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Boards vs Real Life

  • 20-01-2022 7:49pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,639 ✭✭✭completedit


    How does your conversation and communication differ outside of the Boardsverse?

    Post edited by Ten of Swords on


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,140 ✭✭✭Gregor Samsa


    Very similar to here, really.

    If I agree with what they’re saying, I write my name on a piece of paper and stick it onto them.

    If I don’t agree, I find someone who will argue with them and stick my piece of paper to them instead.

    Sometimes I’ll repeat what someone just said, and shout “This!”



  • Posts: 0 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    No difference, now that I can finally type as fast as I speak.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,313 ✭✭✭Ubbquittious


    Lots of do-gooders and sticklers for rules on here

    I could mention some project I'm about to take on to a real life person and the reaction could vary from "yea that might work" to "go for it!!" (if it is actually a good idea)

    On boards, no matter how good or bad the idea is there will be a good few fear mongerers saying "Don't do it! You'll get killed", "Its illegal!", "You'll get sued!", "It's terribly immoral!". Not every boardsie is like that but the ones that are make it their business to drown out the rest.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,763 ✭✭✭StupidLikeAFox


    In real life, when somebody says something I agree with or says something funny I always say thanks and give them a thumbs up 👍



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,683 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    I guess the biggest difference is that I don’t “encounter” as many bigots, misogynists, racists and, generally angry people in real life. Which is great, considering the large social circles I’d move in.

    Overall, I’d say I’m much the same. Well liked and treating others with respect, and dignity, where applicable.

    “It is not blood that makes you Irish but a willingness to be part of the Irish nation” - Thomas Davis



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 196 ✭✭SamStonesArm


    Much the same but I'd tell people to go fcuk themselves more in real life than here incase I get banned haha.



  • Posts: 13,688 ✭✭✭✭ Franco Unkempt Tech


    I maintain a policy of greeting persons below me, in the outside world.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I'm much more smarter in real life



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,503 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    I'm more laid back, you can't be as serious



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Totally different in real life I think. I see boards as an intellectual martial arts mat sometimes. As in a certain level of confrontation and debate is expected - so that is how I behave. Which I simply do not do in real life.

    When I am on the mat in my school - I spar. When I am on the mat here - I spar. In neither place do I do it to "win" but to self improve.

    Whereas in real life I am generally entirely consumed by one hobby or another - or with my relationship, family or friends. I am generally very active and engaged - but at the same time very laid back and relaxed and calm in real life. Kinda have to be for many of the hobbies I have where being highly strung and emotional will simply get in the way and reduce performance.

    I have been activist in real life on a few issues at the time - so perhaps my real life persona became a little more like my boards persona then at times. I was active all over the country for the last popular referendums for example.

    But there are other posts I make here that are not in debates. Like some quite long posts in the Gentleman's Forum or the Personal Issues forum where I am genuinely trying to help another person with an issue. That would be more like how I am in real life I think.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 942 ✭✭✭Real Life


    I thought Boards was coming after me there for a minute



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,600 ✭✭✭✭Loafing Oaf




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,330 ✭✭✭✭RobbingBandit


    Same everywhere you look People just ain't no good.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,812 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    whats real life?



  • Posts: 2,725 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I’d have to agree with Emmet about not knowing or engaging in real life with the sort of extreme individuals you sometimes find here.

    Like the sort of men (always men) who listen to radio shows they despise just so they can comment on them. Or watch the Late Late Show religiously so they can complain about it. There’s a desperate vibe of loneliness and negativity about them. You’d almost feel sorry for them. They have abnormal personalities.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,779 ✭✭✭✭osarusan


    I'm taller outside boards.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,322 ✭✭✭archfi


    Well, this is going well.

    A thing isn't what it says it is.

    A thing is what it does.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,683 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    If the users of boards mirrored the “real world” Peter Casey would be the President of Ireland. If you remember, ADP.

    “It is not blood that makes you Irish but a willingness to be part of the Irish nation” - Thomas Davis



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,108 ✭✭✭CGI_Livia_Soprano
    Holding tyrants to the fire


    Very angry "funny" men. A lot of them actually consider themselves failed comedians in their own minds. You can tell from their desperate attempts at humourous barbed observations about Ryan Tubridy, Ciara Kelly or Tony Holohan, but unfortunately they lack the prerequisite wit for it to sound anything other than bilious.

