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Eskimo claimed we all know his opinions to be true. This is patently false. The ROT committee clearly think so. A lot of the posters here dont hold them as true. Its laughable and absurd to claim "My opinion is the truth and everyone knows it"

    Thats not an argument to be taken seriously at all in any way.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



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