    They should stick to sexist comments in Whatsapp banter groups or making their spouses uncomfortable in social occasions by making boomer "I hate my wife" remarks. Angry, angry men.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,947 ✭✭✭✭Rothko


    Three of them here now



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 601 ✭✭✭Snails pace


    Chalk and cheese for me. I would be less likely to get into a debate online compared to real life. The people I meet day to day seem to be a bit happier too and less worried about covid, asylum seekers and people on the dole.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,108 ✭✭✭CGI_Livia_Soprano
    Holding tyrants to the fire


    There used to be a very prominent poster on here who I genuinely felt sorry for. He fancied himself as a master writer of florid prose, a real pensman, however all of his posts were paragraph after paragraph of the worse kind of over-written drunken swill from a bitter middle aged failure who had to watch The Late Late every Friday with his mother.

    He was so insanely twisted with jealousy he actually believed people who ate sandwiches in pubs were top-hatted toff factory owners from the 18th century, whetting their palette after a hard day's whipping of the ordinary man.

    He constantly made snide, bitchy remarks towards everyone he didn't like, only to withdraw into a whiny pity-party whenever anyone would counter his vile slurs.

    He posted about drinking a lot and from the times he would be posting you could tell that he was constantly sozzled. He is a poster I would like to meet in real life, offering him a shoulder to cry on and a big hug. His little shoulders heaving with every pathetic sob as I commiserate with him and urge him to "let it out, let it all out [Bertie]." (Not his real name)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,947 ✭✭✭✭Rothko


    What a bizarre post.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭NickNickleby


    I think real life is starting to look like Boards.

    I've said before in other threads, certain posters don't really debate. They claim to be making a point, when in reality all they're interested in is scoring a point.

    I worked with a chap years ago. Spent his time trying to be the intellectual superior in the office, was forever spouting his 'right-on' credentials. Everyone was polite to him, but I think he knew deep down that he was held in almost universal contempt. He was RIGHT and his 70 plus colleagues were all wrong. Actually, now that I think back on it, I don't really recall anyone bothering to argue a point with him.

    Then along comes the Internet and gives idiots like this guy a platform to show off their smugness. I do my best not to interact with them online, unless I'm addressed directly by them, in which case I behave as I do in real life, with a polite response followed by no further engagement.

    If you watch certain threads, you'll see the smug types all thanking each other. I imagine them in a crowded room, seated separately and glancing around hoping to catch the eye of one of their smug peers, who in turn gives an almost imperceptible nod and a small smirk.

    Anyway, its not as bad as I may have painted it, I think most people on Boards are normal, like me 🤣 , the 'normies' as I call us. We're a large but generally inoffensive group which means the headcases tend to stand out.

    I do hope there's none of them in here, or I'll be smugged to death.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Fvp4!!!!!!!

    How am I only realising this now.

    Thanks Emmet :D



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    @CGI_Livia_Soprano


    I too would like to meet said poster in real life because I believe he is a decent skin who is comfortable as he is without the need for multiple online personas.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,108 ✭✭✭CGI_Livia_Soprano
    Holding tyrants to the fire


    I’m sure that there is a good man underneath all the bitter remarks and accusations of sock puppeting.

    There was another very popular poster who I remember bullied me off the site. He was extremely prominent, starting “game” threads about which is the best flavour of crisp or who was the sexiest man in Wham.

    Whenever I would post in a thread this poster and his cronies would brigade it with references to posts I have made about my personal life in an effort to discredit me. I would report it to the moderators but because they’re all mates they wouldn’t do anything about it, and I would in turn be threatened with bans (or banned full stop!).

    The pile ons were constant and exhausting and, as unflappable as I was, I was genuinely afraid Crisp Guy or one of his goons would even doxx me in an effort to get under my skin.

    So I closed my account, took a break, and created this one where I post very little personal information. I learned a valuable lesson on what cyberbullying is like that day, even a man as “mature” as myself. 😆

    My point is that I don’t think Crisp Guy (not his real username) is as much of a bully in real life as he is on boards. Indeed judging by all of the sidekicks he had by his side ready to invade a thread to bully someone at a moment’s notice he was clearly fairly popular and convincing.

    However, with me online, he really showed the worst side of his character. I would love it if he tried any of that kind of shite in real life. I’d love it.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,226 ✭✭✭✭Pherekydes


    IRL, I interject in conversations with "fyp...", "yore ma...", etc.

    Plus, no one calls me Pherekydes.

    Plus, I have more sex.



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Entertainment Moderators Posts: 36,711 CMod ✭✭✭✭pixelburp


    I can't say whether the style or mannerisms of my thoughts are the same in real life ... but I can say when I signed up for an account, I made the conscious decision to try and only post thoughts I'd be happy to stand over in real life: no keyboard warrior stuff; no "virtue signalling" etc; that if I said it out loud, in a social gathering, it would be an opinion relatively honest and contextual to the scenario. Whether I've lived up to it, who knows/cares?

    Given that, I do sometimes wonder if others are the same; I'd read some opinions so openly, egregiously ... divisive or hostile, I find it hard to believe they'd have the nerve to voice them among friends, family or co-workers. That's not a judgement of character or anything: after all, it's kind of the appeal of semi-anonymous posting in the first place; especially among Free Speech hardliners. I just took the personal decision to keep pixelburp as approximately true to my own, voiced, opinions, as possible. Knowing too that mind simply annoy, anger or alienate some.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,795 ✭✭✭HBC08


    You always have the same dig at middle aged men,always...

    It's as predictable as it is weird.

    You need to have a word with yourself.

    Also I think you're projecting a bit.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,166 ✭✭✭eggy81


    Have a lie down there before you do yourself a mischief. Flipping hell.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I remember crisp guy and was at the receiving end of a cutting remark or two from him.

    Anyways we won't speak ill of those who are gone.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,683 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    I remember that. Those threads were great but that guy would continually interject with very lame attempts at jokes, and insults.

    He even started calling me “a rat” when he managed to get himself warned by a mod, not one of his mates. A ridiculous accusation considering his mates would see it and I had only ever reported 1 post at that stage.

    Anyway, he ended up getting banned from his own thread for ignoring the mod “instruction” before the tournament could finish. Comical stuff. He was, obviously, reinstated once his friends “had words” with the mod who went rogue.

    Sorry you felt you had to leave the site after your experience. Can’t say I enjoyed mine, especially with the “pile ons”, but I did my best to ignore it and move on.

    “It is not blood that makes you Irish but a willingness to be part of the Irish nation” - Thomas Davis



  • Posts: 3,801 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Post edited by [Deleted User] on


  • Posts: 2,725 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Not all the middle-aged men around here, but the really weird ones who are so lacking in spirit, motivation and life that they decide to spend their days listening to radio shows they hate, watching Tv programmes they hate; criticising young people and female politicians etc.

    The sort who mistake their pitch black cynicism as some sort of witty criticism. Like what happened to them? Unrelenting bleakness and irritation/anger from getting up to going to bed.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,108 ✭✭✭CGI_Livia_Soprano
    Holding tyrants to the fire


    I noticed you insulted him first, yes. Very nasty.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,473 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    I'm a lot less confrontational in real life: I'll tend to argue a point here whereas IRL I'd just do an internal eye-roll and find someone else to talk to...

    At one of the first Boards Beers I went to (back when they were a thing) there was a certain poster who exclaimed about five minutes after meeting me: "but you can't be Sleepy... you're too nice... he's an ASSHOLE!" 😂



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,795 ✭✭✭HBC08


    Wow,you've some imagination.

    It's a pity you wouldn't harness it for something positive.

    Granted there are people as you describe,but why pick on that small cohort? The same anger and bitterness you accuse them of is consistent throughout all your posts.I hope you're not like that in real life,that's a twisted way to be.

    Your post(s) are dripping with vitriol and disdain, you're giving out about (mostly) fictitious middle aged men who give out about everything online,they (mostly)only live in your head.

    Do you see the hypocrisy/delusion/projecting going on here?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,228 ✭✭✭The Mighty Quinn


    WTF is going on in this thread.

    Something something Omackeral, JohnnyFlash.. multiple accounts, "genuine posters" and stuff.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,506 ✭✭✭✭freshpopcorn


    I think it's more similar to real life than Twitter for example.

    Theres isn't many of those who get offened by almost everything , those who don't like discussion, those you've to tip toe around, etc on here.

    Similar to those obsessed with Covid/wearing masks. Fairly common on Twitter but not so much on here or in reality.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,216 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    I never encounter any intellectual heavyweights or armchair psychologists in real life so its a lot different.



  • Moderators, Entertainment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 19,923 Mod ✭✭✭✭Leg End Reject


    You have to laugh at the posters constantly complaining about middle-aged men who are taking swipes at those no longer here over petty online grievances.

    It's more like my primary school than my current life at the moment.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,108 ✭✭✭CGI_Livia_Soprano
    Holding tyrants to the fire




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,947 ✭✭✭✭Rothko




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,947 ✭✭✭✭Rothko


    Agreed. The sock puppeting thread is hilarious with the amount of irony on display.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,464 ✭✭✭✭Potential-Monke


    Pretty much the same, both are full of high and mighty, judgemental, selfish pricks who can see all the faults in the world but can't see their own. There's a few nice people inbetween, but mostly pricks.



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,422 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    Mod - This thread is just being used to have a go at other posters


    Closed



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